peas and Finnick waters driving deep
once again we are out here in nature
breathing in that good ass prana baby I
want a big house with a big car with a
big dog next to a big door with a big
balcony to see a big view and if I don’t
get that by tomorrow 9:00 a.m. my life
is gonna be screwed yeah tomorrow is
past 9:00 a.m. don’t worry about it can
I get a Hello we got a question in from
someone who says they aren’t meeting
certain goals they’ve set for themselves
and they aren’t happy they’re beating
themselves up and they’re wondering why
they haven’t become a vibrational match
to their desires I’m gonna share with
you what’s helped me along my journey
you see I don’t set goals no here’s why
when you set a goal you put a lot of
pressure on yourself right and from a
young child you’ve been doing that it’s
no wonder why so many people are walking
around tired confused and plain
miserable because your parents probably
wanted you to become a lawyer maybe a
nurse an architect a scientists you are
like I’m going to the beach don’t worry
about it okay because there are huge
demands from society every single second
telling you what you should be so when
you pressurize yourself with all of
these goals guess what happens you end
up doing nothing right it’s not how many
things you can do in one day
is asking yourself can I do one thing
well at a time you see and when you do
that the pressure comes right off
because I always talk about concentrated
focus I am loving life at the moment is
fantastic
only because I don’t focus on doing a
million different things setting a
million different goals no what I do is
say I’m just gonna come out into nature
I’m gonna do me I’m gonna move into my
true authenticity and because of that
true magic happens
now you’re probably scratching your head
right now saying if you don’t set goals
what do you say themes right there’s a
difference between goals and themes
goals are external because let’s just
say your goal is to dance outside the
Great Pyramids of Giza but you go there
and they say don’t do that don’t do that
don’t do that so you’re not doing that
right your theme could be I am going to
create more fun in my life okay so you
could be anywhere and still get a good
dancing there is less there is less
pressure but more so it is now internal
because when you create goals you are in
that ego control mindset look your goal
growing up was probably to get all A’s
right you probably got D’s or E’s and
now you hate yourself you can’t forgive
yourself that is why so many people are
still being controlled by their pasts I
free myself all of that and I say my
theme is to become my greatest version
very simple
I didn’t say I am going to become a
vegan overnight I didn’t say I’m gonna
become a vegan overnight I’ve been a
vegan for over 10 years but it was a
whole process right not overnight I
didn’t say I’m gonna connect with
millions of people overnight and guess
what that wasn’t even my goal because my
theme was just to share with the world
and whatever came with it I was grateful
right but having a theme of your life is
so powerful let me get a slogan from you
what’s your theme right now happy fun
and free you’re gonna find that your
whole life you are gonna attract similar
sentiments to that theme right when you
set a goal I must do a hundred things in
one day what happens if you don’t do
them you see when you set a lot of goals
gigantic ones you are now entering the
paradigm of polarity success and failure
you see with themes there is no success
and there is no failure there is only
the process with a goal you have a name
an objective and a destination so a lot
of people you might even fulfill your
goals and then the next question is is
that it is that it that’s why a lot of
people they go from a very high to a
crippling low when you set a theme
what’s helped me along my journey is to
realize there is no desk
nation it is never-ending my goal is not
to make a video every single day no no
no no because if I if I miss a day I’m
still good
we are still creating abundance baby but
my theme is just to create and have fun
so when you realize you don’t have to be
in that paradigm of success and failure
you do yourself a huge favor because now
you don’t have to beat yourself with a
cricket bat it’s not fun you don’t have
to use yourself as a punching bag it’s
not fun you don’t have to hold your pass
against yourself definitely not fun
right
so take the pressure off we are living
in a world based on survival many of us
that is why a lot of us we’ve been
programmed by the media but we’ve got to
start taking responsibility to say wait
a minute
I don’t have to succeed I am already
successful can I get a hello
so people always last Ralph what’s your
next step I say what I’m already in it
right I don’t need to get anywhere
because I have already arrived mmm you
see when you set gigantic goals look at
the words you are using many times it’s
I must finish this college I must finish
this college course and get the best
grades or you say something like I must
get that promotion I should be you see I
should be somewhere else that is why so
many people suffer because they
abandoned the present moment mm-hmm the
abandoned where they are right now I am
happy where I am right now you see
because anxiety emanates from the desire
to escape the present moment now I
always say it is wonderful to have
desires
I have many desires but at the same time
I always ask myself are these desires in
alignment to my true life purpose you
see you can’t compare a squirrel to a
lion
they aren’t equal comparisons right
because squirrels can climb up trees and
they look bloody awesome lions well they
can roar really loud okay so what we’ve
done in society is that we say
everything is equal so you might see
someone and say okay I want to do what
they’re doing so you start comparing
yourself to them you start setting the
same goals they’re setting not realizing
that they are in alignment to their true
core frequency that is why those goals
are working for them so when you realize
it’s not about setting goals it’s about
asking yourself are you in alignment to
your true life purpose and for me that
happened the moment I started to create
themes because themes remind you of the
values you hold dear to you and then ask
yourself are you sucking all the fun out
of your life because that’s what happens
sometimes when we set these gigantic
goals right I must do this this this
this this that that that whoa whoa whoa
slow down there okay because now where’s
the fun are you actually enjoying what
you’re doing or are you just taking
something off a checklist so for me I
always move into the feeling of what I’m
doing I say there are no deadlines and
let me just say this to all the amazing
beautiful deep divers out there if you
are pressurizing yourself right now
if you
forgive yourself right now if you think
you’re a failure right now you are not
and when you realize that you’re just
love because you realize this whole
concept of even this whole concept of
even failing and being a failure is
totally of absurd it’s absurd because
just you being a human being that is
already a success story there you have
breathing in that good-ass prana well
here infinite waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy
