peace and Finnick waters diving deep
once again where nature baby can I get a
Hello the why bad things happen why did
that just happen right why why can
somebody please tell me why we got a
great question in from a woman who wrote
this so lots of people are asking Ralph
where can I send you a question the best
place is the website Ralph smart calm or
Instagram me right Instagram must
infinite waters those are the only
places I check because we get thousands
of questions it’s hard to keep up so I
got a question in from a woman I
recently lost two loved ones this
holiday and had my car broken into and
purse stolen I have released these
things and have accepted the universe is
cool to let go and continue to move
forward with light and love and
forgiveness I suppose I just wanted to
ask when so many bad things happen at
once to us do you believe we attracted
such things
that’s a powerful question huh I look to
that question and said whoa that’s one
for me and the cat down the road now as
a psychologist and counselor I always
get these kinds of questions appear in
the sessions I do every single day right
let me just share with you what’s
happened to me right cuz lots of bad
stuff happens to me right and lots of
good stuff happens to me but actually no
lots of stuff happens to me and how I
see these things happen right how I see
these things happening to me is really
what determines what they will be right
so you got to start changing how you
look at certain events because nothing
is good or bad it’s all a matter of
perspective if someone for example
passes away right my grandma passed away
back in 2006 and I was going through so
much stress with the exams and just like
you everything was happening all at once
right cat down the road disappeared yeah
it really did disappear this time right
and lots of things were happening I
wasn’t eating the best so sometimes
that’s saying right when it rains it
pours when things seem to be happening
to us the most powerful way to behave is
to realize that you can’t control what
is happening to you externally let me
repeat that
you can’t control what is happening to
you externally but you can control how
you react to any situation right that’s
always in your hands I was studying
psychology as a young young gentleman
right and take responsibility that kept
appearing in the lectures right from
really great psychologists and I was
like why why should I take
responsibility for something happening
like your car got broken into that’s
definitely not my responsibility
no it isn’t but how you react is you see
because you can’t change what has just
happened but you can change your
perspective you can change your
perception you can change your attitude
to the event that has just taken place
let’s move forward you see many times
the universe will give us whatever is
most helpful for us along our journey in
becoming our greatest version so for
example for me it’s been a whole long
and winding road right life is like a
roller coaster and a roller coaster is
like this right it’s like that it’s
winding it’s not all smooth sailing
this isn’t Dawson’s Creek right so you
got to remind yourself that
life is a package life is a journey and
in this journey we are gonna get
whatever experience is most helpful for
our level of consciousness that will
help us evolve to the next level because
many times we forget that what you
perceive as bad
someone may perceive as good look your
car just got broken into right but that
could have been a trigger for you to say
okay maybe I need to be more careful of
where I leave my car so once again there
is a lesson in every experience we have
there is a lesson in whatever we go
through right so when I saw all of my
journey actually I got to become more
grateful right and that’s a great
attitude you took because when so-called
bad things do happen it is very
frustrating and you got to allow
yourself to feel that frustration there
is nothing wrong with feeling angry let
me repeat that there is nothing wrong
with feeling angry it’s okay you see
meditation which will help you in this
scenario is allowing thoughts to come
through you without judgement
because when my bike got stolen right
twice now alright that’s a lot of money
and I was very angry very frustrated and
I needed to let that out but then I
needed to put it in perspective
to say wait a minute actually I got a
whole lot going on for me you see when
you step into gratitude consciousness
you start to say actually bad things are
just happening to me
so-called bad things right lots of
different things are happening to me but
it’s a question of where I’m placing my
focus every day I wake up and say
actually yes the world isn’t perfect
lots of mind control manipulation but at
the same time life is pretty amazing you
are a miracle I am a miracle can I get a
hello there but you see it’s all about
where your focus is so you’ve seen that
meme right one person sitting to the
left one person sitting to the right to
the right to the left to the left there
sunshine there’s rainbows and to the
right there’s just the really ugly cave
right but it’s all about choosing where
you want to sit on the bus that’s the
same thing when we think bad things are
happening right now let’s go onto did
you attract them
you see I realized along my journey and
what’s helped me out is that for
instance I do a lot of skating a lot of
yoga
and I know that when I get very lazy for
instance if I’m very careless I’m eating
a lot of sometimes junk food or whatever
which is rare sometimes it is common
though don’t worry about it right what
happens it affects every other area of
my life right when you sometimes have
just come out of a heated argument you
might get into the car and have an
accident if you’re not careful because
once again one area one action affects
all other actions and areas that’s why
we practice mindfulness meditation every
day for instance if someone says Ralph I
don’t like your videos let’s just say
that right now am I gonna cry about it
or am I gonna say wait a minute we’ve
connected with over 43 million people ah
we’ve got nearly half a million
subscribers here so my focus is always
