peace and finit waters diving deep once
again beautiful deep divers we are out
here chillaxing in Jurassic Park
I’m sending you tons of great energy
take that take that take that now the
cat down the road told me you need it
because you are an empath you’re really
carrying on you to other people but
sometimes you end up absorbing their
negative energy Ralph’s smart please
help and you don’t know what to do about
it how to stop people dumping their
negative energy on you how to stop
letting it affect you deep divers let’s
just whoa breathing in that good ass
prana baby
so that’s the message that came through
wonderful lady Ralph I love your videos
but please help right now I’m in a bit
of a predicament
I’m a very caring person I love to help
other people but recently I found that I
start absorbing their negative energy
what can I do about this it’s like I
also get negative thoughts just by being
around them and it started to affect me
Ralph what are some of the tips and
solutions for this dilemma fantastic
message okay this is gonna be part of a
two-part series so this is the first
part the second part will come next week
but we’ve got so much to talk about so
much to dive into after this video you
are gonna feel so empowered and we even
had breakfast yeah
get a hello hey now it’s time to stop
people dumping their negative energy on
you I know what it’s like let me share
with you us helped me along my journey
I’m a Pisces I love to help people
Pisceans know what I’m talking about I
truly feel I came to Planet Earth to
help you and you and you and you and you
oh my gosh I’m helping so many people
I’m neglecting myself so growing up
sometimes I would put the needs of
others before myself and that’s what
you’re doing right now and that’s why
you are allowing people to dump their
negative and that’s subjective by the
way energy on to you they may not feel
it’s negative sometimes people just want
to talk to someone and you are there and
the kind you said you’re a very
sensitive soul you love to care for
people and help people so they’re just
talking your ear off right they’re
telling you about all of their problems
and because you’re a sensitive empath
and you’re like oh cool
you’re just silent but what’s happening
here is that you are starting to absorb
their negative energy they may not they
may not feel they’re giving you negative
energy because they may feel they may
feel you love to listen to them complain
about their life problems we’ve got to
learn how to keep it real real smart
real authentic so growing up I was just
like you very sensitive so just
listening to people then I found out I
was also absorbing
Oh their negative energy I have to
cleanse myself and how did I do it I
said stop right there you gotta sting it
as well stop right there you got to say
that stop right there
okay that’s what you got to do if you
are around someone who is dumping their
negative energy onto you you gotta say
stop right there
I’ve had enough you see it’s hard to say
that isn’t it when you’re a sensitive
soul even when you’re an empath why
because you don’t want to upset other
people I’ve learned along my journey
that we didn’t come here to be sponge
people we didn’t come here to absorb
other people’s negative energy we came
here to be authentic the most authentic
thing you can do is if this is affecting
your mood in a negative way you’ve got
to say stop right there I can’t handle
this it doesn’t mean you’re a bad person
because you don’t want to be around
someone’s negative energy and negative
vibes in actuality you are helping
yourself and protecting your own
energetic space that is the most
authentic thing you can do now I love
listening to other people’s problems
because this is what I do like I’ve
learned I found out ways how to protect
my energy but I do this day in day out
but if you are just someone who is very
sensitive just say stop right there
I’m not gonna be a sponge person deep
divers it’s all about not being nice you
didn’t come here to be nice you’re not
the word nice it actually means stupid
old English word look you didn’t come
here to be nice to people you came here
to be incredibly real don’t be polite I
learned that I don’t have to be polite
what I have to do is keep it true to
myself so if I’m around someone who’s
dumping their negative energy on me I
just say stop in the name of the
universe I’ve got to go right I’ve got
to go you got to learn how to speak your
heart and mind the reason why you can’t
do that is because you have been
suppressing your emotions because you
feel like if nobody hates you and
everybody loves you that’s the right
thing to do no sometimes you have to say
I can’t be around you because your
energy is affecting my mood in a
negative way you got to be bold if you
lose those friends they weren’t your
friends anyway
hmm-what slow motion this side mmm I
meet people who are like Ralph I don’t
want to listen to anyone’s problems I
salute them why because they are staying
true to themselves not everyone is gonna
be Ralph smart okay I do this day in day
out this is what I do but if you are
