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How to Tell If Someone’s Meant to Be In Your Life


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once again we are out here in the heart
of nature baby how to know someone is
meant to be in your life let’s just whoa
breathing in that good ass prana baby
this is sexology water fire hot cold
yin-yang daddy’s home we’re back now I
get thousands of messages every single
day I got a question from a woman who
asked how do I know if someone Ralph is
meant to be in my life we got a whole
lot to talk about we got a whole lot to
talk about because this is a question I
get time and time and time and time
again and we an even had breakfast yeah
thousands of relationship messages I get
every single day okay a lot of people
say Ralph where can I send you a
question the best place Instagram are
infinite waters snapchat app good-ass
prana don’t email me I get too many
messages now to know if someone is meant
to be in your life I’m gonna share with
you what’s helped me along my journey as
a counselor as a psychologist and as
someone who inspires millions of people
it first starts with this what I call
the same values you’ve got to ask
yourself do we share the same values
let me repeat them do we share the same
values so a lot of the times you might
meet someone ladies in a relationship
listen closely and they look great they
look the part
but you don’t share the same values
happened to me along my journey when
they lock the pot I’m like I’m all in
then
realize that they didn’t think the same
way I did and therefore there was gonna
be a conflict and guess what there was
however when I met someone that shared
the same values as I did 7 day vegan
challenge who loved animals the way I
did then well we just got married look
the same values is everything ok many
times that’s how to know if someone is
meant to be in your life you have to
realize is there reciprocity you have to
realize is there reciprocity now did you
say thank you today you see I’ve learned
this that I know and I welcome people
who are grateful but people who are not
grateful you have no business being
around me get away that’s what you got
to be like ok reciprocity is the art of
giving and receiving that’s how to know
if someone is meant to be in your life
ladies I’m here to tell you if you are
dealing with a guy who is just taking
from you never giving to you let him go
let him go let him go fellas same thing
you see what creates a harmonious
relationship is reciprocity the law of
exchange don’t be around someone who
doesn’t bring you anything back in
return you are always the one giving
reaching out you’ve got no business
being around them that’s how to know if
someone is meant to be in your life
however if they are giving to you the
same way you are giving to them then let
them stay let them stay please let them
stay you see it’s just that many times a
lot of relationships I’m doing
consultations every single day
I know what I’m talking about many times
people say Ralph it’s one-sided I’m
doing my part they’re not doing theirs
they’re not committed to me the same way
I’m committed to them okay
resonance means returning to sound you
want to be with someone who you have a
high resonance with that’s how to know
someone’s meant to be in your life okay
you’ve gotta be clear about who you are
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when you are clear on who you are you
allow people to say okay maybe this is
not meant for me you’ve got to be proud
of who you are you’ve got a you’ve got a
you’ve got to represent who you are
without shying away you see you know if
someone is meant to be in your life if
you are embracing your true authenticity
I’m always embracing my true
authenticity shout out to the deep
divers who have been diving deep with
infinite waters for years okay
for years these are the people who
aren’t talking to everybody else I don’t
know who you are okay that’s that’s the
mindset you’ve got to have to know if
people are supposed to be in your life
you want here for everybody that’s what
you have to realize okay I’ve learned
this over time effort is everything okay
now I’ve been in relationships where I
didn’t put in the right amount of effort
I learned quick that effort is another
word for commitment
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slow motion inside effort is another
word for commitment you know if someone
is meant to be in your life if they are
making an effort that they want to be
there if they are making an effort to
show gratitude if they are making an
effort to show appreciation if they are
not let them go let them go you see I’ve
learned over time many times we hang
around people who drain our energy
sometimes it’s not even intentional to
know if someone is meant to be in your
life you should always feel a home
around them you should feel comfortable
when you are around them there shouldn’t
be these awkward silences a lot of
people write to me saying Ralph I get
