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How to Stop People Draining Your Energy


Pisan finit waters diving deep once
again deep divers the deep divers club
if you are a deep diver which you
probably are if you’re watching this
video
shout out to you it’s a beautiful day
but do you have someone in your life
Deep Diver that is draining energy
draining you dry
are they elite up sucking your blood
away a vampire what’s happening how to
stop people draining your energy let’s
just whoa breathing in that good ass
prana baby no no no we’re just breathing
in that good-ass prana baby
shout out to everybody who’s been
getting the good ass prana shirts I won
one roof I know they were amazing Ralph
smart calm slash clothes I got a great
question that came in get inspired
instagram at infinite waters someone
asked Ralph how can I stop people
draining my energy now deep divers I
made a viral video how to stop other
people absorbing your energy okay and it
seems like this keeps happening to you
deep divers people are sucking your
energy they are draining you dry and
when even had breakfast yeah can I get a
hello yeah
so let me share with you what’s helped
me along my journey
what’s freed me along my journey okay
first and foremost let’s take a moment
of gratitude just to say thank you to
the universe okay did you say thank you
today do you ever say thank you are you
ever grateful chances are that’s why
your energy is being drained I meet a
lot of people who never say thank you
know thank you for this and no thank you
for that
saying thank you is the fastest way
saying thank you is the fastest way to
raise your frequency to increase your
vibration I meet a lot of fun grateful
people and that’s why your energy is
always being depleted it’s time to learn
how to say thank you I thank my mentor I
thank my mom I thank the cat down the
road
I thank close friends and family you see
gratitude shifts you automatically into
a higher frequency most people they
don’t say thank you and that’s why you
often find yourself out of balance and
out of tune without my mentor I would
not have over 1.3 million subscribers I
would not be an internet millionaire
I would not being I would not be
inspiring millions I would not receive
over three thousand messages every
single day so thank you is what you need
to stop people draining your energy I’m
so busy saying thank you I don’t have
time to worry about people draining my
energy mm-hmm slow motion this side I’m
thankful I’ve got my own clothing line
which says breathing in that good a spur
on a baby I’m thankful that people write
to me saying Ralph you’ve saved my life
I was about to commit suicide this is
real life right so I’m thankful that
infinite waters I made a choice to say
I’m gonna use my power because I’ve got
a lot of influence to use it positively
I’m not gonna promote violence it’s only
gonna be positivity and at the same time
I’ve got a YouTube Gold Award so the
more I’m going through things I’m
thankful for seven day week and I’m
thankful that I get to go to the farmers
market every single day buy some
broccoli buy some cauliflower okay stay
lean stay green get those antioxidants
in I’m thankful I can cycle every single
day
skate go to the beach travel to any
singing travel travel to any single
country I want I’m thankful I am
financially free and independent I’m
healthy and I’m in a loving relationship
and I’ve got beautiful friends and
exactly can you just see that by me
saying thank you all the time for these
things even if somebody’s draining my
energy they’re not anymore mmm
slow motion this side slow motion this
side baby mmm
did you say thank you let me take a
moment of silence for my mentor right
now who changed my entire life okay how
to stop people draining your energy
there’s something called describing
intend okay as a psychologist as a
criminologist as an infinite being that
doesn’t make a difference because when
life happens it happens and sometimes
along my early journey I would ascribe
intent ascribing intent is where you
develop solecism
right you develop solid sysm which is
where you think the whole world is
revolving around you what everybody is
doing is in response to you so I had to
realize that actually know what people
are doing is not because of me they are
doing it because what they’ve gone
through they are doing it because of
their background they are doing it
because of their programmed subconscious
beliefs it’s got nothing to do with me
you see to really stop being drained by
other people it’s not that personal okay
it’s not as personal as you think so
ascribing intent is where if somebody
speaks to you in not such a pleasant way
you think oh my gosh what did I do it’s
it’s because of me
no it’s because they woke up and decided
that they’re gonna be mean to you they
woke up
in a bad mood they got fired today okay
they don’t love themselves and they
project that energy onto you it’s got
nothing to do with you so once you
realize that how people treat you is
really all about how they feel about
themselves mmm
slow motion this side mmm look deep
divers we’re gonna get rid of all the
people who are truly grateful for
infinite waters I know who you are and
that’s why you are invited to the