once again we are out here in nature
breathing in that good ass prana baby I
want a big house with a big car with a
big dog next to a big door with a big
balcony to see a big view and if I don’t
get that by tomorrow 9:00 a.m. my life
is gonna be screwed yeah tomorrow is
past 9:00 a.m. don’t worry about it can
I get a Hello we got a question in from
someone who says they aren’t meeting
certain goals they’ve set for themselves
and they aren’t happy they’re beating
themselves up and they’re wondering why
they haven’t become a vibrational match
to their desires I’m gonna share with
you what’s helped me along my journey
you see I don’t set goals no here’s why
when you set a goal you put a lot of
pressure on yourself right and from a
young child you’ve been doing that it’s
no wonder why so many people are walking
around tired confused and plain
miserable because your parents probably
wanted you to become a lawyer maybe a
nurse an architect a scientists you are
like I’m going to the beach don’t worry
about it okay because there are huge
demands from society every single second
telling you what you should be so when
you pressurize yourself with all of
these goals guess what happens you end
up doing nothing right it’s not how many
things you can do in one day
is asking yourself can I do one thing
well at a time you see and when you do
that the pressure comes right off
because I always talk about concentrated
focus I am loving life at the moment is
fantastic
only because I don’t focus on doing a
million different things setting a
million different goals no what I do is
say I’m just gonna come out into nature
I’m gonna do me I’m gonna move into my
true authenticity and because of that
true magic happens
now you’re probably scratching your head
right now saying if you don’t set goals
what do you say themes right there’s a
difference between goals and themes
goals are external because let’s just
say your goal is to dance outside the
Great Pyramids of Giza but you go there
and they say don’t do that don’t do that
don’t do that so you’re not doing that
right your theme could be I am going to
create more fun in my life okay so you
could be anywhere and still get a good
dancing there is less there is less
pressure but more so it is now internal
because when you create goals you are in
that ego control mindset look your goal
growing up was probably to get all A’s
right you probably got D’s or E’s and
now you hate yourself you can’t forgive
yourself that is why so many people are
still being controlled by their pasts I
free myself all of that and I say my
theme is to become my greatest version
very simple
I didn’t say I am going to become a
vegan overnight I didn’t say I’m gonna
become a vegan overnight I’ve been a
vegan for over 10 years but it was a
whole process right not overnight I
didn’t say I’m gonna connect with
millions of people overnight and guess
what that wasn’t even my goal because my
theme was just to share with the world
and whatever came with it I was grateful
right but having a theme of your life is
so powerful let me get a slogan from you
what’s your theme right now happy fun
and free you’re gonna find that your
whole life you are gonna attract similar
sentiments to that theme right when you
set a goal I must do a hundred things in
one day what happens if you don’t do
them you see when you set a lot of goals
gigantic ones you are now entering the
paradigm of polarity success and failure
you see with themes there is no success
and there is no failure there is only
the process with a goal you have a name
an objective and a destination so a lot
of people you might even fulfill your
goals and then the next question is is
that it is that it that’s why a lot of
people they go from a very high to a
crippling low when you set a theme
what’s helped me along my journey is to
realize there is no desk
nation it is never-ending my goal is not
to make a video every single day no no
no no because if I if I miss a day I’m
still good
we are still creating abundance baby but
my theme is just to create and have fun
so when you realize you don’t have to be
in that paradigm of success and failure
you do yourself a huge favor because now
you don’t have to beat yourself with a
cricket bat it’s not fun you don’t have
to use yourself as a punching bag it’s
not fun you don’t have to hold your pass
against yourself definitely not fun
right
so take the pressure off we are living
in a world based on survival many of us
that is why a lot of us we’ve been
programmed by the media but we’ve got to
start taking responsibility to say wait
a minute
I don’t have to succeed I am already
successful can I get a hello
so people always last Ralph what’s your
next step I say what I’m already in it
right I don’t need to get anywhere
because I have already arrived mmm you
see when you set gigantic goals look at
the words you are using many times it’s
I must finish this college I must finish
this college course and get the best
grades or you say something like I must
get that promotion I should be you see I
should be somewhere else that is why so
many people suffer because they
abandoned the present moment mm-hmm the
abandoned where they are right now I am
happy where I am right now you see
because anxiety emanates from the desire
to escape the present moment now I
always say it is wonderful to have
desires
I have many desires but at the same time
I always ask myself are these desires in
alignment to my true life purpose you
see you can’t compare a squirrel to a
lion
they aren’t equal comparisons right
because squirrels can climb up trees and
they look bloody awesome lions well they
can roar really loud okay so what we’ve
done in society is that we say
everything is equal so you might see
someone and say okay I want to do what
they’re doing so you start comparing
yourself to them you start setting the
same goals they’re setting not realizing
that they are in alignment to their true
core frequency that is why those goals
are working for them so when you realize
it’s not about setting goals it’s about
asking yourself are you in alignment to
your true life purpose and for me that
happened the moment I started to create
themes because themes remind you of the
values you hold dear to you and then ask
yourself are you sucking all the fun out
of your life because that’s what happens
sometimes when we set these gigantic
goals right I must do this this this
this this that that that whoa whoa whoa
slow down there okay because now where’s
the fun are you actually enjoying what
you’re doing or are you just taking
something off a checklist so for me I
always move into the feeling of what I’m
doing I say there are no deadlines and
let me just say this to all the amazing
beautiful deep divers out there if you
are pressurizing yourself right now
if you
forgive yourself right now if you think
you’re a failure right now you are not
and when you realize that you’re just
love because you realize this whole
concept of even this whole concept of
even failing and being a failure is
totally of absurd it’s absurd because
just you being a human being that is
already a success story there you have
breathing in that good-ass prana well
here infinite waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy
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