[Music]
peas and Finnick waters diving deep once
again so fresh and so clean we’re out
here in nature we’ve got the birds
breathing in that good ass prana baby
okay
how to stop shallow meaningless
conversations and actually connect with
someone properly yay that’s fantastic
because that’s the question that came in
and I get a lot of these kinds of
questions how can i connect with someone
beneath the surface
Raika so many of us are so much deeper
then we actually appear and we ain’t
is that you today like you always find
yourself around very shallow people
talking about very mundane topics not
really diving deep and it really is
getting quite irritating right now
well alas right let me share with you
what’s helped me along my journey you
see I grew up really with a frog in my
mouth oh it’s almost as if I couldn’t
talk properly I couldn’t really get off
my chest what was really going inside of
my mind right so a lot of the
conversations I had
along my early early journey were very
shallow indeed rye and people didn’t
really know who I was and I definitely
didn’t know who they were
they say physical connections are common
a mental connection is rare and a heart
connection is even rarer slow motion
aside so I’m gonna give you the ultimate
guide to stop shallow meaningless
conversations and actually connect with
someone properly it starts with this ask
the most revealing question you can
think of what is like the most revealing
question you can think of right now
go ask me it right now okay I got this
question like okay that’s good
someone asked me Ralph yes if you could
go back to any time and place where
would it be what would you be doing and
how old you how old would you be Ralph
how old would I be what would I be doing
where would I be okay great question now
we’re starting to talk where I am right
now I asked my mom that she said where
she is right now is fantastic right
where I am right now is amazing
but there was a time when I was 13 years
old I was just skating and I would
normally skate for like eight nine hours
right and I just felt so free so just by
me answering that question you’ve
already known quite a fair bit about me
right
what happens in society is that we have
become expert mimic Asst hi hi how are
you how are you I’m fine I’m fine
great great we repeat what people say
because we have programs running in our
subconscious mind we don’t even think
about certain questions we ask people
how are you I’m fine
fearful insecure neurotic and emotional
everyone is so deep right so start
asking more revealing questions what is
the craziest thing you did last summer
talk to me baby oh my gosh I can’t
believe it
right so you only get the answer based
on the level of depth based on the level
of depth of the question okay programmed
questions give you programmed responses
so ask more revealing questions another
step was help me along my journey is
stop assuming assumptions make bad
conclusions slow motion this side do you
assume a lot do you have assumptions
about me I think Ralph does this or
Ralph does that stop it don’t worry
about it keep going you’re just gonna be
wrong anyway right I assume a lot and
I’m always wrong most of the times right
sometimes I’m not but a lot of the times
I am because I realized assumptions make
bad conclusions to actually connect with
someone properly you have to stop
assuming you have to allow the other
person to reveal themselves to you you
got to allow the other person to reveal
themselves to you as opposed to you
filling in everything about who they are
right
never underestimate someone’s level of
depth
someone’s deepness right people are far
deeper than you can never imagine you
think all of those people you’re passing
every single day on the streets are just
robots or zombies programmed by the
matrix do you really think that no there
are deep people everywhere it’s just
that so many of us we adopt this persona
this mask in society they sometimes hard
to get them to take it off right a lot
of us actually feel we are these mosques
we have created and now we’ve got a
massive ego and the cat down the road is
saying don’t worry about it don’t worry
about it
right so stop making assumptions now
what’s also helped me is to find an area
of interest like this is a diving deep
channel and I always receive a lot of
messages from fellow deep divers right
who are very deep have a lot of depth
right and that is how to connect with
someone properly right find something
both of you can talk about for a long
time now the problem is most of us don’t
have time right we think but we actually
do we’ll come to that later but find an
area of interest what really excites you
what are you really passionate about
start saying it when you go out all of
you because how many times have you been
out with a bunch of friends and you’ve
just kept silent right I’m a Pisces so
naturally I’m pretty silent right I used
to always go out with my friends and I
would be just the silent observer
listening to what everyone else is
saying stop right there now what I
learned is that you have to talk about
what you are passionate about when
they’re talking about what they’re
passionate about and you’re totally not
interested someone will be interested
though in
what you have to say and then both of
you will be chatting for very very very
very long time
how does that feel feel so good to be
alive baby right seven day vegan
challenge let’s talk about it always got
a slip in every single video I went to
the veg fest and a lot of people
recognized me a lot of people really
showing the benefits of a plant-based
diet now when I was talking to people at
the festival like they were talking so
long and I was as well that we actually
