deep divers I get thousands of messages
every single day and sometimes I receive
messages like Ralph I’ve been with this
person for 10 years 10 years Ralph and I
can’t stand the sight of them in fact
any time I see them I want to puke up
like whoa like can you pass me a bucket
Ralph please
and then I’m there I’m still there
reading it listening thinking if you’ve
been with them that long well you
[Music]
peace and Finnick waters diving deep
once again beautiful deep divers we are
here in the wonderful art gallery just
whoa breathing in that good ass prana
baby
I’m sending you tons of great energy
take that take that take that
deep divers how to tell if you are with
the right person or not is that you you
find it hard to decide right now if you
are with the right person or not because
like you see them and you want to puke
up but wait a minute Ralph I’ve been
with them for like ten years well after
this video you are going to be able to
recognize if you are with the right
person or not and we even had breakfast
yeah
can I get a hello hey deep divers this
this sexology water fire hot cold yin
yang daddy’s home I’m back now someone
asked that great question Ralph how can
I tell and with the right person or not
let me dive straight into it how do you
feel you see a lot of the times we
actually know by you asking that you now
have to tap into who you are because we
know our intuition will always tell us
the truth what is good for us and how to
tell if you are with the right person or
not spend time alone tomorrow in the
woods
and really ask yourself say are my needs
being met with this person you see if
you can really realize it’s a gut
feeling you’re gonna know like when they
message you are you like ah well are you
like oh my gosh not them again right we
know deep down in our gut and we have to
start really reconnecting back to the
truth of who we are so we know what’s
best for us how to tell if you are with
the right person or not now
communication is the foundation of a
great relationship I’ve seen along my
journey but don’t get it twisted deep
divers I’ve been in relationships where
the communication was terrible like
terrible and I’ve been in relationships
where the communication was fantastic
you see the key difference is whenever
you are able to express yourself to
someone else a hundred percent because
there are levels to communication there
are levels to this there are levels
to communication and there are layers to
communication the more depth you have in
your communication with someone this is
someone who’s right for you okay that’s
how to tell if you are really supposed
to be with this person but if there is
nothing to say like both of you as soon
as you you come home you’re both on your
phone oh my gosh no that’s how to tell
that person ain’t right for you right
how to tell if you are with the right
person or not deep divers what’s helped
me along my journey is to realize this
all yourself do I feel satisfied right
now because satisfaction is it’s a big
clue okay to tell if someone is right
for you or not if you are satisfied
right now like I’m can
ten right now okay that’s great if you
want satisfied but you’re like I can put
up with them like even if I don’t like
the side of their face been with them
for ten years but I can put up with them
they’re still not right for you because
the water relationship which is the
harmonious relationship is when you
don’t settle for a mediocre relationship
you actually move towards a relationship
that nourishes your soul 100% mmm what
slow motion this side mmm
how to tell if someone is right for you
or not when it comes to a relationship
deep divers if you are always thinking
of someone else when you are with them
if you don’t feel like it’s a worthwhile
investment you’re like I’m wasting my
time being with them that’s how to tell
you were the wrong person but there is
actually never a wrong person because
you are still learning lessons you still
need to be in this interaction to learn
more about yourself right you still need
to be in this interaction to learn more
about yourself but deep divers how to
tell if you’re with the right person or
not what it boils down to what it boils
down to is the way they make you feel
how do they make you feel when they look
at you like this oh yeah how do they
make you feel plain and simple and
that’s why it’s so essential going back
to the first point to really know
thyself right how do they make you feel
and also you will know if you’re with
the right person or not by the way they
look at you like many times with someone
with someone deep divers and they just
look at us like like a bunch of sour
grapes seven day vegan challenge but if
someone looks at you like a bunch of
delicious
grapes like yeah that’s how to tell if
that person is really meant to be in
your life okay how to tell if you are
with the right person or not deep divers
you can tell if you are with the right
person or not by how quickly your ego
dissolves when you are around them you
see the water relationship which is the
Hummer which is the harmonious
relationship and then you have the Coca
Cola relationship which is the toxic
relationship the water relationship is
all about this there is no ego because
ego is created from separation hmm
what slow motion inside and that’s how
to tell if you are with the right person
or not your ego will dissolve
immediately upon being in their presence
there is no foolish pride to hold on to
not with the right person many times
people get in a interaction and a
relationship of disharmony because one
person is in their ego that could be you
right
nobody wants a surrender and therefore
the relationship has no future but to
tell if you’re with the right person
just say am I in my ego am I in my ego
when I’m with them or can I put my ego
to the side when I’m with them right how
to tell if you are with the right person