on that to realize that to go viral
through consciousness is very difficult
we’ve done that and we’re growing larger
and larger every single day width we’re
getting we’re getting thousands of
questions every single day infinite
waters right so that’s where my focus is
that’s why we keep it moving but if I
didn’t have that level of consciousness
then I might focus on one comment which
may not be serving me but I don’t I
focus on the millions of comments that
do serve me that’s why I say infinite
love and balance can I get a Hello
now if someone passes away sometimes we
think it’s a bad negative thing as
ancient saying that when someone dies a
child is born to make space right it’s
almost like the math the mathematical
equation of life right the going and
coming it’s an integral part of life and
we have to accept that that’s why the
ancient can is the Egyptians they
weren’t so obsessed with death no they
were all obsessed with life that’s why
the ankh is a symbol of life right but
they knew that we were only here for a
very very short period of time there’s a
there’s a great poet who says we live in
a flash of light even if you were to
live like I always say a million years
that’s nothing more and a drop in the
ocean of eternity so when you realize
that you are here for a very small
amount of time you have to learn how to
die every single day I do it through
meditation through not living so much
upstairs by staying on a high frequency
a high level of consciousness by
becoming mindful of the thoughts I think
by knowing they are gonna affect my
I once said a long time ago a lot of
deep divers will know this there are no
good or bad people in the universe right
there are no good or bad people in the
universe only actions and consequences
but yes of course there are people who
do some pretty foul stuff but don’t
worry about them the universe will take
care of them
you’ve got to realize that we attract
what we are we attract our embodiment
mmm that’s a new one
can I get a hello there we attract our
embodiment so every day I say ok I’m
grateful for a lot of things the more
grateful I became the more abundant I
became true story the more I focus on
the people who are showing me love the
more love came that’s why I don’t talk
about people who aren’t serving me I
make people famous I will make you
famous if I talk about you but I do talk
about amazing people who are doing great
things if I talk about you I’m gonna big
you up but not put you down you see so
you’ve got to remind yourself that we
attract our embodiment right and certain
times you’ve got to always look for the
lesson life is showing you sometimes
life will test you just to see if you
are who you say you are right I get
tested all the time it’s just that I’m a
wizard I’m an alchemist
what does that mean it means when life
when the universe gives me up out a
smack I say okay
bring it on universe but wait for it
because this is training day that means
every day are moving in alignment I’m
not taking this for granted because as a
wizard I know how this is gonna play out
when you study ancient principles
ancient wisdom you realize that when
things you think are bad happen to you
you got to become silent and then ask
yourself how bad are they certain times
here of the story someone not they were
late for work right they slept in that
day they should have been at work and
guess what there was a lightning storm
so thank goodness they didn’t go to work
so what they thought was bad actually
ended up serving them mmm can I get a
hello there
in a nutshell ask yourself today what am
i doing to reconnect back into my inner
balance and flow what am i doing to
change how I react to what I think is
bad what am i doing
to let go of thinking I can control what
happens outside of me resistance make
stronger I said my journal the moment I
let go everything came to me and that’s
many times life can become confusing
many times disorientating that’s why
it’s not what is happening outside of
you that’s the problem it is what is
taking place within you that needs to be
addressed it needs to be looked at right
it needs to be looked at because the
inner is the outer the inner thoughts
and feelings become your outer reality
I need to control how other people
perceive me no you don’t that’s none of
your business none of your business at
all
how would that serve you because
sometimes people love you one day then
they hate you it’s got nothing to do
with you right if someone passes away
celebrate their life that’s what I do
with my grandma right and I realize look
in the next 200 years everyone that’s
here right now won’t be here right
unless they get some kind of life
extension I can live with that because
life is a gift it’s part of the deal we
live in a transient universe though we
are immortal because you see what the
ancients knew so well is that you can’t
eat diamonds you see we’re trying to eat
diamonds you can’t you got to leave it
alone all of the treasure you can’t take
it with you we are the borrower’s when
you realize that you realize all your
possessions are on loan you don’t own
them you don’t even own your body it
goes back to the earth and the universe
will do whatever the universe wants to
do with it but guess what
you are the universe think about it so
change your perspective your perception
of what is happening and what is
happening will change its effect on you
because things are gonna happen oh yeah
I see even in my own journey see 2016
all those the year of unity is also the
year of a lot of purging a lot of
suppressed emotions are going to be
coming to the surface gonna see people
running around naked in the streets
going right because they’ve been burying
those emotions for so long
ask yourself what are you doing everyday
to express yourself to release tension
to get back into inner balance and then
you will see what is happening out there
is nothing more than a reflection of
what is taking place within your mind we
are breathing in that beautiful prana
baby have a beautiful day just
meditating can I get a hello hey
infinite waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy
once again where nature baby can I get a
Hello the why bad things happen why did
that just happen right why why can
somebody please tell me why we got a
great question in from a woman who wrote
this so lots of people are asking Ralph
where can I send you a question the best
place is the website Ralph smart calm or
Instagram me right Instagram must
infinite waters those are the only
places I check because we get thousands
of questions it’s hard to keep up so I
got a question in from a woman I
recently lost two loved ones this
holiday and had my car broken into and
purse stolen I have released these
things and have accepted the universe is
cool to let go and continue to move
forward with light and love and
forgiveness I suppose I just wanted to
ask when so many bad things happen at
once to us do you believe we attracted
such things
that’s a powerful question huh I look to
that question and said whoa that’s one
for me and the cat down the road now as
a psychologist and counselor I always
get these kinds of questions appear in
the sessions I do every single day right
let me just share with you what’s
happened to me right cuz lots of bad
stuff happens to me right and lots of
good stuff happens to me but actually no
lots of stuff happens to me and how I
see these things happen right how I see
these things happening to me is really
what determines what they will be right
so you got to start changing how you
look at certain events because nothing
is good or bad it’s all a matter of
perspective if someone for example
passes away right my grandma passed away
back in 2006 and I was going through so
much stress with the exams and just like
you everything was happening all at once
right cat down the road disappeared yeah
it really did disappear this time right
and lots of things were happening I
wasn’t eating the best so sometimes
that’s saying right when it rains it
pours when things seem to be happening
to us the most powerful way to behave is
to realize that you can’t control what
is happening to you externally let me
repeat that
you can’t control what is happening to
you externally but you can control how
you react to any situation right that’s
always in your hands I was studying
psychology as a young young gentleman
right and take responsibility that kept
appearing in the lectures right from
really great psychologists and I was
like why why should I take
responsibility for something happening
like your car got broken into that’s
definitely not my responsibility
no it isn’t but how you react is you see
because you can’t change what has just
happened but you can change your
perspective you can change your
perception you can change your attitude
to the event that has just taken place
let’s move forward you see many times
the universe will give us whatever is
most helpful for us along our journey in
becoming our greatest version so for
example for me it’s been a whole long
and winding road right life is like a
roller coaster and a roller coaster is
like this right it’s like that it’s
winding it’s not all smooth sailing
this isn’t Dawson’s Creek right so you
got to remind yourself that
life is a package life is a journey and
in this journey we are gonna get
whatever experience is most helpful for
our level of consciousness that will
help us evolve to the next level because
many times we forget that what you
perceive as bad
someone may perceive as good look your
car just got broken into right but that
could have been a trigger for you to say
okay maybe I need to be more careful of
where I leave my car so once again there
is a lesson in every experience we have
there is a lesson in whatever we go
through right so when I saw all of my
journey actually I got to become more
grateful right and that’s a great
attitude you took because when so-called
bad things do happen it is very
frustrating and you got to allow
yourself to feel that frustration there
is nothing wrong with feeling angry let
me repeat that there is nothing wrong
with feeling angry it’s okay you see
meditation which will help you in this
scenario is allowing thoughts to come
through you without judgement
because when my bike got stolen right
twice now alright that’s a lot of money
and I was very angry very frustrated and
I needed to let that out but then I
needed to put it in perspective
to say wait a minute actually I got a
whole lot going on for me you see when
you step into gratitude consciousness
you start to say actually bad things are
just happening to me
so-called bad things right lots of
different things are happening to me but
it’s a question of where I’m placing my
focus every day I wake up and say
actually yes the world isn’t perfect
lots of mind control manipulation but at
the same time life is pretty amazing you
are a miracle I am a miracle can I get a
hello there but you see it’s all about
where your focus is so you’ve seen that
meme right one person sitting to the
left one person sitting to the right to
the right to the left to the left there
sunshine there’s rainbows and to the
right there’s just the really ugly cave
right but it’s all about choosing where
you want to sit on the bus that’s the
same thing when we think bad things are
happening right now let’s go onto did
you attract them
you see I realized along my journey and
what’s helped me out is that for
instance I do a lot of skating a lot of
yoga
and I know that when I get very lazy for
instance if I’m very careless I’m eating
a lot of sometimes junk food or whatever
which is rare sometimes it is common
though don’t worry about it right what
happens it affects every other area of
my life right when you sometimes have
just come out of a heated argument you
might get into the car and have an
accident if you’re not careful because
once again one area one action affects
all other actions and areas that’s why
we practice mindfulness meditation every
day for instance if someone says Ralph I
don’t like your videos let’s just say
that right now am I gonna cry about it
or am I gonna say wait a minute we’ve
connected with over 43 million people ah
we’ve got nearly half a million
subscribers here so my focus is always
on that to realize that to go viral