upcoming beach retreats you already got
the invitation more on the way right
last one was in Costa Mesa we did the
retreat there we’re gonna do it on the
beach this time I know who you are and I
know you have a lot of love you were
raised well okay you love yourself and
that’s why you’re grateful I love myself
and that’s why I’m grateful to you so
people who don’t love themselves can’t
love anybody else people who don’t
accept themselves can’t accept anybody
else and they can’t be grateful
therefore when they walk around they
walk around in what we call pain bodies
psychosomatic illnesses therefore
they’re toxic energy they throw unto
other people a lot of crazy stuff going
on with the young generation okay
because there’s a lack of self-love when
you love yourself you will never ever
want to harm anybody or the cat down the
road or the pig down the road or the cow
down the road look it’s not that
personal stop ascribing intent stop
feeling like it’s got everything to do
with you I know how people respond to me
has got nothing to do with me
it just is got everything to do with you
who you are as a person okay because we
don’t control how people treat us all we
can control is how we see ourselves so
once I started to say oh I get it it’s
their movie it’s got nothing to do with
me and that’s how you stop feeling
drained by other people feeling drained
by
somebody nobody can drain your energy
without your permission
mm-hmm slow motion this side
say it again Ralph nobody can drain your
energy without your permission it’s not
possible anytime you’re like deep divers
Ralph this person is draining my energy
you are choosing to hang around that
person it could be at work okay it
usually happens at work sometimes it’s a
co-worker and you get uneasy when you
ever in their presence does that ever
happen to you deep divers right now okay
yes it happens exactly it could be
someone in college right now when you’re
studying you get kind of exhaust paraded
just by being in their presence you are
allowing them to take your energy
they’re not doing anything you are
giving them permission I’ve mentioned
this before is called the invitation
therefore you have to learn how to take
back your power
nobody drains my energy without my
permission not even the cat down the
road I have the power and every single
day I mean nature I get reminded of that
how to stop people draining your energy
okay many times what happens we are
holding on to past energies you see to
really stop feeling drained by somebody
you have to free yourself of the
relationship you had with them in the
past many people cannot move on to the
next relationship because of their ex
okay I get thousands of messages every
single day Ralph I can’t even enjoy this
new relationship because of such a bad
relationship in the past well to stop
somebody controlling your life even if
they are no longer in your life you have
to forgive yourself for allowing
yourself to be for allowing yourself to
what usually happens we meet people some
people are good for us and some people
teach us hard lessons and some people
are actually bad for our health and even
though we are no longer with them just
the thought of them alone drains our
energy that’s why I say every single day
deep divers you have to let go of all
toxic people in your life right now
don’t give yourself an excuse to hang
around these people these people don’t
wish you well and therefore it’s time to
cut them off right I don’t want anybody
watching my videos who’s not rooting for
me if you are you’re wasting your time
because you aren’t welcome unsubscribe
right now like I just said that that’s
what you got to say to them if you have
somebody in your life who’s bullying you
get rid of them right now if you’ve got
a friend right now
who’s saying select stuff get rid of
them you want a truthful friend you want
a friend that can really pull you aside
and say look this is the real but you
don’t want a phony friend you don’t want
somebody that talks behind your back
you see just stop being drained by
someone’s energy you have to give people
ultimatum say this to everybody you mean
right now we’re gonna work together
we’re gonna be positive together we’re
gonna go to the next level together
we’re gonna inspire each other we’re
gonna help each other evolve if you
don’t have my best interest at hand if
you’re not here to help me grow if
you’re not here to wish me well if
you’re not here to promote my health if
you’re not here to make business moves
with me if you’re not here to bring me
inner peace you have no lock you have no
business no business being in my life
you get rid of them right now and then
you make space for good energy you see I
don’t have anybody in my life that
drains my energy because all all my
friends
the only infinite waters wave right I
only surround myself with successful
people who are helping me become my
greatest version and I’m also helping
millions do the same every single day so
how to stop people draining your energy
I mentioned the thought okay thought
creates reality and you have to learn
how to change your thoughts to change
your world change your mindset to change
your world stop giving these people
attention hmm what slow motion this side
