he consented waters diving deep once
again whoo breathing in that good ass
prana baby we here in the art gallery
why modern dating makes me want to punch
myself in the throat ouch
please don’t do that okay that was an
article I read on Thought Catalog a
really great article that made me think
a lot and I get a lot of messages from
people saying hey Ralph
hi what is it with modern dating these
days modern relationships where people
find it hard to stay together
get along together why modern dating
makes me want to jump on a roof and
scream loud we even had breakfast yet
can I get a hello hey okay I’m going to
share with you what I’ve learned along
my journey I’ve been in many
relationships for long periods of time
in and out of relationships in and out
of relationships so what I’ve learned is
this what’s the difference between I
like you and I love you
but a beautifully set good old Buddha
but his answer was so simple okay when
you like flower you pluck it I’ll take
you home when you love a flower you
water it daily one who understands this
understands the whole of life slow
you see what I’ve realized along my
journey is that there is a difference
between love and lust a lot of us we
just lost people oh my gosh that woman
is so fit you are just thinking on a
subconscious level that okay she’s going
to be a great mom
she’s going to be got good genes right
same thing ladies you’re looking at that
guy saying oh my gosh you’re so tall his
shoulders are so broad goodness gracious
that means he’s going to be able to pick
me up in the middle of the night right
right in the middle of the night okay
you get a little about that right we are
here to reproduce Nature has designed us
in this way so a lot of us we confuse
lust and love and what’s helped me along
my journey is realized is to really
realize that when you really love
someone you water it now what happened
in today’s society is that a lot of
people don’t have time to water anything
not even themselves let alone someone
else so many people are caught up into
lust now what really helped me was to
say look a relationship is like an
investment you get what you give so
daily watering works wonders now have
you ever been with someone and you’re
like I think I can change this person I
want to see if I can change this person
ladies you know what I’m talking about
I want to see if I can turn around this
man’s habits okay then you find out it’s
just not working because his mother
couldn’t even change him what makes you
think that you can
[Music]
slow motion aside so we have
expectations versus reality okay what
people are and then what we want them to
be the problem with modern dating is
because so many of us who have got this
idea of what we want people to be from
seeing fairy tales Disney movies and
stuff like that and when we actually see
the reality that okay it’s a bit it’s
actually nothing like a fairy tale
actually reality kicks in so what helped
me along my journey is to accept people
for who they are and what they are
instead of trying to change them because
they are already themselves before you
came on the scene
and they can only change if they want to
change for me what can make a modern
relationship work modern dating work
what helped my relationships over the
years is that you got to be with someone
that pushes you mentally and emotionally
and spiritually someone where you can
say okay both of us are on the same wave
right now we’re riding it and it feels
good
someone who accepts your level of
weirdness how you found that person like
who gets your level of weirdness because
you’re pretty weird and someone’s going
to love your witness you see many times
in this modern world we forget how
layered people are we only see their
faces on social media sites not
realizing there is a complex being
inside there okay but when you are with
someone who gets you those sides of
yourself you don’t want to show to the
world then Finders Keepers losers
weepers baby that’s a keeper
okay now with modern dating where a lot
of people run into problems and where I
did for a long time is seven day vegan
challenge people forget how important
food is when it comes to dating I meet a
lot of people a lot of people doing the
seven day vegan challenge write to me
saying hey Ralph what’s up I’m eating a
more plant-based diet and my partner
isn’t and I really want to show them
your videos and get them to eat more
strawberries and then their partner sees
it and their partner is like okay I’ll
do it for like a day then they go back
straight to their old ways it’s just not
going to happen what happened to me in
my early days I was in a relationship I
was eating a plant-based diet the other
person was eating a lot of meat and she
just wasn’t interested I was like giving
her leaflets after leaflets after
information of the information off the
website of the website then I realized
it wasn’t working wasn’t working at all
and then I realized this that people
will only change their food lifestyle
when they want to and that’s o.k we’re
not here to start getting people to
stuff like portobello mushrooms in their
mouth and drink spirulina and eat kale
no we’re not here to do that but what
helped me is to find someone that
actually respects your food lifestyle I
did it and you will see how your
relationship will grow and become even
more beautiful even more beautiful baby
and we ain’t even had breakfast yet if
you can see this I talk a lot about the
water relationship as being the most the
most harmonious relationship on the
planet you see people say love is so
simple Ralph and I say no it’s not yes
love is simple but it’s a paradox
because love is like the Holy Grail
if you find it many get lost along the
