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How to Stop People’s Negativity Bringing You Down


peace and Finnick waters diving deep
once again beautiful deep divers we are
out here in nature baby just whoa
breathing in that good ass prana but do
you have negative energy bringing you
down right now in the forms of people
negative people with negative vibes how
to stop people’s negativity bringing you
down because we don’t need that we don’t
need that we don’t need that I’ve got a
great question that came in if you’ve
got a question Instagram at infinite
waters is the best place a woman asks
Ralph
there is someone in her life right now
who is bringing her down with negative
vibes and she doesn’t know how to deal
with this what’s the best way deep
divers is there someone in your life
right now who has so many negative vibes
and you’re like I don’t want to deal
with this right now
No
we even had breakfast yeah can I get a
hello yeah so let me share with you
what’s helped me along my journey stop
people’s negativity bringing me down how
I elevate every single day now your vibe
attracts your tribe you’ve heard that
before on infinite waters but it’s a
little bit more complex than them what
happens if you have a negative person
who just comes out from nowhere who is
harassing you in your life sending their
bad vibes your way and you’re like hey
I’m just minding my own business okay
why is this happening to me
you see I’ve realized this that you have
to become very conscious and very aware
of the energy you are inviting inviting
into your space okay most people are
like garbage trucks and they go around
picking up lots of rubbish lots of
litter and they do that the whole day
then they’re like I got a dump all of
this stuff and they choose you so what
you got to do is just wave and say bye
slow motion inside most people are like
garbage trucks please do not accept
their garbage when it comes to people’s
negativity you are not powerless you are
powerful beyond measure you see what’s
helped me along my journey is to raise
the rent don’t allow people to rent
space in your mind raise the rent and
pick them out and you do that not just
by being passive listen closely because
a lot of people think if I’m silent if I
ignore them they’ll go away no many
times you have to voice how you feel so
they get the message tell them simple
and plain look I can’t stand you our
vibes don’t go well I’m gonna go this
way and you go that way let them know
how you feel don’t suffer in silence you
see where did this come from just be
silent okay it helps to a certain point
but if you have someone who is full of
negativity in your life right now you
have to express to them you’ve got to
express to them how you feel they want
you to be silent they want you to be
passive they want to silence you know
you’ve got to become stronger by express
yourself you’ve got to express yourself
baby expressing yourself okay get it off
your chest
don’t let them silence you now
reflections mirrors how I stopped
people’s negativity bringing me down
because you always see me with a unicorn
or two well breathing in that good ass
piranha baby is to realize that people’s
negative behavior is a reflection of
what they are going through not you slow
motion this side decent people don’t go
around hurting people and sending people
negative vibes they don’t do that if
there is someone in your life right now
who whenever you’re around them they
want to start arguing with you deep
divers ever been around someone who just
loves to argue ok you don’t have to play
their game and you have to realize that
it’s not my problem ain’t got nothing to
do with me
their negativity was there before I
before I came on the scene it existed
way way before me so don’t feel you are
responsible for someone else’s
negativity let me repeat that don’t feel
you are responsible for someone else’s
negativity don’t think it’s a reflection
of you know it’s a reflection of them
what they’re going through their
background their childhood experiences
ok it says more about them than it does
about you how they treat you how someone
treats you says so much about you
no it doesn’t say so much about them
correct how people treat you say so much
about them not you so just realize hey
they need a hug they need a big hug okay
because once again people don’t go
around spreading negative vibes to other
people unless they’re going through
something unless they feel miserable
inside and the only way they can get
your attention is by cussing you out by
putting you down because they’ve got no
friends they need hugs right so don’t
take it personally don’t take it
personally and that’s how you stop
people’s negativity bringing you down if
you can realize this deep divers a seven
day vegan challenge if you are eating
foods that lift you up
tangerines nectarines peaches limes acai
bowls plantains okay that’s what’s
helped me along my journey deal with
people’s negativity because many times
you have to keep your vibration high at
this point in time it’s so easy to if
someone makes you feel bad about
yourself okay you’re like okay I’m just
gonna stop binge eating eat a lot of
greasy fried foods full of acrylamide
gonna produce a lot of cancer no good so
this is the time where you have to take
the best care of yourself and especially
treat yourself when it comes to food say
actually this green juice I’ve just made
is so high frequency
person’s negative energy is just gonna
rebound off it like it came with it’s
gonna bounce right back back to them
right so that’s what I’m always doing
I’m always making sure I’m in a very
calm mental and emotional state and that
can only happen 7 day vegan challenge
when I’m eating the best plant-based
foods on the planet
a lot of magnesium so I’m calm so I can
deal with the situation leafy greens get
the kale going get the spinach going get
the watercress going get the lettuce
going
okay get arugula going you want to be
calm you want to be eating foods packed
full of magnesium get the dark chocolate
going that’s what you need to keep you
