peace infinite waters diving deep once
again welcome to another episode of the
Q&A Sundays let’s have some fun can I
get a Hello shout out to all the deep
divers out there if you’ve got a
question or a topic Instagram at
infinite waters okay before we start let
me just say you’ve been seeing daily
videos on this channel for a long time
and I love doing the daily videos I’m
always gonna do them but I also have my
website which that’s where they are put
first so if you want the Q&A and the
daily videos to remain on this channel
then let me know by giving this video
three thousand likes it’s not about the
likes is just about letting me know you
deep divers want the daily videos you
want the Q&A is on this channel if not
well I’ll still post but the daily
videos they won’t be in the same way
they’ve been coming so let me know if
you’re a deep diamond and you want the
daily videos and the q and A’s okay the
Q&A Sundays we’ve got a question about
cookus that’s right we’ve got a question
about being fearless developing balls of
steel or uterus of steel if you won and
we’ve got a question about finding your
life purpose and sticking at it being
disciplined okay which one are we gonna
start with let’s go with Cougars so I
got a question from older woman how you
doing today she wrote in saying that
society might call her a cougar what’s
that that’s a woman who is dating
someone who is a lot younger than her
right maybe she’s 60 and the guy is 30
that’s a cougar she says that she
watched this film called how Stella got
her groove
and she’s wondering can women old women
really get their groove back with
younger guys without there being a
stigma around it because let’s face it
you go guys to an ad sometimes even 90
dating women who are 20 and well I uh
who guess but when a woman does it a lot
of us we raise our eyebrows so is this
just double standards or what well let
me share with you a perspective I always
say it is nobody’s business who you are
dealing that’s between you and that guy
now first of all all of those are labels
all right Society societies just said
you’re a cougar because it’s afraid that
you’re gonna fall in love do you know
how rare love is these days I always say
if you love anything or anybody that’s a
good thing but what you’ve got to ask
yourself and this where this is this is
where it gets really tricky
psychologically is that you see many
so-called Cougars who are dating younger
men they might have a lot of
insecurities I’ve gotten messages from
thousands of women who are Cougars over
the years who say well I’m dating this
young guy and sometimes I feel I don’t
feel confident I don’t sometimes feel I
look good enough because he sometimes
socializing with younger females right
so if you are so-called cougar you’ve
got to be a hundred percent confident a
hundred percent trustworthy for yourself
that you’ve got it you’ve got the X
Factor and as well
you’ve got to remind yourself that love
has no age that’s right love has no
boundaries that’s right and be grateful
that you can actually love someone I
always love to see people in love it
doesn’t matter what age difference once
you’re adults
and that choice is yours but you have to
ask yourself can you handle it you see
the Cougars that pull it off well
they’re proud they’re happy and they
don’t care so be bold today the second
question we’ve got is about being
fearless on the Instagram a guy wrote in
saying that he’s a skateboarder when
you’re a skateboarder you’ve got to drop
in you’ve got to do you’re always
pushing yourself to go to the next level
and I’ve made a video called how to
overcome your fear he wants me to ask
wanted to ask me is there other ways to
become fearless right some tips well
every day I always say fear is like a
cold shower you have to take at least
three times a day
what that’s right at least three times
or even five sometimes because you see a
lot of us we’re so used to our comfort
zone never allow your comfort zone to
become your secret prison so sometimes I
do videos in suits sometimes I do videos
in tank tops sometimes I do videos with
no top and it’s wonderful because it’s a
fear thing right a lot of us we’re so
used to being one way we’re so used to
society seeing us in a certain way that
once we break out we have a lot of fit
what is fear guys false evidence
appearing real you see fear doesn’t
disappear when you run away no you got
to move in fierce direction at the same
time you got to realize that consistency
is what makes you face your fear right
sometimes if you’re skating or whatever
you’re doing maybe you’re afraid of
someone right making eye contact is
scary I know don’t worry about it you’ve
got a practice every single day you’ve
got to take one step closer to that fear
every single day you gotta also
feel how the fear feels at that precise
moment you see a lot of these times it’s
not the fear we’re afraid of
it’s the feeling that arises out of what
we feel let me say that again many times
it’s not the fear we’re afraid of
it’s the feeling that arises out of the
fear for instance I’m about to give a
public talk right I started making
videos a long time ago
when I first started I was scared that’s
an understatement
but as time goes on you start building
your muscles what I call the confidence
muscle and now there is nothing to be
afraid of because your vulnerability now
becomes your strength vulnerability is
your greatest strength so don’t be
afraid of being vulnerable and you can’t
be afraid of being vulnerable until you
practice being vulnerable every day and
that means moving out of your comfort
zone the third question is about life
purpose you wake up you say I don’t know
what to do okay that was me many times
for a long time I would just be waking
up and I had no discipline because you
asked about discipline on the Instagram
how to be disciplined in regards to life