mmm stop giving these people attention
your attention is why you feel powerless
the attention you give them is why you
feel powerless so start actually giving
attention the things and people that
really do serve you the reason why I’m
always going from success to success
living like a rock star every single day
people just send me free stuff they’re
like Ralph here just take a car I’m like
goodness gracious Thanks right they’re
like Ralph you you help my son take a
car right I really get offers like that
Ralph come and stand inside my house I
really get offers like that in fact you
actually invited me to your house right
what are you making for me what are you
making for infinite waters today right
how to stop people draining your energy
you have to be bold you have to learn
how to speak even if your voice shakes
stop being afraid to tell people how you
really feel I don’t sugarcoat anything
I’m a March 3rd Pisces a natural
communicator I get it off my chest so
learn this deep divers many times we are
over stressing because we are caught up
in mind in other words we are caught up
in ego to stop being drained by other
people’s energy you have to make a vow a
conscious vow which means an aware vow
to yourself every single day I’m not
be stressed anymore to the point where
look like younger than 20 though right I
look super young how come because I
don’t allow stress to govern me I never
allow stress to run my life and that’s
how to stop people draining your energy
say no to stress today the reason why I
can go to the beach every single day why
I go to the beach every single day is
because I’m all about the good life I
didn’t come to Planet Earth to suffer
I came to Planet Earth to live like a
king and that’s what I’m doing every
single day how to stop people draining
your energy by now you should have all
of those people out of your life and if
they’re poking their nose in your
business you have to realize this that
to everybody
that you feel is draining your energy
it’s time for you to start taking
responsibility don’t just blame people
for your problems don’t just blame
people for how you feel
realize you are creating your feelings
mmm
what slow motion this side I Caramba you
are creating your feelings take control
of your emotions before an emotion means
energy in motion before your emotions
take control of you I can’t I can’t I
can’t I don’t know what to say Ralph
they’re making me really chill they know
they’re making me really angry around
there they’re getting under my skin off
I’m losing sleep whoa you’ve allowed a
stranger to have that much power over
you now you’re drained because of them
you see what freed me along my journey
is to say no I’m gonna start taking
responsibility that I’m at
creating my own emotions my own energy
in motion my own feelings take
responsibility for how you feel now
going back to the choice it’s a choice
of who you surround yourself with I’m my
own boss I don’t have to answer to
anybody
I don’t have to put my hand up to go to
the toilet can I go to the toilet please
know I created infinite abundance got a
youtube go to what living like a rock
star and it’s only gonna grow more
because I’m a psychic Pisces it’s a
choice this person I’m surrounding
myself with how have they helped my life
you see I chose to start absorbing good
energy into my life for my mom my mentor
who changed my life
and my mentor was like Ralph you are
gonna go on in you are gonna go and
inspire millions of people you’re gonna
live to a very very old age probably
infinity actually infinity Ralph and you
are gonna become super wealthy and
inspire millions he prophesized that and
it became true I made a choice to
surround myself with people like that
and once again I don’t know why you come
to infinite waters unless you really
want to go far in life
exactly so how to stop people draining
your energy deep divers you see every
single day seven day vegan challenge I’m
learning that bad food choices will
drain your energy sometimes it’s not
people sometimes as a hot dog full of
poisonous nitrates full of acrylamide
which causes cancer and who who is who
World Health Organization has already
showed you that processed meats cause
cancer okay so why am i vegan of over 13
years not just because meats cause
cancer because it’s the right thing to
do the left thing also
because I’m left-handed I like animals
not just my dog the cat down the road no
I actually like animals when you really
really like animals you would never ever
want to eat an animal again I respect
animals that much I respect animals like
I respect you just because you are
bigger than an animal it doesn’t mean
you have the right to take his life away
mm-hmm slow motion this side right I
respect all life-forms on the planet I’m
never gonna stop rooting for the animals
because over 64 billion animals are
killed every single year what goes
around comes around you are eating pain
bodies animals who never wanted to be
pushed animals who never wanted to be
butchered animals who never wanted to be
tortured and therefore what goes around
comes around
my kamar is good I can sleep at night
because I know I saved an animal’s life
every single day you got a choice do I