into relationships and we have nothing
to talk about
once again it goes back to same values
you see you’ve got to find someone who
you are vibrating with on the same level
of consciousness if not there is gonna
be no relationship you see relationships
are based on healthy communication
without communication there is no
relationship your level of comfort is
everything so remind yourself this ask
yourself how comfortable am I around
this person that will help you know if
that person is meant to be in your life
sometimes I get around people and I’m
like oh my gosh I don’t feel good the
cat down the road comes to my rescue
right now it’s about being with people
who are proud to have you ask yourself
this today are they proud to have me or
are they trying to hide me away ladies
don’t let fellas hide you away don’t let
yes be with someone who is proud to have
you
okay now seven day vegan challenge I’ve
learned this that many times as you are
changing your food dye as you are
changing what you are consuming your
relationship tastes also change okay who
you now go for is sometimes different
cuz you’re like okay what are they
eating are they doing the seven day
vegan challenge are they putting a whole
load of grapes in their mouth too okay
happened to me along my journey I’ve
been a vegan for over 13 years inspired
millions of people to go vegan over 1
million subscribers on YouTube alone
we’re not even counting the website
we’ll come to that later so when I was
dating someone when I was just
transitioning to becoming a vegan it was
very hard I started to realize there was
a little bit of conflict you see to know
if someone’s meant to be in your life
you got to ask yourself do we have the
same tastes because if you don’t on the
dinner table there is gonna be a lot of
problems oh there’s gonna be a lot of
trouble too so you gotta ask yourself do
we vibe are we sharing the same values
when it comes to food do we have the
same attitude when it comes to food do
we have the same consciousness when it
comes to food if not there are gonna be
troubles the amount of messages I
receive from people who say Ralph I’m
trying to force my partner to eat more
plants a plant-based diet I’ve learnt
miss you can’t force people you can’t
control people I would rather not when I
was dating someone at the time when I
was vegan and they weren’t I said I’m
not gonna force them they were eating
sausages in front of me bacon eggs and
I’m like okay this isn’t gonna work
and it didn’t because I realized we were
both vibrating on different frequencies
so it’s just like when I’m talking about
the third eye Indigo’s if you aren’t on
that frequency you’ve got no business
watching these videos because it’s not
for you it’s only for the deep divers
you know who you are you see that’s the
mindset you got to have to know if
you want to be around someone who wants
to see you win they are happy for your
slow motion inside your happiness is
this your achievements is this if you go
they go if you go higher they go higher
to know if someone is meant to be in
your life you don’t want to be around
someone who wants to see you fail you
don’t want to be around someone who
looks down on you you don’t want to be
around someone who doesn’t have your
best interests at hand but more so you
don’t want to be around someone who
takes you for granted let me say that
again you don’t want to be around
someone who takes you for granted
because you are worthy for more don’t
put up with it I’m here to tell you you
don’t have to tolerate that BS anymore
there is someone waiting in the universe
that is gonna celebrate you like you
know you are worthy for that you know
you are worthy to be celebrated okay
so I’ve learned this when you are around
someone who is on the same mission as
you everything changes and that’s how to
know if someone is meant to be in your
life they are on the same mission as you
they want to see you win they want to
see you make it okay you almost have
this like telepathic communication you
know what’s going on with each other
from like a mile away that’s how to know
if someone’s meant to be in your life
are they forgettable what are they
unforgettable if they are unforgettable
if you can’t stop thinking about that
person because they touch you without
even touching you they are meant to be
in your life can
I get a hello you see many times we
forget to surround ourselves with people
who take us to the next level okay I
only have time for people who are going
to take me to the next level and that’s
why I surround myself with incredibly
supportive people that’s why this
channel has over 1 million subscribers
because I got people right who are all
around the world who are deep diving
fans hardcore army around here right
that’s how to know if people are meant
to be in your life
they are your ride-or-die they take you
to the next level not just physically oh
how good they were in bed no no no on
the soul level they pierce your heart
and they take you to places other
