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How to Stop Explaining Yourself to People


peace and Finnick waters diving deep
once again beautiful deep divers we are
out here in the heart of nature baby I
hope your day is going good but are you
always finding yourself explaining
yourself to other people and it’s
getting really irritating and ralph what
can we just stop that right now
yeah you can stop it all right how to
stop explaining yourself to other people
let’s just whoa breathing in that good a
spur on a baby so that’s the question
that came in shout out to everybody
who’s been getting the good ass prana
much the feels so good to be alive much
Ralph smart calm slash clothes if you’ve
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I get thousands of messages every single
day now someone wrote to me saying Ralph
yes I always find myself explaining
myself to other people and he’s gotten
to the point where I don’t know what to
do deep divers does that ever happen to
you you feel you always always have to
explain yourself and now you’ve lost
your voice I mean even had breakfast
yeah can I get a Hello so let me share
with you plain and simple was helped me
along my journey to stop explaining
myself to other people become your
greatest version you see what’s helped
me along my journey is to realize this
people will only hear what they want to
hear
[Music]
slow motion lease life people will only
hear what they want to hear so instead
of explaining myself to other people I’m
like forget about it because people will
only hear what they want to hear you
have to learn how to be sure of who you
are you have to learn how to be
confident in your own skin along my
early journey I had many naysayers a lot
of people were like Ralph forget about
infinite waters ok it probably won’t
work out for you and I was constantly
explaining myself to people like
actually it probably will then I’m like
actually no because it’s not gonna
change how they feel the only thing I’ve
got to be sure of is myself I’ve got to
know who I am and know where I’m going
right now these same people are
messaging me out of the blue and saying
Ralph I see you’re inspiring millions of
people can we go for a drink they forget
I’m vegan right look be sure of who you
are time and time again you’re gonna
meet people who are gonna doubt you
because they don’t know you and you’re
gonna be like actually let me explain to
them that actually I’m capable of doing
this no you have to stop explaining
yourself to other people
you’re wasting your energy because
people that care about you and that
believe in you and that know they know
what you’re capable of you don’t have to
explain yourself to them because they
know you’ve got this
we often explain ourselves to other
people who doubt us or many times we’re
trying to win their approval it’s time
to start validating your own existence
let people think what they want to think
about you that’s how to stop explaining
yourself to other people let them do the
thinking and you do the relaxing
okay stop explaining yourself there’s a
great Zen story Zen master and a student
the student asked the Zen master was the
secret of happiness the Zen master
replied never argue with idiots the
student replied I don’t believe that’s
true the Zen master of play the Zen
master replied you’re right okay
have to throw that in there because you
aren’t here to live up to other people’s
expectations who cares what people think
about you you don’t have to explain
yourself to anybody you have to start
living according to your true heart’s
vibration you have to start doing what
your heart beats for every single day
you have to start doing what makes you
more happy every single day without
guilt many times we explain ourselves to
other people because we care way too
much what they think oh please hear me
out no no no why are you going through
these these extremes okay let people
think whatever they want about you
because your perception of yourself is
greater than the perception other people
have a few
slow motion this side to stop explaining
yourself to other people you have to
lose control why do you always want to
be in control of the situation you want
to be in control of how other people
perceive you know like you can think
whatever you want about me
I don’t care why because I love myself a
hundred percent I know who I am I know
where I’m going I know how far I’ve come
and I know more blessings are gonna come
my way right a hundred percent
confidence that’s how you stop
explaining yourself to other people get
comfortable in your own skin start
accepting yourself today many times we
are constantly explaining ourselves to
other people because we’re afraid you’re
looking a bit shaky baby so what I did
along my early journey was let them
assume let them assume okay that’s right
let them think just focus on you that’s
all you’ve got to do focus on you then
you don’t have to explain yourself to
anybody many times we fail to realize
that if somebody is assuming if somebody
is assuming who you are they’re doing
the thinking now you can step into the
radical action to actually manifest your
true heart’s desire so a classic example
on my early journey I’m saying the intro
right peace infinite waters diving I had
a lot of people who were like Ralph I
absolutely loved your intro right I love
my intro that’s all that matters right
but there was one person in particular
who always was in the comment section
saying Ralph please change your intro
right now fast forward a few years have
passed right this same person’s like
Ralph I absolutely love your intro
you see people will always change their