calm because otherwise if you’re
drinking a lot of sodas a lot of
caffeine a lot of coffee when that
person’s negativity comes your way
you’re not going to be able to you are
not going to be able to deal with it in
a calm manner you’re gonna be reacting
instead of responding
slow motion inside so just realize the
power of a healthy plant-based diet to
respond to them okay reacting is where
if someone really annoys you they’re
bringing their negative vibes towards
you you just get angry immediately
responding is where you have a moment of
clarity to say okay what’s the best step
forward okay so you get into that
response mode delaying how you meet them
again okay
by eating a plant-based diet not by
drinking lots of fizzy sodas now this is
what’s helped me along my journey
stopped people’s negativity bringing me
down because we don’t need that we don’t
need that we don’t need that plain and
simple it is to choose realize I’m never
a victim of circumstance people aren’t
doing things to me I’m not a victim okay
realize how much power you have to
choose the people you want to hand
around even if it’s someone at work I
used to work with a lot of sometimes
people who had a lot of negative vibes
and I’m like okay if they don’t leave
I’m leaving because my peace of mind is
slow motion inside right now on infinite
waters on infinite waters I only hand
around people who help me go to the next
level who helped me evolve mentally
emotionally and physically okay I’m not
choosing to hang around people with low
vibrations therefore I am realizing my
true power of being responsible for my
internal emotional state because I’m
choosing very carefully Who I am
surrounding myself with you become like
the people you surround yourself with
most often you see so a lot of us we
don’t even know that subconsciously
we’re already making a choice of who we
are hanging around many times it’s
because you still want their validation
what say it again Ralph many times you
are hanging around negative people
because you are still seeking their
validation you are still seeking their
approval okay so it’s the classic case
of the bully and the victim Stockholm
the victim the person getting bullied
will sometimes stop wanting to get
approved by the bully please like me if
you’ve seen this growing up in school
it’s in every single classroom if
someone is bullying someone that person
being bullied will try and get on the
bully side by sucking up to them right
when know they have to reclaim their
power back to stop people’s negativity
bringing you down because it’s time to
rise up baby baby you see what’s helped
me is to realize it’s not my fault
anytime I’m dealing with someone with
high amounts of negative energy I say
ain’t got nothing to do with me right
it’s not my fault what happens many
times we try and fix other people’s
problems you’re trying to you are trying
to argue with them right because they
love to argue they’re bringing you drama
as soon as you wake up they’re going at
you right they’re sending your text this
that okay they want war they want blood
they want confusion they want havoc now
you have to realize this first and
foremost it’s not your fault stop
feeling like you are responsible for
other people’s emotional states slow
motion this site
what say it again Ralph stop feeling
like you are responsible for other
people’s emotional states deep divers is
time to stop thinking that you are here
to fix other people’s problems who don’t
want to be helped it is time for you to
stop thinking you are here to fix other
people’s problems who don’t want to be
helped they don’t want your help right
they want to continue to remain in a
negative state so once again you got to
ask yourself what am I doing here this
is where silence works now you stop
feeding into their negative energy
they’re always gonna set you a little
trap sometimes it’s what I call the
early argument as soon as you wake up
they bombard you with a comment they say
something to you
they just wanna they just want to
response out of you did they get it okay
they won
sometimes that’s where silence works it
does wonders sometimes you don’t even
need to respond to them you just be
silent let the universe handle their us
deep divers if you can realize that
negativity can only affect you when you
are vibrating at the same frequency
that’s what I learned along my early
journey I used to work in a library when
I was like very young and someone I was
working with had a lot of negative
energy and I’m like okay it’s negative
because I’m on that same frequency I
feel as negative I feel it as negative
because I’m vibrating on that same
frequency so to stop that person’s
negativity bringing me down I’ve got to
be the higher frequency okay so you have
to start embodying the higher energy
whenever I’m in nature I’m recharging
myself so when I’m around negative
people what negative people they don’t
even exist because the frequency is too
high the frequency is too powerful the
vibration is out of this world
universal law states to opposing
frequency to opposing frequencies cannot
occupy the same time in space let me
repeat that universal law states to
opposing frequencies cannot occupy the
same time in space law of attraction if
your frequency is too high they’re gonna
run away from you vampires can’t stand
that’s why they only come out when it’s
dark so you got to stop changing your
frequency be the higher frequency you
see what’s helped me to stop people’s
negativity bringing me down baby baby is
to ask yourself this question ask
yourself this deep divers what does this
say about me just imagine there is a
glass full of water on a table now it’s
about halfway full if I bang it down
water should shoot water should shoot up
okay it should shoot up so if that
happens to you if someone say something
gets on your nerves it gets under your
skin that means that they are triggering
you and just like that water in the
glass you’ve you’re shooting up right
now that means there was something
inside of you that had to be addressed