dimensions way up into the ethers that’s
how to know if someone’s meant to be in
your life if you feel abused they are
not meant to be in your life if you feel
used they are not meant to be in your
life if they use you like a doormat they
are not meant to be in your life and you
have to take responsibility to say no
more bye I’m gone ok you see what’s
helped me along my journey what’s helped
me along my journey is to know this to
know to know if someone is meant to be
in your life you have to really ask
questions ask them what do you want in
life where do you want to go do my
slow-motion inside
the my visions line up with yours
you see many times to know if someone is
meant to be in your life you got to ask
yourself does my ego disappear around
them you see the ego is a three-letter
word that can destroy a 12-letter word
called a relationship you see if you can
be around someone where your ego
dissolves they’re meant to be in your
life because we want to be around people
who help us to lose the ego that’s how
to know someone is meant to be in your
life to know someone is meant to be in
your life you got to ask yourself how
vulnerable can I be around them can I
let myself go then they’re meant to be
in your life because who ever you can
share your deepest darkest dirtiest
secrets to they are meant to be in your
life right so I’ve learned this that if
I can be vulnerable with someone tell
them my secrets and I really admire that
person because there are not a lot of
people that can that we can really be
vulnerable to right if we can be
vulnerable to someone a hundred percent
let them stay right if we can express
ourselves a hundred percent to that
person let them stay that’s how to know
someone’s meant to be in your life you
don’t feel shame around them you’re not
scared around them they improve your
mental health your physical health your
emotional health
just by even looking at them to know if
someone’s meant to be in your life
you’ve got to ask yourself how much has
my life improved around them I got
messages I got thousands of messages
Ralph your videos have changed my entire
life well I thank you to write this is
what happens when you are becoming your
greatest version when you are inspiring
millions you get messages like that
every single day I get thousands that’s
how to know someone’s meant to be in
your life
when they are taking you up when you’ve
seen how your life has changed just
being around them however if you have
seen your life deteriorate go down then
they’re not meant to be in your life and
sometimes it’s nothing personal
okay it just means the shoe doesn’t fit
not everyone is meant for you to know if
someone is meant to be in your life you
got to ask yourself this first and
foremost
since I met this person have I grown in
consciousness has my mind expanded or
has it shrunk
you see people should open you up to new
worlds that’s the water relationship the
water relationship is the most expensive
the Coca Cola relationship is the one
that contracts go where you are
celebrated and not where you are
tolerated sometimes you got to test
people to know if people are meant to be
in your life look I’m gonna test people
unsubscribe right now from this YouTube
channel we don’t need you right now now
people have gone that’s beautiful
the right ones are here getting the
information that’s what it’s about and
my oh my we got a whole lot to talk
about in fact I’m just warming up you
see people will come and then they will
go but the right ones will always remain
to know if someone is meant to be in
your life don’t force people to be there
you don’t have to force anything that is
so emotion this side Ralph you don’t
have to force anything that is meant to
be and that’s what’s helped me along my
journey allow the flow and then see who
remains okay so when we talk of knowing
if someone is meant to be in your life
you have to ask yourself do I feel
complete do I feel respected do I feel
like a human being around this person if
you do let them stay if you don’t if you
feel degraded it’s not worth it let me
tell you that over the years of
thousands of relationship counselling it
happens to me all the time I I don’t
want to have another relationship
message about this Oh Ralph my boyfriend
this my girlfriend this you have a
choice of who you place yourself with
you want to place yourself with someone
who honors you 100% and that’s how to
know if someone is meant to be in your
life they accept you for who you are
they loved you before they even knew you
once you realize that then you’ll just
say so get to be a live baby can I get a
hello deep divers of planet Earth we are
out here in the heart of nature baby
feel so good to be alive baby have a
beautiful day with just whoa breathing
in that good are on a baby infinite
waters diving deep once again stay well
let him stay okay let him go let him go
don’t go let him stay there pretty cool right right right

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