peace infinite waters diving deep once
again can I get a hello there why am i
single pot – it’s been a long time
coming we’re back now I get a lot of
questions about relationships and people
are looking for the perfect partner they
haven’t found them yet and my whole life
has been single in a relationship single
in a relationship single in a
relationship so my life is not perfect
but I have an insight I can share with
you on why you may be single and it
starts with realizing it may emanate
from a lack of interest how many of us
have time for ourselves if you don’t
have time for yourself how are you going
to have time for someone else and
relationships it’s not a joke
it requires water sunlight what am I
talking of here
it’s like a plant constant watering is
needed and many people are not prepared
to invest that amount of energy in a
relationship so what happens when you’re
single you want to be in a relationship
when you’re in a relationship you want
to be single again a lack of interests
may emanate from past relationships
many people are bringing old energy into
new relationships many people are seeing
new relationships with old eyes and a
lack of interest is where people say I
don’t need anyone I’m fine all by myself
in our society we praise being
independent
we praise being self-sufficient so why
you may be single may emanate from a
belief system which says you you and you
is all you need
so the most beautiful woman is right in
front of you the most handsome man for
you is right in front of you but now
you’re not interested because once again
we may be studying we may be so focused
on our purpose our goal our life mission
that we simply don’t have time for a
that’s one reason another way to look at
it is that many people enjoy being
single I was in a relationship then I
was single then I went back into a
relationship that I was single back and
forth like we’re playing tennis here
I enjoyed being single for a very long
time why because it offered a freedom
like no other a freedom where someone
wasn’t always nagging you complaining of
course relationships are filled with
love but at the same time many of these
3d relationships are built on possession
what I call the coca-cola relationship
the water relationship is where we can
hold the space we can encourage someone
to become their greatest version without
trying to change who they are look their
own mother didn’t manage to change them
what makes you think you can only people
can change themselves that’s what I’ve
seen but it is wonderful to see how some
people are single and guess what you
would never know it because they have
this connection to themselves which is
like they’re married to themselves
because the greatest relationship you
can have is with yourself so many people
who are single it goes on to the third
point may not be ready as well they are
not ready to give up that kind of
freedom and what happens
when you are single you start to reflect
you start to think of love more than
ever and you realize how beautiful it is
to have the love connection in full
effect when I was single for a long time
what was I doing I was working on myself
and that is something to be embraced
being single is not negative in fact it
can be the most uplifting experience in
the world because now we are preparing
ourselves to meet our reflection and
that takes time because to have it all
you have to be at all some people say I
want the most attractive woman in the
world that does everything I want isn’t
that something some people say I want
the most wonderful man that does
everything I want but are you going to
do everything they want
that’s the question many of us we have
this checklist and because of that what
happens we begin to miss out on certain
opportunities and encounters because we
are thinking too much of the perfect me
and I’ve seen along my journey nobody is
perfect at all because when you’re in a
relationship and you’re living with
someone look look at it this way
your own brother your own sister you
still have arguments even with your
parents so a relationship is no
different
it is the good
the bad and the ugly
so therefore many times we are actually
working on ourselves to develop this
strength so that once we get in a
relationship we won’t spend all our time
arguing because the relationships have
been in as I’m evolving they are focused
towards energy generating states for all
of us because a lot of us we always
focus on what isn’t working in the
relationship the power of a water
relationship is where two people or more
be in an open relationship see the power
of focusing on what is working so as
soon as they wake up they don’t start
screaming in each other’s ear they start
complimenting each other and seeing the
beauty in each other and being thankful
that that person is in their life in
essence they exercise gratitude
consciousness so many times in what I
call the training ground we are code
evading those qualities within ourselves
so when we see someone and we’re with
them we can share what we have
cultivated within ourselves the fourth
thing to look at is what I call the
weight that is why many people are
single because we’re waiting
we’re waiting we’re waiting and we let
people go by we become very specific
about what we want and desire and this
there are seasons and what happens when
