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How to Stop Feeling Less Valued Than Other People


he some senate waters diving deep once
again we are out here in the heart of
nature baby do you feel valued how to
stop feeling less valued than other
people
that’s a great question that came in so
we’re gonna dive into it let’s just whoa
breathing in that good ass Prada baby
now let’s be honest we all deal with
that like I just want to be valued by
other people and no one’s paying you any
attention are they not even the cat down
the road we even had breakfast yet can I
get a hello let me share with you what
helped me along my journey on this
beautiful what feels like a summers day
now stop competing with everyone do you
understand the words coming out of my
mouth stop competing that’s really what
helped me along my journey to stop
feeling less valued than other people so
okay Ralph if I’m not going to compete
with other people what else am I going
remind yourself this when you dominate
there is no competition slow motion this
side now check this out
dominate who your own league when you
are in your own lane swimming in your
own lane there is no competition that’s
what you have to dominate don’t focus on
what I’m doing what anybody else is
doing focus on running your own race and
actually enjoying it
so you feel less valued than others
ok that’s probably because no it is
because we get caught in the trap of
comparing ourselves to other people all
what helped me was to realize everyone
is having a unique experience here on
planet earth we are all so different yet
we are all connected and that is
beautiful but don’t compare your chapter
1 with my chapter 5 you’re doing
yourself a huge disservice so I started
to realize I get it now everyone is here
on planet earth to do totally different
things so it doesn’t even make sense
if I compare myself to other people
because what happens to so many of us
were like oh my days how come they’re so
they’re so cool and I’m just boring say
– they’re doing something unique you got
to find your uniqueness and find it
quick
it’s a matter of self-love many of us we
don’t love ourselves on the planet and
that’s why we feel less valued than
others I never love myself for a long
time and when I when I finally started
to love myself again it was because I
was learning how to celebrate myself you
see if you don’t celebrate yourself you
are going to look at another person and
you’re not really going to celebrate
them you’re going to feel like hey why
haven’t I got what they have so I
started to realize once you celebrate
yourself you start celebrating other
people their success you’re happy for
them when you’re happy in yourself and
then you realize once again we’re not
competing life isn’t a race I know it’s
the human race but it’s a journey the
goodness sakes even the cat down the
road agrees on that one
it’s a journey we got to enjoy the
journey enjoy the process of who you are
becoming I’ve learnt this that in order
to get that self-love back we have to
start a hold of aiding we have to start
slow motion inside we have to start code
evading that self-love within ourselves
it’s not going to come from out there
because that’s what’s been happening
you’ve got your hands out trying to get
the love from out there it’s got to come
from within yourself and then you will
find your internal value that’s really
what helped me along my journey I look
at it like this you’ve got to sometimes
put yourself on the throne do you feel
like royalty
are you a queen a king a prince a
princess what you should feel like one
when you put yourself on the throne
you’re like I don’t need someone’s
permission for me to tell myself I am an
amazing human being I am valuable I have
a magnificent gift you’ve got to put
yourself on the throne because sometimes
what happens is that we forget our
greatness everybody is the star we are
literally made of Stardust so everybody
can shine there’s more than enough to go
around you see when you are in the ego
mindset many times we feel less valued
because the ego operates from a place of
lack when you are out of your ego you
come from a place of abundance realizing
there is so much to go around like I get
goosebumps when I see other people
sharing helping other people to become
their greatest version a lot of people
write to me saying Ralph I used to watch
your videos now I’m doing something kind
of different but thanks a lot I’m like
great do it we need more people helping
people to wake up with a bunch of grapes
in their mouths surely right so remind
yourself that we want to be out of the
ego and come from a place of abundance
seven day vegan challenge beautiful deep
divers now a lot of people are always
like what do you eat exactly Ralph and
I’ve already made videos on that
everyone has a different food tastes
like I love strawberries I’m not so keen
on watermelons
some people love watermelons they’re not
so keen on strawberries not everyone in
the entire world is going to love a
peach so sorry peaches but that’s how it
happens