in the first place you got to thank that
person there are no accidents in this
universe they were there to show you
what you needed to work on so that’s why
sometimes it is a reflection of you it
can work sometimes in both ways okay so
now you have to ask yourself what does
this say about me if this person is
really getting on my nerves because
they’re sending me stuff I’m sending
them back stuff right we’re going back
and forth tit for tat
it also shows me that I’ve got stuff to
work on within myself it shows me that
actually there might be a little bit of
them inside me and that hey I’m no saint
either I also have negative tendencies
that’s why I’m attracting this negative
person into my life can you see how the
law of attraction which is the law of
Correspondence is working
as above so below as within so without
how you feel internally will determine
what kinds of people you attract
externally now if you realize this deep
divers today that for the first time you
have to ask yourself why do I feel I
need to be validated why do I feel I
need to be validated by that person why
do I feel I need to be why do I feel I
need to be approved by that person why
am i feeding into this person what does
this say about me these are the
questions you need to ask yourself when
I was dealing with a highly negative
person and they were getting on my
nerves I realize oh I’m also feeding
into it because it’s like they’re
arguing with me but it takes two to
tango okay so I got stuff to work on
myself so I got to thank that person but
highlighting for highlighting for
highlighting the unresolved issues
within myself how to stop people’s
negativity bringing you down beautiful
deep divers it is a gorgeous day but
what happens when someone comes along
and is that garbage truck you gotta say
hey wave and then dip out it’s time to
start saying where
where is my focus going whatever you
focus on gross we turn into whatever we
are tuned into so I always use this
powerful secret every single day what am
i turning into because whatever I’m
if you can realize this Medusa Greek
mythology she would stare at people and
they would turn into a statue be careful
of who you are making eye contact with
be careful of who you are focusing on be
careful on what kind of energies you are
tuning into on a mental level because
even if they aren’t there if you’re
still thinking of these negative people
they still control your life what slow
motion this side so a lot of people
write to me Ralph I am this this
negative person is always making me feel
miserable nobody can make you feel any
way without your permission secondly you
have to realize there are so many people
in your life who you could think out
there are so many people in your life
who you could think about there are so
many people in your life who you could
think about people that love you people
that care it’s time to stop thinking
that people
oh my gosh it is time to start thinking
of people who actually care think about
people who’ve actually been there for
you during hard times why are you
thinking about someone who doesn’t even
care about you who’s only bringing you
toxic drama and shabby energy so I said
okay I’m
give them that attention because once
again they call it paying attention for
a reason whoever you are paying
attention to you are making an energetic
transaction that’s why you’re making
them rich whoever you focus on you give
them life so take back your power stop
focusing on them they don’t deserve that
shine focus on someone else is what I
call the red-carpet treatment deep
divers ask yourself today
Who am I giving the red-carpet treatment
– it better be someone who’s been who’s
been there for you since you’re three
years old you went to school together
they’re always there for you that’s how
you replace that negative person with a
positive one in your mind okay you see
how it works
now that negative person who are they
better they don’t even exist take them
off the high chair take them off the
throne in your mind remove them off the
red carpet today that’s how you stop
people’s negativity bringing you down
now don’t copy them many times if
someone is very negative sometimes this
can happen on social media but also in
real life they play these little petty
games they’re giving you the bait don’t
fall for it but more so don’t copy
because I see it time and time again you
want to play their game now once again
you get sucked into their vortex of
negativity and that’s why you can’t
escape so you have to be smarter and say
I’m not gonna copy you don’t treat
people as bad as they are treat them as
good as you are
what slow motion this side mmm let me
repeat that don’t treat people as bad as
they are treat them as good as you are
that’s how to stop people’s negativity
bringing you down think of people that
care fill your mind of thoughts which
are serving you and let go of all
thoughts which no longer serve you and
let go of all people who no longer serve
you deep divers realize that every
single day is time you are never ever
gonna get back what really did it for me
to stop people’s negativity bringing me
down is to say ain’t nobody got time for
that if there is a negative person in
your life just do this ain’t nobody got
time for that and then move along okay
because don’t allow someone to eat up
your time that’s time you’re never gonna
get back right so you got to think smart
and say actually if I’m just even
arguing with this negative person for an
hour that’s an hour I’m not gonna get
back I could have watched infinite
waters for an hour and then just say
yeah so get to be a live baby
beautiful deep divers we are out here
chillaxing having fun in the heart of
nature baby with the birds and the bees
just whoa breathing in that good ass
prana baby have a beautiful day deep
divers infinite waters diving deep once
again stay well stay healthy peace you
you just do like this
a negative person comes ain’t nobody got
time for that ain’t nobody got time for
you and then you keep it moving [Music]

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