peace infinite waters diving deep once
again can I get a Hello so I received a
question in how to not let people offend
you when you are angry it’s one thing to
be offended when you’re okay about it
but when you’re angry that really takes
the piss I’m gonna share with you what’s
helped me along my journey now the
question should really be annoying
things people will do to offend you and
what the hell are you gonna do about it
question mark so let’s take a look at
some of the things people do number one
they hit a nerve they hit you where it
hurts they know the exact words to say
and how to say them to make you really
paranoid now you’re pulling out your
hair you’re looking for an object to hit
them with oh my days you’re losing sleep
and it’s all because of one person now
along my journey that was me by the way
in my early journey I am NOT giving
someone else power over my internal
condition that’s my responsibility
nobody is that powerful to make you go
through the whole day miserable no we
are allowing them to have that power
over us so the moment we start taking
responsibility it doesn’t change what
has happened but it allows us to take
control of the way we feel
what is another annoying thing people do
they bring up the past you’re talking to
them and now they go back into time ten
years ago five years ago oh but remember
when you did this
I just forgot about it and now you have
to go and bring it up again thank you so
much
you okay
they went there they were holding that
now they’re exposing you what are we
gonna do about it I deal with this by
reminding myself I am a different person
let them hold on to the past
while you live in the present moment and
in the present moment you can feel alive
there is expansion freedom more so there
is serenity but if we become attached to
what they have just brought up from the
past now we are living in the past so
realize it’s a whole new beginning for
you and who cares what they say another
annoying thing is silence ignoring you
we’ve all experienced that sometimes
someone doesn’t reply to an email a
message you send them sometimes you’re
talking to someone or you even see
someone where you work and they just
avoid you and that offends you that
makes you angry what are we gonna do how
we have to embrace ourselves always more
so we can’t please everyone when we
start placing ourselves in their shoes
we don’t know their own life experiences
what happened to them
but we know what happened to us so are
we gonna copy someone else’s behavior
oh they’re ignoring me so I am gonna
ignore other people because that’s what
happens we end up becoming like the
people we despise but once we say wait a
minute wait a minute
I am NOT gonna be like this person I am
better than that then your whole life
changes and this person does not offend
you anymore why because they don’t hold
power over you and another annoying
thing is that people laugh at your
vision it happened to me over 10 years
ago when I became a vegan and what
happened I told people that I want to
stop eating meat get out of here you
need your protein so that’s why I
stopped talking to you you know who you
are
no a lot of the times when we are in
front of people who don’t care about our
vision it may offend us when they talk
down on us but we have to stop caring
what other people think and also we have
to believe in ourselves we have to know
ourselves and we have to surround
ourselves with people who uplift our
spirit at the same time I am always open
to constructive criticism but more so
looking at how people are expressing
themselves is it coming from a place of
love or fear so I always smile to myself
and say when I feel offended because
someone else doesn’t believe in my
dreams that’s their loss because the
abundance I have now is gonna be shared
with the people that inspired me those
that believed in my vision and is
happening welcome to the party next week
Tuesday my house be there and okay let’s
look at it
judgment when people judge you this is
an annoying thing people do that can
offend even the people with the thickest
skin in the universe when people watch
and stare and they they look at you like
okay how do I deal with that I accept
myself a hundred percent the
relationship we have with ourselves is
more significant than the relationship
we have with those that offend us a lot
of the times we spend a whole day
focusing on people that offend us
instead of people that love us more so
we don’t even focus on the love we have
for ourselves
how people feel about you is none of
your business
that’s a motto of mine look at it like
this how people feel towards you
is a reflection of their experience not
yours but
let’s go deeper we have created this
story about what someone else did or
said to make us feel offended and the
more we think about it it makes us even
angrier it is based on our
interpretation more so our perception
and that story we have to ask ourselves
all the time how is it serving us a lot
of us we caught with the worst case
scenario oh my days
this person just said it like this no
you put your own energy into what they
were saying more so if they have
offended us ok let’s go there we’re
angry now what do we do we have to start
breathing deep from the base of our
spines release the stress all of this
does wonders because through breathing