way and certain people just like totally
got it
they totally go the wrong way right that
way you going that way okay you start to
realize that when two people are truly
in love this is what I realize no matter
how far apart they are they will always
be thinking of each other right they
will always be thinking of each other
that is a sign of true love now what’s
happened in today’s culture in modern
society modern dating is that people get
bored easily they always want to be
stimulated instant gratification and
that’s why if there’s a little argument
people separate you know this they get
separated they’re separate now and then
they’re like okay well I’ll just go and
see someone else so it’s not really true
love because once again both of you want
thinking of each other when you want
together see that’s the difference
and it’s because everybody wants a quick
fix in modern dating right now on the
planet everybody wants it right now and
relationships take time it’s like
building a pyramid how long did it take
to build the Great Pyramid of Giza a
long time just like it will take to
build a great relationship the greater
your relationship the more time and
energy and patience we’ll have to go
into it slow motion this site
[Music]
I learn miss along my journey because
I’ve been in some pretty atrocious
relationships and some pretty beautiful
relationships now I remember when I was
like 15 I was in a relationship and I
realized that it wasn’t going anywhere
to be honest and then I realized because
I didn’t have a good relationship with
myself you see
your relationships will reflect the
slow motion is right your relationships
will reflect the relationship you have
toward yourself so many people on the
planet are so busy they’re rushing and
racing that they don’t even have any
connection to themselves we have lost
this ability to feel ourselves therefore
we have lost the ability to feel other
people to become sensitive to other
people’s feelings
many people are desensitized in modern
dating in modern relationships so for me
it was all about becoming more sensitive
to become my greatest version now are
you someone who like texts a lot you
sometimes text me I know do you text a
lot like you’re texting people emotions
like this there’s this this I love you
let certain things what I’ve loved and
I’m learning the hard way can’t be
explained through a text never sent a
text and say what session have said that
because this person is totally
translating it the wrong way and it’s
just messed everything up and like
please stop
don’t type me don’t type to me how much
you love me show me all right that’s
what I’m telling myself everyday as a
reminder that’s why a lot of modern
dating have gone pear-shaped because
people are trying to text emotions when
you calm you actually have to be in
their presence you got to experience it
we
then a lot of text messages have messed
up a lot of relationships be careful I
use someone that takes a quote literally
you’re like okay I am never gonna talk
to this person again that’s a quote
right don’t talk to people who mess you
around a few times in a relationship
walk away from anything that doesn’t
serve you now that’s great but you think
most people so many people on the planet
are taking quotes literally don’t do
that like that’s what I have to tell
myself it’s only a quote right just
because it says walk away from whatever
no longer serves you you might be
walking away from a pot of gold some
diamonds that just need you to actually
face them with more work instead of
running away so what I always tell
people is that you don’t want to base
your whole life relationship on a quote
okay because we let our egos get in the
way of love of life of everything comes
into our life like a thief in the night
who came to that window your ego did
right look and the ego is a three-letter
word that can destroy a 12-letter word
called a relationship are you in your
ego right now in a relationship I’ve had
to check myself a few times because I’ve
been in my ego and what the ego actually
does is that the ego protects us from it
thinks it protects us from not feeling
pain but what the ego actually does is
forces us to suppress emotions so a lot
of women write to me saying look the guy
I’m with is so egotistical but when he
ripped when he first met me okay when he
first met me Ralph what he was like so
cute so nice and then all of a sudden he
changed he got into his ego and now it’s
like he doesn’t even notice me anymore
it’s all about moving
back to the hot space that’s what will
create a better relationship and better
dating experiences for you you got to be
in the heart because the ego separates
only the heart can connect slow motion
is life and I’ve learned that everything
can be healed it can be fixed dating can
be healed and fixed everything can be
worked upon but you’ve got to decide
when to let go to let go and let things
flow like that or let go and let things
crash right ouch
right you’ve got to choose certain
things worth fighting for and certain
things on but what I’ve realized along
my journey is that it shouldn’t be too
much force like you shouldn’t have to
force the connection or relationship
it’s got to be a perfect fit it doesn’t
mean it’s always going to be easy
you have to realize certain times you
will have arguments late nights I’ve had
it along my journey and it can sometimes
be annoying but there are certain people
who touch our hearts and these are
people we should never let go ah yeah ah
then you just say feel so good to be a
live baby can I get a Hello have a
beautiful day we’re just breathing in
that good ass prana baby with him
infinite waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy peace you