you feel it’s always gonna be there you
may have to wait another hundred years
so I say start to feel instead of think
about what you want because many of the
things we are told that is attractive in
somebody else
is coming from an external place how
much money they have their social status
but if you start to feel in your heart
space it’s gonna serve you better
many of us we grew up on cartoons about
the perfect me so a lot of us are
waiting for a princess or you’re waiting
for a prince do they exist oh yeah they
exist but just not like how you envision
them it’s going to be a prince who also
has maybe a grumpy attitude is going to
be a princess who also does things that
occasionally annoys you because what I
realize is that a lot of us we fail to
see that in relationships it is like two
energies merging together and because of
that we have to become very clear
that it is not our job to start changing
people it is not our job to start making
people anything other than what they
truly are it is only our job to hold the
space and to allow and to realize that
we are choosing to be in this
relationship and therefore once you can
both give each other that freedom what
happens the relationship blossoms to the
most wonderful it turns into the most
wonderful flower because of space
because of respect and because of
transparency and another insight is what
I call the married life
some people are single because they are
already married now that’s a paradox
right there they have reintegrated the
feminine and the masculine principles
within themselves and now they have
stepped into the complete being they are
and that is wonderful I’m happy for you
and I feel that that is what we should
all be striving for anyway because when
you become whole once again now you meet
another hole and now you have a
relationship relationships don’t happen
when you don’t love yourself and you’re
waiting for the other person just to
love you because no matter how much love
they give you is never enough but once
you start to cultivate that self-love
and the other person has self-love then
it’s over game over your relationship
becomes stronger why because you have
code evaded your inner strength and the
other person has cultivated that inner
strength that’s why they don’t blame you
for their internal condition and that’s
a secret to long-lasting relationships
it’s not about what you can take from
the other person it’s more about what
you can give what you can share and how
you can assist this person in becoming
their greatest version so there you have
you get ready for part three soon
infinite waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy peace
again can I get a hello there why am i
single pot – it’s been a long time
coming we’re back now I get a lot of
questions about relationships and people
are looking for the perfect partner they
haven’t found them yet and my whole life
has been single in a relationship single
in a relationship single in a
relationship so my life is not perfect
but I have an insight I can share with
you on why you may be single and it
starts with realizing it may emanate
from a lack of interest how many of us
have time for ourselves if you don’t
have time for yourself how are you going
to have time for someone else and
relationships it’s not a joke
it requires water sunlight what am I
talking of here
it’s like a plant constant watering is
needed and many people are not prepared
to invest that amount of energy in a
relationship so what happens when you’re
single you want to be in a relationship
when you’re in a relationship you want
to be single again a lack of interests
may emanate from past relationships
many people are bringing old energy into
new relationships many people are seeing
new relationships with old eyes and a
lack of interest is where people say I
don’t need anyone I’m fine all by myself
in our society we praise being
independent
we praise being self-sufficient so why
you may be single may emanate from a
belief system which says you you and you
is all you need
so the most beautiful woman is right in
front of you the most handsome man for
you is right in front of you but now
you’re not interested because once again
we may be studying we may be so focused
on our purpose our goal our life mission
that we simply don’t have time for a
that’s one reason another way to look at
it is that many people enjoy being
single I was in a relationship then I
was single then I went back into a
relationship that I was single back and
forth like we’re playing tennis here
I enjoyed being single for a very long
time why because it offered a freedom
like no other a freedom where someone
wasn’t always nagging you complaining of
course relationships are filled with
love but at the same time many of these
3d relationships are built on possession
what I call the coca-cola relationship
the water relationship is where we can
hold the space we can encourage someone
to become their greatest version without
trying to change who they are look their
own mother didn’t manage to change them
what makes you think you can only people
can change themselves that’s what I’ve
seen but it is wonderful to see how some
people are single and guess what you
would never know it because they have
this connection to themselves which is
like they’re married to themselves
