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How to Stop Depending on Someone to Make You Happy/To Feel Complete


I don’t need you to make me feel happy
you tell him I don’t need you to make me
feel complete
you tell him oh I miss you
[Music]
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deep divers this is sexology water fire
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now deep divers are you depending on
someone to make you happy
deep divers are you depending on someone
to feel complete within yourself well
someone is feeling like that because
that’s the message that came to me
someone’s like Ralph I love your videos
thank you so much I’m in the second year
of university I’ve been talking to this
guy for like three months Ralph and he
doesn’t want to be in a relationship
with me and I can’t stop thinking about
him like I’m always thinking of him
Ralph how can I stop depending on him to
make me feel happy how can I stop
depending on him to make me feel
complete wow that is a great question
because a lot of people always write to
me about this kind of topic now after
this video you will know how to stop
depending on someone to make you feel
happy you will know how to stop
depending on someone to make you feel
complete
and Wayne even had breakfast yet can I
get a hello pair I don’t need you to
make me feel happy I don’t need you to
make me feel complete I can do it myself
I miss you right that’s how it usually
goes we have to stop kidding ourselves
actually it is so natural to want to
feel loved it is so natural to depend on
someone for your happiness because the
truth is we are all connected hmm slow
motion this side there is a great song
Nature Boy Nat King Cole right the
greatest thing you’ll ever learn is just
to love and be loved in return yes I’ve
been taking singing lessons that’s the
best thing in the world right to love
and to be loved in return
right it’s great it’s a great feeling
when you actually do depend on someone
for your happiness when someone is there
for you when someone can hug you late at
night okay when you can tell someone all
of your secrets and someone’s going to
be there it’s just that it doesn’t
always go according to plan but I’m here
to tell you if you are someone who is
depending on someone else to make you
feel complete depending on someone else
to make you feel happy don’t be mad at
yourself this is very natural in fact
it’s an innate impulse we all have so we
have to learn how to surrender and admit
it to say actually yes yes I miss you
actually yes I really love you even if
you don’t love me back
I love you it’s healthy to admit it
don’t suppress how you’re feeling what
you’re doing is great because you are
being
honest with yourself to say actually I
can’t stop thinking of him I am kind of
depending on him for my happiness
now deep divers this is what you have to
remember if you are depending on someone
for your happiness or to make you feel
complete people can only give you what
they possess they can’t give you what
they don’t have and that’s what so many
of us are asking for we are asking
people who don’t have it to give us it
hmm
stop it Ralph slow motion this side hmm
and we are asking the wrong people they
may not be in that space yet to give you
what you need how to stop depending on
someone to make you feel happy to make
you feel complete find wholeness within
yourself happiness is an inside job I’m
sure you’ve seen that picture of that
girl drawing the heart and she is in the
middle of it that’s right you got to
realize that happiness is an inside job
and every single day I am cultivating
wholeness within myself because the
greatest relationship you can have even
ocicat down the road is with yourself
you have to become your best friend so
when people don’t give you the same love
you are giving them you’re still good
because you’re like Ralph what I put a
ring on it
that’s right you put a ring on it
you married yourself and that’s how to
stop depending on people to make you
feel happy or to make you feel complete
a lot of us we externalize our happiness
or happiness lies within someone else’s
hands
our happiness is over there when our
happiness should be in here and every
single day this little exercise deep
divers you can no practice is to say I
have me look in the mirror every single
day and say I have me there is nothing
outside of me it’s all in here
my happiness is in here my peace of mind
is in here and the more you build that
relationship with yourself that’s how to
stop depending on someone to make you
feel happy and that’s how to stop
depending on someone to make you feel
complete now I get it
you miss them I get it you really love
them I get it you really like them I get
it the cat down the road also gets it
however over the years because I grew up
like that too I was sometimes early on
my early journey I would depend on
someone else to make me feel happy now
this doesn’t this doesn’t just have to
be in a relationship it could be a
family member it could be a friend okay
then I realized that nobody owes us
anything we owe everything to ourselves
mmm slow motion this side we got to lose
this feeling of privilege we got to lose
this entitlement that actually everybody
owes me this happiness no because once
again people can only give you what they
have if they don’t have it they can’t
give it to you so many times it’s like
two beggars with their hands open asking
each other for something both of you
don’t have it
unless you stop code evading wholeness
within yourself unless you realize you
owe everything to yourself when was the
last time you went on holiday think
about it exactly go on holiday what was
the last time you went for a massage
exactly go for a massage when was the
last time you chilled out with a cat
down the road exactly
chill out with a cat down the road do
something for yourself today now that’s
how to stop depending on someone to make
you feel happy that’s how to stop
depending on someone to make you feel
complete once again it is very natural
and there is nothing wrong with it there
is no shame in wanting to depend on
someone to make you feel happy it’s just
that not everyone is you not everyone
can give you the love you are wanting to
give to them right and not everyone is
your twin flame quite frankly not
everyone is your twin flame how to stop
deep divers depending on someone to make
you feel happy depending on someone to
make you feel complete seven day vegan
challenge was help me along my journey