want to take advantage of a life-form
that can’t defend itself
that’s butchered in humanely or do I
really want to stop helping my friends
helping the animals in fact I’m gonna
open up an animal sanctuary okay because
I truly feel that it’s disgusting what’s
happening on the planet the way we are
treating animals and other life-forms on
the planet we have to learn how to
protect other animals we have to learn
how to protect pigs cows chickens all of
these things right because energy can
never be destroyed a lot of us feel
drained every single day because we are
eating animals who didn’t want to die
against their will but Ralph they were
meant for me well give them a chance
awesome let them go and see if they’ll
come back to you they’ll run away
exactly right so what really freed me
along my early journey deep divers to
stop absorbing other people’s energy was
to leave my friends alone and before you
know it before you knew it I’ve got tons
of
energy like so much energy I can say
feel so good to be alive baby
exactly okay I’m always energetic
looking younger than ever because once
again seven day vegan challenge I’m
respecting animals I’m eating pineapples
instead of animals right how to stop
people or life draining your energy if
you are somebody who’s sleeping late all
the time that was me
sometimes it still is me but I’m
learning that there’s a big difference
you see I used to work sometimes 12-hour
days deep divers in the matrix I know
all about that life then I said actually
let me start inspiring people and it’s
been a whole process it’s been a whole
beautiful journey but there was times
when along my old life I would go to bed
at 3 o’clock in the morning wake up 6
o’clock go to work come home late go to
sleep late same process there is no
change in your life without a change in
routine I had to stop that I said
actually it’s time to get that beauty
sleep and then I started to sleep a lot
earlier wake up a lot earlier and now I
go to over 1.3 million subscribers I’m
an Internet
now my whole life has changed for the
better
I wake up wealthy I wake up in Health
because I’m getting that beauty sleep
I’m recharging in nature there’s a
choice why I make videos in nature you
see that’s another thing a lot of people
are drained by energy because of their
environment I’ve got a beautiful studio
and by the way my studio is very funky
it’s an art gallery ok beautiful
paintings but a lot of us we are invite
we are in we are in environments which
are very toxic office buildings
fluorescent light bulbs we are in front
of computer screens every single day
getting the elf frequencies full of
radiation causing brain tumors so you
have to
realize that you want to spend as much
time in nature as possible
I’m always recharging in nature I’m so
smart I make videos in nature therefore
I get a two-for-one fill so get to be a
live baby exactly that’s how to recharge
your energy and stop being drained by
life and other people sleep on time when
you are sleeping on time you are being
brainwashed literally in a good way
though because the cerebrospinal fluid
in your brain is actually taking out all
the toxins mm-hmm
slow motion this side read up on the
Harvard study about that right we need
sleep because it actually takes the
toxins out of our body we are being
brainwashed literally how to stop
somebody how to stop somebody how to
stop people things whatever it is
draining your energy deep divers what’s
helped me along my journey plain and
simple is to stop complaining see a lot
of us love to complain we love to moan
and groan I wish my life was like this I
wish my life was like that once again
any time you are complaining it’s a sign
that you’re not being grateful mm-hmm
slow motion this side mmm now it’s good
to complain sometimes it’s good to get
it off your chest but I’m talking about
complaining when you actually know you
could do something about it I could sit
down all day and say feel sorry for
myself and complain that hey how come
I’m not inspiring millions of people how
come I don’t have a youtube Gold Award
life is not fair I could have done that
I wouldn’t have got any of these things
I could have done that I wouldn’t have
got any of these things I could have
done that and I wouldn’t have got any of
these things but I got them because
instead of complaining I was used I was
using that energy to go to where I truly
want it to be mmm slow motion inside if
you are somebody who’s always
complaining my life is like this and my
life is like that it’s time deep divers
it is time to start giving thanks for
everything you
are going through in life once again I
always see people who are full of life
are full of gratitude people who are
full of life are full of appreciation
people who are full of life
always counting their blessings more
than their problems mmm slow motion this
side mmm have you ever wondered how come
I’m always creating because I’m really
really grateful okay it’s okay to
complain but don’t let it rule your life
say actually instead of complaining I
can get up and create I can get up and
actually be a positive influence in the
world that’s how to stop being drained
by life and other people oh did you hear
this did you hear that gossip right
that’s how to drain your energy really
