he’s infinite waters diving deep once
again welcome to another episode of the
q and A’s we’re out here in nature
breathing in that beautiful prana can I
get a hello and if you’re a new member
make yourself cozy make yourself at home
take off your shoes
and don’t be shy to send us in question
where you gonna send it infinite waters
gmail.com so thank you to everyone who’s
been diving into the q and A’s we love
doing these first question someone wrote
in asking is enlightenment for everyone
they see certain people on planet earth
with psychopathic tendencies and they’re
saying hang on a minute something isn’t
right those people over there aren’t
gonna find enlightenment and they’re
seeing people over here who are very
so-called righteous they’re becoming
that greatest version they’re very
spiritual disciplined and they’re
wondering if they are also gonna find
enlightenment in a nutshell they want to
know is enlightenment available to
everyone
that’s a great question let me share
what’s helped me along my journey is
realizing that enlightenment is knowing
how much you don’t know
I am very enlightened why because I know
I don’t know much I don’t know anything
because I can say that I now become wise
when the cup is empty more can come in
the cup when the glass is full is over
because if we look at it from a broader
perspective we often think of
enlightenment as finding Nirvana
finding heaven being at peace with
yourself free from all material
possessions all stress and now you’ve
landed on cloud nine with a big smile on
your face many of us we feel
enlightenment is the final destination
what helped me along my journey was
realizing there was no final destination
life in itself is never ending journey
so I realized that we talked of
enlightenment we’re talking about
illumination you see when you ask is
enlightenment available to everyone you
have to also include do we all have a
choice you see do we have a choice to
choose what path what direction we’re
gonna take in life many people choose to
become their greatest versions to help
the planet and some don’t
now is there a difference between these
two people one that chooses to become
their greatest version
and one that doesn’t know how to do but
there are consequences
I say enlightenment is available to
everyone because once again
enlightenment is knowing how much you
don’t know spirituality in its essence
is not something that you practice it is
who you are
let me repeat her spirituality is not
something that you practice it is who
you are if someone is a psychopath then
guess what they are still spiritual they
are still energy if someone is very
righteous and showing the world how
righteous they are guess what they are
still spiritual spiritual coming from
the Latin spiritus which means – we’re
talking about spirals same as inspire
spiral spiral spiral away okay we’re
some people become inspired when they
see people who are able to leave these
material possessions behind we get
inspired we feel like enlightenment will
be the end of our problems you have to
ask yourself very clearly who is
defining enlightenment to simplify
things even further I say it is
available to everyone but even more
importantly what’s more important than
finding enlightenment
if being happy where you are right now
you see it’s never where you are it’s
where you are you can become a peace
with yourself you if you can become a
peace with yourself you will see you are
already enlightened let me know how that
helped okay the second question someone
got caught cheating in a relationship
now many of us when we in a relationship
it’s it goes really well to begin with
right
sometimes you’re smiling you’re happy
you’re shining both of you are glowing
why how come in the beginning the
relationship is going perfect but
somewhere in the middle and somewhere
three-quarters in it starts to go a
little haywire simply because in the
beginning of the relationship we have
very little expectation but also many of
you wrote in that you caught your
partner lying cheating and you don’t
know whether to stay or go now I can’t
tell you what to do there because I
don’t want to take the blame I can share
with your perspective you see deep down
in our hearts we all know why we are in
that relationship certain times there
are lessons to be learned many times is
because we are also attracting that
person into our personal space we are
choosing to be there it’s a mutual
agreement
other times we’re there because we don’t
want to be alone so you have to ask
yourself hey why why or why am I in that
relationship am I in it because I want
to be validated am I in the relationship
because I want to be trusted I want to
trust I’m in it because of love when you
question them and you question to ask
yourself can I really connect with this
person in a very truthful way
communication appreciation passion trust
and fun the five pillar stones of a
great relationship then it becomes very
clear about what to do
look we’ve all made mistakes I have I’m
sure you probably have not maybe in that
way or we’ve all made mistakes so you
have to ask yourself does someone
deserve a second chance
ask yourself lesson foremost do I
deserve a second chance
has this person been doing this or is it
something they just have done and once
we ask ourselves that it now becomes
very clear about what is the next step
to take you see we now are able to let
you are acting not from a place of being
in a lot of anger and hatred no you are
acting and making that decision based on
both of your needs what will help both
of you grow and become your greatest
versions many times people cheat and lie
and they’re sorry and we can accept that
but if they keep doing it then we have
to say wait a minute wait a minute I’m
not a dummy I’m not gonna keep doing
this and just staying and you have to
become your greatest version and know
your true worth because nobody deserves