someone who is a around a lot of people
who are just dumping telling you all of
their problems and you don’t have to be
around them and we have to learn how to
speak our heart we gotta learn we got to
learn how to speak our heart and mind
learn to say no it was hard for me to do
when I was 14 years old Ralph you want
to do this I didn’t I didn’t want to do
it but I’m like yeah why did I say that
because I didn’t want to upset other
people because that’s what we do as
impacts right that’s what we do is
intuitive impacts we want to get on
everyone’s good side then I learnt this
secret you don’t have to be nice you
don’t have to be polite all the time
you have to keep it real
what happens when we suppress our
emotions oh that’s what happens we
suffocate ourselves we torture ourselves
internally and it’s got to stop right
now to stop other people dumping their
negative energy onto you learn how to
stop suppressing your emotions
suppression is depression it’s time to
get it off your chest if you are around
someone and their energy is not
favourable leave you’re not a weak
person you’re not a bad person
because you don’t want to stay there you
are an incredibly authentic person and
the universe is like good on you
okay I’ve learnt this that don’t say yes
to other people if it’s a note to
yourself slow motion this side we have
to keep it 107 day vegan challenge to
stop other people dumping their negative
energy onto you we have to ask ourselves
is it coming from other people or is it
coming from other animals we are eating
the World Health Organization came out
with the research that and the findings
processed meats cause cancer when I used
to eat a lot of meat I sometimes would
feel like kind of negative and I would
think it’s other people that I would
realize oh I get it
energy could never be destroyed or
transferred if I’m eating butchered
animals who didn’t want to die I’m now
absorbing that karma absorbing their
pain absorbing that negative energy just
before they died all of the hormones
which were released I’m absorbing that
into my bloodstream
therefore I’m negative so I’ve been a
vegan for over 13 years I had to realize
peace begins on your plate hmm slow
motion this side now it’s all about
wheatgrass it’s all about arugula it’s
all about kale it’s all about eating to
live keeping the body healthy from a
plant-based diet so if I know I’m eating
healthy foods that’s a good start
because I can’t control what people do I
can’t control what’s going on out there
but I can control putting a whole bunch
of grapes in my mouth every single day
full of resveratrol good for heart
health and that makes me feel good so
even if there is a negative person
around me I just keep it moving how to
stop people dumping their negative
energy their negative energy onto you if
you’re a sensitive soul I’ve learned
this deep divers time and time again we
don’t respect ourselves we disrespect
ourselves because we don’t set up the
boundaries like sometimes you got to do
this sometimes you got to do that
sometimes you got to do this and
sometimes you got to do that you have to
set up healthy boundaries it’s not okay
to allow everyone into your space
some people you’ve got to say the exits
that way Oh Ralph I can’t believe you
said that
Ralph is being incredibly real right now
and that’s what you got to do like only
allow people into your space who give
you something back who nurture your soul
life is about give and take
don’t just be with someone who’s just
telling you about their problems moaning
and groaning who wants to be around that
kind of energy not even the cat down the
road for goodness sakes and you don’t
have to be around that crap either so
learn how to set up boundaries and
that’s how to stop other people dumping
their negative energy onto you how I set
up healthy boundaries is by being in
nature this is a very healthy space okay
and sometimes I actually visualize
myself just being in perfect bliss with
no negative vibes around me and I feel
fantastic right but we also have to
realize that if you are around someone
and you’re like oh my gosh we’re out
there draining me there I’m absorbing
their negative energy you have to
realize this that this is also highlight
is highlighting is highlighting your
unresolved issues if you find someone to
be negative they’re also
mirroring back something deep inside of
yourself you haven’t looked at yet so
sometimes you got to thank these
negative people because they actually
make you stronger right they actually
get on your nerves and make you really
frustrated but now you’re actually
realizing how frustrated you could get
so sometimes we need that adversity once
again authenticity includes positive and
negative negative is not bad is just
about how is it serving me we’ve got to
start letting go of what is not serving
us I’ve realized this stop forcing
yourself to be a sponge person
stop forcing yourself to be someone
who’s just listening to everybody’s
problems without expressing your own and
I had to learn that early on you got to
learn how to speak your piece