mind it’s got nothing to do with you
that’s why I always say what other
people think of you
is none of your business is what they
are going through according to their own
life experience people change their
minds like the weather okay that’s why
you got to focus on yourself and let
people assume like I love when people
doubt me when people are like Ralph it’s
not gonna work out for you
and I show them a YouTube Gold Award to
say actually this is the results work
hard in silence or smart right Ralph
smart work smart in silence let your
success be the noise
yikes slow motion this side work smart
and hard in silence let your success be
the noise let people doubt you let
people count you out and think you’re
gonna fail and then you prove them wrong
because in trusting in your own ability
that’s how you stop explaining yourself
to other people trust in your own
ability every single day get working on
yourself realize that that’s all you’ve
got to do you don’t have to waste your
energy in trying to prove to people who
you are on social media I don’t have to
prove that I let the results speak for
themselves
right and talking of results seven day
vegan challenge okay shout out to
everybody who’s doing the seven day
vegan challenge body transformations
okay that’s how you stop explaining
yourself to other people you don’t have
to tell people actually actually this
plant-based diet is the best diet around
no let your body speak the results in
your body how you look you’re vegan glow
okay all of that beautiful papaya those
dates and cherries okay let your
beautiful glow the smoothness of your
skin
do the talking because when people are
gonna see you they’re gonna be like wow
you don’t have to explain to people that
actually the plant-based diet is the
best diet in the world you know you
don’t have to do that let people see
your own change from eating a
plant-based diet every single day I’ve
got tons of energy from goji berries
portobello mushrooms okay
quinoa and spinach okay
I let the body results do the talking
how I look the energy I have do the
talking okay
the aura do the talking I don’t have to
explain to people that actually this is
the best thing to do I’m showing you
that this has changed my life for the
better
just eating better eating better every
single day
mmm has given me a new lease of life
okay that’s how to stop explaining
yourself to other people now what
happens when people doubt us and we’re
like actually let me explain to them why
I don’t want to be another cog in the
machine I don’t want to be a slave in
the matrix
maybe it’s your parents you want to
explain to them all of that energy you
use in explaining to them you can
actually use that energy to start
creating something great
slow motion aside realize no matter how
much you explain yourself to other
people it’s not good it’s not gonna
change how they feel cuz once again
people will only hear what they want to
hear so along my early journey when I’m
like I have visions of just inspiring
millions of people and people didn’t
want to hear that I’m like forget about
me just wasting my energy trying to
explain to people what I’m gonna do let
me actually just do it how about that
and then I let the results my lifestyle
results speak for themselves
every single day I wake up with
spiritual balanced emotional balance
financial wealth happiness and love
because once again I planted the seeds
so long ago now I’m reaping the benefits
so I let my lifestyle changes speak for
themselves that I can travel to any
country in the world ok eat any
restaurant in the world and it’s only
gonna grow more ok so no you don’t have
to speak you don’t have to try and prove
who you are to somebody just let the
results speak for themselves
ok look every single day you see I’m in
nature whoa breathing in that good ass
piranha baby be bold in your actions
that’s how to stop explaining yourself
to other people and that takes
tremendous courage tremendous bravery
and tremendous confidence being bold in
your actions is not about arguing with
somebody to see if you can do it or not
just trust in yourself that you can
okay many times we explain ourselves to
other people when we want their
validation their thumbs up to say
actually you can do it know when you are
trusting yourself you are the only
competition it’s you against you right
and that’s how to stop explaining
yourself to other people being a league
of your own and a lane of your own
that’s what I’m doing
I have no competition I’m in a league of
my own can I get a hello there is nobody
like me therefore I don’t have to
explain myself to anybody I’m living a
life of infinite abundance every single
day and it’s only gonna continue a March
3rd Pisces the universe works in my
favor you got to have that kind of
confidence right you see what’s helped
me along my journey to stop explaining
myself to other people is to realize we
are not responsible for other people’s
perceptions we are not responsible for
other people’s perceptions we are not
responsible for how other people see us
if you can get that into your mind you
will stop explaining yourself to other
people you won’t feel the need to
because once again you aren’t
responsible for how people see you more
so you want in control of how other
people see you and more so people change
how they see you according to how they
feel at the present moment so it’s a
wasted effort however how you see
yourself can be very consistent I’m
always seeing myself with a hundred
percent love care compassion saying
Ralph be proud of yourself you’ve done a
good job so I have a very good image of
myself and that’s why I’m living in