to be treated like a doormat no we’re
better than that but take time to
breathe in that beautiful prana to
meditate to take care of yourself and
then the answer will come but the answer
only comes when you are very calm as
soon as we see someone is cheating lying
we want to go crazy we want to do
something terrible to them well calm
wave the calm way is the best way and
the last question it’s all about trying
too hard someone wrote in saying that
they’re trying too hard to impress
people and it’s gotten to the point
where now they can’t tell the difference
if they want to impress themselves well
they want to impress other people so
they wanted to know how do I know if I’m
impressing how do I know if I’m
impressing myself or if I’m impressing
other people okay
now the lines are getting blurred let me
share with you will help me along my
journey now I share with the world daily
I’m doing consultations I’m always on
camera
if I’m wearing this shirt I love it you
may love it but if you don’t love it
what am I gonna do to know if you are
impressing yourself first you have to
ask yourself how does this make me feel
maybe it’s in what you’re dressing where
you’re going the parties the car you’re
driving the relationship you’re in
showing it to the world
first and foremost ask yourself how does
this make me feel am i being authentic
where I am right now and also am i doing
it for the praise because it’s okay to
you have to realize we are
interdependent beings not independent
beings but interdependent beings so it’s
wonderful when someone pays us a
compliment at the same time if we are
just people pleasing all the time many
times we lose our authenticity so the
greater question should be am i
authentic can I become authentic do I
love myself 100% do I accept myself 100%
do I care what other people think of me
because not caring what other people
think of you is the greatest way to love
yourself once you love yourself you
actually love other people even more and
now you’re really an empress and they’re
gonna be very surprised so ask yourself
what way is what
steps are you taking to move more into
yours and isset e once you do that it’s
very easy to differentiate whether or
not you are impressing yourself or you
want to impress other people and then
you’ll probably see that you are
impressing yourself and the by-product
is making other people impressed how
about that
did I just say how about that wonderful
so there you have it if you’ve got a
question don’t be shy I love doing these
q and A’s become your greatest version
have a wonderful week realize there are
no mistakes only stepping stones to
become your greatest version and if
you’ve got a question send it in
infinite waters at gmail.com find us on
Instagram infinite waters find us on
Facebook infinite waters world Ralph’s
smile and there you have it okay enjoy
your day
infinite waters diving team once again stay well stay healthy
again welcome to another episode of the
q and A’s we’re out here in nature
breathing in that beautiful prana can I
get a hello and if you’re a new member
make yourself cozy make yourself at home
take off your shoes
and don’t be shy to send us in question
where you gonna send it infinite waters
gmail.com so thank you to everyone who’s
been diving into the q and A’s we love
doing these first question someone wrote
in asking is enlightenment for everyone
they see certain people on planet earth
with psychopathic tendencies and they’re
saying hang on a minute something isn’t
right those people over there aren’t
gonna find enlightenment and they’re
seeing people over here who are very
so-called righteous they’re becoming
that greatest version they’re very
spiritual disciplined and they’re
wondering if they are also gonna find
enlightenment in a nutshell they want to
know is enlightenment available to
everyone
that’s a great question let me share
what’s helped me along my journey is
realizing that enlightenment is knowing
how much you don’t know
I am very enlightened why because I know
I don’t know much I don’t know anything
because I can say that I now become wise
when the cup is empty more can come in
the cup when the glass is full is over
because if we look at it from a broader
perspective we often think of
enlightenment as finding Nirvana
finding heaven being at peace with
yourself free from all material
possessions all stress and now you’ve
landed on cloud nine with a big smile on
your face many of us we feel
enlightenment is the final destination
what helped me along my journey was
realizing there was no final destination
life in itself is never ending journey
so I realized that we talked of
enlightenment we’re talking about
illumination you see when you ask is
enlightenment available to everyone you
have to also include do we all have a
choice you see do we have a choice to
choose what path what direction we’re
gonna take in life many people choose to
become their greatest versions to help
the planet and some don’t
now is there a difference between these
two people one that chooses to become
their greatest version
and one that doesn’t know how to do but
there are consequences
I say enlightenment is available to
everyone because once again
enlightenment is knowing how much you
don’t know spirituality in its essence
is not something that you practice it is
who you are
let me repeat her spirituality is not
something that you practice it is who
you are if someone is a psychopath then
guess what they are still spiritual they
are still energy if someone is very
righteous and showing the world how
righteous they are guess what they are
still spiritual spiritual coming from
the Latin spiritus which means – we’re
talking about spirals same as inspire
spiral spiral spiral away okay we’re
some people become inspired when they
see people who are able to leave these
material possessions behind we get
