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Things catching you in the HAPPINESS TRAP


peace and finit waters diving deep once
again we are out here got him can I get
a hello there whoa breathing in that
good ass prana baby things catching
people in the happiness trap that’s when
you get that garden moment right the
first one is paradise island so I wrote
the story of the unhappy woman in
Paradise Island she wanted to find
happiness outside of herself so she
traveled and traveled looking for
Paradise Island and she got to Paradise
Island but she was very unhappy not
realizing the Paradise Island was
actually within herself all along right
but she was looking externally and
that’s how so many of us live always
searching for something to fulfill us
outside of ourselves now what’s helped
me along my journey is to say actually
that does help I want to be surrounded
in a beautiful setting in nature with
daffodils and lilies and beautiful prana
feels fantastic can I get a hello there
but you see it’s never where you are
it’s where you are mentally physically
emotionally nothing nobody is gonna make
you happy if you aren’t already happy
yourself how do we code of 8 happiness I
say the secret of happiness is
expressing a full range of emotions
without shame or guilt right we’re
talking about freedom here it’s not a
but when you have the freedom to express
to live the life you want or you can say
is can I get a hello there there is no
paradise island that’s the whole secret
outside of you I’ve traveled to lots of
different places right now I’m in
California but I’m gonna be in Hawaii
soon I might be an Ethiopia again maybe
Egypt may be back to Brazil maybe the
gambia Sarah Lyon maybe Nigeria maybe
Spain again right I’ve traveled the
whole world bent over five different
continents and it’s amazing to see
different cultures people and places at
the same time me what I’ve realized is
that there is no paradise I’ve been to
white sand beaches I’ve seen water so
clear you can see the fish is the exact
details on their scales right to have
chama shake right the Red Sea beautiful
places right you feel at one with the
universe I’ve been in cold climates hot
climates grey skies blue skies
but within myself I’ve been at peace
what am I talking about here that I have
created the paradise within myself and
the external Paradise has served as a
compliment to my own internal state can
I get a hello there right a beautiful
environment will help you you feel
inspired but at the same time what
happens if someone dumps you on a
deserted island and guess what now the
cat down the road isn’t even around oh
my gosh what am I gonna do don’t worry
about it every day I’m meditating why
because I have to create paradise island
within myself I could be in hell but
feel like I’m in heaven because it’s all
a state of mind right things catching
people in the happiness trap right what
are some of the things we feel are gonna
make us happy got him more stuff right
George Carlin spoke of more stuff we
collect a lot of stuff do we need it not
really so why do we want more stuff
right after getting lots of money what
did I find out within myself I had one
laptop so i bought another one then
another one then another one right more
terrible but it feels good how many of
you have gone to whole foods and really
packed your plate because you want more
and more thinking it’s gonna make you
more happy but then you can’t get up
afterwards because you’re so full and it
feels really uncomfortable not nice
right so what’s helped me along my
journey and becoming your greatest
version is to take only what you need
ask yourself do I really need this
sometimes when I have a lot of stuff I
just give stuff away right but what am I
talking about you see a lot of us we are
sitting on diamonds that’s the happiness
trap right a lot of us were afraid to
share we’re afraid to share with the
world I shared with the world and became
rich true story google it right true
story but you see a lot of us we don’t
want to give away anything we want to
hoard everything for ourselves right
you’ve got a lot of experiences that
maybe just maybe could benefit someone
but no you want more for yourself that’s
the happiness trap you don’t want one
plate you want two plates of food right
you don’t want one car you want two cars
you don’t want one iphone you want to
iPhones you don’t want you don’t want
one laptop you want five laptops lots of
Facebook going on there right so what’s
helped me is to realize les is really
more why because you can now move you
can now whoa breathing that good ass
prana and travel light you see it’s what
you can let go off that determines how
things catching people in the happiness
trap God him favorites a lot of people
say oh this is my favorite that is my
favorite guess what I am that kind of
