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peace infinite waters diving deep once
again we are out here in the heart of
nature baby whoa breathing in that good
ass prana how to stop responding
negatively to everything you think
disturbs you or offends you it’s getting
really personal right now that’s the
question that came in and shout out to
the person who wrote the question
because it saved me a lot of time and we
so we’re gonna dive into this question
and this is a great question because
it’s something which we all go through
like how many of you feel offended by
something during an average day what
about being disturbed by maybe somebody
or something you read something you
watch right we are living in great times
of change on the planet so I’m going to
share with you what’s helped me along my
journey stop responding negatively to
everything I feel offended by okay
disturbed by it
let’s start with this you see let’s just
say somebody shouts at you somebody does
something to you we are social beings
lots of people on the planet now we’ve
been told just ignore them
right that’s what I used to do ok I was
skating one time in Venice and the
skater was like shouting at me for no
reason so what did I do
I didn’t even had breakfast yet never
mind that he was just shouting at me
because apparently I got in his way now
I was always told just be silent ignore
and it will go away well that’s what I
did and guess what he wasn’t going away
he just kept on doing it and there were
loads of people like watching and I’m
like what am I gonna do
so what helped me along my journey was
to realize that there is what we have
called natural silence where it’s very
very very organic okay that’s when you
can really just ignore somebody and then
move away but there is also something
called force silence and this is what a
lot of people practice on the planet and
that’s why they’re not in the process of
becoming their greatest version because
they are suppressing their emotions they
are not expressing how they actually
so guess what I didn’t ignore it I
actually said no sorry about that but I
got a point to make about this situation
I’m not just gonna zip it now obviously
they say never argue with the fool
because from the distance it looks like
you’re both fools right so I didn’t
argue so much but I had to express
myself I always tell people let’s just
say you’re on even social media and
someone responds to you or they say
something to you you feel offended by
disturb I you think I’ll just ignore it
but if you have something to say never
miss that opportunity of expressing
yourself why because this will free up
the energetic the negative energetic
blocks within the body a lot of people
have a lot of subconscious programs
running beliefs repressed emotions
because they never said what was really
on their mind they bury their emotion so
one day you’re just gonna like
completely go crazy in the worst
possible place at my house why why see I
told you so ask yourself do I have
something to say
sometimes you don’t then you can use the
natural silence okay if something
offends you you read an article or
whatever but if you’ve got something to
say it’s always better to say it because
now you are releasing the energy you
don’t have to go home thinking about the
situation now we talk about the second
simple way to stop responding negatively
to everything you feel disturbs or
offends you what’s helped me along my
journey is simply this you see
throughout the day
welcome bodied by so many different
energies and what’s really helped me is
this you see you have to realize that
address it address the situation okay
don’t just walk away from something
sometimes somebody at work somebody at
work somebody next door somebody whoever
it is address them look them
face-to-face eye-to-eye and address the
situation
there and then what happens in a lot of
cases is that people walk away from the
scene okay just say somebody offends you
you you leave it then you go home
thinking about it then you come back to
it now this is where it gets really
crazy because first of all it’s already
happened so you’ve had to actually go
home and now you’re over thinking about
what took place when you could have just
addressed it then and there got it off
your chest and then whoa breathing that
good ass prana baby
so what’s helped me along my journey is
to address anything I feel fans or
disturbs me address it there and then
don’t go home thinking about it let’s
talk about the third secret to stop
responding negatively to everything you
CCT now this is what I found out was
helping me because sometimes I used to
respond in a very negative way to
somebody who I thought was trying to
harm me put my life in danger don’t do
that the cat down the road is my
bodyguard right I realized that CCT is
come compassionate truthful by using CCT
every single day I say okay if I’m
confronted I’m confronted with the
situation an event or a person that I
feel is offending me I have to become
calm and I have to put myself in their
shoes which is compassion and I have to
be truthful which means I can’t suppress
how I actually feel in that situation so
CCT what is it Ralph calm that’s right
compassionate that’s right in truthful
truthful is where you don’t have to back
down you actually speak your heart mind
it’s not like things are gonna get
crazier they’re already crazy right so
it’s how you address the situation makes
a world of difference you could say
excuse me I used to make videos in one
place near Malibu and the neighbor was
like stop making videos because it’s too
early I’m like it’s 9 o’clock
so I had to be calm when I was talking
to him compassionate and then truthful
to say actually I’m not moving I’m sorry
we’ve got lots of deep divers waiting
for this sorry
what’s the fourth secret to stop
responding negatively to everything you
feel disturbs or offends you now
everything is about what you are tuning
into by the great Nikola Tesla said if
you want to understand the universe you
got to think in terms of energy
vibration and frequency so what helped
me along my journey was to realize this
that what am I to nning into you turn
into whatever you are tuning into slow
motion inside so instead of tuning into
people storm their drama their
negativity why not
tune into your own inner peace
what say it again
instead of tuning into their chaos tune
into your inner peace because you see
fire creates more fire and that’s where
a lot of us find ourselves we end up
mimicking people who we don’t actually
want to be like in essence we end up
becoming exactly like them so the
problem escalates so you’ve got to
diffuse all the tension you’ve got to
become water in a very fiery situation
and that’s not easy because a lot of us
we’re so quick to react and that’s the
problem because we haven’t practiced CCT
where you got to be calm first
compassionate and then truthful so I
realized okay I get offended sometimes I
turn on my even go on different websites
and I said what the hell is this
then I realized because once again I’m
trying to go out there I’ve got to be
focused on what I’m doing tuning into
what I’m creating and then I have
nothing to complain about
now let’s talk about number five doing
this in steps making it real simple a
lot of the times we think something is
very personal when I was skating and
that guy was shouting at me I thought
okay this is about me but if they don’t
know you
it never is personal how can it be so
don’t take it personally and it’s
something I’ve had to learn over time
that like who are these people I don’t
know them we just met so why am I even
bothering like thinking it’s personal
you see we feel offended and disturbed
by certain things when we feel people
are out to get us
when they aren’t because if we talk
about number six how to stop responding
negatively to everything you feel
disturbs or offends you most of the time
it has nothing to do with you how do I
know this okay when this event happened
in Venice California this was years ago
recently what happened the guy came up
to me saying that I’m sorry about that I
had a drug problem that’s why I was
shouting it you had a lot of issues
going on at the time so I was like don’t
worry about it like I had forgotten
about that issue but I knew when it was
happening that this wasn’t about me this
guy had issues he was dealing with so
that’s how to stop responding negatively
once again you got to be very empathetic
you got to realize that a lot of people
are going through so much right now
that’s why I didn’t even trip I’m like I
get it right just don’t shout at me like
next time I got my best clothes on
goodness gracious
okay people are going through stuff in
psychology we call this kick the cat
syndrome where somebody shouts at you at
work you go home we better not kick the
cat down the road but some people still
do it that’s not good right
or they kick the sofa right kick this
hope they kick whatever they could find
right can’t down the road will actually
bite you back it’s not taking any crap
at all
so I realize okay these are their issues
that not mine okay and let’s talk about
number seven seven day vegan challenge
now I used to get offended when people
when I was becoming a vegan been a vegan
for nearly 12 years now I used to get
offended and feel disturbed when people
were just showing no compassion to
animals whatsoever I took this as a
personal attack on my lifestyle say
don’t you know over 64 billion animals
are killed every single year so I would
be giving them like documentaries
earthlings forks over knives whatnot and
some of these people they didn’t want to
hear it they didn’t even want to watch
it now like I don’t want to watch those
those slaughterhouse videos so I was
like I don’t want to be around these
kinds of people this is offensive then I
realized the secret that even eating
more plant-based diet being a vegan is a
consciousness level to see that
everything is connected and instead of
just bashing what other people are
eating
I’ve got to focus on promoting my own
lifestyle slow motion this side
and ever since the seven day vegan
challenge is growing so much just look
how many people are connecting on this
channel to realize the magnitude of the
seven day vegan challenge like I got
people on snapchat sending me
strawberries in their mouth grapes in
their mouth every single day how cool is
that
okay so it’s a revolution right now
because people want to eat better they
want to feel better and they want to
look better and that all comes when you
start eating more plant-based diet
eating a more alkaline diet and if
somebody isn’t living that lifestyle
that’s cool
you can live and let live right that’s
what’s helped me along my journey now we
can talk about number eight what’s
helped me is to really become a
lighthouse okay a lighthouse where you
realize that instead of attacking what
you hate you can actually start
promoting what you love and this is what
helped me along my journey you see on my
channel I’ve talked about so many
different subjects I’m not really about
attacking anymore
like I used to I never actually used to
attack but I’m about solutions I’m about
promoting the right solutions because I
could spend hours and hours talking
about problems and problems and that’s
very important but if I don’t give you
any solutions it’s no use to stop
responding negatively to everything you
feel disturbs or offends you because
once again it’s a perspective which you
are tuning into we’ll come to that later
you got to start asking yourself what am
i doing to become a lighthouse an
example right
the lighthouse if you are a lighthouse
you are now an example people see you
and they get inspired like
don’t tell people oh do the seven day
vegan challenge Nana nobody got time for
that
they just see my channel and say oh my
gosh oh my goodness
you got so many subscribers millions of
views I want to do that too
alright people are copycats like that
right once people see success they want
to copy it so if you are a lighthouse
write every single day I live in
abundance I wake up to abundance been
doing this for years and it’s only gonna
grow why because word is born people see
your lifestyle working they see okay now
you are really living the life you’re
not just talking about it you got proof
people say oh my gosh what’s the secret
so because you are lighthouse people
become attracted to you by you being a
living example okay and it does it makes
a world of difference right and that’s
what’s helped me along my journey just
to be a lighthouse right we can go our
separate ways but I’m gonna shine and
you’re gonna see and you’re gonna be
like how how did you do that right then
we can probably talk about it maybe if
you’re lucky number 9 how to stop
responding negatively to everything you
feel disturbs or offends you now many
times we have criticisms I’ve had a lot
of criticism some people say Rob do it
this way doing that yep but once again I
say okay they’ve told me this but am I
gonna be another problem right am I
gonna take on board what they say
sometimes I might they could have a
point right you always got to look in
take a look within see what they’re
highlighting see what they’re bringing
out of you to say okay maybe they have a
point but the problem is a lot of the
times people who are criticizing they
have nothing to show for themselves like
they’re not creating anything like where
where is your hundreds of thousands of
subscribers then I might take a listen
to you right where are your millions of
views then I might take a listen to you
you see the secret is people who are
very successful are too busy creating
they don’t have time to bring people
down right so I always say once again is
nothing personal the reason why a lot of
people sometimes lash out at you is
because they have their own inner
problems they haven’t resolved yet
because trust me there’s a reason why
this channel is growing so much because
once again I’ve never bought people down
from the beginning by everything I
create is original content source
material so that’s the secret I’m
showing people you can become highly
successful by not pulling people down
because that’s easy right you get a lot
of hits for that but to do it the other
way is very difficult that’s why a lot
of people don’t do it but once again you
always have to ask yourself what is
their true intention is it to help me or
is it harm me right and then take a look
within but don’t become another problem
right number 10 how to stop responding
negatively to everything you feel
disturbs or offends you is just to shine
brighter that’s right
shine brighter become more successful
that’s the best way to do it right
focusing is everything
trust me I’m a cinematographer I know
what I’m talking about
most people don’t focus they’re too
easily distracted so they feel hurt and
upset do you think people with billions
care what you think or they’re greedy no
they’re too busy creating more fear
right do you think somebody who has
opened up a vegan restaurant cares if
you say oh I don’t like that lifestyle
they’re too happy observing the change
in seeing the miracles in their life so
you have to be preoccupied with focusing
on what you know you came here to do to
become your greatest version so they
don’t even exist like the only people
that exist in my life I’ll tell you the
truth are the people who are also
ask yourself today how am i contributing
to this problem I feel I have like what
material are you creating if you feel
something disturbs you or offends you to
balance things out if you aren’t doing
anything about it you got nothing to
complain about right I didn’t like how
the world was so I started to make
videos it feels so good to be a live
baby can I get a Hello and I’m a
beautiful day
whoa breathing in that good-ass prana
we’re out here in the hot and nature
baby infinite is diving deep once again
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peace infinite waters diving deep once
again we are out here in the heart of
nature baby whoa breathing in that good
ass prana how to stop responding
negatively to everything you think
disturbs you or offends you it’s getting
really personal right now that’s the
question that came in and shout out to
the person who wrote the question
because it saved me a lot of time and we
so we’re gonna dive into this question
and this is a great question because
it’s something which we all go through
like how many of you feel offended by
something during an average day what
about being disturbed by maybe somebody
or something you read something you
watch right we are living in great times
of change on the planet so I’m going to
share with you what’s helped me along my
journey stop responding negatively to
everything I feel offended by okay
disturbed by it
let’s start with this you see let’s just
say somebody shouts at you somebody does
something to you we are social beings
lots of people on the planet now we’ve
been told just ignore them
right that’s what I used to do ok I was
skating one time in Venice and the
skater was like shouting at me for no
reason so what did I do
I didn’t even had breakfast yet never
mind that he was just shouting at me
because apparently I got in his way now
I was always told just be silent ignore
and it will go away well that’s what I
did and guess what he wasn’t going away
he just kept on doing it and there were
loads of people like watching and I’m
like what am I gonna do
so what helped me along my journey was
to realize that there is what we have
called natural silence where it’s very
very very organic okay that’s when you
can really just ignore somebody and then
move away but there is also something
called force silence and this is what a
lot of people practice on the planet and
that’s why they’re not in the process of
becoming their greatest version because
they are suppressing their emotions they
are not expressing how they actually
so guess what I didn’t ignore it I
actually said no sorry about that but I
got a point to make about this situation
I’m not just gonna zip it now obviously
they say never argue with the fool
because from the distance it looks like
you’re both fools right so I didn’t
argue so much but I had to express
myself I always tell people let’s just
say you’re on even social media and
someone responds to you or they say
something to you you feel offended by
disturb I you think I’ll just ignore it
but if you have something to say never
miss that opportunity of expressing
yourself why because this will free up
the energetic the negative energetic
blocks within the body a lot of people
have a lot of subconscious programs
running beliefs repressed emotions
because they never said what was really
on their mind they bury their emotion so
one day you’re just gonna like
completely go crazy in the worst
possible place at my house why why see I
told you so ask yourself do I have
something to say
sometimes you don’t then you can use the
natural silence okay if something
offends you you read an article or
whatever but if you’ve got something to
say it’s always better to say it because
now you are releasing the energy you
don’t have to go home thinking about the
situation now we talk about the second
simple way to stop responding negatively
to everything you feel disturbs or
offends you what’s helped me along my
journey is simply this you see
throughout the day
welcome bodied by so many different
energies and what’s really helped me is
this you see you have to realize that
address it address the situation okay
don’t just walk away from something
sometimes somebody at work somebody at
work somebody next door somebody whoever
it is address them look them
face-to-face eye-to-eye and address the
situation
there and then what happens in a lot of
cases is that people walk away from the
scene okay just say somebody offends you
you you leave it then you go home
thinking about it then you come back to
it now this is where it gets really
crazy because first of all it’s already
happened so you’ve had to actually go
home and now you’re over thinking about
what took place when you could have just
addressed it then and there got it off
your chest and then whoa breathing that
good ass prana baby
so what’s helped me along my journey is
to address anything I feel fans or
disturbs me address it there and then
don’t go home thinking about it let’s
talk about the third secret to stop
responding negatively to everything you
CCT now this is what I found out was
helping me because sometimes I used to
respond in a very negative way to
somebody who I thought was trying to
harm me put my life in danger don’t do
that the cat down the road is my
bodyguard right I realized that CCT is
come compassionate truthful by using CCT
every single day I say okay if I’m
confronted I’m confronted with the
situation an event or a person that I
feel is offending me I have to become
calm and I have to put myself in their
shoes which is compassion and I have to
be truthful which means I can’t suppress
how I actually feel in that situation so
CCT what is it Ralph calm that’s right
compassionate that’s right in truthful
truthful is where you don’t have to back
down you actually speak your heart mind
