How to Tell Someone’s Actually Meant to Be In Your Life

a great love is what so many people are
searching for a great love is like a
great shoe fit it just feels right
but what happens when your heel is
sticking out the other end and it just
feels wrong take those shoes back to the
shop and get yourself a refund
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peace and Finnick waters diving deep
once again beautiful deep divers we are
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fire hot cold yin-yang daddy’s home and
back are you searching for someone right
now to come into your life and make
everything wonderful is someone already
in your life but you’re not sure if
they’re meant to be there or not how to
tell deep divers someone’s actually
supposed to be in your life that is the
question that came in deep divers if
you’ve got a question or a message pull
out your phone add me on Instagram right
now at infinite waters and I’ll probably
answer it I meet a lot of people who
want sure if someone’s supposed to be in
their life or not because it kind of
feels right wrong kind of feels right
wrong like can you please make up your
mind and we even had breakfast yet can I
get a Hello so wonderful deep divers let
me share with you what’s helped me along
my journey tell someone supposed to be
in my life someone’s meant to be here
right now in my life you see I know what
it’s like
many times we scratch our heads
wondering why a certain person is coming
to our life are they supposed to be
there or not and a lot of us we are
searching for someone specifically but
we don’t get that kind of person coming
to our life right so why does that
happen now I’ve spoken about two kinds
of relationships the Coca Cola
relationship and the water relationship
the Coca Cola relationship is the toxic
relationship and the water relationship
is the most beneficial relationship to
have because it’s good for you it’s
healthy to tell someone’s meant to be in
your life I realize this deep divers
someone who is really helping you evolve
mentally emotionally and even physically
that’s someone who’s meant to be in your
life but what happens when we attract
someone who we’re always arguing with a
karmic relationship they are also meant
to be in your life but it’s up to you to
say actually do I want to stay here or
do I want to start attracting better
energy into my life
you see I’ve realized this deep divers
the universe does not give us who we
want the universe gives us
who we need hmm
slow motion this side hmm and a lot of
us are coming to realize that we want to
change because that’s what I hear from
all of your messages Ralph I want to
change I want to connect with someone
who’s really gonna help me evolve if you
have someone like that in your life
right now they are actually meant to be
there if you have someone in your life
right now who’s always distracting you
from your mission your purpose they’re
jealous of you envious of you you’re
always arguing they’re not meant to be
there because in the long run it’s not
gonna be good for your mental health for
you for your physical health for your
emotional health so you have to start
knowing your true Worth and start
attracting someone who can really help
you evolve to the next level how to tell
someone’s actually meant to be in your
life growth level can I see myself and I
always ask myself this question whenever
I meet someone I always ask myself this
question can I grow with this person can
I see myself with this person in my old
age definitely not Ralph they’re not
meant to be in your life because someone
who is actually meant to be in your life
you could actually see them
growing with you it’s not just for right
now it’s for right now and beyond now
you can see yourself growing with this
wonderful being it doesn’t mean
everything has to be perfect right now
but you are willing to make an
investment in that person because that’s
what a relationship is because that’s
what a relationship is it’s an energy
investment you are investing in them
they are investing in you if you are
willing to do that because you know that
both of you can help each other grow
that’s how to tell someone’s actually
meant to be in your life you can grow
together or not do they help you grow to
tell someone’s meant to be in your life
actually supposed to be there they help
you become more of who you are however
if someone is in your life and they are
stunting your growth they don’t want you
to be who you are they want to change
ever been around someone who who always
wants to change you they can never
actually accept you for the way you are
they aren’t meant to be there because
someone who’s actually supposed to be in
your life meant to be there will accept
you for you and they will help you be
even more of the wonderful being you
came here to be deep divers how to tell
someone’s actually meant to be in your
life do you get excited when you see
their phone calls do you get excited
when you see their text messages if the
answers yes that’s how to tell someone’s
actually meant to be in your life if the
answer is no if you are like oh my gosh
not this person again
if there is no joy at the thought of
them no enthusiasm they’re not meant to
be there because that is your sole
speaking to you that actually you’re not
really feeling this person but if you
are elated full of joy when you see that
number ringing on your phone you’re like
oh my gosh it’s them when you see their
text message when you see their text
message when you think of them you get
beautiful butterflies like oh my gosh
that’s how to tell someone’s actually
meant to be in your life it’s all about
the emotions we feel when we are with
them when we are connecting with them
when we are thinking of them are these
emotions of joy and love or are these
emotions emotion energy in motion or
fear anytime you have emotions of fear
