peace infinite waters diving deep once
again being nice is it really worth it
why most people stop being nice after
age seven can I get a Hello once upon a
time you used to share your food with
your friends do you remember that you’re
probably five or six in the playground
here you can have that because as
children we don’t really have this
concept of mine and yours there is no
separation everything is one but as you
grow up you say wait a minute
wait a minute I just spent hundreds of
dollars on this food in Whole Foods
it’s definitely mine I have there see no
you can’t have any kale no you can’t
have any coconut water so we become very
possessive of our possessions I received
a question from someone telling me that
they are very nice they’re a nice person
when we think of nice we imagine someone
being very kind compassionate they’re
sharing themselves with other people in
a very friendly way but they said is it
worth it really
because many people have taken advantage
of them and they tell me it’s hard to
find honest people these days and being
nice will only get you hurt well I’m
gonna share with you what’s helped me
along my journey I can
offer you a perspective and it’s called
my nature versus your nature after every
comment the comments I see on YouTube
what do I put thank you
much appreciated infinite love and
balance with a smile
I even reply to people who don’t put a
smile to me because that is my nature
and that is what I live so a great story
a great story to illustrate this there
are two monks who are washing their
bowls in a river as you do and a
scorpion is drowning one of the monk
notices and scoops up the scorpion and
gently lays it on the bank but in the
process he gets stone
and then they go back to washing their
bowls in the river
and somehow the Scorpion is a naughty
scorpion finds his way back in the bow
and the monk does the same thing and
guess what he also gets stung in the
process so the monk next to him says
friend why do you continue to save the
scorpion when you know its nature is to
sting because the monk replied it is my
nature to save him that’s a powerful
story so I always remind myself to be
authentic stay true to yourself it’s not
about being super nice or super
miserable it’s about being authentic
your authentic expression is the only
thing that matters what happens to so
many of us people treat us we feel very
badly so guess what we end up copying
their behavior in essence we end up
becoming their clone so guess what
someone you feel is disrespecting you
and you say they have very negative
energy so whenever you see them maybe
they’re walking down the road or even
they are your next-door neighbor guess
what
they never smile to you
so in your mind you’re thinking next
time I see them I’m not gonna smile
either so it’s a tit-for-tat game and
now you are stepping out of your
authenticity for me I smile when I feel
it is coming from an organic place and
that’s a secret
we must never we must never change who
we are just to make other people feel
comfortable because once again if we do
we fall into people-pleasing
you know how it is you go into work you
want to get that promotion and you have
to ask yourself are you really being
nice or are you just trying to get
something in return
yes sir yes ma’am thank you thank you
very much but is it coming from an
authentic place that’s a secret what
happens when we are around miserable
people show me a miserable face oh oh
now we feel bad
we feel like it’s our responsibility but
more so we feel it is very dangerous to
show who we really are to be open to be
caring to start sharing our essence so
once again we become a vibrational match
to the very thing we oppose the secret
is not to become a vibrational match to
that which you oppose but to remain in
your true authenticity in essence that
is meditation because it happens all the
time
many people once again growing up we
start out as very free very open but
going through life we get hug certain
situations experiences we want to put up
a shield to protect ourselves because we
say wait a minute the world we are
living in is not a nice place to make it
we tell ourselves you have to struggle
you have to go through the fire being
weak won’t get you anywhere being nice
being authentic it’s not about being
weak it is about being vulnerable
when you have great singers just singing
on stage pouring their heart out why is
this so powerful because they are in
their true authenticity what’s helped me
is to never feel that I’m gonna get
something back in return because a lot
of us do that I’ll scratch your back if
you scratch mine only if you scratch
mine what happens when you want to speak
your truth to the world oh oh you may
offend a lot of people so are you a bad
person no but you are remaining true to
who you are
and that’s what’s helped me along my
journey to be brave to be bold to speak
your truth and eventually you will
connect with those who remind you who
you are you will connect with people who
appreciate you for who you are I know
people who are always really smiley
people they are way smiling full of
laughter and joy but this is their
natural core frequency that’s who they
are similar to myself I love to always
raise the frequency at the same time
happy emotion very kind of stone face
yeah yeah but at the same time they are
also connected to their true
authenticity and some of these people
are very nice because they are honest
that’s the secret here it’s not about
being nice because being nice we think
is very positive and we don’t want to be
very negative but being authentic is the
balance is the equilibrium it keeps us
grounded what happens when you lend
somebody lots of money and they don’t
repay you
I’m never gonna do that again what
happens when you lend someone your car
and they crash you
I’m never gonna do that again what
happens when certain friends and family
turn on you it can start changing how we
see the world but once again I always
say to never live in the past see the
world with new eyes to tune into the
present moment in essence the power of
now nobody knows what’s gonna happen in
the next second did you see it and many
times like I say when we see people
being very nice it is often seen as a
form of weakness but it is known if it
is coming from an organic place I’ve
seen once you treat people with
compassion once you treat people with
respect it can take you very far
it can take you a long way because once
again you are connecting to their
hospice which is allowing you to connect
with your authenticity but also helping
you open up other people’s sacred space
their true authenticity so I say it is
worth it but at the same time don’t feel
your nature is someone else’s be who you
are authentically and allow people the
freedom to experience their own reality
can’t we all just get along
there you have it infinite waters diving
deep once again stay well stay healthy
peace you
