What Guys Look For In A Woman

peace infinite waters diving deep once
again what guys look for in a woman can
the sexology water fire hot cold
yin-yang I received a question from a
woman asking how to be loved by a man
she has body image issues she feels
insecure never good enough and she’s
trying to win the approval from men let
me tell you it is not easy for all of us
but coming from your perspective there
is so much pressure to look a certain
way for women you have to be sexy the
perfect body the perfect smile it’s a
lot of work but how you perceive
yourself I’m sexy is far more important
than how men perceive you because
whenever we base our self-worth on how
others see us we lose confidence when
you base your self-worth on how you see
yourself now you receive confidence
because it is all based on our
perception you have to love yourself a
hundred percent to see that you are not
here to make every single man just feel
a certain way on the planet do that as
well if you want make me happy but you
are here to express your true
authenticity follow me come with me on a
journey to meet my four friends four
guys I have for you the first guy Oh
what’s he like because you want to know
what he’s looking for this is the drone
the archetype of the drone this is
someone looking for a surface relation
only they are only looking at your
appearance and yes it is marvelous it is
fantastic to take pride in how you look
but this is a man who does not go beyond
his reptilian brain which is wired only
to reproduce so therefore there is no
heart connection no commitment no
responsibility
they are always striving to get
something from you rather than give
something to you they are not looking to
uplift you only to satisfy their carnal
desires it is someone who is afraid of
intimacy to the core so much so they are
not looking to be friends with you they
are looking to control you manipulate
you and possess you so the first guy is
driving along having a good time he sees
you you are the reason he has just had
an accident your sublime beauty but the
first guy is not looking to be inspired
by your beauty he is looking to devour
you and the higher levels of what a man
is looking for is to look at your beauty
and be inspired by your beauty to be
awakened by your beauty in essence to
feel alive from your beauty what do you
think of that first guy oh you don’t
want to meet him right
me the second guy the archetype of the
artist this is someone who is looking to
share with you to learn more about your
personality what makes you smile and cry
and why did you buy that bag yesterday
they are looking to listen to you they
are looking to express with you and
communicate to open you up in a whole
new way the artist is all about building
a friendship with you and it is someone
who is looking to grow with you meet the
third guy that second guy seemed all
right right the third guy is the
archetype of the alchemist this is
someone who is looking for a transparent
connection they are diving below the
surface getting to the core of who you
really are they are showing you more of
who they are so therefore they are
looking for a total connection they are
looking to share the positive
experiences of life also the negative
experiences of life and that takes a lot
because a lot of the times we only want
to show people what they want to see the
alchemist is all about the heart based
connection they appreciate your
appearance but
they see that there is more to you than
that so they are looking for a hug
they are looking for pure openness to
the next level looking to share deep
secrets looking to travel with you
looking to change perspectives with you
do you understand the words that are
coming out of my mouth meet the fourth
guy who this is the archetype of the
wizard this individual is looking for
value also they are looking for
evolution now evolution is powerful why
because they are looking to hold the
space
what does hold the space means what does
it mean it means that they are allowing
you to step into your true authenticity
they see the secret that you are not
there solely to please them so they
allow you to be you they are not looking
to change who you are they are looking
to accept who you are more so to love
who you are a hundred percent that’s a
good guy to keep around that’s a good
what happens you being a woman when you
feel that you have to spend
eight hours just to win the approval of
a guy now
you develop a low self-esteem
well what happens when you form an
intimate relationship with yourself more
and more every single day because the
greatest relationship you can have is
with yourself to me Ralph smart what do
I look for in a woman
uh-oh I only look for a woman to embrace
herself a hundred percent and through
that come so much beauty through that
come so much elegance through that I
catch a glimpse off her soul
we are here infinite waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy