peace infinite waters diving deep once
again we’re out here in nature you smell
that
that’s that good ass Prada can I get a
Hello we got a great question that came
in how to please other people a woman
wrote in saying she’s scared right now
oh she’s been people-pleasing her whole
life and she’s aware right now and it’s
driving her nuts she’s torn between
doing what her family and friends want
her to do versus doing what she really
wants to do now she wants it both ways
she says that she loves to please her
parents she got a job because they told
her to work there it would bring them
lots of money and they can go on they
could go on holiday right who doesn’t
want that but now she wants to go and
live out her dreams at the same time she
also wants to make those closest to her
really happy what should she do let me
share with you what helped me along my
journey go back press the rewind button
peace and Finnick waters diving deep
once again someone wrote in saying I
love your intro but can you remove the
piece I said sure infinite waters diving
deep once again someone said I love your
intro but can you remove the infinite
waters I said of course I can diving
deep once again someone said take off
the diving deep I said okay once again
and someone said
remove the once again please because
besides that I love your videos I said
no problem so what was I left with you
see the only way to avoid criticism is
to say nothing do nothing and be nothing
that is how so many of us live our lives
let me give you the blueprint to
pleasing other people the manual for
people pleases right never say no even
if you really want to why because your
needs and feelings don’t matter to be a
people pleaser a master at it you have
to become a very good listener if
someone doesn’t like what you’re wearing
take it off you also have to be an
extremely fast dresser there’s a story
about a woman she kept asking people how
do I look and they kept telling her to
go and change her clothes so she ended
up changing her clothes a hundred times
in a day and she still wasn’t happy now
I have a very different perspective on
people pleasing I love to people please
what oh yeah definitely I love seeing
people happy because guess what we are
all connected much love to the deep
divers out there yes I’m so thankful but
at the same time I know I’ve got to keep
it real I’ve got to stay in my true
authenticity why because this is really
this is really what inspires me to
create when other people say you did a
good job man that’s just a by-product of
me following my intuition my true heart
space what happens when we live solely
for other people now you’re waiting
right you’re waiting for other people to
validate your existence when you do that
you start to lose confidence you start
to have a low self-esteem you don’t
trust yourself you don’t accept yourself
you feel terrible who wants to
experience that now there is a reason
why we people please okay because nobody
wants to be alone
right have you ever gone to someone’s
house and they’ve just offered you water
sorry I don’t have any drinks in the
fridge just water you are out of there
no food but then you go to someone’s
house they offer you great food and
drink you’re laughing you’re having a
good time
it feels fantastic you don’t want to
leave because they are pleasing you in
fact you’ve been there for the past
three hours and now they are saying
actually wait a minute you don’t have to
go home but you’ve got to get the hell
out of here what’s helped me along my
journey is always listening to myself
first and foremost sometimes to be brave
it’s not always about doing what the
crowd want to please other people you
have to become an entertainer 24/7 it’s
hard work I talk to people I talk to
people every day
who they’re trying too hard to live up
to other people’s expectations they’re
trying too hard to live up to society’s
to live up to society’s expectations and
it’s a nightmare
right there’s a reason why a lot of
comedians and certain artists suffer
from depression why because they’re
always trying to make other people happy
but they never ask themselves am i happy
myself I love what I do I don’t have to
make these videos I do it because it
helps me become my greatest version and
other people appreciate them thank you
very much that’s a byproduct of doing
that is the byproduct of doing what I
love do what you love love what you do
when we ever when we get caught up in
that big decision we all have to make
should I please my parents my friends or
should I really follow my dream what are
we gonna do I say you can please other
people when you show people who you are
I’ll give you an example when I was
becoming a vegan in 2006 some people
said don’t do it you’re gonna regret it
where are you gonna get your protein I
said don’t worry chia seeds hemp seeds
they still weren’t convinced but now oh
yeah right now they they are convinced
because I’m stronger than ever I feel
better than ever
can I get a hello oh yeah so sometimes
it can take time for people to see how
strong we are how powerful we are how
powerful our dream and vision is but
it’s not a it’s not our job to convince
people it’s not our job to control how
other people perceive us you got to
trust yourself you got to love yourself
and you’ve also got to realize you can’t
please everyone
and there it is in a nutshell have a
wonderful day we’re out here in nature
taking it easy
infinite war
is diving deep once again stay well stay healthy
again we’re out here in nature you smell
that
that’s that good ass Prada can I get a
Hello we got a great question that came
in how to please other people a woman
wrote in saying she’s scared right now
oh she’s been people-pleasing her whole
life and she’s aware right now and it’s
driving her nuts she’s torn between
doing what her family and friends want
her to do versus doing what she really
wants to do now she wants it both ways
she says that she loves to please her
parents she got a job because they told
her to work there it would bring them
lots of money and they can go on they
could go on holiday right who doesn’t
want that but now she wants to go and
live out her dreams at the same time she
also wants to make those closest to her
really happy what should she do let me
share with you what helped me along my
journey go back press the rewind button
peace and Finnick waters diving deep
once again someone wrote in saying I
love your intro but can you remove the
piece I said sure infinite waters diving
deep once again someone said I love your
intro but can you remove the infinite
waters I said of course I can diving
deep once again someone said take off
the diving deep I said okay once again
and someone said
remove the once again please because
besides that I love your videos I said
no problem so what was I left with you
see the only way to avoid criticism is
to say nothing do nothing and be nothing
that is how so many of us live our lives
let me give you the blueprint to
pleasing other people the manual for
people pleases right never say no even
if you really want to why because your
needs and feelings don’t matter to be a
people pleaser a master at it you have
to become a very good listener if
someone doesn’t like what you’re wearing
take it off you also have to be an
extremely fast dresser there’s a story
about a woman she kept asking people how
do I look and they kept telling her to
go and change her clothes so she ended
up changing her clothes a hundred times
in a day and she still wasn’t happy now
I have a very different perspective on
people pleasing I love to people please
what oh yeah definitely I love seeing
people happy because guess what we are
all connected much love to the deep
divers out there yes I’m so thankful but
at the same time I know I’ve got to keep
it real I’ve got to stay in my true
authenticity why because this is really
this is really what inspires me to
create when other people say you did a
good job man that’s just a by-product of
me following my intuition my true heart
space what happens when we live solely
for other people now you’re waiting
right you’re waiting for other people to
validate your existence when you do that
you start to lose confidence you start
to have a low self-esteem you don’t
trust yourself you don’t accept yourself
you feel terrible who wants to
experience that now there is a reason
why we people please okay because nobody
wants to be alone
right have you ever gone to someone’s
house and they’ve just offered you water
sorry I don’t have any drinks in the
fridge just water you are out of there
no food but then you go to someone’s
house they offer you great food and
drink you’re laughing you’re having a
good time
it feels fantastic you don’t want to
leave because they are pleasing you in
fact you’ve been there for the past
three hours and now they are saying
actually wait a minute you don’t have to
go home but you’ve got to get the hell
out of here what’s helped me along my
journey is always listening to myself
first and foremost sometimes to be brave
it’s not always about doing what the
crowd want to please other people you
have to become an entertainer 24/7 it’s
hard work I talk to people I talk to
people every day
who they’re trying too hard to live up
to other people’s expectations they’re
trying too hard to live up to society’s
to live up to society’s expectations and
it’s a nightmare
right there’s a reason why a lot of
comedians and certain artists suffer
from depression why because they’re
always trying to make other people happy
but they never ask themselves am i happy
myself I love what I do I don’t have to
make these videos I do it because it
helps me become my greatest version and
other people appreciate them thank you
very much that’s a byproduct of doing
that is the byproduct of doing what I
love do what you love love what you do
when we ever when we get caught up in
that big decision we all have to make
should I please my parents my friends or
should I really follow my dream what are
we gonna do I say you can please other
people when you show people who you are
I’ll give you an example when I was
becoming a vegan in 2006 some people
said don’t do it you’re gonna regret it
where are you gonna get your protein I
said don’t worry chia seeds hemp seeds
they still weren’t convinced but now oh
yeah right now they they are convinced
because I’m stronger than ever I feel
better than ever
can I get a hello oh yeah so sometimes
it can take time for people to see how
strong we are how powerful we are how
powerful our dream and vision is but
it’s not a it’s not our job to convince
people it’s not our job to control how
other people perceive us you got to
trust yourself you got to love yourself
and you’ve also got to realize you can’t
please everyone
and there it is in a nutshell have a
wonderful day we’re out here in nature
taking it easy
infinite war
is diving deep once again stay well stay healthy
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