it’s not like things are gonna get
crazier they’re already crazy right so
it’s how you address the situation makes
a world of difference you could say
excuse me I used to make videos in one
place near Malibu and the neighbor was
like stop making videos because it’s too
early I’m like it’s 9 o’clock
so I had to be calm when I was talking
to him compassionate and then truthful
to say actually I’m not moving I’m sorry
we’ve got lots of deep divers waiting
for this sorry
what’s the fourth secret to stop
responding negatively to everything you
feel disturbs or offends you now
everything is about what you are tuning
into by the great Nikola Tesla said if
you want to understand the universe you
got to think in terms of energy
vibration and frequency so what helped
me along my journey was to realize this
that what am I to nning into you turn
into whatever you are tuning into slow
motion inside so instead of tuning into
people storm their drama their
negativity why not
tune into your own inner peace
what say it again
instead of tuning into their chaos tune
into your inner peace because you see
fire creates more fire and that’s where
a lot of us find ourselves we end up
mimicking people who we don’t actually
want to be like in essence we end up
becoming exactly like them so the
problem escalates so you’ve got to
diffuse all the tension you’ve got to
become water in a very fiery situation
and that’s not easy because a lot of us
we’re so quick to react and that’s the
problem because we haven’t practiced CCT
where you got to be calm first
compassionate and then truthful so I
realized okay I get offended sometimes I
turn on my even go on different websites
and I said what the hell is this
then I realized because once again I’m
trying to go out there I’ve got to be
focused on what I’m doing tuning into
what I’m creating and then I have
nothing to complain about
now let’s talk about number five doing
this in steps making it real simple a
lot of the times we think something is
very personal when I was skating and
that guy was shouting at me I thought
okay this is about me but if they don’t
know you
it never is personal how can it be so
don’t take it personally and it’s
something I’ve had to learn over time
that like who are these people I don’t
know them we just met so why am I even
bothering like thinking it’s personal
you see we feel offended and disturbed
by certain things when we feel people
are out to get us
when they aren’t because if we talk
about number six how to stop responding
negatively to everything you feel
disturbs or offends you most of the time
it has nothing to do with you how do I
know this okay when this event happened
in Venice California this was years ago
recently what happened the guy came up
to me saying that I’m sorry about that I
had a drug problem that’s why I was
shouting it you had a lot of issues
going on at the time so I was like don’t
worry about it like I had forgotten
about that issue but I knew when it was
happening that this wasn’t about me this
guy had issues he was dealing with so
that’s how to stop responding negatively
once again you got to be very empathetic
you got to realize that a lot of people
are going through so much right now
that’s why I didn’t even trip I’m like I
get it right just don’t shout at me like
next time I got my best clothes on
goodness gracious
okay people are going through stuff in
psychology we call this kick the cat
syndrome where somebody shouts at you at
work you go home we better not kick the
cat down the road but some people still
do it that’s not good right
or they kick the sofa right kick this
hope they kick whatever they could find
right can’t down the road will actually
bite you back it’s not taking any crap
at all
so I realize okay these are their issues
that not mine okay and let’s talk about
number seven seven day vegan challenge
now I used to get offended when people
when I was becoming a vegan been a vegan
for nearly 12 years now I used to get
offended and feel disturbed when people
were just showing no compassion to
animals whatsoever I took this as a
personal attack on my lifestyle say
don’t you know over 64 billion animals
are killed every single year so I would
be giving them like documentaries
earthlings forks over knives whatnot and
some of these people they didn’t want to
hear it they didn’t even want to watch
it now like I don’t want to watch those
those slaughterhouse videos so I was
like I don’t want to be around these
kinds of people this is offensive then I
realized the secret that even eating
more plant-based diet being a vegan is a
consciousness level to see that
everything is connected and instead of
just bashing what other people are
eating
I’ve got to focus on promoting my own
lifestyle slow motion this side
and ever since the seven day vegan
challenge is growing so much just look
how many people are connecting on this
channel to realize the magnitude of the
seven day vegan challenge like I got
people on snapchat sending me
strawberries in their mouth grapes in
their mouth every single day how cool is
that
okay so it’s a revolution right now
because people want to eat better they
want to feel better and they want to
look better and that all comes when you
start eating more plant-based diet
eating a more alkaline diet and if
somebody isn’t living that lifestyle
