peas and thinner waters diving deep once
again we are here breathing in that
good-ass prana baby how to stop burning
bridges with people are you a hothead
are you pissing everybody off right now
put your hand up if you are whoa I mean
even had breakfast here
can I get a hello someone wrote in to
ask if I could talk about burning
bridges with people she goes on to say
that she is like pissing everybody off
she’s actually lost her job because of
it friends family and she wants to know
how to stop driving people out of her
life what is she doing how can she stop
burning bridges now I burn a lot of
bridges in my lifetime but I’ve also
created a lot as well as a psychologist
as a counselor but I’m also as someone
who loves a cat down the road let me
share with you what’s helped me along my
journey now just imagine for one second
one second you’re on a bridge okay now
there are certain people there are
certain people on that bridge which that
making you feel really uncomfortable and
you want to burn it right away you might
see them as negative they may be making
you feel exasperated tired and they
haven’t even spoken yet goodness
gracious you want to burn this bridge
you want to cut all connection with them
now what help me along my journey was to
realize
we need people nobody is an island and
we can’t do everything by ourselves so
you got to learn how to see the best in
people not the worst because if you’re
on that bridge and then you stop
thinking about just all the bad stuff or
the bad stuff about these people
yeah chances are you’re going to want to
burn the bridge like right away not even
going to think about it just burn it but
if you can actually find what I do is
one positive trait in every single
person you meet then you probably won’t
want to be in such a rush to burn a
bridge with anybody you can go your
separate ways but you don’t have to put
that energy there because it takes a lot
of energy to burn bridges it doesn’t
take any energy just to be yourself now
what happens when we’re around a lot of
people what eyes are you looking at
people with are you looking like
everybody has a lot of flaws or are you
seeing that people are work in progress
mmm
slow motion si mmm I meet a lot of
people every single day and even diving
deep I have been collaborating with
people since day one and that’s why this
channel is just growing exponentially
every single day millions of views here
and there because we’re not burning
bridges I’m working with people who are
doing the same work as me I got a lot of
people supporting me you got to learn
the value in people and the only way to
do that is to put away those eyes have
just seen the flaws in people look for
one positive trait in someone that will
help you stop burning a bridge now the
truth of the matter is there are three
types of bridges and I’m gonna explain
why you may have to burn certain a
certain bridge okay what’s the first
bridge this is what I call the free
Umbridge as a psychologist a lot of
people always ask me should I burn
bridges or should I keep them well it’s
about realizing identifying what kind of
bridge you are on so the freedom bridge
freedom is being you without permission
the freedom bridge is a bridge which is
going to take you to where you need to
be you feel comfortable on that bridge
you can connect with people on that
bridge you can express yourself on that
bridge and it feels fantastic a freedom
bridge for me was 7 day vegan challenge
you’re not apologizing for who you are
I’ve been a vegan for over 11 years I’ve
been a vegan for over 11 years I’ve been
a vegan for over 11 years yeah hey
that’s the freedom bridge you say
whatever you want there’s another kind
of bridge which is the bridge which will
take you to where you don’t want to go
and that’s why a lot of people burn
bridges because they lead to nowhere mmm
slow motion they lead to nowhere certain
interactions we have with people we
realize we’re not getting anything out
of it so it’s time to end that
relationship now the third type of
bridge you’ve got to identify is what I
call the challenge bridge we meet
certain people not by accident but
certain people that can influence us
inspire us but also help us to work on
our unresolved issues if someone is
making you extremely angry chances are
you got to work on your anger they’re
there to help you evolve to help you
become your greatest version we’ll come
mirroring often times
what we don’t like in other people are
unresolved issues we have within
ourselves what happens when you’ve got
to choose between bridges that’s
beautiful that’s like the best feeling
in the world like I stay on the freedom
bridge as much as possible if I’m on the
bridge that leads nowhere you got to
realize there is no shame in burning
bridges but you’ve got to learn how to
become detached from the emotions which
will fill you with energy which does not
serve you right when you burn a bridge
which is a bridge that leads nowhere
maybe you’re interacting with someone a
person not serving you a place a job
that’s fine but you got to learn how to
become neutral within your own energetic
space certain bridges lead nowhere that
is why we burn them but what help me
along my journey was to say if I’m going
to burn a bridge okay it’s going to take
some energy to do that but I’ve also got
to say okay where’s the replacement
don’t just burn a bridge if you’re not
going to build one so you got to stop
building bridges which are gonna serve
you but also take you to the next level
so every single day how I do this on a
very practical level is that even when I
first started sharing with the world I
was connecting with people who are very
cause centered that’s why you see me
doing videos with other youtubers who
are their channels also growing because
we started out doing this together
so that’s what you call building a
healthy bridge we’re on the same team
working on the same mission and that’s
the power of building a healthy bridge
but you see growing up I was I didn’t
have it easy just like you probably
didn’t have it easy either right there
are a lot of distractions a lot of
people coming from here coming from
there and it’s tough because certain