more so you have to learn how to stop
forcing yourself to be an empath stop
why do I say forcing yourself to be an
empath because many of us do that we are
so like I’m an empath I’m an I’m an
empath and now because of that that
actually dictates you action because
you’ve given yourself the label of an
empath you’re like oh as an empath that
means I have to listen to other people
so I had to remove the label empath and
say actually I’m a human being too I
have emotions I don’t always have to put
myself in other people’s shoes
especially if the energy is negative I
can choose to be in more harmony today
once again how you feel is always a
choice you are choosing and everybody
has to realize they are responsible for
how they feel
including you I’ve learned this to stop
other people dumping their negative
energy onto me you have to stop doing
things against your will and it starts
from childhood I’m aware of that do you
want to do this we just say yes
sometimes as a reward at the end we’re
doing things but our heart is not really
in it sometimes we’re at a work
environment place and there are a lot of
negative people and we’re just there we
don’t want to be there but we’ve got to
get the check right I know what it’s
like I choose my environment carefully I
choose who I hang around carefully I
only invite people into my space who
give me space
what slow motion this side hmm I only
invite people into my space who it’s a
give-and-take relationship it’s mutual
respect therefore I have no complaints
because I’m not doing anything against
my will I’m choosing to be around these
people knowing that I have the power to
choose where I want to be in this life
so you got to start hanging around
people connecting with people who uplift
you not with people who bring you down
and we all confine better people who
cannot lift us but more so we can uplift
them at the same time and that’s how to
stop people dumping their emotional
negative energy onto you you have to
wake up every single day and say ain’t
nobody got time for that say it again
they’ll get didn’t it ain’t nobody got
time for that exactly and then you’ll
just say feel so good to be alive baby
can I get a hello beautiful deep divers
get the good asrani shirts
Ralph smart come slash clothes get the
new book feel alive on Amazon by Ralph
smart giving a few away follow me on
instagram at infinite waters deep divers
you are truly amazing have a wonderful
day
infinite waters diving deep once again
stay well stay healthy peace you stop right there you tell her
again beautiful deep divers we are out
here chillaxing in Jurassic Park
I’m sending you tons of great energy
take that take that take that now the
cat down the road told me you need it
because you are an empath you’re really
carrying on you to other people but
sometimes you end up absorbing their
negative energy Ralph’s smart please
help and you don’t know what to do about
it how to stop people dumping their
negative energy on you how to stop
letting it affect you deep divers let’s
just whoa breathing in that good ass
prana baby
so that’s the message that came through
wonderful lady Ralph I love your videos
but please help right now I’m in a bit
of a predicament
I’m a very caring person I love to help
other people but recently I found that I
start absorbing their negative energy
what can I do about this it’s like I
also get negative thoughts just by being
around them and it started to affect me
Ralph what are some of the tips and
solutions for this dilemma fantastic
message okay this is gonna be part of a
two-part series so this is the first
part the second part will come next week
but we’ve got so much to talk about so
much to dive into after this video you
are gonna feel so empowered and we even
had breakfast yeah
get a hello hey now it’s time to stop
people dumping their negative energy on
you I know what it’s like let me share
with you us helped me along my journey
I’m a Pisces I love to help people
Pisceans know what I’m talking about I
truly feel I came to Planet Earth to
help you and you and you and you and you
oh my gosh I’m helping so many people
I’m neglecting myself so growing up
sometimes I would put the needs of
others before myself and that’s what
you’re doing right now and that’s why
you are allowing people to dump their
negative and that’s subjective by the
way energy on to you they may not feel
it’s negative sometimes people just want
to talk to someone and you are there and
the kind you said you’re a very
sensitive soul you love to care for
people and help people so they’re just
talking your ear off right they’re
telling you about all of their problems
and because you’re a sensitive empath
and you’re like oh cool
you’re just silent but what’s happening
here is that you are starting to absorb
their negative energy they may not they
may not feel they’re giving you negative
energy because they may feel they may
feel you love to listen to them complain
about their life problems we’ve got to
learn how to keep it real real smart
real authentic so growing up I was just
like you very sensitive so just