deep from the base of our spines and
seeing how tense or tight our muscles
are now we can start changing our mental
and emotional body so when someone does
something to me which gets on my nerves
I take a really big deep breath what
were you saying
and that brings so much peace into you
that they become insignificant more so
you just have this gratitude
consciousness for the amazing people in
your life and that’s how it is
works every time
oh you went there
you had to go there you couldn’t help
yourself when we feel offended by that
when someone hits a nerve I say bring it
on because the universe gives every one
a job they are sent to test us to see if
we are who we say we are because
goodness knows we talk a good talk now
here is the challenge what if life will
give us whatever experience is most
helpful for our own personal evolution
that’s how I look at it for me is a time
of sharpening my sword to see that oh I
didn’t know I had this within me because
we don’t know until our buttons are
pushed but what happens when we step
into that neutral state now we are not
offended
we don’t take its heart once you don’t
take it to heart
I have heard what you have to say but
guess what I don’t care I don’t resonate
with them but I am NOT emotional about
it I am not allowing my subconscious
mind to take over which is the reactive
part of the mind
I am transcending that to become neutral
why because this now brings us to a
great homeostasis more so equilibrium
within our bodies promoting greater
health yes please our sign right there
because abundance is health health is
wealth and we are all worthy to have the
most expansive existence there is in the
of us a lot of the times when we are
angry and frustrated it’s because we
can’t express how we feel we are holding
all of this built up energy within
ourselves so when someone offends you
politely say excuse me you just offended
me get it off your chest because
depression is suppression let that
person know how you feel and that will
help you let go of the resistance
because when you are silent now you are
having an implosion everything that you
feel towards that person comes to you so
communicate and that way you free
yourself more so you find peace of mind
and if they don’t want to listen well
resort to violence no never violence
talk again in a peaceful way and then
just say that person forget about them
move on you’re better than that
so I am not offended when people judge
me because I say how I see myself is the
only thing that matters and if you don’t
like that you can stick it up your PDP
okay we are here infinite waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy
again can I get a Hello so I received a
question in how to not let people offend
you when you are angry it’s one thing to
be offended when you’re okay about it
but when you’re angry that really takes
the piss I’m gonna share with you what’s
helped me along my journey now the
question should really be annoying
things people will do to offend you and
what the hell are you gonna do about it
question mark so let’s take a look at
some of the things people do number one
they hit a nerve they hit you where it
hurts they know the exact words to say
and how to say them to make you really
paranoid now you’re pulling out your
hair you’re looking for an object to hit
them with oh my days you’re losing sleep
and it’s all because of one person now
along my journey that was me by the way
in my early journey I am NOT giving
someone else power over my internal
condition that’s my responsibility
nobody is that powerful to make you go
through the whole day miserable no we
are allowing them to have that power
over us so the moment we start taking
responsibility it doesn’t change what
has happened but it allows us to take
control of the way we feel
what is another annoying thing people do
they bring up the past you’re talking to
them and now they go back into time ten
years ago five years ago oh but remember
when you did this
I just forgot about it and now you have
to go and bring it up again thank you so
much
you okay
they went there they were holding that
now they’re exposing you what are we
gonna do about it I deal with this by
reminding myself I am a different person
let them hold on to the past
while you live in the present moment and
in the present moment you can feel alive
there is expansion freedom more so there
is serenity but if we become attached to
what they have just brought up from the
past now we are living in the past so
realize it’s a whole new beginning for
you and who cares what they say another
annoying thing is silence ignoring you
we’ve all experienced that sometimes
someone doesn’t reply to an email a
message you send them sometimes you’re
talking to someone or you even see
someone where you work and they just
avoid you and that offends you that
makes you angry what are we gonna do how
we have to embrace ourselves always more
so we can’t please everyone when we
start placing ourselves in their shoes
we don’t know their own life experiences
what happened to them
but we know what happened to us so are
we gonna copy someone else’s behavior
oh they’re ignoring me so I am gonna
ignore other people because that’s what
happens we end up becoming like the
people we despise but once we say wait a
minute wait a minute
