peace and Finnick waters diving deep
once again we are out here
we’re in nature well breathing in that
good ass prana baby what men and women
are really looking for
you’ll be surprised and we even had
breakfast yet can I get a Hello put your
hand up if you are someone who is always
searching to find someone else put your
hand up if you are a single woman
searching for the perfect guy or another
woman put your hand up if you are a
single guy searching for another woman
or another guy put your hand up if
you’re just searching period we’ve got a
lot of searches in the house now I got a
question in you got a question
Instagram us at infinite waters go to
the website Ralph smart calm what is it
women and men are really looking for so
let me dive into it let me share with
you was help me along my journey as a
relationship counselor as a psychologist
and as someone who was a big searcher in
my earlier years right a lot of women
tell me this they say they’re just
sunbathing on the beach and then
suddenly a guy interrupts them and
starts saying that he’s got a big house
he drives an expensive car and he works
in Disneyland and then the woman’s just
like sorry I’m sleeping then the guys
like huh I said everything I thought
this is what women won and she’s
sleeping right she’s sleeping a lot of
guys tell me that a lot of women think
they just want their body
and a lot of guys say that’s the
complete opposite right so it works like
this
you see we’ve been told what men want a
man just wants a big booty it’s a nice
titties but that’s not what the man
wants because if that was the case then
it would stop there but you see then
he’s on to the next one and then on to
the next one you see we’ve been told all
a woman wants is just to be taken care
of but then she might meet a millionaire
who say it’s okay I’ll put you into a
mansion and this and this will happen
and you can just eat pineapples all day
but she’s still not happy so what is it
a woman is looking for and what is it a
man is looking for less dive into it you
see there are only three things men and
women are looking for and the first one
is respect you better put some respect
on my name right respect is everything
and we forget that you see men and women
there is no divide we don’t want to
create a divide no no there is no
separation okay we both want the same
thing and a lot of the things we want
are intangible you can’t see them but
you feel them okay so we’re not actually
attracted that much the things we see
we’re attracted to things we can’t mmm
slow motion si to the feeling someone
brings out of us
you see the reason why both men and
women are searching for respect is
because with respect comes support
that’s the second thing men and women
are both searching for support if you
support someone else they’re gonna love
you but you see so many times in
relationships
ego comes into play the woman says well
I work here I’m a very important person
and the man says well I am the CEO of
this massive company you better you
better Know Who I am
right so support is everything sometimes
a guy would choose a girl a woman who is
supportive loyal over one with just a
perfect body because he knows down the
line that’s the one he wants to be with
okay and the third thing men and women
are looking for is inspiration
you see everybody men women aliens yeah
they are also looking for someone who
inspires them we are all looking for
someone who takes us to the next level
in helping us become our greatest
version we want to learn something
that’s the honest truth it’s like a lot
of guys tell me okay I’ve just met this
this girl this woman and I was attracted
to her because she had a gorgeous body
okay I’m not gonna lie Ralph and I’m
like oh that’s great but then he starts
telling me that he’s getting bored now
because they’re talking but the
conversation isn’t going anywhere
so what’s he to do right a lot of women
tell me that their guys don’t talk
period they’re just silent and that
really pisses them off so inspiration is
everything that is what people are
looking for if you are inspired by
someone chances are you’re gonna send
them a box of flowers a box of roses
right or not now I have what I call the
seven levels of Attraction okay and this
is really
reveals more of the psychology
subconsciously what we’re searching for
you see it all starts with the
appearance which is perfectly fine and
acceptable you want something that looks
good I do I don’t know about you but we
are attracted to people a lot of the
times appearance that’s the first level
of attraction okay so that’s what we’re
looking for to begin with a lot of guys
on the beach checking out the ladies and
the bikinis and stuff yeah you want a
nice butt okay a lot of women doing the
same thing oh he’s got broad shoulders
and stuff like that you’re getting
excited now you’re blushing right all
that good stuff
okay appearance is everything that’s the
first level though and you see a lot of
people stop at appearance they forget
there’s also personality persona which
is the mask you see people giggling
they’re smiling they’re crying that’s
still just the personality but that’s
the next level above appearance so once
you get to know someone’s personality
you start to feel more intimate with
them because you’re like okay I kind of
know this person right but then it’s not
finished there you’ve got expression you
see what people are really looking for
men and women and the cat down the road
is expression right you got to be able
to express yourself however you want to
someone and not feel like you’re being
judged for it okay that’s really what
men and women are looking for freedom of
speech
right can you say anything like
literally anything to maybe your partner