again whoo breathing in that good ass
prana baby we here in the art gallery
why modern dating makes me want to punch
myself in the throat ouch
please don’t do that okay that was an
article I read on Thought Catalog a
really great article that made me think
a lot and I get a lot of messages from
people saying hey Ralph
hi what is it with modern dating these
days modern relationships where people
find it hard to stay together
get along together why modern dating
makes me want to jump on a roof and
scream loud we even had breakfast yet
can I get a hello hey okay I’m going to
share with you what I’ve learned along
my journey I’ve been in many
relationships for long periods of time
in and out of relationships in and out
of relationships so what I’ve learned is
this what’s the difference between I
like you and I love you
but a beautifully set good old Buddha
but his answer was so simple okay when
you like flower you pluck it I’ll take
you home when you love a flower you
water it daily one who understands this
understands the whole of life slow
you see what I’ve realized along my
journey is that there is a difference
between love and lust a lot of us we
just lost people oh my gosh that woman
is so fit you are just thinking on a
subconscious level that okay she’s going
to be a great mom
she’s going to be got good genes right
same thing ladies you’re looking at that
guy saying oh my gosh you’re so tall his
shoulders are so broad goodness gracious
that means he’s going to be able to pick
me up in the middle of the night right
right in the middle of the night okay
you get a little about that right we are
here to reproduce Nature has designed us
in this way so a lot of us we confuse
lust and love and what’s helped me along
my journey is realized is to really
realize that when you really love
someone you water it now what happened
in today’s society is that a lot of
people don’t have time to water anything
not even themselves let alone someone
else so many people are caught up into
lust now what really helped me was to
say look a relationship is like an
investment you get what you give so
daily watering works wonders now have
you ever been with someone and you’re
like I think I can change this person I
want to see if I can change this person
ladies you know what I’m talking about
I want to see if I can turn around this
man’s habits okay then you find out it’s
just not working because his mother
couldn’t even change him what makes you
think that you can
[Music]
slow motion aside so we have
expectations versus reality okay what
people are and then what we want them to
be the problem with modern dating is
because so many of us who have got this
idea of what we want people to be from
seeing fairy tales Disney movies and
stuff like that and when we actually see
the reality that okay it’s a bit it’s
actually nothing like a fairy tale
actually reality kicks in so what helped
me along my journey is to accept people
for who they are and what they are
instead of trying to change them because
they are already themselves before you
came on the scene
and they can only change if they want to
change for me what can make a modern
relationship work modern dating work
what helped my relationships over the
years is that you got to be with someone
that pushes you mentally and emotionally
and spiritually someone where you can
say okay both of us are on the same wave
right now we’re riding it and it feels
good
someone who accepts your level of
weirdness how you found that person like
who gets your level of weirdness because
you’re pretty weird and someone’s going
to love your witness you see many times
in this modern world we forget how
layered people are we only see their
faces on social media sites not
realizing there is a complex being
inside there okay but when you are with
someone who gets you those sides of
yourself you don’t want to show to the
world then Finders Keepers losers
weepers baby that’s a keeper
okay now with modern dating where a lot
of people run into problems and where I
did for a long time is seven day vegan
challenge people forget how important
food is when it comes to dating I meet a
lot of people a lot of people doing the
seven day vegan challenge write to me
saying hey Ralph what’s up I’m eating a
more plant-based diet and my partner
isn’t and I really want to show them
your videos and get them to eat more
strawberries and then their partner sees
it and their partner is like okay I’ll
do it for like a day then they go back
straight to their old ways it’s just not
going to happen what happened to me in
my early days I was in a relationship I
was eating a plant-based diet the other
person was eating a lot of meat and she
just wasn’t interested I was like giving
her leaflets after leaflets after
information of the information off the
website of the website then I realized
it wasn’t working wasn’t working at all
and then I realized this that people
will only change their food lifestyle
when they want to and that’s o.k we’re
not here to start getting people to
stuff like portobello mushrooms in their
mouth and drink spirulina and eat kale
no we’re not here to do that but what
helped me is to find someone that
actually respects your food lifestyle I
did it and you will see how your
relationship will grow and become even
more beautiful even more beautiful baby
and we ain’t even had breakfast yet if
you can see this I talk a lot about the
water relationship as being the most the
most harmonious relationship on the
planet you see people say love is so
simple Ralph and I say no it’s not yes
love is simple but it’s a paradox
because love is like the Holy Grail
if you find it many get lost along the
way and certain people just like totally
got it