purpose what happens when you don’t have
the faintest idea what to do with your
life
don’t call 999 don’t call 9-1-1 right
you’ll be fine when we talk of life
purpose the reason why so many people
feel lost the reason why so many people
feel confused is because we’re looking
at other people’s lives she’s a
Hollywood actress
I won there we’re so busy looking over
the fence that now our life becomes dull
you’ve got to go back into your
childhood passion you’ve got a
reawakening a child to really find out
your life purpose and you’ve got to take
the gamble right have a whole list of
hobbies write down 25 hobbies that don’t
involve money because work is not a
hobby right if someone’s paying you to
do something sometimes it can take the
fun out of it what do you do that nobody
tells you to do and it feels amazing you
get the most fun out of it you see
that’s what’s gonna help you stay
disciplined in your life purpose right
Monday’s gonna come tomorrow a lot of us
were like ah Monday don’t worry about it
that’s a sign that you haven’t found
your life purpose because your true life
purpose should give you more energy than
it takes now when we talk of discipline
right I love inspiring the world and
it’s just growing and growing the people
I’m connecting with talking about
becoming your greatest version right and
every day people say how can you just do
it so consistently well the secret is
you’ve got to love what you do with a
passion but more so you’ve got to
realize this whole body we have it’s a
vehicle so you can ask yourself are you
putting the right fuel in the vehicle I
love a lot of watercress first thing in
the morning a lot of cacao a lot of chia
seeds get the energy pump get get the
energy pumped up baby that’s right right
because you are what you eat and then
the mind right the attitude we have is
everything to have a positive attitude
you got to ask yourself is what I’m
doing valuable see a lot of us even
though we’re getting a lot of money in
these jobs we know it’s not really of a
value to anybody not even ourselves we
don’t even want to be
so when you really want to be somewhere
you gotta realize how fortunate you are
to be there and staying disciplined is
about waking up early letting off the
distractions right entertainment will
always be here I love entertainment but
at the same time why not create your own
entertainment and get paid off him why
not make sure that whatever you are
watching is gonna help you become your
greatest version and how about that so
there you have it that’s the Q&A Sunday
for this week but this Sunday if you
want the daily videos on this channel
and not on the website give this video
three thousand lights to let me know you
want the daily videos here okay I’m
gonna go into nature now and breathe in
that beautiful prana have a beautiful
day much love to each and every Deep
Diver we are here infinite waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy
again welcome to another episode of the
Q&A Sundays let’s have some fun can I
get a Hello shout out to all the deep
divers out there if you’ve got a
question or a topic Instagram at
infinite waters okay before we start let
me just say you’ve been seeing daily
videos on this channel for a long time
and I love doing the daily videos I’m
always gonna do them but I also have my
website which that’s where they are put
first so if you want the Q&A and the
daily videos to remain on this channel
then let me know by giving this video
three thousand likes it’s not about the
likes is just about letting me know you
deep divers want the daily videos you
want the Q&A is on this channel if not
well I’ll still post but the daily
videos they won’t be in the same way
they’ve been coming so let me know if
you’re a deep diamond and you want the
daily videos and the q and A’s okay the
Q&A Sundays we’ve got a question about
cookus that’s right we’ve got a question
about being fearless developing balls of
steel or uterus of steel if you won and
we’ve got a question about finding your
life purpose and sticking at it being
disciplined okay which one are we gonna
start with let’s go with Cougars so I
got a question from older woman how you
doing today she wrote in saying that
society might call her a cougar what’s
that that’s a woman who is dating
someone who is a lot younger than her
right maybe she’s 60 and the guy is 30
that’s a cougar she says that she
watched this film called how Stella got
her groove
and she’s wondering can women old women
really get their groove back with
younger guys without there being a
stigma around it because let’s face it
you go guys to an ad sometimes even 90
dating women who are 20 and well I uh
who guess but when a woman does it a lot
of us we raise our eyebrows so is this
just double standards or what well let
me share with you a perspective I always
say it is nobody’s business who you are
dealing that’s between you and that guy
now first of all all of those are labels
all right Society societies just said
you’re a cougar because it’s afraid that
you’re gonna fall in love do you know
how rare love is these days I always say
if you love anything or anybody that’s a
good thing but what you’ve got to ask
yourself and this where this is this is
where it gets really tricky
psychologically is that you see many
so-called Cougars who are dating younger
men they might have a lot of
insecurities I’ve gotten messages from
thousands of women who are Cougars over
the years who say well I’m dating this
young guy and sometimes I feel I don’t
feel confident I don’t sometimes feel I
look good enough because he sometimes
socializing with younger females right
so if you are so-called cougar you’ve
got to be a hundred percent confident a
hundred percent trustworthy for yourself
that you’ve got it you’ve got the X
Factor and as well
you’ve got to remind yourself that love
has no age that’s right love has no
