piece of innit waters diving deep once
again we’re out here breathing in that
good ass prana baby why girls don’t like
nice guys it’s a windy cloudy sunny day
today in California and these are the
kinds of questions I’m getting in we
hand up if you are a nice guy don’t
worry
let’s go together okay we got a few wait
a minute we got a lot of guys who are
really nice guys I think every guy was a
nice guy once what happened nobody knows
put your hand up if you are a lady and
you absolutely love nice guys put your
hand up you can put your hand up okay we
got one we can work with one it’s better
than none a guy wrote in this saying
he’s super polite compassionate caring
he’s got a big heart and nobody cares
the ladies just walk past him he’s
having a hard time he wants to know what
should he do and he’s been contemplating
nagging which is going around in so
doing people that you actually fancy he
says he’s a nice guy but he thinks that
it might be best to become a little bit
meaner because that might be the only
way to get noticed can I give any advice
well Wayne even had breakfast yet
let me share with you what’s helped me
along my journey as a psychologist as a
counselor as someone who’s been a nice
guy but more so as an infinite being now
you got a question
Ralph smart calm Instagram us at
infinite waters there are only three
types of guys in this world
nice guys assholes and authentic guys
which one of you you got ten seconds
five seconds okay too late
hey a lot of us are nice guys and it’s
okay to be a nice guy but you see I talk
to a lot of women and they tell me a lot
of stuff about nice guys and they say
nice guys are really wait for it really
creepy yeah you nice guys are scurrying
women really really scaring them why a
nice guy so scary
do you remember way back at school when
you were the nice guy buying ladies
daffodils and stuff and they would just
walk past you and then a bad boy would
come along not even caring about these
ladies and ladies would be saying oh my
gosh he’s so handsome I just want to be
with him all day every single afternoon
in the evening as well and you’re like
that’s so not fair now here’s how it
works you see
it’s great to be nice but what is even
more important than being nice is being
real real authentic hmm slow-motion
aside hmm and that’s why a lot of women
actually go for bad boys because they
are really really real right they don’t
tell women what they want to hear they
tell women what they feel like telling
them at that given moment in time but no
you don’t want to do that because you’re
a nice guy nice guys have to tell ladies
what they want to hear and ladies
subconsciously pick up on that and say
oh I don’t want that nice guy he’s too
perfect and guys when you are too
perfect you stop being really creepy cuz
nobody is perfect right I met a girl
once on the beach who told me that she
doesn’t like nice guys and she doesn’t
like arrogant guys or assholes but she
likes guys with a bit of both a bit of
nice guy
and a bit of asshole now you are
probably placing this woman this girl on
a pedestal and that’s what a lot of nice
guys do they forget a lot of women are
on the seven day vegan challenge which
means they’re on the toilet right now
just like a lot of guys everybody you
see goes to the toilet so you don’t want
to place people on a pedestal because
they just took a dump today just like
you oh yeah kind of makes you less
afraid of them right
see that’s the mentality of bad boys bad
boys walk around knowing everybody’s
just taking a dump so they treat every
single female as the same they’ll talk
to Oprah Winfrey like they’ll talk to
you lady out there
but you see nice guys don’t do that nice
guys have a ranking system of she’s a
five she’s a six so if you meet a really
hot girl what happens nice guy you start
sweating tissue start coming out you’re
nervous and you don’t know what to say
but you see women pick up that vibe and
it’s like ooh you’re making me feel
really uncomfortable
you’re starting to what creeped me out
BC bad boys assholes walk around really
confident cocky and they’re really calm
about it as well so when they talk to
women women feel really calm and relaxed
and well that’s super attractive but you
see women deep down no there are souls
and they don’t really want to be around
them a lot but you see it’s either that
or the super nice guy but then comes
along the authentic guy who’s a mixture
of the super nice guy and the super
asshole in essence they’re real and
women love that so what you’ve got to
really do is say it’s not about being a
nice guy it’s not about being an asshole
negging everybody insulting everybody
hoping them to fancy you because then
they’ll just think you’re a jerk but
it’s about being real and realize that
you find the one you love doing what you
love right that’s the biggest secret
I’ve learned I just say and it works now
a lot of us don’t realize that nice guys
are seen as creepy because women
subconsciously think they’ve got hidden
agendas you see a bad boy would just say
I think you’re better than a and women
will say oh that’s that’s like it is
what it is nice guys will come with you
like oh yeah it’s
it’s a nice day today isn’t it you’re
like what the hell are you talking about
so just learn how to just cut to the
chase that will help you even relieve
the nerves running through your veins
but realize most of all that you are
worthy to be in anybody’s presence
anybody you are good enough because you
see a lot of nice guys have a low
self-esteem a lot of bad boys are full
of themselves and that’s sometimes what
you need but more so you need
authenticity now you are going to become
irresistible charming and adorable not
only to women by the cat down the road
you got to start forming a relationship
with yourself start doing this goodness
gracious I’m so sexy and now you’re
gonna become a magnet of attraction
start going to where you are celebrated
not where you are tolerated right if
this woman doesn’t love you who you are
keep it moving because that’s what bad
boys do right but you want to be
authentic realize that a lot of women
also tell me that they don’t just want a
mama’s boy
you see it is really attractive if there
is a guy who loves his mom right women
love that but not a guy who gets driven
everywhere by their mom there’s a big
difference
so why girls don’t like nice guys it’s
not about what girls love from you it’s
about what you love from yourself mmm
slow motion that side mmm
you don’t have to try super hard all you
got to do is be yourself and realize I
am good enough and then say hey come and
get me and if you feel yourself hugging
lots of people that’s a good thing if
you’re just doing that don’t worry about
it have a beautiful day Wow here
infinite waters tithing deep once again stay well stay healthy
