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Why PERFECT people only smile once a YEAR!


peace and Senate waters diving deep once
again we are surrounded by leaves in
nature baby breathing in that good ass
prawn why perfect people only smile once
a year is that all yeah that’s all
are you a perfect person be honest your
hand up if you are I used to be a
perfect person a perfectionist wait a
minute okay
not anymore now there is a another
youtuber who is having problems
uploading videos they’re just not good
enough she’s really judgmental towards
herself beating herself up with avocados
at least that’s okay that’s okay okay
now for you it could be you don’t know
what kind of shoes to wear today you
don’t know what to wear on Wednesdays
you’re standing in the mirror for 30
minutes or 7 day vegan challenge you
just don’t know how many blueberries to
eat today should I go with 7 no 8 no 9
you’re trying to find the perfect number
and you are still in front of the mirror
on you not good enough no we need
breakfast yeah can I get a hello it is a
beautiful day now let me share with you
what helped me along my journey in
becoming your greatest version my
greatest version deal with perfection I
used to be a perfectionist okay I used
to only smile once a year and as a
psychologist I’m gonna tell you why you
may only be smiling once a year you see
perfect people only smile once a year
because they live by the two
sis which are serious and strict like
you’re really serious and strict look
I’m the kind of person to start dancing
in the video will leaves behind me baby
oh yeah no perfection here no serious is
here not strict at all okay
seriousness is a disease mmm
slow motion that say mmm and being too
strict on yourself is also a disease and
that was me along my early journey it
was never good enough and that is why as
a psychologist I talk to artists every
single day who are depressed there’s a
reason why a lot of artists suffer from
depression because it is just not good
enough and you’re like oh that’s bloody
amazing and they’re like no it’s not so
they are only smiling once a year
because they’re living by the two S’s so
becoming your greatest version what’s
helped me along my journey is just to
relax take a chill pill for goodness
sakes and realize that whatever you do
is good enough because at least you’ve
done something and if you haven’t done
anything well get a move on
why perfect people only smile once a
year because you see the other 364 days
you get it wrong but that one day yeah
everything goes right right so suddenly
like once a year everything goes right
and the other 364 days complete mess
okay is it worth it is it I don’t know
you want to get it perfect not perfect
but perfect cat down the road is giving
you less and say how to say perfect
and now you’ve got more anxiety than
ever more panic than ever and more
self-doubt than ever because it’s not
perfect and it’s hard right now
you’re wishing you wasn’t even yourself
right now okay so what help me along my
journey was RIT was realizing this oh
the leaf is scratching me a bit here
that there is no perfection anywhere
look go outside of your house and show
me something perfect
you see nature isn’t interested in
perfection it is only interested in
authenticity mmm slow motion aside mmm
that is why no two flours compete with
one another okay do you speak the flower
language there’s no competition there
but as human beings we want to be
perfect you’re still not happy with that
picture you uploaded to Instagram and so
you took it down it was only up there
like five seven nine five seconds five
seconds and you took it down already
cause it’s just not good enough oh wait
a minute you spent like an hour trying
to get it ready trying to take it trying
to pose with a camera and it took five
seconds to take it back down you see a
lot of perfect people only smile once a
year because they are trying trying
trying way too hard have you ever
noticed why people that try really hard
like really hard they put their heart
and soul into it get nothing and people
who do nothing get everything because
they are realizing the secret that the
more you allow the more you have
self-acceptance for yourself
self-acceptance you’ll be fine because
really and truly it is not that serious
you’re gonna be out of here in the next
200 years yet you’re still figuring out
what brush to use in Photoshop goodness
conscious that was me along my early
journey and I’m scratching my head like
do you even know what you are on planet
earth go to the ocean realize how tiny
you are right that’s the mindset I had
which helped me become my greatest
version to realize it isn’t it’s not
serious at all okay it’s nowhere nowhere
near as serious as you think it is
but you see perfect people only smile
once a year because they are trying to
control everything they want to control
the weather they want to control how you
see them they want to control like how
many blueberries go into their mouth at
the same time and it is really
frustrating so to do yourself a favor
realize that you control nada
nothing at all externally to you okay
sometimes you’re walking outside and it
just starts pissing it down
and you forgot an umbrella or sometimes
you go to the beach and someone takes
your place that you normally sunbathe in
happens to me all the time I’m just
trying to get a tan on that’s all okay
look we don’t control anything but we do
control our perception we have towards
ourselves the perception you have of
yourself is greater than the perception
other people have a few let me repeat
that the perception you have towards
yourself is greater than the perception
other people have towards you and when I
realize that secret early on my journey
I said wow so for once you’re telling me
that it doesn’t matter what other people
think of me that’s right really that’s
right oh my goodness I celebrate you see
perfect people only smile once a year
because they think that they are here to
please everybody if you are someone who
is trying to please everybody it’s gonna
be really hard you see because authentic
people aren’t interested in pleasing
other people
they are only interested in pleasing
themselves and by pleasing themselves
pleasing other people now becomes the
by-product mmm slow motion for that one
baby mmm
do you know I don’t check how many views
the video gets do you know what as well
I don’t care cuz I’m only focusing on
the creative process
you see perfect people only smile once a
year because they’re trying to fit in
they’re trying to be accepted when they
were born to stand out no two people are
the same and no two people are here for
the same reason so if you are someone
right now I’m speaking to you like
hot-hot the heart baby if you are
someone and you’re like it’s never good
enough I’m not good enough it’s terrible
chances are you are gonna have a hell of
a lot of depression hell of a lot of
anxiety a hell of a lot of panic a hell
of a lot of hell of a lot of a hell of a
lot of crap going on in your brain right
now
in your mind right now because you’ve
got to realize one secret and that is
you are irreplaceable and you are enough
as you are I’m not here to put on a show
and people know me for that that’s why I
as I was saying be yourself do what you
want and realize you didn’t come here to
be perfect you came here to be real
masses realest is gonna get baby we’re
out here we’re nature whoa breathing in
that good ass primer baby infinite
waters to hiving deep once again stay well stay healthy

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