is to eat whole foods every single day
I’m eating Whole Foods because I realize
if I can start eating Whole Foods I am
now feeling whole within myself I’ve
been on the plant base the plant-based
diet journey coming up to 14 years now
and I feel fantastic if I’m eating whole
I feel nourished within myself if I’m
keeping my body alkaline leafy greens
lots of fruit lots of veg lots of fruit
lots of veg that’s improving my mood is
making me feel better about myself you
see the stuff depending on someone for
your happiness and to stop depending on
someone to make you feel complete start
feeling whole within yourself by going
to the local farmers market by putting
some asparagus inside of that basket
okaybye really eating to live because a
lot of us we are depending on someone
for our happiness but we are eating junk
food we don’t feel good about ourselves
so we want someone else to make us feel
good know if you are eating a delicious
acai bowl if you are eating a delicious
acai bowl oh you don’t need you know you
don’t need anyone right now I’m good
right now that’s what you got to be like
right this I saw you bowl is so good I
don’t need you know you don’t need them
exactly right
how to stop depending on someone to make
you feel happy to make you feel
completely if you can realize this we
have to stop waiting
I realize along my journey you find the
one you love doing what you love when
you are in alignment everything else
will fall in alignment with you
everything that you need will come to
you so instead of focusing on that
person start focusing on coming into
alignment within yourself start focusing
on living your purpose every single day
and realize this find what you’re
seeking in them inside of you if you are
seeking happiness find it within
yourself if you are seeking compassion
inside of them find it within yourself
if you are seeking out if you are
seeking acceptance learn how to accept
yourself and that’s how to stop
depending on someone to make you feel
happy and to make you feel complete stop
making other people validate your entire
existence it’s time to start realizing
you are great even the cat down the road
knows that deep divers let’s just whoa
breathing in that good ass prana baby is
that you are you depending on someone
maybe
a lady a man a guy a girl to make you
feel complete to make you feel happy you
see what’s really freed me along my
journey is to realize this we have to
give without counting the costs we have
to give without expectation and this is
where a lot of us get stuck we give with
the hope of receiving something back we
say I love you just to hear the other
person say I love you know that’s the
unconditional love unconditional love is
when you love that person even if they
don’t love you back
it’s the love a mother has for her child
that’s how to stop depending on someone
to make you feel happy that’s how to
stop depending on someone to make you
feel complete really give freely and say
actually I’m thinking of them I really
love them I’m gonna give them freely
then I’m gonna move forward but if we’re
always looking for something back in
return we will always be her heart
broken and crushed so over the years
I’ve learned that if I really like
someone I’m depending on them for my
happiness a lot of the times it emanates
because I want something back and once
again people can only give you what they
have nothing more nothing less
so really next time you really like a
guy or you like a girl like a woman like
a man really just give right say I like
you I love you and then keep it moving
if it’s not reciprocated so be it
they’re not your twin flame life goes on
you can marry the cat down the road how
to stop deep divers depending on someone
for your happiness and to make you feel
complete you see what’s helped me over
the years deep dive is to realize this
not everyone is ready when you are a lot
of people have a whole lot of stuff
going on ok ladies a lot of the times if
you’re meeting a guy let’s say early 20s
late teens he’s at his prime he’s got a
lot of pressure he’s got to be this man
he’s got to go out and work same thing
women have precious to everyone is kind
of prescient at a specific time in their
life it doesn’t mean they don’t love you
it just means that caught up oh I’ve
gotta I’m in the studio right now that
I’m here I’m there I meant right they
can’t give you that attention because
once again they are preoccupied with
other things so you have to realize not
everyone is ready also not everyone has
the same heart as you do
that’s how to stop depending on someone
to make you feel happy to make you feel
complete realize not everyone is you not
everyone can make you feel complete not
everyone has the same heart as you do
therefore you have to stop realizing
your true Worth and really realize that
the one for you is the one who is really
making the effort you are how to stop
depending on someone deep divers for
your happiness and to make you feel
complete reconnect back to your inner
awesomeness realize how great you are
look at you look at you you are amazing
write down five things you love about
yourself every single day and then hug
yourself for like two hours it’s like
amazing okay
practice self-love
okay this is really how to stop
depending on other people to make you
happy to make you feel complete practice
loving yourself the more you practice
loving yourself a great way to do that
is to spend time in nature spend an hour
in nature every single day that’s what I
do it helps me to love myself it helps
me to stay grounded and also realize
this okay people can only enhance the
happiness already there they can never
make you feel happy they can never make
you feel complete they can enhance your
happiness so it always begins inside of
you but realize it is natural to depend
on someone to make you feel happy
because we are all connected it’s just
that you can’t town on everyone but you
can definitely count on the cat down
Road and that’s why we just say feel so
get to be a live baby can I get a hello
beautiful deep divers on this beautiful
day with just whoa breathing in that
good Oz prana baby I won one Ralph shout
out to everybody who’s been getting the
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Instagram and infinite waters those
birds love you deep divers have a
beautiful day infinite waters diving
deep once again stay well stay healthy
peace you it’s okay to admit how much
you miss someone I miss you that’s okay

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