peace infinite waters diving deep once
again feels good to be in nature why are
people mean it doesn’t matter what you
do where you go you’re gonna encounter
people who are gonna push your buttons
they’re gonna test you they’re gonna see
what you’re made of if you say who you
really say you are along my journey I
have seen that it is amazing when you
dive deeper into what motivates people
to be mean and also find the tools to
deal with their meanness I say along my
journey I have no mean people in my life
what yeah because I don’t accept their
meanness it’s an invitation I don’t want
to accept it so I return it back to
sender what I found along my journey is
that when people criticize us or are
mean to us it’s got very little to do
with us and more about themselves the
stories that they hold about themselves
many mean people feel like victims they
are hurt inside of themselves I say they
need a hug a big bear hug because it’s a
cry for help it’s all about attention
when we love someone we give them a lot
of attention so when people are mean to
us they want us to place our focus on to
them what happens in a lot of scenarios
is that many times we fail to see that
it is a reflection of their reality of
their experience
when someone says oh I don’t like what
you’re wearing today oh you shouldn’t
have done it like that that’s fine
because that’s how they see it from
their perception but it’s all about the
energy that matters so if we find their
energy doesn’t resonate with us we have
to see how we’re responding we have to
see that are we copying them because a
lot of the times we imitate people’s
behavior this is a big trap I have seen
this along my journey what I do is act
with compassion because that frees you
energetically and you can just breathe
you can relax if you respond in a very
calm way you free yourself because now
you reclaim back your power you see that
nobody has power over you unless you
give them power I choose not to focus on
mean people because the reason why
people are mean is because they are
craving your affection your love and in
some cases I don’t dismiss people who
have something to tell me because what I
say is that I am learning from everyone
I am open to everyone’s opinion but at
the same time I ask myself who are these
people and how are they expressing
many times in coping what I’ve seen is
that you have to rise higher because the
moment you stop playing their game you
free yourself and just to see that it’s
all about how you see yourself because
how you see yourself determines what you
attract that’s why in loving yourself a
hundred percent you tap into the secret
a lot of people are mean because maybe
they had a tough childhood parental
abandonment issues that’s no excuse
because once again a lot of people who
are mean they use this as a
justification to her other people but
all of us have gone through things and
once we stop justifying why we need to
act in a certain way you even free
yourself from the need to be mean to
other people because what does it create
I say many times people who are mean
forget to realize that you will have no
friends and that’s why every day along
my journey I realize that it is
wonderful to build relationships with
people encourage one another even if I
am NOT a hundred percent happy with
someone else I see that that’s my issue
it’s got nothing to do with them I have
what I call the emotional drive-by where
you’re just walking along and someone
just dumps all of their emotional
baggage on to you how I deal with this
is by realizing that you don’t have to
absorb their energy you can keep
moving you can tap into the power of no
or the power of yes you have kicked the
cat syndrome sometimes people they go to
work they’ve had a hard day or other
people are being mean to them and they
go home and they kick the cat I’ve
spoken about this so in dealing with
this we have to start changing our
perspective to see that their problem
existed way before you came on the scene
so once you say I get it now I am just a
mirror and is something deep deep within
themselves they have to look at I love
to know more about what makes me angry
what pushes my buttons because that
forces me also to look within and it
shows me what I need to work on along my
journey we fear what we don’t understand
fear is false evidence appearing real
many people are mean because they are
afraid they are scared that’s why they
act small when you start to let go of
fear you are not afraid therefore you
don’t want to hurt anybody around you
when you let love guide you and not fear
that is how to stop being mean if
someone is being mean to you
you also have to start increasing your
self-esteem to look in the mirror and
say am I going to tolerate this can
someone make me feel you
inferior with out my commission no of
course not
so why have we handed over power we have
done this because we feel that someone
else is better than us when we stop
externalizing our power I say I am only
here to share the Guru is you the power
is you a lot of times it’s the
environment we find ourselves in as well
some people say at work people are
picking on me everyone staring at me
this is part of the story we have
created within our minds it may not be
the case we take bits and pieces of
everything that happens to us in the day
we write it down but we can’t write down
the whole story so we edit and we put
the parts in that we want that makes us
feel better and if that serves us and
keeps us being a victim we put it in
there as well I say that it’s all about
changing your story to say I have a
choice about where I want to work every
single day I am NOT going to place
myself in an environment where there is
not harmonious energy because I have to
express myself a hundred percent every
single day I can’t allow someone else to
say
