peace infinite waters diving deep once
again how to erase failure from your
mind what’s the difference between
failure and success success is what I
want failure is what I don’t have can I
get a Hello now I always talk to people
when I’m along my travels and what a lot
of people tell me is that the biggest
struggle they are dealing with in life
is overcoming the fear of being a
failure nobody wants to fail okay
growing up skating I realized something
very important about failure now in
becoming our greatest versions if you
escape you realize that you’re gonna
have to fail a lot okay that’s just part
of it because anything which we are
doing where we’re learning we’re gonna
have to fail but you find a great secret
because if you want to learn a new trick
in skating you have to go to the next
level but more so you have to fail first
so failing first becomes the entrance
into infinite possibilities what is the
difference between the master and the
beginner the master has failed
more times than the beginner has even
tried now okay two people someone who
sings X
people praise them all around the world
but the perception they have of
themselves is that they can’t hit a
particular note so they are a Fania okay
someone who the well says is a terrible
singer now in their mind they can sink
and they love to sink okay even in the
shower in the supermarket in front of
you they think they are the best thing
since sliced bread so they are a success
you see failure and success is relative
to how we are experiencing a particular
moment in time which is emanating from
our perception okay and I’ve found tools
which have helped me along my journey in
becoming my greatest version I’m gonna
share with share them with you okay no
failure I say there is no failure there
is only success no no there is no
success either what am I talking about
I’m talking about how our mind creates a
mirage of separation between what we
want and what we don’t have what if we
just enjoy the experience what if we
just enjoy the process that has helped
me erase failure from my mind
also success because now it’s not about
success or failure it’s about realizing
whatever I do is creating more balance
and I’m loving every single moment okay
look we are human beings we are not
designed to be perfect we are created to
be real at every single moment now you
are a judge if you feel you are a
failure
you see
many of us we feel like we are failures
because we’re being bombarded with
what’s on the TV songs telling us we’re
no good but we have to start taking
responsibility and then we realize wait
a minute it’s us it’s how we are seeing
ourselves coming from our belief system
but more so because we’re very
judgmental on ourselves are you
embarrassed about yourself do you feel
ashamed about yourself
chances are you feel like a failure
so guess what every time you do
something you go somewhere you commit to
a task you don’t feel like you are good
enough because you are going to trial
every single day so if you remove the
judge then you remove going to trial and
now well you can just relax
you are free but as long as you are
going to trial you always feel like
you’ve done something wrong think about
it change your story this has been one
of the most empowering tools I’ve used
all of my Jenny you see our beliefs we
hold about ourselves forms and shapes
our story now our story isn’t
necessarily true you see what happens is
that we take from certain events people
circumstances and we form this story
which we call reality which is really
part of our imagination and we say I’m a
failure because I didn’t pass the exam
I’m a failure because I don’t look like
that bikini model I’m a failure because
I don’t have big muscles I’m a failure
because I don’t live in that house I’m a
failure because because of what because
you’re comparing yourself to other
people
you see failure
only exists when you compare yourself to
other people success only exists when
you compare yourself to other people
because that’s how the two dynamics work
but when you are living in a league of
your own success and failure become less
important and now you step into the
feeling the experience the moment you
see it’s all chemicals going off
oxytocin cortisol okay we are run on
chemicals so failure is a chemical maybe
its cortisol okay that hormone being
that stress hormone being pumped around
the bloodstream now you’ve got anxiety
you got panic attacks you’re waking up
at 3 a.m. in the morning okay but
success might be oxytocin you’re
trusting people now okay so we have to
realize how they aren’t just chemicals
so it’s about feeling good about what we
are doing instead of wanting an outcome
realizing what we already have instead
of just wanting something else because
whenever you want something you’re
sending a signal to the universe that
you don’t have what you desire therefore
you will always remain in LAC okay and
lack mean stress stress on a chemical
level cortisol means failure right we’re
getting somewhere
the words I am a failure I haven’t said
that for nearly 10 years because that
doesn’t exist doesn’t exist in my
reality whatever I create is gold is
diamond
is epic why because I choose to live an
epic lifestyle
therefore I attract amazing epic people
into my life that belief system is
serving me okay
I just programmed that in there okay but
if I say I’m a failure now we are
justifying where we find ourselves we
are stepping into the victim role which
has become a very convenient way of
living because now we don’t have to do
anything you see if I say I’m a failure
guess what I don’t have to try skating
in Venice
you see people trying to do a trick
every single time they’re failing
perseverance when you fail one time
you’ve just found another way off how
much do something powerful stuff ask
questions about why you think you are
failure you see it all goes back to our
childhood when someone said you’re no
good okay and we believe that you see
failure only exists if you believe in it
so question yourself as to why do I
believe in it more so how is it serving
me even if I do believe in it and this
helps erase failure from our mind what
else have fun
what’s help me along my journey is
having fun loosening up look are we
being graded here right now I don’t
think so so failure goodbye have you
ever noticed when people are very
serious failure becomes a very big
problem when you’re really trying to get
it right you start making a lot of
mistakes when you just relax
you just floating about everything goes
your way because you’re not expecting a
certain outcome you are allowing yeah
as children we’re playing on the swings
laughing having fun watching the Ducks
go by no failure but now we’re suited
we’re ready to go to work
lots of failure in our mind because
we’re trying to fit in
we try to be acceptable we’re trying to
be perfect with perfection comes the
fear of failure letting go of perfection
is where perfection begins I say we are
worthy
there is no perfection for me there is
no success there is just this moment and
in this moment I create abundance have a
wonderful day enjoy yourself
infinite waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy
again how to erase failure from your
mind what’s the difference between
failure and success success is what I
want failure is what I don’t have can I
get a Hello now I always talk to people
when I’m along my travels and what a lot
of people tell me is that the biggest
struggle they are dealing with in life
is overcoming the fear of being a
failure nobody wants to fail okay
growing up skating I realized something
very important about failure now in
becoming our greatest versions if you
escape you realize that you’re gonna
have to fail a lot okay that’s just part
of it because anything which we are
doing where we’re learning we’re gonna
have to fail but you find a great secret
because if you want to learn a new trick
in skating you have to go to the next
level but more so you have to fail first
so failing first becomes the entrance
into infinite possibilities what is the
difference between the master and the
beginner the master has failed
more times than the beginner has even
tried now okay two people someone who
sings X
people praise them all around the world
but the perception they have of
themselves is that they can’t hit a
particular note so they are a Fania okay
someone who the well says is a terrible
singer now in their mind they can sink
and they love to sink okay even in the
shower in the supermarket in front of
you they think they are the best thing
since sliced bread so they are a success
you see failure and success is relative
to how we are experiencing a particular
moment in time which is emanating from
our perception okay and I’ve found tools
which have helped me along my journey in
becoming my greatest version I’m gonna
share with share them with you okay no
failure I say there is no failure there
is only success no no there is no
success either what am I talking about
I’m talking about how our mind creates a
mirage of separation between what we
want and what we don’t have what if we
just enjoy the experience what if we
just enjoy the process that has helped
me erase failure from my mind
also success because now it’s not about
success or failure it’s about realizing
whatever I do is creating more balance
and I’m loving every single moment okay
look we are human beings we are not
designed to be perfect we are created to
be real at every single moment now you
are a judge if you feel you are a
failure
you see
many of us we feel like we are failures
because we’re being bombarded with
what’s on the TV songs telling us we’re
no good but we have to start taking
responsibility and then we realize wait
a minute it’s us it’s how we are seeing
ourselves coming from our belief system
but more so because we’re very
judgmental on ourselves are you
embarrassed about yourself do you feel
ashamed about yourself
chances are you feel like a failure
so guess what every time you do
something you go somewhere you commit to
a task you don’t feel like you are good
enough because you are going to trial
every single day so if you remove the
judge then you remove going to trial and
now well you can just relax
you are free but as long as you are
going to trial you always feel like
you’ve done something wrong think about
it change your story this has been one
of the most empowering tools I’ve used
all of my Jenny you see our beliefs we
hold about ourselves forms and shapes
our story now our story isn’t
necessarily true you see what happens is
that we take from certain events people
circumstances and we form this story
which we call reality which is really
part of our imagination and we say I’m a
failure because I didn’t pass the exam
I’m a failure because I don’t look like
that bikini model I’m a failure because
I don’t have big muscles I’m a failure
because I don’t live in that house I’m a
failure because because of what because
you’re comparing yourself to other
people
you see failure
only exists when you compare yourself to
other people success only exists when
you compare yourself to other people
because that’s how the two dynamics work
but when you are living in a league of
your own success and failure become less
important and now you step into the
feeling the experience the moment you
see it’s all chemicals going off
oxytocin cortisol okay we are run on
chemicals so failure is a chemical maybe
its cortisol okay that hormone being
that stress hormone being pumped around
the bloodstream now you’ve got anxiety
you got panic attacks you’re waking up
at 3 a.m. in the morning okay but
success might be oxytocin you’re
trusting people now okay so we have to
realize how they aren’t just chemicals
so it’s about feeling good about what we
are doing instead of wanting an outcome
realizing what we already have instead
of just wanting something else because
whenever you want something you’re
sending a signal to the universe that
you don’t have what you desire therefore
you will always remain in LAC okay and
lack mean stress stress on a chemical
level cortisol means failure right we’re
getting somewhere
the words I am a failure I haven’t said
that for nearly 10 years because that
doesn’t exist doesn’t exist in my
reality whatever I create is gold is
diamond
is epic why because I choose to live an
epic lifestyle
therefore I attract amazing epic people
into my life that belief system is
serving me okay
I just programmed that in there okay but
if I say I’m a failure now we are
justifying where we find ourselves we
are stepping into the victim role which
has become a very convenient way of
living because now we don’t have to do
anything you see if I say I’m a failure
guess what I don’t have to try skating
in Venice
you see people trying to do a trick
every single time they’re failing
perseverance when you fail one time
you’ve just found another way off how
much do something powerful stuff ask
questions about why you think you are
failure you see it all goes back to our
childhood when someone said you’re no
good okay and we believe that you see
failure only exists if you believe in it
so question yourself as to why do I
believe in it more so how is it serving
me even if I do believe in it and this
helps erase failure from our mind what
else have fun
what’s help me along my journey is
having fun loosening up look are we
being graded here right now I don’t
think so so failure goodbye have you
ever noticed when people are very
serious failure becomes a very big
problem when you’re really trying to get
it right you start making a lot of
mistakes when you just relax
you just floating about everything goes
your way because you’re not expecting a
certain outcome you are allowing yeah
as children we’re playing on the swings
laughing having fun watching the Ducks
go by no failure but now we’re suited
we’re ready to go to work
lots of failure in our mind because
we’re trying to fit in
we try to be acceptable we’re trying to
be perfect with perfection comes the
fear of failure letting go of perfection
is where perfection begins I say we are
worthy
there is no perfection for me there is
no success there is just this moment and
in this moment I create abundance have a
wonderful day enjoy yourself
infinite waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy
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