The Perfect Mate – Sexology!

peace infinite waters diving deep once
again this is sexology water fire hot
cold yin yang the search for the perfect
mate where are you searching for the one
who is gonna bring an end to all our
problems who is gonna be the solution
and I find when we talk of just this
whole dynamic which is at play a lot of
us we are waiting for someone to fulfill
the void to fulfill this gap which has
been created by us and more than one
realizing that there is no perfect mate
nobody is perfect inside and out
especially there is no perfect woman and
there is no perfect man and a lot of the
times we have to meet each other halfway
to realize that when we meet someone
else we’re actually meeting another
universe we’re meeting another planet
with different rules and regulations and
essentially in my mind is when two
people are in resonance with each other
when they merge when they essentially
begin singing the same song and on the
same frequency but this whole notion
that we’re gonna find someone who is
gonna magically transform us a lot of
people are searching for someone to
massage their ego a lot of people are
searching for someone to do the work for
them to do their inner work for them and
for me I’ve just realised that
everything flows into harmony because
essentially when we work on ourselves
and essentially we attract the right
person to us at that time but it’s
always changing and every single partner
we’ve ever had has essentially just been
a teacher all the partners we’ve had are
just teaching us more about ourselves
and what we need to move on to another
partner
we essentially grow but essentially
there comes a time where
two people just accept themselves and
are on the same resonance and really
that’s where the real co-creation starts
but a lot of the times we have been sold
this fantasy through media through
parents and all of these things and does
it exist that’s the question because a
lot of people are still it’s just like
this whole dating thing which is going
on a lot of people don’t have time to
actually talk to people so what do they
do they are using dating internet dating
they’re using they everyone wants a
quick fix and essentially what happens
is that in my mind I’ve come to the
realization that when you are meeting
someone especially a potential mate you
have to spend time with them there’s no
quick fix because we live in a fast food
culture not only through food but this
has tribe in this is translate food love
culture we want it now we want it quick
but essentially that’s what’s happening
we’re building a house with very little
in very little time and it’s no wonder
is crumbling before our eyes so
essentially for me I always say build
the foundation and realize that because
essentially when two people are dating
this whole dating thing is two people
selling each other a fantasy we’re not
really tapping into the person who they
really are and essentially that’s what
is gonna make the relationship last when
two people really see themselves naked
and accept each other but perfect forget
about it or maybe not
infinite waters diving deep enjoying the breeze peace