there is one person in the world that
does not like avocados I strange right
that’s what happens so there is no food
standard there is no diet standard there
is no diet everybody is going to be on
we all have different preferences and we
have to honor that and it goes back into
how unique we all are when you realize
this even when it comes to food you will
stop feeling less valued than others
because you’re like okay I’m going to
enjoy this pineapple here and you can
enjoy that blade of grass over this and
now both of you are happy
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popularity were you the popular one in
school or did you get left behind on the
bus to be honest look a lot of us we
want popularity
we want our fame we want our 15 minutes
of fame baby and you’ll get it because
one day they’re going to find you naked
somewhere in a parking lot don’t worry
about it now you got your 15 minutes of
fame
popularity many of us we have this
desire to be popular and when we don’t
have it we feel less valued than others
all my days I haven’t got 100 million
followers on Instagram I’m going to feel
less valued than Selena Gomez until I
realize this that how many followers you
have how many likes you get on social
media it doesn’t define you as a person
how popular how popular you are in
general your popularity that doesn’t
even define you as a person we are so
much more than that once I realize that
like everyone here on planet Earth is
valuable then automatically you stop
feeling less valued than others and at
the same time you’re happy for them like
I’m happy for people when they are very
popular that’s beautiful but it doesn’t
mean that you have to be the same thing
everyone on planet Earth
is playing a different role slow motion
this side as you can see that’s my role
to do slow motion back back and forth
right that’s my role what’s yours
find your originality and you will stop
feeling less valued than others enjoy
what you’re doing and you will stop
feeling less valued than others
love yourself 100% and you will stop
feeling less valued than others what it
comes down to is knowing your role what
is it I’m here to do on planet earth do
I enjoy it No yes that’s good
now what is their role do they enjoy it
that’s good for them but I’ve got to
know what my role is here on the planet
and say actually I have something to
offer I can share with the world I can
inspire the world in my unique way and
that surely is good enough cut down the
road is it good enough it is definitely
good enough right sometimes the people
that go far in life don’t have the most
they just use the little they have and
maximize it so I started to realize this
someone shining here doesn’t take away
from your shine here when you realize
that you will start becoming your
greatest version honor your gifts say
okay this is my talent that is their
talent we can all get along surely we
can all get along so we’re going to do
that right now we’re going to start
celebrating each other’s unique talents
and that’s how you stop feeling less
valued than others
you can even collaborate with people
that you admire reach out to them say
hey let’s go skinny-dipping that’s your
thing do it now many times we feel less
valued than others because we are
seeking external praise what happens
when you want the applause from the
audience and it doesn’t come I told the
story about the two artists one creating
from true expression the other one
creating solely for praise the one with
true expression lasted a lot longer was
more happier was more abundant in the
long run so what I always remind myself
is I always remind myself this what I
always remind myself is this check this
out am i creating from true expression
or am i creating just for praise just to
be popular do you know how many viral
videos I could actually make like I’ve
done a lot of different topics which I
know can go viral and stuff but I’m all
about true expression and even with my
true expression I’m already impacting so
many people but I’m happier as well I’m
more fulfilled as well I’m more
authentic as well
I feel valued because I am giving myself
that internal value can I get a Hello
oh you got to learn how to approve
yourself where no one else will
that’s how you stop feeling less valued
than others realize that look nobody is
perfect we have classic imperfections
and the more you start saying actually I
am good enough what I have to share is
good enough and it no one sees it so be
it I’m gonna start approving myself I’m
gonna start validating myself I’m gonna
start reminding myself I have value and
then start surrounding yourself with
people who are like yeah you do who see
the value in you when no one else does
and then all of you will say together
feel so good to be a live baby can I get
a Hello Ted have a beautiful day deep
divers we are here in the heart of
nature just whoa
getting high breathing in that good ass
prana baby you are valuable realize it
today infinite waters diving deep once
again stay well stay healthy peace
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