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If Friends Acted Like Real Friends


peas and Finnick waters diving deep once
again much love to all the deep divers
out there you are appreciated if friends
acted like real friends I posted a
picture on Instagram I have no time for
shallow talk that’s right pointless
interactions fake smiles definitely no
and meaningless friendships that’s the
truth can I get a hello there so I got a
question and comment under the post lots
of them if you’ve got a question or you
want me to cover any topic Instagram
must at Infineon waters so a woman wrote
she is anti-social don’t worry about it
she says that she feels her energy is
getting drained when she’s even around
people she loves friends and family
members now she wants to know does she
have to live with this for the rest of
her life or is it something that can be
changed and that’s a great question so
first of all let’s see what would happen
if friends acted like real friends well
your interaction with them would be
energy generating how many times are you
with a bunch of friends happened to me
along my journey and you just leave them
and you feel like half your energy has
just disappeared huh where did it go
well that’s what happens when you
surround yourself with people that don’t
care about you in a nutshell
right so you have to ask yourself is it
energy-generating or energy depleting
also they would allow
to be yourself can you be yourself
around them do they get personal with
you start bringing up your childhood
memories when you are walking around in
your diapers okay can you speak your
mind to them do they help you with your
evolution right can you tell them your
deepest dirtiest secrets that’s a real
friend right there right they just don’t
want to just text you know they’ll call
you they’ll go and take you to lunch
when we talk of being around the right
company when we talk of shallow talk let
me shout out Preston smiles in LA real
dude anytime I’m in LA which is a lot he
holds me down right and when you talk of
real friendships I always say you’ve got
to remind yourself what are you worthy
of every single day your vibe attracts
your tribe and I’ve realized that but
earlier on I was like you right growing
up my mom would tell me go and talk to
that person I’m like I don’t want to
talk to them go and do it okay so I’m
just talking yeah yeah pink my heart’s
not really in it I’m just doing it to
make them happy whenever you do that you
be trouble why because now you go
against your energetic boundaries now
your energy becomes drained you see a
relationship a friendship can only work
through reciprocity everything is based
on resonance so I did the Q&A Sunday’s I
said that’s the last video unless on the
main channel you guys tell me you want
the Q&A Sundays there
the feedback was overwhelming I said
wait a minute Ralph you better wait a
minute Ralph cause we gonna be diving
every single day have you lost your mind
but it’s a two-way street you you always
got to remind yourself that sometimes
you got to shake the ocean to see what’s
inside mmm let me say that again
sometimes you got to shake the ocean to
see what’s inside so when you are around
certain those people you say you love
them but you feel like your energy is
being drained maybe change the way you
interact with them because many times we
we become a doormat for other people
they’re just talking about their holiday
here this TV program and you’re just
nodding your head you’re lying to
yourself
you better start opening your mouth you
better start speaking about what you
really are going through because that’s
how you create a more intimate
relationship just like me I’m a very
direct person you’re either gonna know
or you’re gonna know how I feel about
you I haven’t got time for games I’m
just too busy right that’s why I love
Instagram because it’s a more communal
kind of setting at infinite waters you
won’t find much on Facebook
really he won’t so I just will tell you
know what you are worthy for and
surround yourself with those who are
lift your spirit your vibe attracts your
tribe and once you take responsibility
for realizing nobody is holding you
captive it is the contrast
that you have to become aware of we
discover ourselves through contrasts
when I was in the wrong crowd
that was good they aren’t bad people I
just needed to know where I should take
my ass to which was the right company
and right now much love to all the deep
diamonds we are here for each other and
life just keeps getting better have a
beautiful day we are here infinite
waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy

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