right now cuz if you can’t there’s gonna
be a book in the levels of Attraction
okay and then you want to talk about
value do you both share the same values
7 day vegan challenge right a lot of
women riding into me saying well I’m
doing it and my partner is still eating
me you see that’s fine but that’s a
choice you’ve got to make when we talk
about what men and women are looking for
people are looking for people who share
the same values
uses them and that means if you love
animals like I do
I am only really gonna date someone who
respects animals the way I do okay all
vegan well you could be a meat eater but
moving on to being a vegan right you got
to have that same passion and realize
like okay we aren’t the only life form
on the planet that deserves respect
every single animal is worthy for life
okay so then you want to move on to
honesty honesty is everything right
because if you can’t be honest in a
relationship it’s just not gonna work
and a lot of men and women they’re
looking more than anything for honesty
okay and a lot of people just aren’t
honest you see just lied right okay
don’t worry about it all right and then
transparency okay that’s what men and
women are looking for transparency is
everything if you can see through
somebody then that means you’re gonna be
comfortable around them right but you
see a lot of us we don’t even feel we
even know who we’re with who were
hanging around so it’s hard not hard but
hard right and then evolution that is
probably the biggest thing what men and
women are looking for a man wants a
woman ultimately he can evolve with a
woman wants a man ultimately she can
evolve with right so if there is no
evolution if there is no growth if there
is no moving towards a higher next level
people become bored okay and then people
start to drift out of the relationship
long time ago I talked about the five
secrets to a great relationship
communication you see people are looking
once again to communicate a lot with
someone and then it’s appreciation
people are looking to be appreciated
they don’t want to just be the one
paying for everything
I don’t do that to me next time okay you
pay we need to split the we need to
split it okay
appreciation appreciate me baby I
appreciate you right passion people are
looking for someone with a passion for
life once again going back to the
inspiration for life trust people are
looking for someone they can trust and
then fun which is the last one okay
people are looking for someone they can
be silly around they don’t have to try
too hard they can be themselves but when
it comes down to it ultimately men and
women are looking for respect support
and inspiration so there you have it in
a nutshell whoa breathing in that
good-ass prana baby we’re out here in
nature in affinities diving deep once again stay well stay healthy
once again we are out here
we’re in nature well breathing in that
good ass prana baby what men and women
are really looking for
you’ll be surprised and we even had
breakfast yet can I get a Hello put your
hand up if you are someone who is always
searching to find someone else put your
hand up if you are a single woman
searching for the perfect guy or another
woman put your hand up if you are a
single guy searching for another woman
or another guy put your hand up if
you’re just searching period we’ve got a
lot of searches in the house now I got a
question in you got a question
Instagram us at infinite waters go to
the website Ralph smart calm what is it
women and men are really looking for so
let me dive into it let me share with
you was help me along my journey as a
relationship counselor as a psychologist
and as someone who was a big searcher in
my earlier years right a lot of women
tell me this they say they’re just
sunbathing on the beach and then
suddenly a guy interrupts them and
starts saying that he’s got a big house
he drives an expensive car and he works
in Disneyland and then the woman’s just
like sorry I’m sleeping then the guys
like huh I said everything I thought
this is what women won and she’s
sleeping right she’s sleeping a lot of
guys tell me that a lot of women think
they just want their body
and a lot of guys say that’s the
complete opposite right so it works like
this
you see we’ve been told what men want a
man just wants a big booty it’s a nice
titties but that’s not what the man
wants because if that was the case then
it would stop there but you see then
he’s on to the next one and then on to
the next one you see we’ve been told all
a woman wants is just to be taken care
of but then she might meet a millionaire
who say it’s okay I’ll put you into a
mansion and this and this will happen
and you can just eat pineapples all day
but she’s still not happy so what is it
a woman is looking for and what is it a
man is looking for less dive into it you
see there are only three things men and
women are looking for and the first one
is respect you better put some respect
on my name right respect is everything
and we forget that you see men and women
there is no divide we don’t want to
create a divide no no there is no
separation okay we both want the same
thing and a lot of the things we want
are intangible you can’t see them but
you feel them okay so we’re not actually
attracted that much the things we see
we’re attracted to things we can’t mmm
slow motion si to the feeling someone
brings out of us
you see the reason why both men and
women are searching for respect is
because with respect comes support
that’s the second thing men and women
are both searching for support if you
support someone else they’re gonna love
you but you see so many times in
relationships
ego comes into play the woman says well