forgot to eat our food you don’t want
that to happen
eat first before you took food is the
gateway to opening people up give them
their favorite meal right take them to
their favorite restaurant this is how
you really start to even form a better
connection with someone right ever gone
out to eat and the food is terrible and
there’s like like like absolutely
nothing to talk about
I found out that because the plant base
community is growing and growing and
whenever I hear someone’s own
testimonial about how a plant-based diet
has changed their life they don’t stop
talking about it
it’s like have you seen that meme of
this guy’s like forehead bulging out
like veins everywhere like kind of kind
of vegan stop saying they’re a vegan for
like 60 seconds like so hard right now
right that’s what happens because it’s
just it’s not that you’re trying to show
off I get it it’s just that you’re so
glad about the transformation you’ve
seen just by stuffing a load of
raspberries in your mouth it really
helps a lot a lot the next step is to no
matter how busy someone is I found out
in life that if they really care they
will always make time right if you want
to connect with someone properly not
just have shallow meaningless
conversations find time there is a
reason why good people can sometimes
appear very shallow because see at
whoa-ho they gotta go everyone has got a
lot of stuff on their plate even that
bird up there is singing it’s got its
own mission baby right it’s like I’m
gonna be singing so I found that you got
to make time for what’s important a lot
of people say well if I had time I would
actually talk to you longer like they
say that to you in their lunch break
right then you don’t see them again I
made sure I created a lifestyle which I
have a lot of time to have meaningful
conversations based on what I’m doing
every single day it’s a choice you got
to make right a lot of us we have a lot
of priorities we don’t have a priority
if deeper connections is a top priority
it will start manifesting in your life
if not then it won’t what is more
important to work a lot and have no
connection with anybody or to have a
great connection with someone and do
what you love I’ll let you think of that
I’ll let you think about that baby
the next step will help me along my
journey is to realize this that you have
to become an active listener do you know
that the psychology shows when people
are talking
okay the other person isn’t even
listening they’re thinking about what
they want to say that’s why a lot of us
get yes yes yes we get lost in
translation I didn’t even pay attention
to what you were saying has this ever
happened to you someone tells you their
name in the beginning of the
conversation you’re halfway through and
you’ve forgotten their name and you are
free to admit it has that ever happened
to you I’m talking to you right now be
honest it’s happened to me a lot of
times like sometimes I don’t want to say
I’ve forgotten your name because they’ve
just told me but I wasn’t listening
because while they were talking I was
already thinking about what I was gonna
say I wasn’t listening and absorbing the
message slow motion this side so if you
want to stop forgetting people’s names
and get off to a good start for more
start listening right you got two ears
and one mouth for a reason slow motion
this laughing that’s cuz we got to
listen a lot more than we got a talk
okay talk to my heart don’t talk to my
mind let’s dive into it talk to my heart
don’t talk to my mind what am I talking
about most people talk to people’s minds
they talk to their egos they don’t talk
to their hearts they don’t touch their
hearts they don’t pierce it and that’s
very difficult to do or is it
we have been reared in this society to
talk to people’s egos forgetting that
this vehicle we live in is just a shell
we are the primordial life force that is
within it so I started to realize that
if I want to connect with someone
properly I’ve got to start connecting
and talking to their heart space the
heart is electro it’s more electro
magnetic lee electromagnetically
stronger than the brain right so we’re
talking that the neuroscience is showing
that the heart is actually more powerful
than our brain what if we are out of our
heart we’re in big trouble right that’s
what’s happened on the planet
thank goodness more and more people are
getting back to really the first brain
which is the heart which knows
everything even before the brain can
think of it the heart knows that’s how
to connect with someone properly talk to
their hearts
instead of their mind and how do we do
that like what helped me is this become
you see the ego is very quick it holds
on to grudges it is all about being very
competitive the heart is very calm like
when the heart opens it’s very calm and
you have to embody that calmness to
start connecting with someone properly
if you’re putting people down if you
trash-talking people you will look you
will you will only be talking to their
egos right but start talking to people’s
hearts by just laying down your guard
surrendering people will only open up to
you as much as you open up to them slow
motion this side and that’s what I learn
you have to be honest you got to be
transparent which is very easy to say
it’s not as easy to do because a lot of
us we have a lot of skeletons in our
closet oh my gosh I hope they don’t find
out about this but actually once you
expose all your floors no one can use
them against you but more so that is
what we want for the greater connection
we don’t just want the sugarcoating
feel-good stuff no we want the raw we
want to meet people we want to meet
people shadow sides right beside people
don’t you decide beside people don’t
