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How to Tell Someone’s Manipulating You In A Relationship


peace and Finnick waters diving deep
once again beautiful deep divers we are
out here in the heart of nature baby
beautiful day I’m sending you tons of
exuberant energy take that take that
take that
now deep divers it’s time to talk about
manipulators Oh grab a chair do you know
a manipulator is someone trying to
manipulate you right now in life in
friendship in a relationship but you’re
not sure
are they manipulating me or are they
just taking the piss out of me
well we are about to dive deep into
manipulation how to spot someone is a
manipulator
is manipulating you in a relationship
how to tell it’s time to get out or not
deep divers less just whoa breathing in
that good ass prana baby
this is sexology water fire hot cold yin
yang daddy’s home and back now I get
thousands of messages every single day
and a lot of them are about
relationships
human interactions and recently
wonderful woman asks me Ralph how do I
know someone is manipulating me in a
relationship fantastic question
we are about to dive deep I’m here to
tell you deep divers you deserve the
best and you don’t have to put up with
someone who is manipulating you so we
are gonna go through all the ways to
spot a manipulator in a relationship and
how you know it’s time to get out or not
and Wayne even had breakfast yet can I
get a Hello so wonderful deep divers
less dive straight into it how to spot a
manipulator in a relationship every
single day I remind myself of this
powerful affirmation let go of anything
that no longer serves you if you are in
a relationship right now and you feel
someone is manipulating you trying to
manipulate you I’m here to tell you it’s
time to know your true Worth is time to
let go of anything and anyone no longer
serving you so a manipulator
will often use something called gas
lighting now gas lighting is what
manipulators love to use also not
assists love to use this on their
victims so what they would do what
they’ll do is that let’s just say you’re
in a relationship or even just a close
friendship and you get into a little
argument what they immediately do is say
this it’s all in your head they remove
themselves and they say it’s you it’s
all in your head you’re making this up
they make you feel like you’re going
crazy and they are the same once when in
actuality they are the crazy one and you
are the sane one mm-hmm
slow motion this side I only deal with
solutions when it comes to diving deep
Ralph smart only deals with solutions so
if you have somebody who is using gas
lighting and that’s how to spot a
manipulator in a relationship in a
friendship in life if somebody is
constantly gaslighting you making you
feel like you’re the crazy one it’s all
you have to do this you’ve got to do
this deep divers stop right there today
I am putting a stop to this abuse in
this relationship
it goes on no longer you see the aim of
gas lighting the aim of the manipulator
is to silence you because once there
like hey it’s all in your head you’re
going crazy have you taken your pills
yet have you taken your medication all
of a sudden now you stop now whoa now
you start to doubt yourself now you
start to not trust yourself now you
actually might believe this manipulator
who is gaslighting you that’s what they
want
well I’m here to tell you deep divers if
you have someone like that in your life
right now because sometimes there are
subtle forms of gas lighting you have to
say do I deserve this did I come here to
be in the presence of someone who is
always pointing the finger at me and
acting like I’m the crazy one no you
didn’t come here for that so it’s time
to leave immediately it’s time to get
your butt out of that relationship out
of that friendship because that’s not a
friendship you deserve so much more even
the cat down the road agrees how
de-spawn
a manipulator in a relationship what
often happens is this beep die versus
when you are around someone for a long
time and someone is trying to manipulate
you they will start blaming you for
everything it wasn’t me you did it I
didn’t do anything it’s you it’s you
they never take responsibility for their
actions is it always your fault in this
relationship
in this friendship friendship someone’s
trying to manipulate you and it’s time
to get out because many times once again
it takes to both people have to be
responsible for the part never played in
any situation it’s never only one
person’s fault
but what manipulators love to do is that
they love they absolutely love to blame
youth absolutely everything because once
again it’s also part of the gaslighting
technique to say hey I am the sane one I
know what I’m doing you don’t know what
you’re doing you’re crazy it’s your
fault I’m blaming you you silly Billy
deep divers that’s how to spot a
manipulates in a relationship here’s
what to do about it