stop doing that no but a lot of us we
put up with it
and it’s not that people are being mean
is that we are being mean to ourselves
so once we stop being mean to ourselves
and step into our expression a hundred
percent we see that nobody can ever be
mean to us unless we are mean to
ourselves change your thoughts and you
change your world many times people will
say things to us when they don’t know us
because it’s easier that way but when
people know who you are they act with
more compassion that’s why I say is
nothing personal at all and many times
people are mean because deep down they
may even want to be you there’s a thin
line between love and hate but at the
same time I don’t focus and spend time
thinking about people who are not
serving me I spend and give all my
energy to people that I love and in turn
I create a high amount of love energy
sometimes people are mean because they
see you growing and expanding and that’s
why in dealing with it I love to smile
even more because that confuses people
oh my gosh you’re smiling at me even
when I just did something terrible to
you they would love for you to get
annoyed and angry because now you lose
your energy love gives you energy that’s
what I love to do smile keep smiling
even if you have to fake it til you make
it
because what you will see is that you
will still be creating more harmony
within your entire
body I have seen along my journey the
universe gives everyone a job and
sometimes we need these so-called mean
people to see the contrast the polarity
of living in this three-dimensional
universe world because when everyone is
always certain way to us we don’t grow
we have to see that we are living in a
world of infinite expressions so
everyone is not going to agree with you
that’s fine we have to be ok with
accepting that and that’s what I’ve done
along my journey and it is so free you
take on board and feel totally liberated
because you see that what you are doing
is not for everyone it never will be and
that gives you even more confidence to
share with the people that really care
about what you have to offer and then
keep it moving keep it dancing swirl
around and jump up and down but realize
that it is the friction which keeps
everything in a perpetual motion without
that there can be no growth easy when
you think about it right I say that
right now it’s about co-creation
cooperation and it’s just about all of
us honoring each other’s uniqueness
because a lot of people are mean because
they are living in the poverty mindset
there’s not enough to go around they are
living and coming from a place of lack
instead of abundance once you start
developing an abundance mindset the last
thing you want to do is hurt other
people instead you seek to embrace with
other people
you seek to share and give to other
people there you have it
we’re in nature having fun infinite
waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy
again feels good to be in nature why are
people mean it doesn’t matter what you
do where you go you’re gonna encounter
people who are gonna push your buttons
they’re gonna test you they’re gonna see
what you’re made of if you say who you
really say you are along my journey I
have seen that it is amazing when you
dive deeper into what motivates people
to be mean and also find the tools to
deal with their meanness I say along my
journey I have no mean people in my life
what yeah because I don’t accept their
meanness it’s an invitation I don’t want
to accept it so I return it back to
sender what I found along my journey is
that when people criticize us or are
mean to us it’s got very little to do
with us and more about themselves the
stories that they hold about themselves
many mean people feel like victims they
are hurt inside of themselves I say they
need a hug a big bear hug because it’s a
cry for help it’s all about attention
when we love someone we give them a lot
of attention so when people are mean to
us they want us to place our focus on to
them what happens in a lot of scenarios
is that many times we fail to see that
it is a reflection of their reality of
their experience
when someone says oh I don’t like what
you’re wearing today oh you shouldn’t
have done it like that that’s fine
because that’s how they see it from
their perception but it’s all about the
energy that matters so if we find their
energy doesn’t resonate with us we have
to see how we’re responding we have to
see that are we copying them because a
lot of the times we imitate people’s
behavior this is a big trap I have seen
this along my journey what I do is act
with compassion because that frees you
energetically and you can just breathe
you can relax if you respond in a very
calm way you free yourself because now
you reclaim back your power you see that
nobody has power over you unless you
give them power I choose not to focus on
mean people because the reason why
people are mean is because they are
craving your affection your love and in
some cases I don’t dismiss people who
have something to tell me because what I
say is that I am learning from everyone
I am open to everyone’s opinion but at
the same time I ask myself who are these
people and how are they expressing
many times in coping what I’ve seen is
that you have to rise higher because the
moment you stop playing their game you
free yourself and just to see that it’s
all about how you see yourself because
how you see yourself determines what you
attract that’s why in loving yourself a
hundred percent you tap into the secret
a lot of people are mean because maybe
they had a tough childhood parental
abandonment issues that’s no excuse
because once again a lot of people who
are mean they use this as a
justification to her other people but
all of us have gone through things and
once we stop justifying why we need to
act in a certain way you even free
