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How to Stop Other People From Destroying Your Inner Peace


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those are the best ways don’t try any
other way how to stop other people from
destroying your inner peace a woman
wrote in saying that she has recently
found out some people have been
spreading a rumor about her they’ve been
gossiping and now this is affecting how
she feels she feels caved in don’t worry
about it sweetie can I get a Hello let
me share with you what’s helped me along
my journey because I always feel so many
of us are dealing with this but we don’t
really talk about it because we don’t
exist in this world alone no we exist as
a collective so there are always going
to be people who are gonna test us
they’re gonna ruffle your feathers and
you still have to stand strong but it’s
not going to be easy when I first
started even sharing videos it was hard
because I had to deal with a lot of
criticism some people said your videos
are too long that was a five minute
video I said oh I’ve just recorded a
thirty minute video what are you gonna
think whoops too late I’m sorry but the
more you go on the more confidence you
have which means to trust yourself 100%
there’s a great picture which I love
your vibe attracts your tribe your vibe
attracts your
your vibe attracts your tribe repeat
that to yourself
see how it makes you feel you have to
ask yourself why are you feeding the
trolls why are you placing all your
focus and all of your attention on
something or someone which is not
serving you you see we always have a
part to play and we’re gonna find out we
have a lot of things in common
oh yeah those same people who you feel
you are
trying to get away from something within
us is actually attracting them to us
because your vibe attracts your tribe
you see many of us I recently wrote if
only we spend as much time thinking of
those people we love as much as we do
as the people that get on our nerves
then the world will probably be a lot
different right but we do it the
opposite we think of people that get on
our nerves so I always say whenever
someone makes us feel uncomfortable you
have to ask yourself why do I feel this
way we’ve got a lot to learn
everybody is testing us because this
helps us become our greatest version the
whole of this world this universe is
built on contrasts you’re always going
to get people who are going to come out
of the blue they’re gonna tell you
things they’re gonna really make you
question if you love yourself
I proclaim I love myself 100% and I only
connect with amazing people we see a lot
of us we don’t say that a lot of us we
believe what these people tell us
because we’re not sure about ourselves
we believe what these people tell us
because deep down we haven’t built up
that mental and emotional strength it
comes with time it comes with trust but
more so it comes with letting go now you
wrote in saying that you’re caught up in
the middle between being silent about it
or being violent okay we don’t have to
turn the other cheek we’ve always got to
stand up for ourselves and set positive
boundaries but what’s helped me along my
journey has seen the
level of consciousness someone else has
and people tell me things sometimes it’s
negative I always look at their level of
consciousness and I start to see the
person in a whole other way I say wait a
minute
who is this person what have they done
where is their work and guess what they
have none because the people who are
doing things making moves
they don’t have time for that you see so
you will always know when you realize it
takes a lot of time to go and irritate
someone I know time but when you’re
making moves you’re too busy trying to
elevate the planet I’m too busy trying
to elevate the planet I’m not trying I’m
doing it so I don’t even have time to
focus on that I focus on the people that
matter the most because your vibe
attracts your tribe many times when we
create what I call the trust circle it
helps a lot of us we’re dealing with
this all alone what’s helped me along my
journey is always to remind myself I’m
not going to focus on events any longer
that don’t bring me anything you see
because sometimes there’s something for
us to learn in that situation for a long
time add a close family member who would
tell me to always do things a certain
way and it really got on my nerves then
I said wait a minute they’ve actually
got a point because sometimes we’re so
quick to react always take a deep breath
from the base of your spine before you
to get that clarity going get that
calmness go and get that inner balance
going don’t expect people to bring you
in a balance you’ve got to cultivate it
from yourself once you cultivate it
within once again your vibe attracts
your tribe many times we also have to
see that what happens in a situation
where people are telling you things
which is not true I say I used to worry
what people think now I just smile
because nobody can hurt you
more than you can hurt yourself form an
intimate relationship with yourself
realize what you have going on for
yourself realize the time which is money
which is currency which is energy that
you’re investing into this rumor or this
gossip and ask yourself are you making
back the return or is it a heavy
expenditure because now guess what
you’re gonna be broke literally you see
many times we don’t realize the power of
our thoughts the power of our mind but
more so that we can learn so much more
from what gets on our nerves
then sometimes then what brings us peace
so treat this as a learning situation to
always say what is coming through me
right now what am I feeling right now
you’re going to be feeling very weak
very tired and this is only because once
again you think by focusing on this is
gonna bring you strength actually the
true strength comes from letting go and
working on yourself because now you can
express yourself a hundred percent
without apology I never believed in just
turning the other cheek or being silent
express yourself but once again living
in this digital world it’s happened to
me along my journey sometimes someone
calls me actually they don’t call these
days do they they just send the text
okay and we we get a wrong translation
of what the message actually means
because once again we don’t know how to
read it
so go to that person and look them dead
in the eyes until you realize they have
no power unless you give them power
without your permission now we often
talk of don’t take it personally is easy
to say that but sometimes we do take it
personally sometimes people say I don’t
like what you’re wearing oh my gosh
and then you meet another person I love
what you’re wearing so which one is
telling the truth it doesn’t matter
the only thing that matters is how you
feel about yourself for me I know what
I’ve done when people call me when they
tell me when I see them how I’ve helped
them become their greatest versions so I
don’t have a doubt in my mind we’re
changing the world of course we are
because the longer you do it once you’ve
been doing it for years now you take to
the throne but once again it takes
surrendering it takes compassion to see
where their level of consciousness is
emanating from it also is a key
indication of where your true passion
lies right now your true purpose because
when you are immersed in your true
purpose believe me you don’t have time
to waste on distractions it’s only about
elevation it’s only about creating more
abundance as opposed to more fear I’ve
always known a very simple secret life
is simple but the simple life takes
incredible mastery let me repeat that
life is simple but the simple life takes
incredible mastery and whenever we
realize that as we change our
vibrational frequency everything aligns
we move out of their force field but we
realize a greater secret it’s all about
how we are perceiving the event okay
perception is everything but focus on
those that actually give a damn how
about that and realize that really and
truly when you see the bigger picture
you realize that life is sure
even if you were to live a thousand
years that’s still only a drop in the
ocean of eternity so I realize am I
gonna utilize time to his maximum
potential am I going to be my ten B time
bound by someone else’s confusion which
is really mirroring my own confusion
take responsibility for who you are
inviting into your personal space and
find those that love you and connect
with those you love have a wonderful day
we are here enjoying ourselves infinite
waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy

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