peace and thinit waters diving deep once
again we are out here in the heart of
nature baby
Topanga California Wayne even had
breakfast yeah can I get a hello
the breathing in that good ass prana
baby how to stop living other people’s
lives I’m walking around and someone
notices me
they say Ralph I say hi it’s a girl she
says thanks for the videos they’ve
inspired me I say thank you she then
goes on to say that she has a lot of
pressure right now parents want her to
do medicine right now she is not sure
right now that’s really what she wants
to do right now kind of thing what
should she do right now let me share
with you what’s helped me along my
journey because I didn’t have enough
time to go in depth with her that’s the
exercise you got a practice to ignore
everybody I know what it’s like right
because I too had to face similar
challenges right friends talking family
talking everybody knows what to do with
your life except you isn’t that
something
right so the more you can close your
ears to the outside sounds you can now
begin to listen to yourself right I
graduated at the age of 20 with a degree
in psychology and criminology right but
even when I was working with autistic
children people with ADHD autism
bipolar it was amazing I love this I
love psychology but I knew there was
more I knew I could make a greater
impact I knew I could become what I
we don’t have proof it works so we are
gonna believe other people so when you
can look at other people who are
successful in what you want to do and
ask them to be your mentor
great things happen right I thank my
mentors every single day because they
helped me realize everyday I can wake up
with a bunch of grapes in my mouth right
we ain’t even had breakfast yet but I
could do that
I could really mold this life into
anything I wanted but it’s not an easy
road it is not an easy road only because
you see if you are going in the
direction of what your family want you
to do what your friends want you to do
there is a lot of momentum building up
right if you want to do what you do
naturally maybe it’s a gift and the
talent you want to really activate you
may not have a lot of support so once
again you got to find people who are
already masters at what they do which is
very similar to you and ask them for
advice
and I guarantee you anybody who is doing
what they love every single day getting
paid living in abundance will tell you
to follow your dream that’s what I tell
people every single day they come to me
they say Ralph I’m not sure I say do it
Ralph I’m do it do it because I’ve done
it I’ve seen it I don’t have to work a
day in my life again I’m said because I
saw the big a vision it’s not all a
waste you see you can actually use your
college degree you can use a skill and
use it to your benefit that’s why I say
sometimes according to a psychologist
right I don’t care about that but once
again you got to know how to play the
game right because that’s how a lot of
people subconscious mind works this is
what I do for a living how to stop
living other people’s lives is realize
this when it’s all said and done when
you are at the pearly gates right there
are no brownie points oh you are well
behaved you were you are a goody-goody
well done know everybody’s too busy
partying drinking skating around dancing
around because like a great poet once
said we live we live in a flash of light
we live in a flash of light so when you
begin to realize that your time is
limited just like Buddha said the
problem is you think you have time to
stop living other people’s lives you’ve
got to ask yourself what am I getting
from these people a lot of us
seven day vegan challenge we’re around
people and guess what we’re gonna eat
the same foods they do when I move to a
plant-based diet over eleven years ago
nobody was doing it so I was scared lost
feeling helpless wanting to go out to a
vegan restaurant and eat with people eat
some avocados some dates some watercress
and things like that nobody was there
cuz a lot of my friends they were just
eating a lot of fast food we were all
doing that but once I changed my diet
the kinds of people I started to attract
in my life started to change
I realized I have to stop living other
people’s lives because if I was gonna
continue to do that I would have gone
down with them I would have had to go to
the hospital with them because a lot of
them had a lot of problems digestive
problems cardiovascular problems I had
to make a radical change so to stop
living other people’s lives you got to
see the bigger picture a lot of people
say gosh Ralph why do you share on
Saturday and Sunday I say because it’s
not work this is a lifestyle and the
moment you can live a lifestyle you will
be forever prosperous it starts with
learning and recognizing your blueprint
confidence means you’ve got to trust
yourself a hundred percent confidence is
only generated by doing something you
love and making time for it that is how
you become a master at what you do
you are caught up in living someone
else’s life
because you don’t have the confidence
now because once again you’re living in
two worlds you can’t serve two masters
you’re either going this way or you
going that way because each one demands
a lot of energy so you got to take time
to meditate you got to take time to
listen to yourself you got to find your
own signature there is nobody like me
that’s what you got to say there is
nobody like me that’s why I can keep I
can keep creating I can keep sharing