or not deep divers now it’s about
competition or collaboration if you are
with someone right now and you always
have to compete with them but not in a
good way
you’re competing with them because you
want to be better than them wrong wrong
wrong wrong interaction this interaction
has no future if however you are with
someone and instead of competition there
is collaborate
now we’re talking like even cut down the
roads like saying now we are talking
because collaboration is healthy
competition can also be healthy but not
if you are in a relationship and someone
is always competing with you just to say
hey I’m better than you I’m earning more
money than you in the relationship okay
I look better than you in the
relationship right because that’s how
you have a lot of narcissists come on
the scene okay so how to tell if you’re
with the right person or not by
competition or collaboration
collaboration is always geared to
helping you become your greatest version
collaboration is always geared to
helping you become your greatest version
deep divers how to tell if you are with
the right person or not honesty if you
can be honest around them and they can
be honest around you you’re with the
right person if not the exits that way
over there to the left
yeah great honesty so what I also call
transparency and transparency is the key
ingredient to the water relationship
when someone can see right through you
okay however if you always have to lie
around someone you’re always lying
you’ve got the Pinocchio nose sticking
out what yeah that’s how to tell you’re
with the wrong person
why because if you are in a relationship
and there is no honesty that means both
of you on allowing each other to be
vulnerable around each other therefore
the relationship has no future how to
tell if you are with the right person or
not if you feel appreciated you are with
the right person
if you feel loved you are with the right
person if you feel seen you are with the
right person
if you feel heard you are with the right
person but more so if you can be
yourself you are with the right person
but if you can’t do any of the above
well the exits the exits that way to the
left that’s right
okay deep
divers you see what’s helped me along my
journey to know I’m with the right
person or not is by acceptance level if
I feel accepted around them and once
again it goes back into the way you feel
if you can feel peace you feel at home
you were the right person if you don’t
like you’re with them but you’re like
actually it feels like I’m in a guest
hotel right now the exits the exits that
way to the left right so I started to
realize to tell if you are with the
right person or not it has everything to
do with honesty it’s got everything to
do with also trust if you trust this
person with a cat down the road you’re
with the right person if you don’t the
exits the exits that way right a lot of
the times we don’t trust people were
with many times we do not trust people
we are with and therefore that
relationship cannot grow why because for
any relationship to grow you need trust
because trust creates freedom when you
don’t trust somebody what happens you
always keep an eye on them watching
where they go now you get you get very
possessive okay you don’t want to let
them at it you don’t want to let them
out of your sight because you’re like I
don’t trust them and that’s when the
relationship goes downhill but if you
can trust someone then that’s the right
person okay but also deep divers
evolution can both of you evolve
together mentally emotionally and
physically then you’re with the right
person if not you already know the exits
that way just run that way instead okay
I’ve seen this deep dive is that many
times what happens we also lose passion
we get bored we get idle and that’s how
to know that this person is not meeting
your needs it doesn’t mean they’re a bad
person how to tell if you were the right
person or not your needs are being met
both of you are fulfilling each other’s
needs in other words both of you are
satisfied because you’re like hates a
worthwhile investment that’s how to tell
if you’re with the right person or not
but many times if you find yourself like
falling asleep every time they’re
talking not listening to what they want
to say can’t be bothered for that ain’t
nobody got time for that
well the exits the exits that way right
look if you are always arguing with
someone complaining about them but
you’re still with them now you have to
take responsibility to say actually it’s
it’s on me now right and if you find
yourself arguing with someone focusing
on the problems with them you with the
wrong person
the right person instead of arguing you
are listening instead of problems you
are focusing on solutions mmm slow
motion this side mm-hmm and if you are
having fun
you are definitely with the right person
but more so if you are waking up every
single day and just saying well feel so
good to be alive baby can I get a Hello
you are definitely with the right person
deep dive is once again there is no
right relationship or wrong relationship
every relationship you are in can teach
you a valuable lesson learn the lesson
you need to learn right now deep dive is
less just whoa breathing in that
good-ass prana baby
shout out to everybody who’s been
getting the amazing good-ass prana
shirts Ralph smart doc come slash
clothes check out the new amazing book
on Amazon deep divers feel alive by
Ralph smart get more daily inspiration
on instagram at infinite waters deep
divers you are appreciated infinite
waters diving deep once again stay well
you to tell if you are with the right
person or not the right person will
always bring you a bunch of grapes the
right person will always make you smile
the right person will always make you
feel loved appreciated and careful and
cared for right and if they don’t do all
[Applause] you