that is someone who is not supposed to
be in your life why because it’s
unhealthy for you in the long run
however if you have someone who is
promoting your wellness you think of
them and you feel good they make you
well just at the sight of them mm-hmm
stop your elf slow motion this side mmm
that’s how to tell someone’s actually
meant to be in your life by how much
your health has improved if it’s
improving let them stay if it’s not let
them go how to tell someone’s actually
meant to be in your life
deep divers in so many relationships
what happens people are together where
they’re not focusing on each other
one person is checking their phone
to actually tell someone’s meant to be
in your life they deserve you and you
deserve them because both of you are
putting in the same amount of effort to
be in communion with each other a lot of
people say Ralph I’m in a relationship
with someone I don’t know what a great
paradox the great relationship is when
two people make an effort to get to know
each other more every single day to open
each other up more every single day but
if you are with someone who is always on
their phone when you’re supposed to be
talking talking to each other they show
no interest in actually knowing anything
about you they lack communication that’s
someone who’s not meant to be in your
life and if you are in a relationship
like that realized it’s all on you now
it’s a choice you’ve made to be there
but you don’t have to be because the
greatest relationships are about
communication
when two people communicate with each
other and yes the greatest relationship
we can have starts with ourselves but
communication is essential how to tell
someone’s actually meant to be in your
life do you feel hurt cuz a lot of
people write to me Ralph she doesn’t
listen to me he doesn’t listen to me and
that’s a big red flag to say actually
they’re not meant to be in your life
because someone who’s actually meant to
be in your life will always listen to
you you will always feel hurt he word
heard
you don’t feel like you’re talking on
deaf is you feel that you are being
appreciated because once again the water
relationship can only thrive through
cultivation through daily watering and
if you feel heard right now if you feel
like you are being listened to isn’t it
a wonderful feeling that’s how to tell
someone’s actually meant to be in your
life how to tell someone’s actually
meant to be in your life you feel
respected 7 day vegan challenge they
don’t laugh of what you’re eating
because you’ve chosen a plant-based diet
no you feel respected because both of
you
share similar food values you respect
their plate full of beautiful fruits and
veg watermelons papayas dates pears
whatever it is and they respect your
plate full of leafy greens quinoa
Adame beans and butternut squash right
you respect each other you respect each
other’s lifestyle especially when it
comes to food because a lot of people
are like Ralph I’m switching to a
plant-based diet and they don’t want no
part of it we can’t even sit on the
table together that’s someone who’s not
meant to be in your life someone who’s
truly meant to be in your life even if
they’re not eating the same diet as you
they still respect your plate they
respect that you actually love animals
and you’ve chosen this plant-based diet
and both of you share similar food
values how to tell deep divers someone’s
suppose to be in your life someone’s
actually meant to be there no matter how
far you drift apart somehow in some
mysterious way you always drift back
together you can never get away from
them right but deep down
you never ever want to get away from
them mmm slow motion this side mmm
deep divers ever been around someone and
you really want to get away from them
ever been around someone deep divers and
you never ever want to get away from
them
but sometimes you just like naturally
move away from each other and then all
of a sudden you just naturally gravitate
back towards each other you see that’s
how to tell someone’s meant to be in
your life if you keep dreaming of this
person meeting this person even if you
have separated from each other you’re
seeing signs that links to this person
that’s how to tell someone’s actually
meant to be in your life someone brings
up their name a total stranger just
brings up their name and once again it’s
linking it back to that person that’s
how to tell someone’s actually meant to
be in your life because anywhere you go
you see them they’re always there how to
tell someone’s actually meant to be in
your life deep divers you don’t have to
try hard you see we have become a
society of try hearts to tell someone’s
actually meant to be in your life you
don’t have to beg someone to be in your
life please be in my life please love me
no they want to love you they want to be
here it’s an honor it’s a privilege for
them to be in your life you don’t have
to ask them they’re already there that’s
how to tell someone’s actually meant to
be in your life they are like look I’m
here I’m here whenever you need me I’m
here in the storm and the tsunami in the
hurricane not just when it’s sunny I’m
gonna be by your side
however some people are only here when
it’s convenient for them how to tell
someone’s actually meant to be in your
life deep divers if you can realize it
like this someone is truly meant to be
in your life when there is no force when
there is a beautiful flow that’s how to
tell someone’s truly meant to be in your
life when you when you don’t have to
force the relationship when everything
flows in the relationship so there you
have it deep divers and once all of that
happens well you just say so get to be a
live baby can I get a hello beautiful
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divers have a beautiful day infinite
waters diving deep once again stay well
stay healthy peace you the cat down the
road is definitely meant to be in my life