person my favorite color is purple but
also I like black actually I like pink
as well and a bit of green right a lot
of us have favorites and that’s what
makes us unique it’s wonderful i say
embrace what makes you happy baby right
we’re nature baby embrace my favorite
place my favorite place is nature i feel
at one right but when we talk about
favorites being a happiness trap you see
a lot of us we’re perfectionists and
being a perfectionist is just like
having a favor of something right so for
instance i’ll share an example with you
a story along my journey I’ve been
making videos for a while now couple of
years or more goodness gracious in a
long time can I get a hello there and
people say Ralph gosh how do you create
out of thin air just like that well I’m
a March third much that I’m a PI C so it
comes with a comes with the territory
don’t worry about it Pisces know what
I’m talking about we got the creative
gene running through us all right I’m
biased it happens because I don’t have
favorites I’ve got videos with over a
million views the pineal gland viral
absorbing how to stop absorbing other
people’s energy right viral videos
hundreds of thousands of views at the
same time that doesn’t impress me what
impresses me is that I give the same
value to a viral video as I give to a
video just talking about the cat down
the road right I don’t have favorites
when it comes to content creation I
couldn’t care less because once you’ve
been doing this for years you treat
every one of your creations as the same
and that’s the secret to creativity
that’s the secret to developing a career
out of doing what you love right I can
travel anywhere and be taken care of how
cuz I’m coming to your house and you’re
gonna make me some hummus can i getta
can i getta can I get a hello there oh
my god ok now we just having fun out
here we’re having so much fun ok so I
don’t have favorites right
when you treat whatever you do as equal
you free yourself you don’t get caught
in the happiness trap what happens a lot
of people say okay that’s my favorite
jumper oh where is my favorite jumper
nobody knows and now you’re screwed
you’re really screwed because what else
you gonna wear right so when you don’t
have favorites you free yourself you
become very versatile very flexible I
don’t just have a favorite color is
purple because if my purple jumper goes
missing and is back to wearing black
right things catching people in the
happiness trap guarding try-hards what’s
helped me along my journey is not
working hard but working my surname
right working smart right I finish work
by 10 by 11 i’m on the beach by 12 i’m
taking a snooze Oh snooze I like that
snooze yeah I’m taking a snooze right
working smart it’s not about doing 12
hours a day like I used to do didn’t
help me out cut my back oh right not fun
but
working smart is about finding hacks
finding ways to get a lot done with very
minimal effort but you see a lot of us
we get caught in the happiness trap
because we feel the harder we work the
more we will be rewarded have you ever
noticed that the people who do
everything end up with nothing and the
people that do nothing end up with
everything maybe the universe is just
trying to tell you a little something
better pay attention baby right and also
things catching people in the happiness
trap got him new clothes once again
everything looks better in the shop
window until you take it home and then
you go back to the shop window because
everything looks better in the shop
window right so I always get caught up
in this happiness trap I say oh I want
that new shirt it’s gonna make me happy
but you see you get the new shirt and
now it’s like you just ejaculated mmm
you go to sleep right not me I’m up all
night can I get a hello there right so
what happens you begin to realize that
actually this is not making me so happy
you’re a woman maybe you get some high
heels right so stereotypical right but
it still doesn’t make you happy you got
the new louie v bag right you thought it
would make you happy didn’t you didn’t
you darling but you’re still not happy
right you’re still scratching your
wiggle whoa scratching your hair right
you’re still not happy because you see
happiness is not something
that can come in the form of material
possessions because that is transitory
right it’s gonna fade away happiness is
coat evaded from principles values and
mindsets right so what’s helped me along
my journey is just to say I’m not rich
once again I’m not wealthy no I’m
priceless can I get a hello there right
so there you have it got him I’m a
beautiful day which is out we’re just
out here in nature having fun baby where
nature by be a beautiful day infinite
waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy peace

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