every single day and sometimes I receive
messages like Ralph I’ve been with this
person for 10 years 10 years Ralph and I
can’t stand the sight of them in fact
any time I see them I want to puke up
like whoa like can you pass me a bucket
Ralph please
and then I’m there I’m still there
reading it listening thinking if you’ve
been with them that long well you
[Music]
peace and Finnick waters diving deep
once again beautiful deep divers we are
here in the wonderful art gallery just
whoa breathing in that good ass prana
baby
I’m sending you tons of great energy
take that take that take that
deep divers how to tell if you are with
the right person or not is that you you
find it hard to decide right now if you
are with the right person or not because
like you see them and you want to puke
up but wait a minute Ralph I’ve been
with them for like ten years well after
this video you are going to be able to
recognize if you are with the right
person or not and we even had breakfast
yeah
can I get a hello hey deep divers this
this sexology water fire hot cold yin
yang daddy’s home I’m back now someone
asked that great question Ralph how can
I tell and with the right person or not
let me dive straight into it how do you
feel you see a lot of the times we
actually know by you asking that you now
have to tap into who you are because we
know our intuition will always tell us
the truth what is good for us and how to
tell if you are with the right person or
not spend time alone tomorrow in the
woods
and really ask yourself say are my needs
being met with this person you see if
you can really realize it’s a gut
feeling you’re gonna know like when they
message you are you like ah well are you
like oh my gosh not them again right we
know deep down in our gut and we have to
start really reconnecting back to the
truth of who we are so we know what’s
best for us how to tell if you are with
the right person or not now
communication is the foundation of a
great relationship I’ve seen along my
journey but don’t get it twisted deep
divers I’ve been in relationships where
the communication was terrible like
terrible and I’ve been in relationships
where the communication was fantastic
you see the key difference is whenever
you are able to express yourself to
someone else a hundred percent because
there are levels to communication there
are levels to this there are levels
to communication and there are layers to
communication the more depth you have in
your communication with someone this is
someone who’s right for you okay that’s
how to tell if you are really supposed
to be with this person but if there is
nothing to say like both of you as soon
as you you come home you’re both on your
phone oh my gosh no that’s how to tell
that person ain’t right for you right
how to tell if you are with the right
person or not deep divers what’s helped
me along my journey is to realize this
all yourself do I feel satisfied right
now because satisfaction is it’s a big
clue okay to tell if someone is right
for you or not if you are satisfied
right now like I’m can
ten right now okay that’s great if you
want satisfied but you’re like I can put
up with them like even if I don’t like
the side of their face been with them
for ten years but I can put up with them
they’re still not right for you because
the water relationship which is the
harmonious relationship is when you
don’t settle for a mediocre relationship
you actually move towards a relationship
that nourishes your soul 100% mmm what
slow motion this side mmm
how to tell if someone is right for you
or not when it comes to a relationship
deep divers if you are always thinking
of someone else when you are with them
if you don’t feel like it’s a worthwhile
investment you’re like I’m wasting my
time being with them that’s how to tell
you were the wrong person but there is
actually never a wrong person because
you are still learning lessons you still
need to be in this interaction to learn
more about yourself right you still need
to be in this interaction to learn more
about yourself but deep divers how to
tell if you’re with the right person or
not what it boils down to what it boils
down to is the way they make you feel
how do they make you feel when they look
at you like this oh yeah how do they
make you feel plain and simple and
that’s why it’s so essential going back
to the first point to really know
thyself right how do they make you feel
and also you will know if you’re with
the right person or not by the way they
look at you like many times with someone
with someone deep divers and they just
look at us like like a bunch of sour
grapes seven day vegan challenge but if
someone looks at you like a bunch of
delicious
grapes like yeah that’s how to tell if
that person is really meant to be in
your life okay how to tell if you are
with the right person or not deep divers
you can tell if you are with the right
person or not by how quickly your ego
dissolves when you are around them you
see the water relationship which is the
Hummer which is the harmonious
relationship and then you have the Coca
Cola relationship which is the toxic
relationship the water relationship is
all about this there is no ego because
ego is created from separation hmm
what slow motion inside and that’s how
to tell if you are with the right person
or not your ego will dissolve
immediately upon being in their presence
there is no foolish pride to hold on to
not with the right person many times
people get in a interaction and a
relationship of disharmony because one
person is in their ego that could be you
right
nobody wants a surrender and therefore
the relationship has no future but to
tell if you’re with the right person
just say am I in my ego am I in my ego
when I’m with them or can I put my ego
to the side when I’m with them right how
to tell if you are with the right person
or not deep divers now it’s about