because the greatest relationship you
can have is with yourself so many people
who are single it goes on to the third
point may not be ready as well they are
not ready to give up that kind of
freedom and what happens
when you are single you start to reflect
you start to think of love more than
ever and you realize how beautiful it is
to have the love connection in full
effect when I was single for a long time
what was I doing I was working on myself
and that is something to be embraced
being single is not negative in fact it
can be the most uplifting experience in
the world because now we are preparing
ourselves to meet our reflection and
that takes time because to have it all
you have to be at all some people say I
want the most attractive woman in the
world that does everything I want isn’t
that something some people say I want
the most wonderful man that does
everything I want but are you going to
do everything they want
that’s the question many of us we have
this checklist and because of that what
happens we begin to miss out on certain
opportunities and encounters because we
are thinking too much of the perfect me
and I’ve seen along my journey nobody is
perfect at all because when you’re in a
relationship and you’re living with
someone look look at it this way
your own brother your own sister you
still have arguments even with your
parents so a relationship is no
different
it is the good
the bad and the ugly
so therefore many times we are actually
working on ourselves to develop this
strength so that once we get in a
relationship we won’t spend all our time
arguing because the relationships have
been in as I’m evolving they are focused
towards energy generating states for all
of us because a lot of us we always
focus on what isn’t working in the
relationship the power of a water
relationship is where two people or more
be in an open relationship see the power
of focusing on what is working so as
soon as they wake up they don’t start
screaming in each other’s ear they start
complimenting each other and seeing the
beauty in each other and being thankful
that that person is in their life in
essence they exercise gratitude
consciousness so many times in what I
call the training ground we are code
evading those qualities within ourselves
so when we see someone and we’re with
them we can share what we have
cultivated within ourselves the fourth
thing to look at is what I call the
weight that is why many people are
single because we’re waiting
we’re waiting we’re waiting and we let
people go by we become very specific
about what we want and desire and this
there are seasons and what happens when
you feel it’s always gonna be there you
may have to wait another hundred years
so I say start to feel instead of think
about what you want because many of the
things we are told that is attractive in
somebody else
is coming from an external place how
much money they have their social status
but if you start to feel in your heart
space it’s gonna serve you better
many of us we grew up on cartoons about
the perfect me so a lot of us are
waiting for a princess or you’re waiting
for a prince do they exist oh yeah they
exist but just not like how you envision
them it’s going to be a prince who also
has maybe a grumpy attitude is going to
be a princess who also does things that
occasionally annoys you because what I
realize is that a lot of us we fail to
see that in relationships it is like two
energies merging together and because of
that we have to become very clear
that it is not our job to start changing
people it is not our job to start making
people anything other than what they
truly are it is only our job to hold the
space and to allow and to realize that
we are choosing to be in this
relationship and therefore once you can
both give each other that freedom what
happens the relationship blossoms to the
most wonderful it turns into the most
wonderful flower because of space
because of respect and because of
transparency and another insight is what
I call the married life
some people are single because they are
already married now that’s a paradox
right there they have reintegrated the
feminine and the masculine principles
within themselves and now they have
stepped into the complete being they are
and that is wonderful I’m happy for you
and I feel that that is what we should
all be striving for anyway because when
you become whole once again now you meet
another hole and now you have a
relationship relationships don’t happen
when you don’t love yourself and you’re
waiting for the other person just to
love you because no matter how much love
they give you is never enough but once
you start to cultivate that self-love
and the other person has self-love then
it’s over game over your relationship
becomes stronger why because you have
code evaded your inner strength and the
other person has cultivated that inner
strength that’s why they don’t blame you
for their internal condition and that’s
a secret to long-lasting relationships
it’s not about what you can take from
the other person it’s more about what
you can give what you can share and how
you can assist this person in becoming
their greatest version so there you have
you get ready for part three soon
infinite waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy peace
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