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How to Take Back Your Life When You’re Broken


peace infinite waters diving deep once
again we are out here a beautiful day we
even had breakfast yet but we are in
heaven can I get a hello there how to
take back your life when you’re broken
someone wrote in saying they’ve lost it
all
they’ve lost money relationships
connections to their family and their
job self-respect right they feel their
whole life is falling apart right in
front of them and they’re scared they
feel lost like nobody’s around to help
and I get this a lot as a psychologist
but more so as someone who grew up
falling on my ass a lot because I was
skateboarding I’m gonna tell you a very
simple secret it’s okay to fool say it
again or Alf it’s okay to fool can I get
a hello there well growing up we did we
didn’t really have a choice to be honest
I was just skating and you fall down and
hurts your bottle up right you see in
this society we have been told that we
have to be perfect all the time do you
know what this does to your mind body
and soul we now live with tremendous
expectation to be somebody we are not
that is why you feel broken because you
are trying to be fixed in essence be
someone else
you aren’t broken even though you feel
you are broken many times we don’t
realize we can rewrite our story at any
time you only on chapter 1 baby right
and yes it’s looking pretty grim but you
can erase that and write chapter 1 again
or you can wait for chapter 2 and
realize that it’s going to get a whole
lot better
you see it’s really
in the hardest moments you learn the
most about yourself you’re pushed to the
limits and nobody is getting off right
every day I’m dealing with a hell of a
lot of stuff but the cap down the road
is always helping me can I get a hello
there if you don’t smile you’re gonna
cry
so learn how to not feel guilty about
enjoying yourself right learn that turn
to nature right I’m surrounded by nature
every single day because nature is
helping me it is healing me what are
some of the words you are saying right
because some people say my life is a
mess do you know that dust your
subconscious mind it makes you live a
very messy life a very messy life but
more so your daily activities are gonna
be really messy because you have said
that the word is now bond and that means
you have to justify what you’ve just
said through your daily actions mmm why
whoa mm you do that mm right the whole
of life is art and what you think is
broken may just be a temporary state no
it is because this too shall pass you
see many of us we’re looking over the
fence we’re looking at someone else’s
life wishing we had this looking at
someone else’s life thinking their life
is perfect and our life is broken many
of us were placing way too much pressure
on ourselves to achieve so you want to
get a doctrine you want to do what your
parents want you want to work at this
big company but you have to ask yourself
are you taking care of yourself because
you can’t do none of that if you’re not
whoa breathing in that good ass prana
can I get a hello there so once you
learn how to fall
learn how to fool you realize that the
only thing bad about falling is the ego
the ego will trick you into thinking
there is something wrong with falling no
you can’t have up without down right
when you fall you now have a chance to
rise so without falling there would be
no rice without the darkness you would
not be able to see the stars mmm we’re
going to be doing a lot of that mmm
right many times we don’t see that every
single day is totally different now that
seems very simple but you see many
people forget that I created a concept
called the million dollar effect now
I’ve spoken about this in magic money
that it’s all about our emotional bank
balance so let’s just say I gave you a
million dollars oh my life is suddenly
fixed you see so many of us we’re living
from the outside in instead of from the
inside out so epigenetics what is that
scientists now know that perception
governs DNA that is why if you say my
life is broken your DNA is going to echo
that sentiment is gonna say DNA is
broken so all the areas in your life are
going to be affected word is bond so as
a psychologist I always tell people
instead of saying my life is a mess
say I’m just falling with style at the
moment I’ll be up back soon can I get a
hello there I’ll be up real soon
right and it’s okay to fall there is no
shame in it whatsoever my life isn’t
perfect I’m not a saint
I didn’t come here to be perfect I
didn’t come here to do what my parents
want me to do I didn’t come here to do
what society wanted me to do I didn’t
come here to please you and to live up
to your own to live up to your
expectations no I came here to be
authentic if you can accept yourself you
can learn to heal yourself let me repeat
that if you can accept yourself you can
learn to heal yourself if you can let go
of this guilt this shame if you can
learn how to forgive yourself if you can
realize your mistakes don’t define you
because you see everything in this world
is in a regenerative process when you
cut yourself it heals so you have all
the cells in your body working for you
now let’s talk about the million dollar
effect if I was to give you a million
dollars how do you feel you you would
feel fantastic Thank You Ralph I didn’t
give it to you yet can I get a Hello
there right but it’s just money paper
right but it governs our every single
action and that’s why a lot of us feel
broken because we have based a whole
life on external gratification if I was
to take away all the money in your bank
account how would you feel broken or
really happy happy if you have based
your whole life on the in wha the inner
on the inner journey that’s the secret
you got to realize that
you don’t have to be this person that
walks alone all the time you don’t have
to carry the whole world on your back
ask the cat down the road to do it for
you when you feel broken that’s the
perfect time to invite new people into
your life
people who don’t judge you all the time
because when you are broken you’re gonna
feel very vulnerable very naked very
insecure and that’s why you got to be
very selective of who you surround
yourself with you got to be very
selective of the kind of energy you
surround yourself with what’s helped me
personally is not taking myself
seriously right that’s why I can share
so freely because for me it’s fun I get
a kick out of this right but I do know
when I’m going through really hard times
it’s because I’m not in alignment to my
true life purpose you got to allow
yourself the permission to let go of
whatever is no longer serving you
can I get a hello there PPT people no
longer serving you place is no longer
serving you and things no longer serving
you
but you see many of us we’re living
upstairs all the time so what I ask you
to do today is to live downstairs for a
change which is your whole entire body
turn to nature right there’s a reason
why I end up in heaven a lot I go to
nature a lot I heal a lot um whoa
breathing in that good a sprain or a lot
I’m not blaming myself for yesterday’s
actions because today is a new start now
I’m not going to tell you it’s going to
be easy but it becomes easier when you
let go of this idea of being the perfect
person let me repeat that it becomes
easier when you let go of this idea of
be
being the perfect person right you
didn’t come here to do any of that I
certainly didn’t that’s why I’m not
doing it can I get a hello there take
small steps
forget about giant leaps be proud of
what you’re doing every single day write
it down in a journal say I did this and
this is bringing me closer to be more in
alignment with my true life purpose
don’t let anybody tell you otherwise
that you can’t do whatever you came here
to do so once again rewrite the story
chapter one not going so well don’t
worry about it
chapter two is coming you don’t like
chapter one well erase it let’s start it
again can I get a Hello
yeah Picasso baby can I get a hello
there have a beautiful day Wow here
infinite waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy peace

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