if you have someone who is always
blaming you in the relationship it’s
always your fault what I want you to do
is to stop using this person to validate
your own existence there is a reason why
you have attracted this person into your
life because you don’t know who you
really are you don’t know your true
Worth
you feel this is the best there is so
you put up with it I’m here to tell you
there’s better out there can I get a
hello hey there is someone better
waiting for you who is not gonna blame
you who is not gonna say hey you’re
making this all up in your mind and
you’re going crazy
no because they love you that much to
say actually no I’m not gonna blame you
you are worthy and you are worthy how
else can we spot someone is trying to
manipulate us in a relationship many
times someone will use your past against
you now this is a low blow the gloves
are off
ladies fellas usually what happens in a
relationship I’ve done tons of
consultations with this with this
problem many times people get into a
relationship and they become intimate
what happens with this intimacy people
spill the beans they start telling each
other secrets things they don’t want the
whole world to know now what the
manipulator will do they will take this
information and then use it against you
if something comes up that is making
them look bad they’ll make you look bad
though they’ll be like look you remember
when you told me you did that thing
you’re really embarrassed about well you
did it and shame on you you did it well
you only know I did it because I told
you duh and they’ll be like so you did
it and they will bring up something
you’ve told them from your past and then
use it against you that’s how to spot a
manipulator in a relationship here’s
what to do about it
be careful who you trust not everyone is
worth your trust mmm slow motion this
side mm nobody has the right to use your
past against you why because today is a
new day every saint has a past every
sinner has a future no one’s perfect
here we have perfect imperfections
everyone has flaws
everyone is the work in progress so you
don’t deserve someone to use your past
against you okay so if you are in a
relationship with someone who’s doing
that a friendship is time to say
actually why am i allowing myself
because once again they aren’t forcing
you to be there and if they are you
better you better call someone because
you have a choice to make right now am I
gonna be in a relationship that’s making
me unhappy where someone is using the
past my past against me or am I gonna
actually be with someone who I can
experience joy with happiness with who
isn’t gonna use my past against me but
actually say actually you’ve gone
through a lot and you should be proud of
yourself that’s the kind of person you
want to be with
right how to spot a manipulator in a
relationship and really regain your
courage regain your strength
bounce back come back even stronger
manipulators love to control everything
I remember giving someone a consultation
and this woman was like Ralph my partner
says I have to be home at a certain time
I can’t talk to this person or that
person that’s how you spot a manipulator
if you have if you have someone right
now deep divers who is trying to control
your every action you every move how you
think how you talk how you dress that is
how you spot someone who is attempting
to manipulate you the reason why I say
attempting because Ralph smart are
making this video for you ladies fellas
is not going to allow them to do that to
you right if it’s happening let me get
on the phone with them it’s not gonna
happen anymore ladies anymore fellas if
you have someone who is a control freak
that’s how you spot a manipulator now
once again deep divers if you are in a
there is hope because now you know
someone is trying to manipulate you if
someone truly loves you they appreciate
you they allow you to be free they allow
you to come into your own if someone is
trying to manipulate you they don’t want
you to come in to your own they want to
mold you like play-doh they want to
control every little action they want to
be your personal Savior your master they
want you to bow to them they want you to
worship them that’s not love that’s just
ego the three-letter word that can ruin
a 12-letter word called relationship and
if that is happening to you currently in
your relationship where’s the love there
is no love there is only ego anytime you
have someone who wants to own you like a
car like a house like a dog that’s not
love you need to get your butt out of
there because you deserve more how to
spot someone who is trying to manipulate
you seven day vegan challenge if you
have someone who is laughing at you and
let me go back to gas lighting as well
and fuse it in with a seven day vegan
challenge shout out to everybody who’s
doing the seven day vegan challenge
shout out to everybody who is doing the
seven day vegan challenge eating to live
eating the plant-based lifestyle now if
you are in a relationship and someone is
laughing or what you are eating
and then sometimes even insulting your
play oh my gosh you’re vegan uh that’s
so stupid and what they love to do this
is how you spot a manipulator even when
it comes to food they’ll say oh I’m only
joking
if it gets too serious and they don’t
want to be found out they don’t want to
be caught out oh I’m only joking
that’s what manipulators do they will
push it so far and then when it gets so
far they’ll be like I was just joking no
they’re not joking because a lot of
truth is said in jest slow motion this
side so if you have got someone in your
life right now if you are in a
relationship if you are in a
relationship if you are in a
relationship with someone who is
literally laughing at what you’re eating
laughing at your exercise routine
laughing at the kind of juice you’re
drinking
maybe it’s the ìiî life smoothie and
they’re just laughing at you once again
that’s how to spot a manipulator someone
who truly loves you will not laugh at
your food choices okay I had a good
friend I still got a good friend cuz
we’re still friends okay she only drank
cold fresh juice I’m like wow right it
was an inspiration for me to be with
someone who was such a strong raw
foodist she would only drink cold
pressed juice and I’m like that’s
amazing but you see a manipulator would
say that’s silly and insult her if they
don’t understand someone else’s diet
someone else’s food choice right
if you have someone right now in your
life if you’re in a relationship with
someone right now who’s always laughing
at you and then saying I’m just joking
that’s classic manipulation they’re not
joking and it’s time for you to take it
seriously to say actually what am i
doing around this person the secret to
becoming your greatest version is to let
go of anything and anyone no longer
serving you how to spot someone who is
trying to manipulate you in a
relationship in life in a friendship
deep dive ins is time to start realizing
our true Worth emotional blackmail this
usually happens sometimes if you’re in a
relationship and you’re having an
argument behind closed doors someone the
manipulator would be like I’m gonna
expose you I’m gonna tell the whole wall
I’m gonna tell the whole wide world okay
about what you just told me right they
love to show you out and show you up and
embarrass you in front of your friends
and family that’s classic manipulation
I’m here to tell you if you are in a
relationship with a manipulator like
that it’s time to get out it’s time to
leave because you owe it to yourself I
always talk of accepting yourself loving
yourself if you truly love yourself you
don’t want to tolerate that nonsense but
that’s how to spot a manipulator someone
who is always trying to show show you up
in front of your friends embarrass you
always put themselves on a pedestal and
then put you below them you see I’ve
realized along my journey nobody is
better than me or worse than me we are
all equal in this and that’s what the
water relationship is all about so the
solution if you have someone right now
who is trying to use emotional blackmail
trying to expose you trying to extort
you
you have to say actually it ends today
not next week not next month there is no
second chance for a person like that
now there is no second chance for a
manipulator like that it’s time to
distance yourself from that kind of
person
but once again deep divers if you are in
a relationship like that it’s all on you
now you know you know from this video
how to spot a manipulator if you have
someone like that in your life right now
what are you gonna do are you gonna put
up with it or are you gonna make a
change are you gonna make a change and
say actually I know my true worth
once again deep divers their secret to
becoming your greatest version is to let
go off anything and anyone no longer
serving you and once you do deep divers
well you’ll just say fear also gets me a
live baby can I get a hello beautiful
deep diamonds we are out here in the
heart of nature baby just whoa breathing
in that good ass prana baby and also how
to spot a manipulator is that they love
to twist your words around right no
don’t make anyone twist your words
around and speak your truth even if your
voice shakes okay shout out to everybody
who’s been getting the good ass prana
shirts
Ralph smart dot-com slash clothes such a
beautiful day we’ve got a lot of dogs
playing over there I hope you’re having
a great day tee divers but truly I want
to see you get in the best kind of
relationship because you owe it to
yourself if you’ve got a question you
can add me on instagram at infinite
waters these dogs love you have a
beautiful day t divers infinite waters
diving deep once again stay well stay
healthy
you let go of anything and anyone no longer serving you

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