yourself from the need to be mean to
other people because what does it create
I say many times people who are mean
forget to realize that you will have no
friends and that’s why every day along
my journey I realize that it is
wonderful to build relationships with
people encourage one another even if I
am NOT a hundred percent happy with
someone else I see that that’s my issue
it’s got nothing to do with them I have
what I call the emotional drive-by where
you’re just walking along and someone
just dumps all of their emotional
baggage on to you how I deal with this
is by realizing that you don’t have to
absorb their energy you can keep
moving you can tap into the power of no
or the power of yes you have kicked the
cat syndrome sometimes people they go to
work they’ve had a hard day or other
people are being mean to them and they
go home and they kick the cat I’ve
spoken about this so in dealing with
this we have to start changing our
perspective to see that their problem
existed way before you came on the scene
so once you say I get it now I am just a
mirror and is something deep deep within
themselves they have to look at I love
to know more about what makes me angry
what pushes my buttons because that
forces me also to look within and it
shows me what I need to work on along my
journey we fear what we don’t understand
fear is false evidence appearing real
many people are mean because they are
afraid they are scared that’s why they
act small when you start to let go of
fear you are not afraid therefore you
don’t want to hurt anybody around you
when you let love guide you and not fear
that is how to stop being mean if
someone is being mean to you
you also have to start increasing your
self-esteem to look in the mirror and
say am I going to tolerate this can
someone make me feel you
inferior with out my commission no of
course not
so why have we handed over power we have
done this because we feel that someone
else is better than us when we stop
externalizing our power I say I am only
here to share the Guru is you the power
is you a lot of times it’s the
environment we find ourselves in as well
some people say at work people are
picking on me everyone staring at me
this is part of the story we have
created within our minds it may not be
the case we take bits and pieces of
everything that happens to us in the day
we write it down but we can’t write down
the whole story so we edit and we put
the parts in that we want that makes us
feel better and if that serves us and
keeps us being a victim we put it in
there as well I say that it’s all about
changing your story to say I have a
choice about where I want to work every
single day I am NOT going to place
myself in an environment where there is
not harmonious energy because I have to
express myself a hundred percent every
single day I can’t allow someone else to
say
stop doing that no but a lot of us we
put up with it
and it’s not that people are being mean
is that we are being mean to ourselves
so once we stop being mean to ourselves
and step into our expression a hundred
percent we see that nobody can ever be
mean to us unless we are mean to
ourselves change your thoughts and you
change your world many times people will
say things to us when they don’t know us
because it’s easier that way but when
people know who you are they act with
more compassion that’s why I say is
nothing personal at all and many times
people are mean because deep down they
may even want to be you there’s a thin
line between love and hate but at the
same time I don’t focus and spend time
thinking about people who are not
serving me I spend and give all my
energy to people that I love and in turn
I create a high amount of love energy
sometimes people are mean because they
see you growing and expanding and that’s
why in dealing with it I love to smile
even more because that confuses people
oh my gosh you’re smiling at me even
when I just did something terrible to
you they would love for you to get
annoyed and angry because now you lose
your energy love gives you energy that’s
what I love to do smile keep smiling
even if you have to fake it til you make
it
because what you will see is that you
will still be creating more harmony
within your entire
body I have seen along my journey the
universe gives everyone a job and
sometimes we need these so-called mean
people to see the contrast the polarity
of living in this three-dimensional
universe world because when everyone is
always certain way to us we don’t grow
we have to see that we are living in a
world of infinite expressions so
everyone is not going to agree with you
that’s fine we have to be ok with
accepting that and that’s what I’ve done
along my journey and it is so free you
take on board and feel totally liberated
because you see that what you are doing
is not for everyone it never will be and
that gives you even more confidence to
share with the people that really care
about what you have to offer and then
keep it moving keep it dancing swirl
around and jump up and down but realize
that it is the friction which keeps
everything in a perpetual motion without
that there can be no growth easy when
you think about it right I say that
right now it’s about co-creation
cooperation and it’s just about all of
us honoring each other’s uniqueness
because a lot of people are mean because
they are living in the poverty mindset
there’s not enough to go around they are
living and coming from a place of lack
instead of abundance once you start
developing an abundance mindset the last
thing you want to do is hurt other
people instead you seek to embrace with
other people
you seek to share and give to other
people there you have it
we’re in nature having fun infinite
waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy
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