again we’re out here breathing in that
good ass prana baby why girls don’t like
nice guys it’s a windy cloudy sunny day
today in California and these are the
kinds of questions I’m getting in we
hand up if you are a nice guy don’t
worry
let’s go together okay we got a few wait
a minute we got a lot of guys who are
really nice guys I think every guy was a
nice guy once what happened nobody knows
put your hand up if you are a lady and
you absolutely love nice guys put your
hand up you can put your hand up okay we
got one we can work with one it’s better
than none a guy wrote in this saying
he’s super polite compassionate caring
he’s got a big heart and nobody cares
the ladies just walk past him he’s
having a hard time he wants to know what
should he do and he’s been contemplating
nagging which is going around in so
doing people that you actually fancy he
says he’s a nice guy but he thinks that
it might be best to become a little bit
meaner because that might be the only
way to get noticed can I give any advice
well Wayne even had breakfast yet
let me share with you what’s helped me
along my journey as a psychologist as a
counselor as someone who’s been a nice
guy but more so as an infinite being now
you got a question
Ralph smart calm Instagram us at
infinite waters there are only three
types of guys in this world
nice guys assholes and authentic guys
which one of you you got ten seconds
five seconds okay too late
hey a lot of us are nice guys and it’s
okay to be a nice guy but you see I talk
to a lot of women and they tell me a lot
of stuff about nice guys and they say
nice guys are really wait for it really
creepy yeah you nice guys are scurrying
women really really scaring them why a
nice guy so scary
do you remember way back at school when
you were the nice guy buying ladies
daffodils and stuff and they would just
walk past you and then a bad boy would
come along not even caring about these
ladies and ladies would be saying oh my
gosh he’s so handsome I just want to be
with him all day every single afternoon
in the evening as well and you’re like
that’s so not fair now here’s how it
works you see
it’s great to be nice but what is even
more important than being nice is being
real real authentic hmm slow-motion
aside hmm and that’s why a lot of women
actually go for bad boys because they
are really really real right they don’t
tell women what they want to hear they
tell women what they feel like telling
them at that given moment in time but no
you don’t want to do that because you’re
a nice guy nice guys have to tell ladies
what they want to hear and ladies
subconsciously pick up on that and say
oh I don’t want that nice guy he’s too
perfect and guys when you are too
perfect you stop being really creepy cuz
nobody is perfect right I met a girl
once on the beach who told me that she
doesn’t like nice guys and she doesn’t
like arrogant guys or assholes but she
likes guys with a bit of both a bit of
nice guy
and a bit of asshole now you are
probably placing this woman this girl on
a pedestal and that’s what a lot of nice
guys do they forget a lot of women are
on the seven day vegan challenge which
means they’re on the toilet right now
just like a lot of guys everybody you
see goes to the toilet so you don’t want
to place people on a pedestal because
they just took a dump today just like
you oh yeah kind of makes you less
afraid of them right
see that’s the mentality of bad boys bad
boys walk around knowing everybody’s
just taking a dump so they treat every
single female as the same they’ll talk
to Oprah Winfrey like they’ll talk to
you lady out there
but you see nice guys don’t do that nice
guys have a ranking system of she’s a
five she’s a six so if you meet a really
hot girl what happens nice guy you start
sweating tissue start coming out you’re
nervous and you don’t know what to say
but you see women pick up that vibe and
it’s like ooh you’re making me feel
really uncomfortable
you’re starting to what creeped me out
BC bad boys assholes walk around really
confident cocky and they’re really calm
about it as well so when they talk to
women women feel really calm and relaxed
and well that’s super attractive but you
see women deep down no there are souls
and they don’t really want to be around
them a lot but you see it’s either that
or the super nice guy but then comes
along the authentic guy who’s a mixture
of the super nice guy and the super
asshole in essence they’re real and
women love that so what you’ve got to
really do is say it’s not about being a
nice guy it’s not about being an asshole
negging everybody insulting everybody
hoping them to fancy you because then
they’ll just think you’re a jerk but
it’s about being real and realize that
you find the one you love doing what you
love right that’s the biggest secret
I’ve learned I just say and it works now
a lot of us don’t realize that nice guys
are seen as creepy because women
subconsciously think they’ve got hidden
agendas you see a bad boy would just say
I think you’re better than a and women
will say oh that’s that’s like it is
what it is nice guys will come with you
like oh yeah it’s
it’s a nice day today isn’t it you’re
like what the hell are you talking about
so just learn how to just cut to the
chase that will help you even relieve
the nerves running through your veins
but realize most of all that you are
worthy to be in anybody’s presence
anybody you are good enough because you
see a lot of nice guys have a low
self-esteem a lot of bad boys are full
of themselves and that’s sometimes what
you need but more so you need
authenticity now you are going to become
irresistible charming and adorable not
only to women by the cat down the road
you got to start forming a relationship
with yourself start doing this goodness
gracious I’m so sexy and now you’re
gonna become a magnet of attraction
start going to where you are celebrated
not where you are tolerated right if
this woman doesn’t love you who you are
keep it moving because that’s what bad
boys do right but you want to be
authentic realize that a lot of women
also tell me that they don’t just want a
mama’s boy
you see it is really attractive if there
is a guy who loves his mom right women
love that but not a guy who gets driven
everywhere by their mom there’s a big
difference
so why girls don’t like nice guys it’s
not about what girls love from you it’s
about what you love from yourself mmm
slow motion that side mmm
you don’t have to try super hard all you
got to do is be yourself and realize I
am good enough and then say hey come and
get me and if you feel yourself hugging
lots of people that’s a good thing if
you’re just doing that don’t worry about
it have a beautiful day Wow here
infinite waters tithing deep once again stay well stay healthy
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