because we could we’ve created a unique
blueprint and signature which people
follow that’s how to stop living someone
else’s life
what when I see you stands out right
because you see we are living in a very
competitive world these days everybody
wants to tell you what to do with your
life right they want to fix your life
they want to change your life they want
to tell you to do this and you’re like
who the hell are you because people
actually want to see results they want
to see how you’ve gone from this to that
people want to see how you’ve made it
right they don’t they don’t want to just
hear the talk cuz a lot of people we
talk a good talk but when it comes to
actually seeing actually tangible
results we’ve got nothing to show for it
I realize a very long time ago that
people aren’t really concerned about
what you do so many of us were so busy
we’ll only concerned about ourselves
I had to come into nature right infinite
waters was created years ago
the foundation was based upon nature
right and in nature you find yourself in
nature you heal yourself in nature you
respect yourself because you learn from
nature you realize everything will
happen at the right time a lot of us
we’re afraid to go into the wilderness a
lot of us we’re afraid to be ourselves
which can only happen by the way through
going into the wilderness take your
shoes off barefoot don’t worry I won’t
judge your feet you’re walking through
the wilderness what you find it’s empty
it’s maybe deserted all you see is just
some flowers and some trees that’s the
spot you will find your signature why
because now you get heightened senses
you start to really meditate and ponder
on what it is you actually came here to
do and you will know because once again
you’re gonna see tangible results once
you are in alignment with your true life
purpose you know because it becomes
effortless
you know because you start impacting
other people all around you more so your
whole life takes on a whole new meaning
how to stop living other people’s lives
it’s to realize that everybody is here
for a different reason right I don’t
know why you’re here I know why I’m here
right we change lives you got to be able
to believe in yourself it’s not negative
to have what the great psychologist Carl
Rogers said unconditional positive
regard
you’ve got to be able to see yourself
with unconditional positive regard to
stop living someone else’s life you’ve
got to be so busy doing what you love
you don’t have time for negativity
gossip drama only for elevation positive
and negative two sides of the same coin
that’s okay
be as negative as you want as positive
as you want just as long just as long as
you are authentic that’s the secret to
stop living someone else’s life you see
a lot of us we’ve got a problem
with authenticity that’s why you’re just
following the leader you’re still not
sure whether or not to start that
business to develop your own brand
because you haven’t come into who you
are
you can only do that by once again
taking one small step at a time
coming into nature spaces breathing and
having more appreciation who you are
that is the only way to do it if you are
still stuck on comparing yourself to
other people judging yourself against
other people feeling you are in a race
with other people you will always be
living someone else’s life if you are
just working solely for money then you
won’t be happy number one but two you
won’t be living your life purpose three
you will feel drained afterwards if you
are working because it gives a sense it
gives you a sense of self-worth you will
naturally attract everything you need
because everything comes to you at the
right time if
you take the necessary steps to be at
the right place which is your
authenticity it’s a matter of taking a
risk the bigger the risk the bigger the
danger but big risks carry greater
rewards lots of us we just want to stay
put we just want to stay in one
environment with the same people with
we want to be cool but you see a lot of
my cool friends right now they’re
nowhere to be seen
because being cool when I was growing up
was just about drinking yourself to
death and just getting high all the time
which is amazing right but at the same
time you could be you could build a new
Facebook you got to think big you could
be the next Bill Gates right you could
become someone so influential to
millions of people’s lives or what is
even greater than that what is even
greater than that you could be yourself
that in itself is the greatest prize
ever so once again to stop living
someone else’s life you got to find what
you are good at
you got to cultivate your talent and
then you got to create a signature and
stand out from the rest because so long
as you are only concerned about fitting
in oh yeah you’re gonna fit in but
you’re just gonna be another brick on
if you want a higher state of living you
got to do something you haven’t done
before you got to take the first step
today in a completely different
direction if it’s not making you happy
because it’s never too late to turn the
car around right you got to realize
there’s gonna be cold nights it’s gonna
get real frosty but that’s the price
which you are willing to pay to live the
life of their dreams I paid the cost and
now I’m in nature can I get a hello
there this life can be anything you want
that is my mantra every single day why
do I repeat that because it’s true have
a beautiful day well here infinite
waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy
again we are out here in the heart of
nature baby
Topanga California Wayne even had
breakfast yeah can I get a hello
the breathing in that good ass prana
baby how to stop living other people’s
lives I’m walking around and someone
notices me
they say Ralph I say hi it’s a girl she
says thanks for the videos they’ve
inspired me I say thank you she then
goes on to say that she has a lot of
pressure right now parents want her to
do medicine right now she is not sure
right now that’s really what she wants
to do right now kind of thing what
should she do right now let me share
with you what’s helped me along my
journey because I didn’t have enough
time to go in depth with her that’s the
exercise you got a practice to ignore
everybody I know what it’s like right
because I too had to face similar
challenges right friends talking family
talking everybody knows what to do with
your life except you isn’t that
something
right so the more you can close your
ears to the outside sounds you can now
begin to listen to yourself right I
graduated at the age of 20 with a degree
in psychology and criminology right but
even when I was working with autistic
children people with ADHD autism
bipolar it was amazing I love this I
love psychology but I knew there was
more I knew I could make a greater
impact I knew I could become what I
we don’t have proof it works so we are
gonna believe other people so when you
can look at other people who are
successful in what you want to do and
ask them to be your mentor
great things happen right I thank my
mentors every single day because they
helped me realize everyday I can wake up
with a bunch of grapes in my mouth right
we ain’t even had breakfast yet but I
could do that
I could really mold this life into
anything I wanted but it’s not an easy
road it is not an easy road only because
you see if you are going in the
direction of what your family want you
to do what your friends want you to do
there is a lot of momentum building up
right if you want to do what you do
naturally maybe it’s a gift and the
talent you want to really activate you
may not have a lot of support so once
again you got to find people who are
already masters at what they do which is
very similar to you and ask them for
advice
and I guarantee you anybody who is doing
what they love every single day getting
paid living in abundance will tell you
to follow your dream that’s what I tell
people every single day they come to me
they say Ralph I’m not sure I say do it
Ralph I’m do it do it because I’ve done
it I’ve seen it I don’t have to work a
day in my life again I’m said because I
saw the big a vision it’s not all a
waste you see you can actually use your
college degree you can use a skill and
use it to your benefit that’s why I say
sometimes according to a psychologist
right I don’t care about that but once
again you got to know how to play the
game right because that’s how a lot of
people subconscious mind works this is
what I do for a living how to stop
living other people’s lives is realize
this when it’s all said and done when
you are at the pearly gates right there
are no brownie points oh you are well
behaved you were you are a goody-goody
well done know everybody’s too busy
partying drinking skating around dancing
around because like a great poet once
said we live we live in a flash of light
we live in a flash of light so when you
begin to realize that your time is
limited just like Buddha said the
problem is you think you have time to
stop living other people’s lives you’ve
got to ask yourself what am I getting
from these people a lot of us
seven day vegan challenge we’re around
people and guess what we’re gonna eat
the same foods they do when I move to a
plant-based diet over eleven years ago
nobody was doing it so I was scared lost
feeling helpless wanting to go out to a
vegan restaurant and eat with people eat
some avocados some dates some watercress
and things like that nobody was there
cuz a lot of my friends they were just
eating a lot of fast food we were all
doing that but once I changed my diet
the kinds of people I started to attract
in my life started to change
I realized I have to stop living other
people’s lives because if I was gonna
continue to do that I would have gone
down with them I would have had to go to
the hospital with them because a lot of
them had a lot of problems digestive
problems cardiovascular problems I had
to make a radical change so to stop
living other people’s lives you got to
see the bigger picture a lot of people
say gosh Ralph why do you share on
Saturday and Sunday I say because it’s
not work this is a lifestyle and the
moment you can live a lifestyle you will
be forever prosperous it starts with
learning and recognizing your blueprint
confidence means you’ve got to trust
yourself a hundred percent confidence is
only generated by doing something you
love and making time for it that is how
you become a master at what you do
you are caught up in living someone
else’s life
because you don’t have the confidence
now because once again you’re living in
two worlds you can’t serve two masters
you’re either going this way or you
going that way because each one demands
a lot of energy so you got to take time
to meditate you got to take time to
listen to yourself you got to find your
own signature there is nobody like me
that’s what you got to say there is
nobody like me that’s why I can keep I
can keep creating I can keep sharing
because we could we’ve created a unique
blueprint and signature which people