inspired we feel like enlightenment will
be the end of our problems you have to
ask yourself very clearly who is
defining enlightenment to simplify
things even further I say it is
available to everyone but even more
importantly what’s more important than
finding enlightenment
if being happy where you are right now
you see it’s never where you are it’s
where you are you can become a peace
with yourself you if you can become a
peace with yourself you will see you are
already enlightened let me know how that
helped okay the second question someone
got caught cheating in a relationship
now many of us when we in a relationship
it’s it goes really well to begin with
right
sometimes you’re smiling you’re happy
you’re shining both of you are glowing
why how come in the beginning the
relationship is going perfect but
somewhere in the middle and somewhere
three-quarters in it starts to go a
little haywire simply because in the
beginning of the relationship we have
very little expectation but also many of
you wrote in that you caught your
partner lying cheating and you don’t
know whether to stay or go now I can’t
tell you what to do there because I
don’t want to take the blame I can share
with your perspective you see deep down
in our hearts we all know why we are in
that relationship certain times there
are lessons to be learned many times is
because we are also attracting that
person into our personal space we are
choosing to be there it’s a mutual
agreement
other times we’re there because we don’t
want to be alone so you have to ask
yourself hey why why or why am I in that
relationship am I in it because I want
to be validated am I in the relationship
because I want to be trusted I want to
trust I’m in it because of love when you
question them and you question to ask
yourself can I really connect with this
person in a very truthful way
communication appreciation passion trust
and fun the five pillar stones of a
great relationship then it becomes very
clear about what to do
look we’ve all made mistakes I have I’m
sure you probably have not maybe in that
way or we’ve all made mistakes so you
have to ask yourself does someone
deserve a second chance
ask yourself lesson foremost do I
deserve a second chance
has this person been doing this or is it
something they just have done and once
we ask ourselves that it now becomes
very clear about what is the next step
to take you see we now are able to let
you are acting not from a place of being
in a lot of anger and hatred no you are
acting and making that decision based on
both of your needs what will help both
of you grow and become your greatest
versions many times people cheat and lie
and they’re sorry and we can accept that
but if they keep doing it then we have
to say wait a minute wait a minute I’m
not a dummy I’m not gonna keep doing
this and just staying and you have to
become your greatest version and know
your true worth because nobody deserves
to be treated like a doormat no we’re
better than that but take time to
breathe in that beautiful prana to
meditate to take care of yourself and
then the answer will come but the answer
only comes when you are very calm as
soon as we see someone is cheating lying
we want to go crazy we want to do
something terrible to them well calm
wave the calm way is the best way and
the last question it’s all about trying
too hard someone wrote in saying that
they’re trying too hard to impress
people and it’s gotten to the point
where now they can’t tell the difference
if they want to impress themselves well
they want to impress other people so
they wanted to know how do I know if I’m
impressing how do I know if I’m
impressing myself or if I’m impressing
other people okay
now the lines are getting blurred let me
share with you will help me along my
journey now I share with the world daily
I’m doing consultations I’m always on
camera
if I’m wearing this shirt I love it you
may love it but if you don’t love it
what am I gonna do to know if you are
impressing yourself first you have to
ask yourself how does this make me feel
maybe it’s in what you’re dressing where
you’re going the parties the car you’re
driving the relationship you’re in
showing it to the world
first and foremost ask yourself how does
this make me feel am i being authentic
where I am right now and also am i doing
it for the praise because it’s okay to
you have to realize we are
interdependent beings not independent
beings but interdependent beings so it’s
wonderful when someone pays us a
compliment at the same time if we are
just people pleasing all the time many
times we lose our authenticity so the
greater question should be am i
authentic can I become authentic do I
love myself 100% do I accept myself 100%
do I care what other people think of me
because not caring what other people
think of you is the greatest way to love
yourself once you love yourself you
actually love other people even more and
now you’re really an empress and they’re
gonna be very surprised so ask yourself
what way is what
steps are you taking to move more into
yours and isset e once you do that it’s
very easy to differentiate whether or
not you are impressing yourself or you
want to impress other people and then
you’ll probably see that you are
impressing yourself and the by-product
is making other people impressed how
about that
did I just say how about that wonderful
so there you have it if you’ve got a
question don’t be shy I love doing these
q and A’s become your greatest version
have a wonderful week realize there are
no mistakes only stepping stones to
become your greatest version and if
you’ve got a question send it in
infinite waters at gmail.com find us on
Instagram infinite waters find us on
Facebook infinite waters world Ralph’s
smile and there you have it okay enjoy
your day
infinite waters diving team once again stay well stay healthy
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