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Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dream Girl—Sexology!


peace infinite waters diving deep once
again it’s sexology
water fire hot cold yin-yang why men
love bitches excuse the French this is a
title of a book by Sherry agro and this
book was quite popular when we talked of
the title why men love bitches and in
her book she refers to a bitch as a babe
in total control of herself and similar
theme to why women love too much when we
talk of masculine and feminine principle
a lot of what sherry is saying in this
book a lot of women are wondering what I
feel on it and basically in a summary
she’s just saying that women must really
never make their husband or their
boyfriend or their partner feel in a
hundred percent total control of them
they have to in a way keep a certain
mystery about them a certain
independence about them and basically
they have to play hard-to-get they have
to be kind of a subtle bitch which is in
her words a babe in total control of
herself and throughout the book she is
basically saying how many women who are
doormats basically for men who are the
nice girl who are too kind who are too
loving to men centuries she’s saying
that a lot of these women they just get
run over just like cars and you’re gone
because men don’t respect that that’s
what she’s basically saying in the book
and she’s saying that go from a doormat
to a dream girl become more desirable by
being more assertive being more in
control and essentially making sure that
you’re on equal grounds with your
and a lot of people want to know what I
think of the book I mean for me I feel
that anyone who is delving in into the
area of sexology I commend them because
it’s not something we do in this society
many of us we don’t talk about sex or
masculine and feminine principles or
relationships the very thing that got us
here has been despised by so many of us
if we look around in cultures many of us
we don’t even mention sex on the dinner
table so whenever someone attempts just
to have a moment of clarity I always
commend them but when we talk of this
whole notion of women who are too nice
and they’re getting taken advantage
often this whole theme which runs
throughout humanity and a lot of women
feel they have to become a bitch which
is a babe in total control of herself
who is so in the pendant and I don’t
really need a man to sort of all of
these things but essentially essentially
one also has to look at it in a very
holistic way and say that a nice girl
women who are in their natural feminine
energy essentially we exist within each
other but women who are really connected
to that feminine energy which is very
giving which is very vulnerable which is
surrenders and all of these things in
essence that is the most authentic state
when a woman goes into that when she is
her true self which is loving just full
of love for everything and she just
expresses herself we women should not
change that because someone says you
should become more firmer because when
actually when you change that you
actually change the energetic signature
within your own body you’re also
changing the blood chemistry a lot of
the times it’s a lot of stress as well
whenever people have to become in
control because control is an illusion
we’re not in control of anything
and then it becomes a game it becomes a
tug-of-war and many of us in the
relationship dynamic only talk of
masculine feminine principles many of us
are still caught up in these games even
if we look at the dating game a lot of
people they spend all of this time
getting ready putting on this makeup the
mascara which is a mask and a lot of men
as well they have to wear the best
clothes driving the best BMW and they
have to have the best job and and all of
these things I’m the man in control I
have the power all of this is a big game
and essentially that title Y medal are
bitches I just feel that I know why she
use that title because it’s just
something to a catch someone’s attention
but essentially I feel that what we talk
of resonance in sexology people have to
become themselves people have to let go
of expectation let go of judgment and
the only way that can happen is when we
embrace ourselves 100% how we are
organically when we are not thinking of
scheme or a plan when we are not
attempting to conquer someone else
because our organic connection is where
attempting to be something we’re not
there is no game plan there is no time
for that
and a lot of the times we have to be
truthful to ourselves in a relationship
essentially males and female that we
both contain feminine and masculine
energies and a lot of the times I can
see that I think a great part of her
book I think the message which I got
from it is that women who are really
embrace their yang energy as well their
yang energy which is the active
principle feminine and energy is yin
energy is receptive so when women
actually tap into their yang energy
they’ve become very very powerful these
are the women you have to watch out for
I call them warriors women warriors
women princess Warriors queen warriors
just like a lot of men who are Prince
Warriors are the men who tap into their
feminine essence so that’s the perfect
fusion so essentially women who tap into
their yang energy essentially they
become warriors so they’re not just this
vulnerable woman who is just know at the
same time they can become they know who
they are a lot of these women on the
planet right now who are really tapping
into the higher vibration higher
frequency which is around us these are
warrior princesses because they actually
are aware of their their power their
goddess nature which is essentially they
are not just yes women who just say yes
to every man and a lot of these women
who know themselves these women are very
attractive to a lot of men because
they’re not a walkover they’re not a
pushover so in that way Sherri had some
great points as well so it’s not a good
or bad book you can take from from it
whatever you want and they’re great
great points made in the book which
really make one
reflect but essentially for me how I see
it is that women have to tap into their
yang energy which is the warrior energy
which is the energy which questions it’s
not just about accepting because women
bring and manifest into the 3d so
whatever women are thinking is going to
become the reality on the planet so many
women are in this society I’ve been
programmed by media by television also
by own insecurities by their own
insecurities and because of that many
women aren’t really looking at how they
can actually change the planet Earth for
us to actually live in a more healthy
more balanced way many women are just
really continuing this chaos by
willingly or nonchalantly complying
through their actions but a lot of
warrior princesses they they see that
they have a greater role to play it’s
not just about being a pretty face and
it’s much more than just two people a
relationship that’s what the biggest
thing is I’ve come to realize in
sexology that the relationship is with
everything around us with the birds with
the plants with other people in our
community and beyond beyond even up to
the stars and galaxies that is the
relationship not just between two people
so in essence that’s the warrior
princess the one who is seeing herself
as this beautiful divinity but at the
same time also realizes her role on this
planet is to inspire the planet to great
heights so that title why men love
bitches babes in total control of a babe
in total control of herself it’s like
it’s just very interesting you can see
it in so many different ways but
essentially up I feel that one has to
really women have to become themselves
and not play up to what they feel is
right people have to let go of all
Dogma and authority and really just
loved themselves and in essence it’s all
about resonance we are attracting what
we are when you see beauty in someone
else in essence you’re actually only
seeing yourself because it’s all a
mirror so a lot of times would you
rather I would rather and here’s what I
said to myself on my journey that I
would rather I would rather someone love
me for who I am then hate me sorry I
would rather someone hate me for who I
am then to love me for who I am not and
I feel that can apply to the title of
the book women have to become themselves
and if a man loves you for who you are
it’s better than then really if he loves
you for who you’re not so so many ways
you can look at it but essentially we
have to become our organic selves and
not really fall into the trap of
appearing to become somebody who we’re
not too much effort infinite waters
diving deep once again in the garden stay well stay healthy peace

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