they totally go the wrong way right that
way you going that way okay you start to
realize that when two people are truly
in love this is what I realize no matter
how far apart they are they will always
be thinking of each other right they
will always be thinking of each other
that is a sign of true love now what’s
happened in today’s culture in modern
society modern dating is that people get
bored easily they always want to be
stimulated instant gratification and
that’s why if there’s a little argument
people separate you know this they get
separated they’re separate now and then
they’re like okay well I’ll just go and
see someone else so it’s not really true
love because once again both of you want
thinking of each other when you want
together see that’s the difference
and it’s because everybody wants a quick
fix in modern dating right now on the
planet everybody wants it right now and
relationships take time it’s like
building a pyramid how long did it take
to build the Great Pyramid of Giza a
long time just like it will take to
build a great relationship the greater
your relationship the more time and
energy and patience we’ll have to go
into it slow motion this site
[Music]
I learn miss along my journey because
I’ve been in some pretty atrocious
relationships and some pretty beautiful
relationships now I remember when I was
like 15 I was in a relationship and I
realized that it wasn’t going anywhere
to be honest and then I realized because
I didn’t have a good relationship with
myself you see
your relationships will reflect the
slow motion is right your relationships
will reflect the relationship you have
toward yourself so many people on the
planet are so busy they’re rushing and
racing that they don’t even have any
connection to themselves we have lost
this ability to feel ourselves therefore
we have lost the ability to feel other
people to become sensitive to other
people’s feelings
many people are desensitized in modern
dating in modern relationships so for me
it was all about becoming more sensitive
to become my greatest version now are
you someone who like texts a lot you
sometimes text me I know do you text a
lot like you’re texting people emotions
like this there’s this this I love you
let certain things what I’ve loved and
I’m learning the hard way can’t be
explained through a text never sent a
text and say what session have said that
because this person is totally
translating it the wrong way and it’s
just messed everything up and like
please stop
don’t type me don’t type to me how much
you love me show me all right that’s
what I’m telling myself everyday as a
reminder that’s why a lot of modern
dating have gone pear-shaped because
people are trying to text emotions when
you calm you actually have to be in
their presence you got to experience it
we
then a lot of text messages have messed
up a lot of relationships be careful I
use someone that takes a quote literally
you’re like okay I am never gonna talk
to this person again that’s a quote
right don’t talk to people who mess you
around a few times in a relationship
walk away from anything that doesn’t
serve you now that’s great but you think
most people so many people on the planet
are taking quotes literally don’t do
that like that’s what I have to tell
myself it’s only a quote right just
because it says walk away from whatever
no longer serves you you might be
walking away from a pot of gold some
diamonds that just need you to actually
face them with more work instead of
running away so what I always tell
people is that you don’t want to base
your whole life relationship on a quote
okay because we let our egos get in the
way of love of life of everything comes
into our life like a thief in the night
who came to that window your ego did
right look and the ego is a three-letter
word that can destroy a 12-letter word
called a relationship are you in your
ego right now in a relationship I’ve had
to check myself a few times because I’ve
been in my ego and what the ego actually
does is that the ego protects us from it
thinks it protects us from not feeling
pain but what the ego actually does is
forces us to suppress emotions so a lot
of women write to me saying look the guy
I’m with is so egotistical but when he
ripped when he first met me okay when he
first met me Ralph what he was like so
cute so nice and then all of a sudden he
changed he got into his ego and now it’s
like he doesn’t even notice me anymore
it’s all about moving
back to the hot space that’s what will
create a better relationship and better
dating experiences for you you got to be
in the heart because the ego separates
only the heart can connect slow motion
is life and I’ve learned that everything
can be healed it can be fixed dating can
be healed and fixed everything can be
worked upon but you’ve got to decide
when to let go to let go and let things
flow like that or let go and let things
crash right ouch
right you’ve got to choose certain
things worth fighting for and certain
things on but what I’ve realized along
my journey is that it shouldn’t be too
much force like you shouldn’t have to
force the connection or relationship
it’s got to be a perfect fit it doesn’t
mean it’s always going to be easy
you have to realize certain times you
will have arguments late nights I’ve had
it along my journey and it can sometimes
be annoying but there are certain people
who touch our hearts and these are
people we should never let go ah yeah ah
then you just say feel so good to be a
live baby can I get a Hello have a
beautiful day we’re just breathing in
that good ass prana baby with him
infinite waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy peace you
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