listening to people then I found out I
was also absorbing
Oh their negative energy I have to
cleanse myself and how did I do it I
said stop right there you gotta sting it
as well stop right there you got to say
that stop right there
okay that’s what you got to do if you
are around someone who is dumping their
negative energy onto you you gotta say
stop right there
I’ve had enough you see it’s hard to say
that isn’t it when you’re a sensitive
soul even when you’re an empath why
because you don’t want to upset other
people I’ve learned along my journey
that we didn’t come here to be sponge
people we didn’t come here to absorb
other people’s negative energy we came
here to be authentic the most authentic
thing you can do is if this is affecting
your mood in a negative way you’ve got
to say stop right there I can’t handle
this it doesn’t mean you’re a bad person
because you don’t want to be around
someone’s negative energy and negative
vibes in actuality you are helping
yourself and protecting your own
energetic space that is the most
authentic thing you can do now I love
listening to other people’s problems
because this is what I do like I’ve
learned I found out ways how to protect
my energy but I do this day in day out
but if you are just someone who is very
sensitive just say stop right there
I’m not gonna be a sponge person deep
divers it’s all about not being nice you
didn’t come here to be nice you’re not
the word nice it actually means stupid
old English word look you didn’t come
here to be nice to people you came here
to be incredibly real don’t be polite I
learned that I don’t have to be polite
what I have to do is keep it true to
myself so if I’m around someone who’s
dumping their negative energy on me I
just say stop in the name of the
universe I’ve got to go right I’ve got
to go you got to learn how to speak your
heart and mind the reason why you can’t
do that is because you have been
suppressing your emotions because you
feel like if nobody hates you and
everybody loves you that’s the right
thing to do no sometimes you have to say
I can’t be around you because your
energy is affecting my mood in a
negative way you got to be bold if you
lose those friends they weren’t your
friends anyway
hmm-what slow motion this side mmm I
meet people who are like Ralph I don’t
want to listen to anyone’s problems I
salute them why because they are staying
true to themselves not everyone is gonna
be Ralph smart okay I do this day in day
out this is what I do but if you are
someone who is a around a lot of people
who are just dumping telling you all of
their problems and you don’t have to be
around them and we have to learn how to
speak our heart we gotta learn we got to
learn how to speak our heart and mind
learn to say no it was hard for me to do
when I was 14 years old Ralph you want
to do this I didn’t I didn’t want to do
it but I’m like yeah why did I say that
because I didn’t want to upset other
people because that’s what we do as
impacts right that’s what we do is
intuitive impacts we want to get on
everyone’s good side then I learnt this
secret you don’t have to be nice you
don’t have to be polite all the time
you have to keep it real
what happens when we suppress our
emotions oh that’s what happens we
suffocate ourselves we torture ourselves
internally and it’s got to stop right
now to stop other people dumping their
negative energy onto you learn how to
stop suppressing your emotions
suppression is depression it’s time to
get it off your chest if you are around
someone and their energy is not
favourable leave you’re not a weak
person you’re not a bad person
because you don’t want to stay there you
are an incredibly authentic person and
the universe is like good on you
okay I’ve learnt this that don’t say yes
to other people if it’s a note to
yourself slow motion this side we have
to keep it 107 day vegan challenge to
stop other people dumping their negative
energy onto you we have to ask ourselves
is it coming from other people or is it
coming from other animals we are eating
the World Health Organization came out
with the research that and the findings
processed meats cause cancer when I used
to eat a lot of meat I sometimes would
feel like kind of negative and I would
think it’s other people that I would
realize oh I get it
energy could never be destroyed or
transferred if I’m eating butchered
animals who didn’t want to die I’m now
absorbing that karma absorbing their
pain absorbing that negative energy just
before they died all of the hormones
which were released I’m absorbing that
into my bloodstream
therefore I’m negative so I’ve been a
vegan for over 13 years I had to realize
peace begins on your plate hmm slow
motion this side now it’s all about
wheatgrass it’s all about arugula it’s
all about kale it’s all about eating to
live keeping the body healthy from a
plant-based diet so if I know I’m eating
healthy foods that’s a good start
because I can’t control what people do I
can’t control what’s going on out there
but I can control putting a whole bunch
of grapes in my mouth every single day