again being nice is it really worth it
why most people stop being nice after
age seven can I get a Hello once upon a
time you used to share your food with
your friends do you remember that you’re
probably five or six in the playground
here you can have that because as
children we don’t really have this
concept of mine and yours there is no
separation everything is one but as you
grow up you say wait a minute
wait a minute I just spent hundreds of
dollars on this food in Whole Foods
it’s definitely mine I have there see no
you can’t have any kale no you can’t
have any coconut water so we become very
possessive of our possessions I received
a question from someone telling me that
they are very nice they’re a nice person
when we think of nice we imagine someone
being very kind compassionate they’re
sharing themselves with other people in
a very friendly way but they said is it
worth it really
because many people have taken advantage
of them and they tell me it’s hard to
find honest people these days and being
nice will only get you hurt well I’m
gonna share with you what’s helped me
along my journey I can
offer you a perspective and it’s called
my nature versus your nature after every
comment the comments I see on YouTube
what do I put thank you
much appreciated infinite love and
balance with a smile
I even reply to people who don’t put a
smile to me because that is my nature
and that is what I live so a great story
a great story to illustrate this there
are two monks who are washing their
bowls in a river as you do and a
scorpion is drowning one of the monk
notices and scoops up the scorpion and
gently lays it on the bank but in the
process he gets stone
and then they go back to washing their
bowls in the river
and somehow the Scorpion is a naughty
scorpion finds his way back in the bow
and the monk does the same thing and
guess what he also gets stung in the
process so the monk next to him says
friend why do you continue to save the
scorpion when you know its nature is to
sting because the monk replied it is my
nature to save him that’s a powerful
story so I always remind myself to be
authentic stay true to yourself it’s not
about being super nice or super
miserable it’s about being authentic
your authentic expression is the only
thing that matters what happens to so
many of us people treat us we feel very
badly so guess what we end up copying
their behavior in essence we end up
becoming their clone so guess what
someone you feel is disrespecting you
and you say they have very negative
energy so whenever you see them maybe
they’re walking down the road or even
they are your next-door neighbor guess
what
they never smile to you
so in your mind you’re thinking next
time I see them I’m not gonna smile
either so it’s a tit-for-tat game and
now you are stepping out of your
authenticity for me I smile when I feel
it is coming from an organic place and
that’s a secret
we must never we must never change who
we are just to make other people feel
comfortable because once again if we do
we fall into people-pleasing
you know how it is you go into work you
want to get that promotion and you have
to ask yourself are you really being
nice or are you just trying to get
something in return
yes sir yes ma’am thank you thank you
very much but is it coming from an
authentic place that’s a secret what
happens when we are around miserable
people show me a miserable face oh oh
now we feel bad
we feel like it’s our responsibility but
more so we feel it is very dangerous to
show who we really are to be open to be
caring to start sharing our essence so
once again we become a vibrational match
to the very thing we oppose the secret
is not to become a vibrational match to
that which you oppose but to remain in
your true authenticity in essence that
is meditation because it happens all the
time
many people once again growing up we
start out as very free very open but
going through life we get hug certain
situations experiences we want to put up
a shield to protect ourselves because we
say wait a minute the world we are
living in is not a nice place to make it
we tell ourselves you have to struggle
you have to go through the fire being
weak won’t get you anywhere being nice
being authentic it’s not about being
weak it is about being vulnerable
when you have great singers just singing
on stage pouring their heart out why is
this so powerful because they are in
their true authenticity what’s helped me
is to never feel that I’m gonna get
something back in return because a lot
of us do that I’ll scratch your back if
you scratch mine only if you scratch
mine what happens when you want to speak
your truth to the world oh oh you may
offend a lot of people so are you a bad
person no but you are remaining true to
who you are
and that’s what’s helped me along my
journey to be brave to be bold to speak
your truth and eventually you will
connect with those who remind you who
you are you will connect with people who
appreciate you for who you are I know
people who are always really smiley
people they are way smiling full of
laughter and joy but this is their
natural core frequency that’s who they
are similar to myself I love to always
raise the frequency at the same time
happy emotion very kind of stone face
yeah yeah but at the same time they are
also connected to their true
authenticity and some of these people
are very nice because they are honest
that’s the secret here it’s not about
being nice because being nice we think
is very positive and we don’t want to be
very negative but being authentic is the
balance is the equilibrium it keeps us
grounded what happens when you lend
somebody lots of money and they don’t
repay you
I’m never gonna do that again what
happens when you lend someone your car
and they crash you
I’m never gonna do that again what
happens when certain friends and family
turn on you it can start changing how we
see the world but once again I always
say to never live in the past see the
world with new eyes to tune into the
present moment in essence the power of
now nobody knows what’s gonna happen in
the next second did you see it and many
times like I say when we see people
being very nice it is often seen as a
form of weakness but it is known if it
is coming from an organic place I’ve
seen once you treat people with
compassion once you treat people with
respect it can take you very far
it can take you a long way because once
again you are connecting to their
hospice which is allowing you to connect
with your authenticity but also helping
you open up other people’s sacred space
their true authenticity so I say it is
worth it but at the same time don’t feel
your nature is someone else’s be who you
are authentically and allow people the
freedom to experience their own reality
can’t we all just get along
there you have it infinite waters diving
deep once again stay well stay healthy
peace you
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