infinite abundance that’s the only thing
that matters that’s why if somebody says
Ralph I don’t like your videos
I don’t care why because what I’m doing
works for me
why because I’ve already seen the
results why because I’m happy doing it
why because I get thousands of messages
every single day from people telling me
that my videos have changed their life
so it’s working I’m happy doing it I
would do it even if no one was watching
I would do it even if no one was
watching right I was born to do this
right so that’s how you stop explaining
yourself to other people realize how you
see yourself is everything start hucking
yourself today start loving yourself
today start rooting for yourself today
become your greatest friend and then you
won’t feel the need to explain yourself
to other people because the people that
go far like always say don’t be afraid
to be called weird crazy or strange
those are all the geniuses anyway slow
motion this side you see if you want to
go for big things in life you’re gonna
be considered as a nerd but nerds run
the world you’re gonna be considered as
crazy Nikola Tesla was called crazy but
the phone you’re using is coming from
one of his discoveries with wireless
technology so all the greats all the
geniuses have always faced adversity but
that’s the price and to stop explaining
yourself to other people just say
actually I’m on to something let people
think whatever they want because in the
end I’ll have the lost love when I’m on
you’ll be sorry okay the universe works
in my favor now you got to meet people
where they are to stop explaining
yourself to other people meet people
where they are see where their level of
consciousness is not everybody is gonna
understand your life your journey and
your vision that’s why it’s called your
life it is your life it is your vision
it’s not this and it’s okay if people
don’t get you you aren’t here to start
convincing people of who you are what
you came here to do when I was first
starting infinite waters deep divers I
had a lot of people who were like
looking at me sideways like her what are
you doing now because it’s working okay
people are like oh my gosh
Ralph I believed in you but I learned
early on I’m not gonna spend all my time
explaining myself to people what I’m
gonna do what I’m doing because I’m like
once again I’m wasting my energy doing
them I had to realize people can only
believe in you if they are also
manifesting that same vision and living
in that same reality so when I have this
massive vision of inspiring millions of
people I had amazing people who were
like Ralph you can do it because they
were also manifesting they were doing
big things the people who were doubting
me they weren’t doing anything with
their life so they were like you’ll
probably it probably won’t work Ralph so
I always was like gosh let me explain
myself to these people who don’t believe
in me that actually will work but then
I’m like actually no because resistance
makes stronger so once again to stop
explaining yourself to other people
surround yourself with people today who
believe in your dream who believe in
your vision who believe in you when
everyone else doubts you
yikes aye Caramba slow motion aside
there are people on YouTube who play
video games who are making millions of
dollars feeding their family they don’t
have to explain to you what they’re
doing because the results speak for
themselves you might think they’re crazy
the cat down the road thinks they’re
smart okay but when they first started
they may have appeared to be crazy but
down the line who’s laughing now so you
have to be smart about this to stop
explaining yourself to other people let
me tell you this sometimes let’s just
say you wake up and you’re in a heated
argument with someone deep divers forget
about arguing realize this sometimes
silence is better than wasted words
slow motion inside sometimes your
silence is what people need you don’t
have to explain yourself why you’re
doing this why are you acting this way
why are you behaving this way no just be
silent and keep it moving
sometimes people want to argue with me
they want to argue with me and the cat
down the road I’m like a moment of
silence please I keep it moving cuz I
know where I’m going you see the divers
sometimes people don’t even deserve your
words they deserve your silence okay how
to stop explaining yourself to other
people many times we fail to see that
because people only take away what they
want they only hear what they want it’s
never ever about other people right now
you have to do yourself a favor and
remove seeking external validation from
anybody and stop becoming your best
friend that’s how to stop explaining
yourself to other people remind yourself
why you’re doing it even if people don’t
understand why you’re doing it why
you’re starting that business while
you’re working 18 hour days twelve hour
days it may not be paying off now but
eventually it will – stop explaining
yourself to other people trust yourself
today and realize that you aren’t here
for everybody to believe in you you are
only here for you to believe in yourself
so once again deep divers go out there
and start turning that dream into a
reality
and then well you just say see also get
to be a live baby can I get a hello
all beautiful deep divers we are out
here in the heart of nature just whoa
breathing in that good ass prana baby
have an amazing day deep divers infinite
waters diving deep once again stay well
stay healthy peace you you can doubt me
it’s not gonna stop me believe in
yourself today stop explaining yourself
to other people you got this

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