boundaries that’s right and be grateful
that you can actually love someone I
always love to see people in love it
doesn’t matter what age difference once
you’re adults
and that choice is yours but you have to
ask yourself can you handle it you see
the Cougars that pull it off well
they’re proud they’re happy and they
don’t care so be bold today the second
question we’ve got is about being
fearless on the Instagram a guy wrote in
saying that he’s a skateboarder when
you’re a skateboarder you’ve got to drop
in you’ve got to do you’re always
pushing yourself to go to the next level
and I’ve made a video called how to
overcome your fear he wants me to ask
wanted to ask me is there other ways to
become fearless right some tips well
every day I always say fear is like a
cold shower you have to take at least
three times a day
what that’s right at least three times
or even five sometimes because you see a
lot of us we’re so used to our comfort
zone never allow your comfort zone to
become your secret prison so sometimes I
do videos in suits sometimes I do videos
in tank tops sometimes I do videos with
no top and it’s wonderful because it’s a
fear thing right a lot of us we’re so
used to being one way we’re so used to
society seeing us in a certain way that
once we break out we have a lot of fit
what is fear guys false evidence
appearing real you see fear doesn’t
disappear when you run away no you got
to move in fierce direction at the same
time you got to realize that consistency
is what makes you face your fear right
sometimes if you’re skating or whatever
you’re doing maybe you’re afraid of
someone right making eye contact is
scary I know don’t worry about it you’ve
got a practice every single day you’ve
got to take one step closer to that fear
every single day you gotta also
feel how the fear feels at that precise
moment you see a lot of these times it’s
not the fear we’re afraid of
it’s the feeling that arises out of what
we feel let me say that again many times
it’s not the fear we’re afraid of
it’s the feeling that arises out of the
fear for instance I’m about to give a
public talk right I started making
videos a long time ago
when I first started I was scared that’s
an understatement
but as time goes on you start building
your muscles what I call the confidence
muscle and now there is nothing to be
afraid of because your vulnerability now
becomes your strength vulnerability is
your greatest strength so don’t be
afraid of being vulnerable and you can’t
be afraid of being vulnerable until you
practice being vulnerable every day and
that means moving out of your comfort
zone the third question is about life
purpose you wake up you say I don’t know
what to do okay that was me many times
for a long time I would just be waking
up and I had no discipline because you
asked about discipline on the Instagram
how to be disciplined in regards to life
purpose what happens when you don’t have
the faintest idea what to do with your
life
don’t call 999 don’t call 9-1-1 right
you’ll be fine when we talk of life
purpose the reason why so many people
feel lost the reason why so many people
feel confused is because we’re looking
at other people’s lives she’s a
Hollywood actress
I won there we’re so busy looking over
the fence that now our life becomes dull
you’ve got to go back into your
childhood passion you’ve got a
reawakening a child to really find out
your life purpose and you’ve got to take
the gamble right have a whole list of
hobbies write down 25 hobbies that don’t
involve money because work is not a
hobby right if someone’s paying you to
do something sometimes it can take the
fun out of it what do you do that nobody
tells you to do and it feels amazing you
get the most fun out of it you see
that’s what’s gonna help you stay
disciplined in your life purpose right
Monday’s gonna come tomorrow a lot of us
were like ah Monday don’t worry about it
that’s a sign that you haven’t found
your life purpose because your true life
purpose should give you more energy than
it takes now when we talk of discipline
right I love inspiring the world and
it’s just growing and growing the people
I’m connecting with talking about
becoming your greatest version right and
every day people say how can you just do
it so consistently well the secret is
you’ve got to love what you do with a
passion but more so you’ve got to
realize this whole body we have it’s a
vehicle so you can ask yourself are you
putting the right fuel in the vehicle I
love a lot of watercress first thing in
the morning a lot of cacao a lot of chia
seeds get the energy pump get get the
energy pumped up baby that’s right right
because you are what you eat and then
the mind right the attitude we have is
everything to have a positive attitude
you got to ask yourself is what I’m
doing valuable see a lot of us even
though we’re getting a lot of money in
these jobs we know it’s not really of a
value to anybody not even ourselves we
don’t even want to be
so when you really want to be somewhere
you gotta realize how fortunate you are
to be there and staying disciplined is
about waking up early letting off the
distractions right entertainment will
always be here I love entertainment but
at the same time why not create your own
entertainment and get paid off him why
not make sure that whatever you are
watching is gonna help you become your
greatest version and how about that so
there you have it that’s the Q&A Sunday
for this week but this Sunday if you
want the daily videos on this channel
and not on the website give this video
three thousand lights to let me know you
want the daily videos here okay I’m
gonna go into nature now and breathe in
that beautiful prana have a beautiful
day much love to each and every Deep
Diver we are here infinite waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy
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