through consciousness is very difficult
we’ve done that and we’re growing larger
and larger every single day width we’re
getting we’re getting thousands of
questions every single day infinite
waters right so that’s where my focus is
that’s why we keep it moving but if I
didn’t have that level of consciousness
then I might focus on one comment which
may not be serving me but I don’t I
focus on the millions of comments that
do serve me that’s why I say infinite
love and balance can I get a Hello
now if someone passes away sometimes we
think it’s a bad negative thing as
ancient saying that when someone dies a
child is born to make space right it’s
almost like the math the mathematical
equation of life right the going and
coming it’s an integral part of life and
we have to accept that that’s why the
ancient can is the Egyptians they
weren’t so obsessed with death no they
were all obsessed with life that’s why
the ankh is a symbol of life right but
they knew that we were only here for a
very very short period of time there’s a
there’s a great poet who says we live in
a flash of light even if you were to
live like I always say a million years
that’s nothing more and a drop in the
ocean of eternity so when you realize
that you are here for a very small
amount of time you have to learn how to
die every single day I do it through
meditation through not living so much
upstairs by staying on a high frequency
a high level of consciousness by
becoming mindful of the thoughts I think
by knowing they are gonna affect my
I once said a long time ago a lot of
deep divers will know this there are no
good or bad people in the universe right
there are no good or bad people in the
universe only actions and consequences
but yes of course there are people who
do some pretty foul stuff but don’t
worry about them the universe will take
care of them
you’ve got to realize that we attract
what we are we attract our embodiment
mmm that’s a new one
can I get a hello there we attract our
embodiment so every day I say ok I’m
grateful for a lot of things the more
grateful I became the more abundant I
became true story the more I focus on
the people who are showing me love the
more love came that’s why I don’t talk
about people who aren’t serving me I
make people famous I will make you
famous if I talk about you but I do talk
about amazing people who are doing great
things if I talk about you I’m gonna big
you up but not put you down you see so
you’ve got to remind yourself that we
attract our embodiment right and certain
times you’ve got to always look for the
lesson life is showing you sometimes
life will test you just to see if you
are who you say you are right I get
tested all the time it’s just that I’m a
wizard I’m an alchemist
what does that mean it means when life
when the universe gives me up out a
smack I say okay
bring it on universe but wait for it
because this is training day that means
every day are moving in alignment I’m
not taking this for granted because as a
wizard I know how this is gonna play out
when you study ancient principles
ancient wisdom you realize that when
things you think are bad happen to you
you got to become silent and then ask
yourself how bad are they certain times
here of the story someone not they were
late for work right they slept in that
day they should have been at work and
guess what there was a lightning storm
so thank goodness they didn’t go to work
so what they thought was bad actually
ended up serving them mmm can I get a
hello there
in a nutshell ask yourself today what am
i doing to reconnect back into my inner
balance and flow what am i doing to
change how I react to what I think is
bad what am i doing
to let go of thinking I can control what
happens outside of me resistance make
stronger I said my journal the moment I
let go everything came to me and that’s
many times life can become confusing
many times disorientating that’s why
it’s not what is happening outside of
you that’s the problem it is what is
taking place within you that needs to be
addressed it needs to be looked at right
it needs to be looked at because the
inner is the outer the inner thoughts
and feelings become your outer reality
I need to control how other people
perceive me no you don’t that’s none of
your business none of your business at
all
how would that serve you because
sometimes people love you one day then
they hate you it’s got nothing to do
with you right if someone passes away
celebrate their life that’s what I do
with my grandma right and I realize look
in the next 200 years everyone that’s
here right now won’t be here right
unless they get some kind of life
extension I can live with that because
life is a gift it’s part of the deal we
live in a transient universe though we
are immortal because you see what the
ancients knew so well is that you can’t
eat diamonds you see we’re trying to eat
diamonds you can’t you got to leave it
alone all of the treasure you can’t take
it with you we are the borrower’s when
you realize that you realize all your
possessions are on loan you don’t own
them you don’t even own your body it
goes back to the earth and the universe
will do whatever the universe wants to
do with it but guess what
you are the universe think about it so
change your perspective your perception
of what is happening and what is
happening will change its effect on you
because things are gonna happen oh yeah
I see even in my own journey see 2016
all those the year of unity is also the
year of a lot of purging a lot of
suppressed emotions are going to be
coming to the surface gonna see people
running around naked in the streets
going right because they’ve been burying
those emotions for so long
ask yourself what are you doing everyday
to express yourself to release tension
to get back into inner balance and then
you will see what is happening out there
is nothing more than a reflection of
what is taking place within your mind we
are breathing in that beautiful prana
baby have a beautiful day just
meditating can I get a hello hey
infinite waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy
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