I work here I’m a very important person
and the man says well I am the CEO of
this massive company you better you
better Know Who I am
right so support is everything sometimes
a guy would choose a girl a woman who is
supportive loyal over one with just a
perfect body because he knows down the
line that’s the one he wants to be with
okay and the third thing men and women
are looking for is inspiration
you see everybody men women aliens yeah
they are also looking for someone who
inspires them we are all looking for
someone who takes us to the next level
in helping us become our greatest
version we want to learn something
that’s the honest truth it’s like a lot
of guys tell me okay I’ve just met this
this girl this woman and I was attracted
to her because she had a gorgeous body
okay I’m not gonna lie Ralph and I’m
like oh that’s great but then he starts
telling me that he’s getting bored now
because they’re talking but the
conversation isn’t going anywhere
so what’s he to do right a lot of women
tell me that their guys don’t talk
period they’re just silent and that
really pisses them off so inspiration is
everything that is what people are
looking for if you are inspired by
someone chances are you’re gonna send
them a box of flowers a box of roses
right or not now I have what I call the
seven levels of Attraction okay and this
is really
reveals more of the psychology
subconsciously what we’re searching for
you see it all starts with the
appearance which is perfectly fine and
acceptable you want something that looks
good I do I don’t know about you but we
are attracted to people a lot of the
times appearance that’s the first level
of attraction okay so that’s what we’re
looking for to begin with a lot of guys
on the beach checking out the ladies and
the bikinis and stuff yeah you want a
nice butt okay a lot of women doing the
same thing oh he’s got broad shoulders
and stuff like that you’re getting
excited now you’re blushing right all
that good stuff
okay appearance is everything that’s the
first level though and you see a lot of
people stop at appearance they forget
there’s also personality persona which
is the mask you see people giggling
they’re smiling they’re crying that’s
still just the personality but that’s
the next level above appearance so once
you get to know someone’s personality
you start to feel more intimate with
them because you’re like okay I kind of
know this person right but then it’s not
finished there you’ve got expression you
see what people are really looking for
men and women and the cat down the road
is expression right you got to be able
to express yourself however you want to
someone and not feel like you’re being
judged for it okay that’s really what
men and women are looking for freedom of
speech
right can you say anything like
literally anything to maybe your partner
right now cuz if you can’t there’s gonna
be a book in the levels of Attraction
okay and then you want to talk about
value do you both share the same values
7 day vegan challenge right a lot of
women riding into me saying well I’m
doing it and my partner is still eating
me you see that’s fine but that’s a
choice you’ve got to make when we talk
about what men and women are looking for
people are looking for people who share
the same values
uses them and that means if you love
animals like I do
I am only really gonna date someone who
respects animals the way I do okay all
vegan well you could be a meat eater but
moving on to being a vegan right you got
to have that same passion and realize
like okay we aren’t the only life form
on the planet that deserves respect
every single animal is worthy for life
okay so then you want to move on to
honesty honesty is everything right
because if you can’t be honest in a
relationship it’s just not gonna work
and a lot of men and women they’re
looking more than anything for honesty
okay and a lot of people just aren’t
honest you see just lied right okay
don’t worry about it all right and then
transparency okay that’s what men and
women are looking for transparency is
everything if you can see through
somebody then that means you’re gonna be
comfortable around them right but you
see a lot of us we don’t even feel we
even know who we’re with who were
hanging around so it’s hard not hard but
hard right and then evolution that is
probably the biggest thing what men and
women are looking for a man wants a
woman ultimately he can evolve with a
woman wants a man ultimately she can
evolve with right so if there is no
evolution if there is no growth if there
is no moving towards a higher next level
people become bored okay and then people
start to drift out of the relationship
long time ago I talked about the five
secrets to a great relationship
communication you see people are looking
once again to communicate a lot with
someone and then it’s appreciation
people are looking to be appreciated
they don’t want to just be the one
paying for everything
I don’t do that to me next time okay you
pay we need to split the we need to
split it okay
appreciation appreciate me baby I
appreciate you right passion people are
looking for someone with a passion for
life once again going back to the
inspiration for life trust people are
looking for someone they can trust and
then fun which is the last one okay
people are looking for someone they can
be silly around they don’t have to try
too hard they can be themselves but when
it comes down to it ultimately men and
women are looking for respect support
and inspiration so there you have it in
a nutshell whoa breathing in that
good-ass prana baby we’re out here in
nature in affinities diving deep once again stay well stay healthy
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