fast I just I just had to tell you that
gossiping is the worst thing to do in
the world I don’t talk about anybody
else unless I tell them what I’m gonna
talk about because what does gossiping
show about you it shows i idle it shows
that nothing good is happening in your
life it shows that you’re not winning in
life in fact you’re way behind I don’t
have time to do I don’t have time to
gossip have you ever noticed that on
infinite waters I’ve never made a video
about somebody talking bad about them
you won’t find one if you do show me
it’s not gonna happen you will not find
a video of me speaking bad about
somebody else if I talk about you I’m
lifting you up I’m giving you keys to
success right I’m lifting you up or I’m
giving you keys to success I’m telling
you how to do it constructive criticism
but I hardly do that I’m always just
praising people right that’s how to stop
being drained by other people stop
gossiping start using that time in
actually creating making something of
yourself so your
great-great-grandchildren
can be proud
how to stop being drained by people
things and life circumstances let’s just
whoa breathing in that good ass prana
baby to be patient
Ralph you videos are too long that’s why
I made a short one I make short videos
for people with short concentration
spans and also long ones too right
because I know a lot of people are
impatient I stopped being drained by
other people’s energy by life itself
when I learnt patience
you got to see life as a marathon not a
short sprint the people who become
successful are the people who are
patient and grateful how to stop people
draining your energy realize this deep
divers every single day you have to
learn how to stop overthinking you see a
lot of us we have a lot of thoughts we
have our monkey mind going and the only
way to silence this monkey mind is to
not be in resistance to our thoughts a
lot of us we have a lot of resistance to
our thoughts you have to learn to say
actually no thoughts are good or bad
unless I think they are mmm slow motion
this side that’s how to really stop
being drained by other people’s energy
okay allow yourself to think whatever
you do without attachment to that
thought they don’t define you your
thoughts do not define you okay
so realize that that’s how you actually
stop overthinking when you are more
meditative every single day I’m stepping
into meditation
a higher form of existence and that’s
how to stop feeling drained by other
people’s energy it starts like this deep
divers many times we get distracted on
our phone all the time we get
sidetracked and when you get sidetracked
you get drained you start looking
through the newsfeed
not creating anything of your life not
creating anything of yourself you see
deep divers was freed me along my
journey is to live in the present moment
a hundred percent how many times have
you been trying to do a million things
at once you are drained by life and now
it comes in the form of other people too
so I always focus on one thing at a time
I always live as presently as I can in
the present moment and that’s how you
stop feeling drained by other people’s
energy because once again we often feel
drained when we’re thinking about
somebody in the past or we’re thinking
about them in the future but what is
happening to me right now I’m making
this video in the heart in nature whoa
beautiful day I don’t feel drained by
anybody or anything cuz I’m in the here
and now I’m losing my mind and coming to
my senses how to stop feeling drained by
people and life deep divers stop feeling
like you can please everybody I’ve got
news for you you can you can try to
though and you will fail fail and fail
again I don’t please people I don’t make
content just to please people I make it
as a self-expression and that works for
me in the process because I’m a wizard
you stop being drained by other people’s
energy deep divers stop listening to
friends and family or even strangers
that are always telling you what to do
with your life I never tell you what to
do with your life oh I only tell you
what’s helped me along my journey
it may help you or it may not that’s how
to stop being drained by other people’s
energy
stop trying to please everybody this is
your life it’s not this and deep divers
once you realize that once you start
loving yourself once you start accepting
yourself once you start embracing
yourself today you will stop being
drained by other people things and life
circumstances and then
well deep divers you just say feel so
good to be a live baby can I get a hello
beautiful deep divers we out here in the
heart of nature just whoa breathing in
that good ass prana baby manner
we’re just breathing in that good ah
spur on a baby good ass prana shirts
Ralph smart dot-com slash clothes over
18 designs colors all of that good stuff
get inspired instagram at infinite
waters have a beautiful day deep divers
thank you infinite waters diving deep
once again stay well stay healthy peace
you I love nature so much you just
recharge me every single day when you
say that how can how on earth can you be
drained by other people life is just too too beautiful right focus on that

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