full of resveratrol good for heart
health and that makes me feel good so
even if there is a negative person
around me I just keep it moving how to
stop people dumping their negative
energy their negative energy onto you if
you’re a sensitive soul I’ve learned
this deep divers time and time again we
don’t respect ourselves we disrespect
ourselves because we don’t set up the
boundaries like sometimes you got to do
this sometimes you got to do that
sometimes you got to do this and
sometimes you got to do that you have to
set up healthy boundaries it’s not okay
to allow everyone into your space
some people you’ve got to say the exits
that way Oh Ralph I can’t believe you
said that
Ralph is being incredibly real right now
and that’s what you got to do like only
allow people into your space who give
you something back who nurture your soul
life is about give and take
don’t just be with someone who’s just
telling you about their problems moaning
and groaning who wants to be around that
kind of energy not even the cat down the
road for goodness sakes and you don’t
have to be around that crap either so
learn how to set up boundaries and
that’s how to stop other people dumping
their negative energy onto you how I set
up healthy boundaries is by being in
nature this is a very healthy space okay
and sometimes I actually visualize
myself just being in perfect bliss with
no negative vibes around me and I feel
fantastic right but we also have to
realize that if you are around someone
and you’re like oh my gosh we’re out
there draining me there I’m absorbing
their negative energy you have to
realize this that this is also highlight
is highlighting is highlighting your
unresolved issues if you find someone to
be negative they’re also
mirroring back something deep inside of
yourself you haven’t looked at yet so
sometimes you got to thank these
negative people because they actually
make you stronger right they actually
get on your nerves and make you really
frustrated but now you’re actually
realizing how frustrated you could get
so sometimes we need that adversity once
again authenticity includes positive and
negative negative is not bad is just
about how is it serving me we’ve got to
start letting go of what is not serving
us I’ve realized this stop forcing
yourself to be a sponge person
stop forcing yourself to be someone
who’s just listening to everybody’s
problems without expressing your own and
I had to learn that early on you got to
learn how to speak your piece
more so you have to learn how to stop
forcing yourself to be an empath stop
why do I say forcing yourself to be an
empath because many of us do that we are
so like I’m an empath I’m an I’m an
empath and now because of that that
actually dictates you action because
you’ve given yourself the label of an
empath you’re like oh as an empath that
means I have to listen to other people
so I had to remove the label empath and
say actually I’m a human being too I
have emotions I don’t always have to put
myself in other people’s shoes
especially if the energy is negative I
can choose to be in more harmony today
once again how you feel is always a
choice you are choosing and everybody
has to realize they are responsible for
how they feel
including you I’ve learned this to stop
other people dumping their negative
energy onto me you have to stop doing
things against your will and it starts
from childhood I’m aware of that do you
want to do this we just say yes
sometimes as a reward at the end we’re
doing things but our heart is not really
in it sometimes we’re at a work
environment place and there are a lot of
negative people and we’re just there we
don’t want to be there but we’ve got to
get the check right I know what it’s
like I choose my environment carefully I
choose who I hang around carefully I
only invite people into my space who
give me space
what slow motion this side hmm I only
invite people into my space who it’s a
give-and-take relationship it’s mutual
respect therefore I have no complaints
because I’m not doing anything against
my will I’m choosing to be around these
people knowing that I have the power to
choose where I want to be in this life
so you got to start hanging around
people connecting with people who uplift
you not with people who bring you down
and we all confine better people who
cannot lift us but more so we can uplift
them at the same time and that’s how to
stop people dumping their emotional
negative energy onto you you have to
wake up every single day and say ain’t
nobody got time for that say it again
they’ll get didn’t it ain’t nobody got
time for that exactly and then you’ll
just say feel so good to be alive baby
can I get a hello beautiful deep divers
get the good asrani shirts
Ralph smart come slash clothes get the
new book feel alive on Amazon by Ralph
smart giving a few away follow me on
instagram at infinite waters deep divers
you are truly amazing have a wonderful
day
infinite waters diving deep once again
stay well stay healthy peace you stop right there you tell her
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