I am NOT gonna be like this person I am
better than that then your whole life
changes and this person does not offend
you anymore why because they don’t hold
power over you and another annoying
thing is that people laugh at your
vision it happened to me over 10 years
ago when I became a vegan and what
happened I told people that I want to
stop eating meat get out of here you
need your protein so that’s why I
stopped talking to you you know who you
are
no a lot of the times when we are in
front of people who don’t care about our
vision it may offend us when they talk
down on us but we have to stop caring
what other people think and also we have
to believe in ourselves we have to know
ourselves and we have to surround
ourselves with people who uplift our
spirit at the same time I am always open
to constructive criticism but more so
looking at how people are expressing
themselves is it coming from a place of
love or fear so I always smile to myself
and say when I feel offended because
someone else doesn’t believe in my
dreams that’s their loss because the
abundance I have now is gonna be shared
with the people that inspired me those
that believed in my vision and is
happening welcome to the party next week
Tuesday my house be there and okay let’s
look at it
judgment when people judge you this is
an annoying thing people do that can
offend even the people with the thickest
skin in the universe when people watch
and stare and they they look at you like
okay how do I deal with that I accept
myself a hundred percent the
relationship we have with ourselves is
more significant than the relationship
we have with those that offend us a lot
of the times we spend a whole day
focusing on people that offend us
instead of people that love us more so
we don’t even focus on the love we have
for ourselves
how people feel about you is none of
your business
that’s a motto of mine look at it like
this how people feel towards you
is a reflection of their experience not
yours but
let’s go deeper we have created this
story about what someone else did or
said to make us feel offended and the
more we think about it it makes us even
angrier it is based on our
interpretation more so our perception
and that story we have to ask ourselves
all the time how is it serving us a lot
of us we caught with the worst case
scenario oh my days
this person just said it like this no
you put your own energy into what they
were saying more so if they have
offended us ok let’s go there we’re
angry now what do we do we have to start
breathing deep from the base of our
spines release the stress all of this
does wonders because through breathing
deep from the base of our spines and
seeing how tense or tight our muscles
are now we can start changing our mental
and emotional body so when someone does
something to me which gets on my nerves
I take a really big deep breath what
were you saying
and that brings so much peace into you
that they become insignificant more so
you just have this gratitude
consciousness for the amazing people in
your life and that’s how it is
works every time
oh you went there
you had to go there you couldn’t help
yourself when we feel offended by that
when someone hits a nerve I say bring it
on because the universe gives every one
a job they are sent to test us to see if
we are who we say we are because
goodness knows we talk a good talk now
here is the challenge what if life will
give us whatever experience is most
helpful for our own personal evolution
that’s how I look at it for me is a time
of sharpening my sword to see that oh I
didn’t know I had this within me because
we don’t know until our buttons are
pushed but what happens when we step
into that neutral state now we are not
offended
we don’t take its heart once you don’t
take it to heart
I have heard what you have to say but
guess what I don’t care I don’t resonate
with them but I am NOT emotional about
it I am not allowing my subconscious
mind to take over which is the reactive
part of the mind
I am transcending that to become neutral
why because this now brings us to a
great homeostasis more so equilibrium
within our bodies promoting greater
health yes please our sign right there
because abundance is health health is
wealth and we are all worthy to have the
most expansive existence there is in the
of us a lot of the times when we are
angry and frustrated it’s because we
can’t express how we feel we are holding
all of this built up energy within
ourselves so when someone offends you
politely say excuse me you just offended
me get it off your chest because
depression is suppression let that
person know how you feel and that will
help you let go of the resistance
because when you are silent now you are
having an implosion everything that you
feel towards that person comes to you so
communicate and that way you free
yourself more so you find peace of mind
and if they don’t want to listen well
resort to violence no never violence
talk again in a peaceful way and then
just say that person forget about them
move on you’re better than that
so I am not offended when people judge
me because I say how I see myself is the
only thing that matters and if you don’t
like that you can stick it up your PDP
okay we are here infinite waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy
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