that’s cool
you can live and let live right that’s
what’s helped me along my journey now we
can talk about number eight what’s
helped me is to really become a
lighthouse okay a lighthouse where you
realize that instead of attacking what
you hate you can actually start
promoting what you love and this is what
helped me along my journey you see on my
channel I’ve talked about so many
different subjects I’m not really about
attacking anymore
like I used to I never actually used to
attack but I’m about solutions I’m about
promoting the right solutions because I
could spend hours and hours talking
about problems and problems and that’s
very important but if I don’t give you
any solutions it’s no use to stop
responding negatively to everything you
feel disturbs or offends you because
once again it’s a perspective which you
are tuning into we’ll come to that later
you got to start asking yourself what am
i doing to become a lighthouse an
example right
the lighthouse if you are a lighthouse
you are now an example people see you
and they get inspired like
don’t tell people oh do the seven day
vegan challenge Nana nobody got time for
that
they just see my channel and say oh my
gosh oh my goodness
you got so many subscribers millions of
views I want to do that too
alright people are copycats like that
right once people see success they want
to copy it so if you are a lighthouse
write every single day I live in
abundance I wake up to abundance been
doing this for years and it’s only gonna
grow why because word is born people see
your lifestyle working they see okay now
you are really living the life you’re
not just talking about it you got proof
people say oh my gosh what’s the secret
so because you are lighthouse people
become attracted to you by you being a
living example okay and it does it makes
a world of difference right and that’s
what’s helped me along my journey just
to be a lighthouse right we can go our
separate ways but I’m gonna shine and
you’re gonna see and you’re gonna be
like how how did you do that right then
we can probably talk about it maybe if
you’re lucky number 9 how to stop
responding negatively to everything you
feel disturbs or offends you now many
times we have criticisms I’ve had a lot
of criticism some people say Rob do it
this way doing that yep but once again I
say okay they’ve told me this but am I
gonna be another problem right am I
gonna take on board what they say
sometimes I might they could have a
point right you always got to look in
take a look within see what they’re
highlighting see what they’re bringing
out of you to say okay maybe they have a
point but the problem is a lot of the
times people who are criticizing they
have nothing to show for themselves like
they’re not creating anything like where
where is your hundreds of thousands of
subscribers then I might take a listen
to you right where are your millions of
views then I might take a listen to you
you see the secret is people who are
very successful are too busy creating
they don’t have time to bring people
down right so I always say once again is
nothing personal the reason why a lot of
people sometimes lash out at you is
because they have their own inner
problems they haven’t resolved yet
because trust me there’s a reason why
this channel is growing so much because
once again I’ve never bought people down
from the beginning by everything I
create is original content source
material so that’s the secret I’m
showing people you can become highly
successful by not pulling people down
because that’s easy right you get a lot
of hits for that but to do it the other
way is very difficult that’s why a lot
of people don’t do it but once again you
always have to ask yourself what is
their true intention is it to help me or
is it harm me right and then take a look
within but don’t become another problem
right number 10 how to stop responding
negatively to everything you feel
disturbs or offends you is just to shine
brighter that’s right
shine brighter become more successful
that’s the best way to do it right
focusing is everything
trust me I’m a cinematographer I know
what I’m talking about
most people don’t focus they’re too
easily distracted so they feel hurt and
upset do you think people with billions
care what you think or they’re greedy no
they’re too busy creating more fear
right do you think somebody who has
opened up a vegan restaurant cares if
you say oh I don’t like that lifestyle
they’re too happy observing the change
in seeing the miracles in their life so
you have to be preoccupied with focusing
on what you know you came here to do to
become your greatest version so they
don’t even exist like the only people
that exist in my life I’ll tell you the
truth are the people who are also
ask yourself today how am i contributing
to this problem I feel I have like what
material are you creating if you feel
something disturbs you or offends you to
balance things out if you aren’t doing
anything about it you got nothing to
complain about right I didn’t like how
the world was so I started to make
videos it feels so good to be a live
baby can I get a Hello and I’m a
beautiful day
whoa breathing in that good-ass prana
we’re out here in the hot and nature
baby infinite is diving deep once again
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