usually get to see right the rough
rugged and raw the good the bad and the
ugly we want to see all of it and that
can only happen when you stop being
honest that you’re not just this perfect
person you actually make a lot of
mistakes you trip up a lot
yeah things like that that’s how to
really connect with someone properly
many times we don’t realize the power of
vulnerability we don’t realize that
sometimes great connections come not by
showing how powerful you are but showing
the obstacles you’ve climbed over to
find your power slow motion this side I
want to know your story like how are you
shining after everything you’ve been
through I just don’t get it you see
that’s the secret to connecting with
someone properly take me somewhere see
most people on the planet don’t take
anybody anywhere I realized that I dive
deep on this channel I talk about the
third eye I’ve spoken about Indigo’s
right is the earth round or flat Ralph
oh boy right look I was talking about
DMT I’ve spoken about how to stop
absorbing other people’s energy a
plethora of information has been poured
from this channel reaching so many
different people because I’m diving in
the more intricate you are the more
depth you have the more people you will
connect with I show so many multiple
sides of me which is why I’m always
forming deeper connections but wait
there was a time when I was very shallow
because I only thought I had one
dimension to me who told me that I
believed it now I realize each and every
single person you see is a miniature
universe and if you want to find out
more about that universe you have to be
respectful of that universe to say that
miniature universe your miniature
universe is pretty different from me but
I’m gonna hear you out that’s why when I
make videos and I listen to what other
people have to say certain videos i
watch of this I’m not gonna judge it
that’s how they see the world I respect
that this is how I see the world we can
both get along and that’s actually how
you form deeper connections with other
people you don’t say hey only my way is
the right way you’re wrong I’m right no
you use discernment which is the ability
to judge well to say every single person
you see on planet earth is here for a
different reason
right everyone has jewels and gems you
might need to find out about and also
you can learn from people you can learn
from people that’s the gift of listening
a lot of us don’t even realize if we
would just zip it for one second we
might actually learn something we might
actually use these
I got to do that more right but alas you
will realize everything will come to you
at the perfect time and then just say
feel so good to be a live baby can I get
a Hello we are out here in the heart of
nature getting high a beautiful day
infinite waters dive in deep once again
[Music]
you
you [Music]
peas and Finnick waters diving deep once
again so fresh and so clean we’re out
here in nature we’ve got the birds
breathing in that good ass prana baby
okay
how to stop shallow meaningless
conversations and actually connect with
someone properly yay that’s fantastic
because that’s the question that came in
and I get a lot of these kinds of
questions how can i connect with someone
beneath the surface
Raika so many of us are so much deeper
then we actually appear and we ain’t
is that you today like you always find
yourself around very shallow people
talking about very mundane topics not
really diving deep and it really is
getting quite irritating right now
well alas right let me share with you
what’s helped me along my journey you
see I grew up really with a frog in my
mouth oh it’s almost as if I couldn’t
talk properly I couldn’t really get off
my chest what was really going inside of
my mind right so a lot of the
conversations I had
along my early early journey were very
shallow indeed rye and people didn’t
really know who I was and I definitely
didn’t know who they were
they say physical connections are common
a mental connection is rare and a heart
connection is even rarer slow motion
aside so I’m gonna give you the ultimate
guide to stop shallow meaningless
conversations and actually connect with
someone properly it starts with this ask
the most revealing question you can
think of what is like the most revealing
question you can think of right now
go ask me it right now okay I got this
question like okay that’s good
someone asked me Ralph yes if you could
go back to any time and place where
would it be what would you be doing and
how old you how old would you be Ralph
how old would I be what would I be doing
where would I be okay great question now
we’re starting to talk where I am right
now I asked my mom that she said where
she is right now is fantastic right
where I am right now is amazing
but there was a time when I was 13 years
old I was just skating and I would
normally skate for like eight nine hours
right and I just felt so free so just by
me answering that question you’ve
already known quite a fair bit about me
right
what happens in society is that we have
become expert mimic Asst hi hi how are
you how are you I’m fine I’m fine
great great we repeat what people say
because we have programs running in our
subconscious mind we don’t even think
about certain questions we ask people
how are you I’m fine
fearful insecure neurotic and emotional
everyone is so deep right so start
asking more revealing questions what is
the craziest thing you did last summer
talk to me baby oh my gosh I can’t
believe it
right so you only get the answer based
on the level of depth based on the level
of depth of the question okay programmed
questions give you programmed responses
so ask more revealing questions another
step was help me along my journey is
