peace infinite waters diving deep once
again Robert Downey jr. shows out can I
get a hello this is a perfect example of
energetic boundaries I talk about a lot
about intuitive empaths soaking up other
people’s energy so what happened Robert
Downey jr. was promoting his new film he
was being interviewed by Krishnan
guru-murthy now it was all going fine
but towards the end of the interview
Krishnan asked a very personal question
about Roberts previous history with
drugs and alcohol and Robert just walked
out of the interview he didn’t want to
go there he was clearly uncomfortable
and many times only see situations like
these do we feel he did the right thing
should he have just stayed and answered
about his past because he was there just
to promote a movie or should he just
have walked out let me give you a
perspective because so many people deal
with this day to day sometimes people
pin our backs against the wall and they
ask us really awkward questions when
we’re talking about something totally
different why do they do that we don’t
know many times like in this situation
when you stand up for yourself when you
set a positive energetic boundary that
is only ever a good thing why because
there is nothing bad about it you are
free to walk out and leave
as you choose and two of my favorite
psychologists for its pearls Carl Rogers
now Fritz Perls when he was in
counseling sessions he would really just
be like that interviewer he would ask
you really big questions and you had to
spill the beans on the other hand that
was very successful as well Carl Rogers
saw every client with unconditional
positive regard therefore it wasn’t
about just delving into someone’s past
it was about that other person revealing
their past to you if they want but you
see both of these psychologists were in
the right setting to do it therefore I
always advocate whenever you feel under
pressure don’t feel you have to please
everyone don’t feel it’s your right to
be a yes person because when he walked
out of that interview that is like
someone saying no at first it appears
very rude but then you have to ask
yourself both of them probably really
nice people in real life but he’s here
to promote a film the other person is
working for the media not to help fix
his past so his business as usual so
business and your personal life don’t
have to mix if you’re just there to talk
about a film you see but compassion
that’s the big thing that’s what Carl
Rogers was so good at if you want to get
personal with someone
you can’t do it by hiding them if you
want to help someone you can’t do it by
being forceful it doesn’t work that way
when you take off pressure people can
now open up to you so through this in
becoming your greatest version just
remind yourself setting energetic
boundaries which are healthy which
empower you mean actuality be a sign of
grease strength even from the outside
they may be considered weaknesses but
inside if you feel empowered wonderful
celebrate because we are not here to
live up to other people’s expectations
of us we are here to stay true to our
authentic feeling so I just found it
fascinating I’ll be doing more of these
stories and then tying it in with
becoming your greatest version have a
wonderful day we are here infinite
waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy
again Robert Downey jr. shows out can I
get a hello this is a perfect example of
energetic boundaries I talk about a lot
about intuitive empaths soaking up other
people’s energy so what happened Robert
Downey jr. was promoting his new film he
was being interviewed by Krishnan
guru-murthy now it was all going fine
but towards the end of the interview
Krishnan asked a very personal question
about Roberts previous history with
drugs and alcohol and Robert just walked
out of the interview he didn’t want to
go there he was clearly uncomfortable
and many times only see situations like
these do we feel he did the right thing
should he have just stayed and answered
about his past because he was there just
to promote a movie or should he just
have walked out let me give you a
perspective because so many people deal
with this day to day sometimes people
pin our backs against the wall and they
ask us really awkward questions when
we’re talking about something totally
different why do they do that we don’t
know many times like in this situation
when you stand up for yourself when you
set a positive energetic boundary that
is only ever a good thing why because
there is nothing bad about it you are
free to walk out and leave
as you choose and two of my favorite
psychologists for its pearls Carl Rogers
now Fritz Perls when he was in
counseling sessions he would really just
be like that interviewer he would ask
you really big questions and you had to
spill the beans on the other hand that
was very successful as well Carl Rogers
saw every client with unconditional
positive regard therefore it wasn’t
about just delving into someone’s past
it was about that other person revealing
their past to you if they want but you
see both of these psychologists were in
the right setting to do it therefore I
always advocate whenever you feel under
pressure don’t feel you have to please
everyone don’t feel it’s your right to
be a yes person because when he walked
out of that interview that is like
someone saying no at first it appears
very rude but then you have to ask
yourself both of them probably really
nice people in real life but he’s here
to promote a film the other person is
working for the media not to help fix
his past so his business as usual so
business and your personal life don’t
have to mix if you’re just there to talk
about a film you see but compassion
that’s the big thing that’s what Carl
Rogers was so good at if you want to get
personal with someone
you can’t do it by hiding them if you
want to help someone you can’t do it by
being forceful it doesn’t work that way
when you take off pressure people can
now open up to you so through this in
becoming your greatest version just
remind yourself setting energetic
boundaries which are healthy which
empower you mean actuality be a sign of
grease strength even from the outside
they may be considered weaknesses but
inside if you feel empowered wonderful
celebrate because we are not here to
live up to other people’s expectations
of us we are here to stay true to our
authentic feeling so I just found it
fascinating I’ll be doing more of these
stories and then tying it in with
becoming your greatest version have a
wonderful day we are here infinite
waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy
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