times we got to burn bridges to protect
our mental health because they’re gonna
drive us crazy like certain people we
hang around yet we will become crazy
well we will just become we’ll lose
focus ah so you could ask yourself do
the benefits outweigh the consequences
in my case
I used to hang around with a lot of
people sometimes we would go to the club
and it was it was great and I would come
home late you know all of these things
were great but at the same time this
lifestyle if I had stayed there I
wouldn’t be able to travel to any single
country i won in the world eat any
restaurant I want no because once again
I would have been dragged down like
crabs in a bucket to go to the next
level you got to realize you become like
the people you surround yourself with
most often your vibe attracts your tribe
successful people surround themselves
with other successful people that is why
they are successful you got to start
surrounding yourself with people who are
on the same level as you or people who
that’s how it
works now foolish pride has everything
to do with deciding whether or not to
burn a bridge foolish pride is like okay
someone stepped on your toe ouch
yeah they didn’t call you back oh no and
yeah they didn’t respond to your email
oh no they’re a bad person someone isn’t
a vegan like me
oh my gosh they’re terrible well
actually no you see foolish pride traps
us into the ego which is based on
separation the greatest illusion ever
created and foolish pride is what often
drives us to burn bridges certain times
we say things oh I wish I could take it
back too late you said it we do things I
wish I could take it back too late you
done it and they have consequences but
you gotta start to realize where is this
action coming from in many times and
scenarios is coming from what I call
foolish pride because you feel separate
from that which you are interacting with
so to stop burning bridges with people
doesn’t mean you have to worship them
doesn’t mean you have to people please
them but it’s about creating a more
successful environment for yourself to
realize that you got to check yourself
you got to start looking within to say
okay do I have a lot of ego right now I
I’ve had a lot of ego and I still do and
it’s okay once again you are allowed to
have a big ego and there’s nothing wrong
with that you are allowed sometimes to
say to even have a lot of foolish pride
but there are consequences
there are consequences because sometimes
sometimes you might push away people
that could help you get to the next
level you don’t want to burn bridges
with people that make you food beautiful
avocados and ravioli and brown rice
dishes you don’t want to burn bridges
with someone in a restaurant that’s just
about to make you food I don’t like you
okay here’s your food
whoa you don’t want to burn bridges with
a post office where did my mail go and
you don’t want to burn bridges with your
neighbors now you don’t have to light
them all but you want to free yourself
once again by learning how to play your
part which is you’ve got to learn to
work on yourself you don’t have to
always be a sheep to everybody no no you
don’t have to do that you can still be
yourself but you got to realize when you
burn a bridge you shouldn’t have to
think about that other person but you
see a lot of us do because we’re not
sure but more so that person now is not
serving us even though we have
supposedly but in the bridge so you
gotta learn how to work on yourself I
give you an example I’m in Venice one
day and this was years ago a guy was
shouting at me Venice California he was
shouting at me I was skating and he said
you didn’t ever better cuz I was I don’t
know
what was he doing he was like
embarrassing me in front of lots of
people watching and I was wearing my
favorite shirt as well and I just eaten
some acai as well for the seven day
vegan challenge I’m like don’t do this
to me not in my best clothes like maybe
in something else no he was just
shouting at me sing
out of the skate pop did and I was calm
I was calm breathing in the good ass
prana baby but I was also quite furious
but me I just said okay I’m just gonna
burn the bridge right here I’m not I
don’t need to talk to this guy anymore I
just went my own way he went his own way
and and that was that now a few weeks
ago this same guy came up to me this was
years after I said what he said yeah I
remember when I shouted at you for no
reason I’m sorry about that going I was
going through a troubling time in my
life he was a drug addict and that’s
what he told me
and he had a lot to deal with and he
just took it out on me so he had
mastered the art of reversing karma
realized okay we can come to a amicable
friendship right now right this bridge
this bridge we can resurrect that’s how
to reverse karma certain times we say
things to somebody but you always get a
second chance
that’s how to stop burning bridges just
like that guy if you do something you
can reverse the karma by letting go of
your foolish pride and saying hey yeah I
screwed up let’s go and have a drink of
pineapple juice you don’t want to do
that mango juice that’s better
let’s go for it right you got to realize
how short your life is and is it worth
holding on to a grudge I don’t have any
grudges for me life is fantastic
we inspiring millions we’re creating
abundance daily I’m only working and
focusing on people who are on the same
mission as me to help other people
become their greatest version I
doing that for a long time and that’s
why the results speak for themselves the
numbers don’t lie
have a beautiful day we’re here infinite
waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy peace
again we are here breathing in that
good-ass prana baby how to stop burning
bridges with people are you a hothead
are you pissing everybody off right now
put your hand up if you are whoa I mean
even had breakfast here
can I get a hello someone wrote in to
ask if I could talk about burning
bridges with people she goes on to say
that she is like pissing everybody off
she’s actually lost her job because of
it friends family and she wants to know
how to stop driving people out of her