stop assuming assumptions make bad
conclusions slow motion this side do you
assume a lot do you have assumptions
about me I think Ralph does this or
Ralph does that stop it don’t worry
about it keep going you’re just gonna be
wrong anyway right I assume a lot and
I’m always wrong most of the times right
sometimes I’m not but a lot of the times
I am because I realized assumptions make
bad conclusions to actually connect with
someone properly you have to stop
assuming you have to allow the other
person to reveal themselves to you you
got to allow the other person to reveal
themselves to you as opposed to you
filling in everything about who they are
right
never underestimate someone’s level of
depth
someone’s deepness right people are far
deeper than you can never imagine you
think all of those people you’re passing
every single day on the streets are just
robots or zombies programmed by the
matrix do you really think that no there
are deep people everywhere it’s just
that so many of us we adopt this persona
this mask in society they sometimes hard
to get them to take it off right a lot
of us actually feel we are these mosques
we have created and now we’ve got a
massive ego and the cat down the road is
saying don’t worry about it don’t worry
about it
right so stop making assumptions now
what’s also helped me is to find an area
of interest like this is a diving deep
channel and I always receive a lot of
messages from fellow deep divers right
who are very deep have a lot of depth
right and that is how to connect with
someone properly right find something
both of you can talk about for a long
time now the problem is most of us don’t
have time right we think but we actually
do we’ll come to that later but find an
area of interest what really excites you
what are you really passionate about
start saying it when you go out all of
you because how many times have you been
out with a bunch of friends and you’ve
just kept silent right I’m a Pisces so
naturally I’m pretty silent right I used
to always go out with my friends and I
would be just the silent observer
listening to what everyone else is
saying stop right there now what I
learned is that you have to talk about
what you are passionate about when
they’re talking about what they’re
passionate about and you’re totally not
interested someone will be interested
though in
what you have to say and then both of
you will be chatting for very very very
very long time
how does that feel feel so good to be
alive baby right seven day vegan
challenge let’s talk about it always got
a slip in every single video I went to
the veg fest and a lot of people
recognized me a lot of people really
showing the benefits of a plant-based
diet now when I was talking to people at
the festival like they were talking so
long and I was as well that we actually
forgot to eat our food you don’t want
that to happen
eat first before you took food is the
gateway to opening people up give them
their favorite meal right take them to
their favorite restaurant this is how
you really start to even form a better
connection with someone right ever gone
out to eat and the food is terrible and
there’s like like like absolutely
nothing to talk about
I found out that because the plant base
community is growing and growing and
whenever I hear someone’s own
testimonial about how a plant-based diet
has changed their life they don’t stop
talking about it
it’s like have you seen that meme of
this guy’s like forehead bulging out
like veins everywhere like kind of kind
of vegan stop saying they’re a vegan for
like 60 seconds like so hard right now
right that’s what happens because it’s
just it’s not that you’re trying to show
off I get it it’s just that you’re so
glad about the transformation you’ve
seen just by stuffing a load of
raspberries in your mouth it really
helps a lot a lot the next step is to no
matter how busy someone is I found out
in life that if they really care they
will always make time right if you want
to connect with someone properly not
just have shallow meaningless
conversations find time there is a
reason why good people can sometimes
appear very shallow because see at
whoa-ho they gotta go everyone has got a
lot of stuff on their plate even that
bird up there is singing it’s got its
own mission baby right it’s like I’m
gonna be singing so I found that you got
to make time for what’s important a lot
of people say well if I had time I would
actually talk to you longer like they
say that to you in their lunch break
right then you don’t see them again I
made sure I created a lifestyle which I
have a lot of time to have meaningful
conversations based on what I’m doing
every single day it’s a choice you got
to make right a lot of us we have a lot
of priorities we don’t have a priority
if deeper connections is a top priority
it will start manifesting in your life
if not then it won’t what is more
important to work a lot and have no
connection with anybody or to have a
great connection with someone and do
what you love I’ll let you think of that
I’ll let you think about that baby
the next step will help me along my
journey is to realize this that you have
to become an active listener do you know
that the psychology shows when people
are talking
okay the other person isn’t even
listening they’re thinking about what
they want to say that’s why a lot of us
get yes yes yes we get lost in
translation I didn’t even pay attention
to what you were saying has this ever
happened to you someone tells you their
name in the beginning of the
conversation you’re halfway through and
you’ve forgotten their name and you are
free to admit it has that ever happened
to you I’m talking to you right now be
honest it’s happened to me a lot of
