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Why Most People Doubt Themselves


peace infinite waters diving deep once
again why most people doubt themselves
imagine you’re in the most beautiful
room
you love this room because all your
possessions are there your belongings
are there and you can’t live without it
you don’t want to leave but after a long
period of time maybe a few years now
this room starts to get awfully boring
you become awfully tired
so you stroll to the window you see
people outside holding hands and kissing
and now you want to go outside but guess
what you doubt you could do it because
it would be like you’re stepping into a
cold bath and I’ve seen that is why so
many of us doubt ourselves because we
get stuck in our comfort zone now people
say step outside of your comfort zone I
say you don’t even have to do that I say
expand your comfort zone because an
example a friend invited me on New
Year’s Eve to go to a beach party a
beach which was quite far away for me I
had to cycle there and I was thinking
what would happen if I got a flat tire I
didn’t want to have to carry the bike
back you wouldn’t have carried it for me
then I said am i focusing on what I fear
or am i focusing on what I want which
one is the most empowering thought here
so I focused on my desires which was I
would be fine
and guess what the Dow disappeared what
happens when you look in the mirror and
say I don’t look like that guy in the
magazine I don’t look like that woman in
the magazine what if I told you she was
airbrush photoshopped nobody looks like
that but what if I told you actually
they won would it make a difference you
doubt yourself because you’re aspiring
to be someone else therefore you’re not
thankful for who you are and you feel
uncomfortable because it’s an
unattainable goal to be someone else we
can never replace who people are we can
only become our own greatest version so
many of us we never feel we can live up
to society’s expectations more so we
don’t feel we can live up to our
expectations you want the perfect body
but you see you doubt yourself because
you’ve been comparing yourself to
someone else for so long when you create
your own league Dow disappears
what happens when you spend your whole
life on a diet of fear fear media what
happens when you surround yourself with
friends I don’t care about you love you
support you you start absorbing their
negative energy dream Kilis they whisper
in your ear you can’t do that but what
happens when you surround yourself with
people that love you that encourage you
now your doubt disappears because you
start absorbing their energy look at it
the more doubt we have the less risk we
want to take but the more risk we take
the more expansion occurs within
ourselves some people say the past was
more exciting than the present the past
is more exciting than now so guess what
they are justifying not doing something
so they doubt themselves in the present
moment because they don’t live in the
present they reminisce on the good old
days I used to be able to do that but I
can’t now thou emanates from a lack of
intimacy when you coat of a this passion
you start to see there is no perfect
there is only practice
stepping into that radical action the
doubt
disappears the self-doubt
losers choke hold on you why because
you’ve been training for this your whole
life
but once you always are thinking back or
you’re saying you’re making excuses
you’re saying in five years I will do
that but right now what are you doing to
move closer towards that because the
power is in the now some people say I am
not worthy
whatever I do won’t make a difference to
the world guess what if I thought like
that I wouldn’t do anything thank
goodness I don’t
you begin to doubt yourself when you
feel everything has already been said
and done and guess what you’re right but
you are here to remix everything and
that’s a secret once you place value on
your talent once you place value on your
gift now self-doubt begins to fade away
because you say whatever I have to offer
is good enough you give yourself a pass
some of us we can’t forgive ourselves
that is why we constantly doubt
ourselves we think other people are
better than ourselves but you see it’s
so coming from our perception once you
start changing how you see yourself you
change what you become once you start
connecting with those who remind you who
you are because we become like the
people we surround ourselves with most
often
I have people who help me remove my
self-doubt every single day
find your reflections but more so give
step outside of your comfort zone no
expand your comfort zone we are here
infinite waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy

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