follow that’s how to stop living someone
else’s life
what when I see you stands out right
because you see we are living in a very
competitive world these days everybody
wants to tell you what to do with your
life right they want to fix your life
they want to change your life they want
to tell you to do this and you’re like
who the hell are you because people
actually want to see results they want
to see how you’ve gone from this to that
people want to see how you’ve made it
right they don’t they don’t want to just
hear the talk cuz a lot of people we
talk a good talk but when it comes to
actually seeing actually tangible
results we’ve got nothing to show for it
I realize a very long time ago that
people aren’t really concerned about
what you do so many of us were so busy
we’ll only concerned about ourselves
I had to come into nature right infinite
waters was created years ago
the foundation was based upon nature
right and in nature you find yourself in
nature you heal yourself in nature you
respect yourself because you learn from
nature you realize everything will
happen at the right time a lot of us
we’re afraid to go into the wilderness a
lot of us we’re afraid to be ourselves
which can only happen by the way through
going into the wilderness take your
shoes off barefoot don’t worry I won’t
judge your feet you’re walking through
the wilderness what you find it’s empty
it’s maybe deserted all you see is just
some flowers and some trees that’s the
spot you will find your signature why
because now you get heightened senses
you start to really meditate and ponder
on what it is you actually came here to
do and you will know because once again
you’re gonna see tangible results once
you are in alignment with your true life
purpose you know because it becomes
effortless
you know because you start impacting
other people all around you more so your
whole life takes on a whole new meaning
how to stop living other people’s lives
it’s to realize that everybody is here
for a different reason right I don’t
know why you’re here I know why I’m here
right we change lives you got to be able
to believe in yourself it’s not negative
to have what the great psychologist Carl
Rogers said unconditional positive
regard
you’ve got to be able to see yourself
with unconditional positive regard to
stop living someone else’s life you’ve
got to be so busy doing what you love
you don’t have time for negativity
gossip drama only for elevation positive
and negative two sides of the same coin
that’s okay
be as negative as you want as positive
as you want just as long just as long as
you are authentic that’s the secret to
stop living someone else’s life you see
a lot of us we’ve got a problem
with authenticity that’s why you’re just
following the leader you’re still not
sure whether or not to start that
business to develop your own brand
because you haven’t come into who you
are
you can only do that by once again
taking one small step at a time
coming into nature spaces breathing and
having more appreciation who you are
that is the only way to do it if you are
still stuck on comparing yourself to
other people judging yourself against
other people feeling you are in a race
with other people you will always be
living someone else’s life if you are
just working solely for money then you
won’t be happy number one but two you
won’t be living your life purpose three
you will feel drained afterwards if you
are working because it gives a sense it
gives you a sense of self-worth you will
naturally attract everything you need
because everything comes to you at the
right time if
you take the necessary steps to be at
the right place which is your
authenticity it’s a matter of taking a
risk the bigger the risk the bigger the
danger but big risks carry greater
rewards lots of us we just want to stay
put we just want to stay in one
environment with the same people with
we want to be cool but you see a lot of
my cool friends right now they’re
nowhere to be seen
because being cool when I was growing up
was just about drinking yourself to
death and just getting high all the time
which is amazing right but at the same
time you could be you could build a new
Facebook you got to think big you could
be the next Bill Gates right you could
become someone so influential to
millions of people’s lives or what is
even greater than that what is even
greater than that you could be yourself
that in itself is the greatest prize
ever so once again to stop living
someone else’s life you got to find what
you are good at
you got to cultivate your talent and
then you got to create a signature and
stand out from the rest because so long
as you are only concerned about fitting
in oh yeah you’re gonna fit in but
you’re just gonna be another brick on
if you want a higher state of living you
got to do something you haven’t done
before you got to take the first step
today in a completely different
direction if it’s not making you happy
because it’s never too late to turn the
car around right you got to realize
there’s gonna be cold nights it’s gonna
get real frosty but that’s the price
which you are willing to pay to live the
life of their dreams I paid the cost and
now I’m in nature can I get a hello
there this life can be anything you want
that is my mantra every single day why
do I repeat that because it’s true have
a beautiful day well here infinite
waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy
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