times like sometimes I don’t want to say
I’ve forgotten your name because they’ve
just told me but I wasn’t listening
because while they were talking I was
already thinking about what I was gonna
say I wasn’t listening and absorbing the
message slow motion this side so if you
want to stop forgetting people’s names
and get off to a good start for more
start listening right you got two ears
and one mouth for a reason slow motion
this laughing that’s cuz we got to
listen a lot more than we got a talk
okay talk to my heart don’t talk to my
mind let’s dive into it talk to my heart
don’t talk to my mind what am I talking
about most people talk to people’s minds
they talk to their egos they don’t talk
to their hearts they don’t touch their
hearts they don’t pierce it and that’s
very difficult to do or is it
we have been reared in this society to
talk to people’s egos forgetting that
this vehicle we live in is just a shell
we are the primordial life force that is
within it so I started to realize that
if I want to connect with someone
properly I’ve got to start connecting
and talking to their heart space the
heart is electro it’s more electro
magnetic lee electromagnetically
stronger than the brain right so we’re
talking that the neuroscience is showing
that the heart is actually more powerful
than our brain what if we are out of our
heart we’re in big trouble right that’s
what’s happened on the planet
thank goodness more and more people are
getting back to really the first brain
which is the heart which knows
everything even before the brain can
think of it the heart knows that’s how
to connect with someone properly talk to
their hearts
instead of their mind and how do we do
that like what helped me is this become
you see the ego is very quick it holds
on to grudges it is all about being very
competitive the heart is very calm like
when the heart opens it’s very calm and
you have to embody that calmness to
start connecting with someone properly
if you’re putting people down if you
trash-talking people you will look you
will you will only be talking to their
egos right but start talking to people’s
hearts by just laying down your guard
surrendering people will only open up to
you as much as you open up to them slow
motion this side and that’s what I learn
you have to be honest you got to be
transparent which is very easy to say
it’s not as easy to do because a lot of
us we have a lot of skeletons in our
closet oh my gosh I hope they don’t find
out about this but actually once you
expose all your floors no one can use
them against you but more so that is
what we want for the greater connection
we don’t just want the sugarcoating
feel-good stuff no we want the raw we
want to meet people we want to meet
people shadow sides right beside people
don’t you decide beside people don’t
usually get to see right the rough
rugged and raw the good the bad and the
ugly we want to see all of it and that
can only happen when you stop being
honest that you’re not just this perfect
person you actually make a lot of
mistakes you trip up a lot
yeah things like that that’s how to
really connect with someone properly
many times we don’t realize the power of
vulnerability we don’t realize that
sometimes great connections come not by
showing how powerful you are but showing
the obstacles you’ve climbed over to
find your power slow motion this side I
want to know your story like how are you
shining after everything you’ve been
through I just don’t get it you see
that’s the secret to connecting with
someone properly take me somewhere see
most people on the planet don’t take
anybody anywhere I realized that I dive
deep on this channel I talk about the
third eye I’ve spoken about Indigo’s
right is the earth round or flat Ralph
oh boy right look I was talking about
DMT I’ve spoken about how to stop
absorbing other people’s energy a
plethora of information has been poured
from this channel reaching so many
different people because I’m diving in
the more intricate you are the more
depth you have the more people you will
connect with I show so many multiple
sides of me which is why I’m always
forming deeper connections but wait
there was a time when I was very shallow
because I only thought I had one
dimension to me who told me that I
believed it now I realize each and every
single person you see is a miniature
universe and if you want to find out
more about that universe you have to be
respectful of that universe to say that
miniature universe your miniature
universe is pretty different from me but
I’m gonna hear you out that’s why when I
make videos and I listen to what other
people have to say certain videos i
watch of this I’m not gonna judge it
that’s how they see the world I respect
that this is how I see the world we can
both get along and that’s actually how
you form deeper connections with other
people you don’t say hey only my way is
the right way you’re wrong I’m right no
you use discernment which is the ability
to judge well to say every single person
you see on planet earth is here for a
different reason
right everyone has jewels and gems you
might need to find out about and also
you can learn from people you can learn
from people that’s the gift of listening
a lot of us don’t even realize if we
would just zip it for one second we
might actually learn something we might
actually use these
I got to do that more right but alas you
will realize everything will come to you
at the perfect time and then just say
feel so good to be a live baby can I get
a Hello we are out here in the heart of
nature getting high a beautiful day
infinite waters dive in deep once again
[Music]
you
you [Music]
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