competition or collaboration if you are
with someone right now and you always
have to compete with them but not in a
good way
you’re competing with them because you
want to be better than them wrong wrong
wrong wrong interaction this interaction
has no future if however you are with
someone and instead of competition there
is collaborate
now we’re talking like even cut down the
roads like saying now we are talking
because collaboration is healthy
competition can also be healthy but not
if you are in a relationship and someone
is always competing with you just to say
hey I’m better than you I’m earning more
money than you in the relationship okay
I look better than you in the
relationship right because that’s how
you have a lot of narcissists come on
the scene okay so how to tell if you’re
with the right person or not by
competition or collaboration
collaboration is always geared to
helping you become your greatest version
collaboration is always geared to
helping you become your greatest version
deep divers how to tell if you are with
the right person or not honesty if you
can be honest around them and they can
be honest around you you’re with the
right person if not the exits that way
over there to the left
yeah great honesty so what I also call
transparency and transparency is the key
ingredient to the water relationship
when someone can see right through you
okay however if you always have to lie
around someone you’re always lying
you’ve got the Pinocchio nose sticking
out what yeah that’s how to tell you’re
with the wrong person
why because if you are in a relationship
and there is no honesty that means both
of you on allowing each other to be
vulnerable around each other therefore
the relationship has no future how to
tell if you are with the right person or
not if you feel appreciated you are with
the right person
if you feel loved you are with the right
person if you feel seen you are with the
right person
if you feel heard you are with the right
person but more so if you can be
yourself you are with the right person
but if you can’t do any of the above
well the exits the exits that way to the
left that’s right
okay deep
divers you see what’s helped me along my
journey to know I’m with the right
person or not is by acceptance level if
I feel accepted around them and once
again it goes back into the way you feel
if you can feel peace you feel at home
you were the right person if you don’t
like you’re with them but you’re like
actually it feels like I’m in a guest
hotel right now the exits the exits that
way to the left right so I started to
realize to tell if you are with the
right person or not it has everything to
do with honesty it’s got everything to
do with also trust if you trust this
person with a cat down the road you’re
with the right person if you don’t the
exits the exits that way right a lot of
the times we don’t trust people were
with many times we do not trust people
we are with and therefore that
relationship cannot grow why because for
any relationship to grow you need trust
because trust creates freedom when you
don’t trust somebody what happens you
always keep an eye on them watching
where they go now you get you get very
possessive okay you don’t want to let
them at it you don’t want to let them
out of your sight because you’re like I
don’t trust them and that’s when the
relationship goes downhill but if you
can trust someone then that’s the right
person okay but also deep divers
evolution can both of you evolve
together mentally emotionally and
physically then you’re with the right
person if not you already know the exits
that way just run that way instead okay
I’ve seen this deep dive is that many
times what happens we also lose passion
we get bored we get idle and that’s how
to know that this person is not meeting
your needs it doesn’t mean they’re a bad
person how to tell if you were the right
person or not your needs are being met
both of you are fulfilling each other’s
needs in other words both of you are
satisfied because you’re like hates a
worthwhile investment that’s how to tell
if you’re with the right person or not
but many times if you find yourself like
falling asleep every time they’re
talking not listening to what they want
to say can’t be bothered for that ain’t
nobody got time for that
well the exits the exits that way right
look if you are always arguing with
someone complaining about them but
you’re still with them now you have to
take responsibility to say actually it’s
it’s on me now right and if you find
yourself arguing with someone focusing
on the problems with them you with the
wrong person
the right person instead of arguing you
are listening instead of problems you
are focusing on solutions mmm slow
motion this side mm-hmm and if you are
having fun
you are definitely with the right person
but more so if you are waking up every
single day and just saying well feel so
good to be alive baby can I get a Hello
you are definitely with the right person
deep dive is once again there is no
right relationship or wrong relationship
every relationship you are in can teach
you a valuable lesson learn the lesson
you need to learn right now deep dive is
less just whoa breathing in that
good-ass prana baby
shout out to everybody who’s been
getting the amazing good-ass prana
shirts Ralph smart doc come slash
clothes check out the new amazing book
on Amazon deep divers feel alive by
Ralph smart get more daily inspiration
on instagram at infinite waters deep
divers you are appreciated infinite
waters diving deep once again stay well
you to tell if you are with the right
person or not the right person will
always bring you a bunch of grapes the
right person will always make you smile
the right person will always make you
feel loved appreciated and careful and
cared for right and if they don’t do all
[Applause] you
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