life what is she doing how can she stop
burning bridges now I burn a lot of
bridges in my lifetime but I’ve also
created a lot as well as a psychologist
as a counselor but I’m also as someone
who loves a cat down the road let me
share with you what’s helped me along my
journey now just imagine for one second
one second you’re on a bridge okay now
there are certain people there are
certain people on that bridge which that
making you feel really uncomfortable and
you want to burn it right away you might
see them as negative they may be making
you feel exasperated tired and they
haven’t even spoken yet goodness
gracious you want to burn this bridge
you want to cut all connection with them
now what help me along my journey was to
realize
we need people nobody is an island and
we can’t do everything by ourselves so
you got to learn how to see the best in
people not the worst because if you’re
on that bridge and then you stop
thinking about just all the bad stuff or
the bad stuff about these people
yeah chances are you’re going to want to
burn the bridge like right away not even
going to think about it just burn it but
if you can actually find what I do is
one positive trait in every single
person you meet then you probably won’t
want to be in such a rush to burn a
bridge with anybody you can go your
separate ways but you don’t have to put
that energy there because it takes a lot
of energy to burn bridges it doesn’t
take any energy just to be yourself now
what happens when we’re around a lot of
people what eyes are you looking at
people with are you looking like
everybody has a lot of flaws or are you
seeing that people are work in progress
mmm
slow motion si mmm I meet a lot of
people every single day and even diving
deep I have been collaborating with
people since day one and that’s why this
channel is just growing exponentially
every single day millions of views here
and there because we’re not burning
bridges I’m working with people who are
doing the same work as me I got a lot of
people supporting me you got to learn
the value in people and the only way to
do that is to put away those eyes have
just seen the flaws in people look for
one positive trait in someone that will
help you stop burning a bridge now the
truth of the matter is there are three
types of bridges and I’m gonna explain
why you may have to burn certain a
certain bridge okay what’s the first
bridge this is what I call the free
Umbridge as a psychologist a lot of
people always ask me should I burn
bridges or should I keep them well it’s
about realizing identifying what kind of
bridge you are on so the freedom bridge
freedom is being you without permission
the freedom bridge is a bridge which is
going to take you to where you need to
be you feel comfortable on that bridge
you can connect with people on that
bridge you can express yourself on that
bridge and it feels fantastic a freedom
bridge for me was 7 day vegan challenge
you’re not apologizing for who you are
I’ve been a vegan for over 11 years I’ve
been a vegan for over 11 years I’ve been
a vegan for over 11 years yeah hey
that’s the freedom bridge you say
whatever you want there’s another kind
of bridge which is the bridge which will
take you to where you don’t want to go
and that’s why a lot of people burn
bridges because they lead to nowhere mmm
slow motion they lead to nowhere certain
interactions we have with people we
realize we’re not getting anything out
of it so it’s time to end that
relationship now the third type of
bridge you’ve got to identify is what I
call the challenge bridge we meet
certain people not by accident but
certain people that can influence us
inspire us but also help us to work on
our unresolved issues if someone is
making you extremely angry chances are
you got to work on your anger they’re
there to help you evolve to help you
become your greatest version we’ll come
mirroring often times
what we don’t like in other people are
unresolved issues we have within
ourselves what happens when you’ve got
to choose between bridges that’s
beautiful that’s like the best feeling
in the world like I stay on the freedom
bridge as much as possible if I’m on the
bridge that leads nowhere you got to
realize there is no shame in burning
bridges but you’ve got to learn how to
become detached from the emotions which
will fill you with energy which does not
serve you right when you burn a bridge
which is a bridge that leads nowhere
maybe you’re interacting with someone a
person not serving you a place a job
that’s fine but you got to learn how to
become neutral within your own energetic
space certain bridges lead nowhere that
is why we burn them but what help me
along my journey was to say if I’m going
to burn a bridge okay it’s going to take
some energy to do that but I’ve also got
to say okay where’s the replacement
don’t just burn a bridge if you’re not
going to build one so you got to stop
building bridges which are gonna serve
you but also take you to the next level
so every single day how I do this on a
very practical level is that even when I
first started sharing with the world I
was connecting with people who are very
cause centered that’s why you see me
doing videos with other youtubers who
are their channels also growing because
we started out doing this together
so that’s what you call building a
healthy bridge we’re on the same team
working on the same mission and that’s
the power of building a healthy bridge
but you see growing up I was I didn’t
have it easy just like you probably
didn’t have it easy either right there
are a lot of distractions a lot of
people coming from here coming from
there and it’s tough because certain
times we got to burn bridges to protect
our mental health because they’re gonna
drive us crazy like certain people we
hang around yet we will become crazy
well we will just become we’ll lose
focus ah so you could ask yourself do
the benefits outweigh the consequences
in my case
I used to hang around with a lot of
people sometimes we would go to the club
and it was it was great and I would come
home late you know all of these things
were great but at the same time this
lifestyle if I had stayed there I
wouldn’t be able to travel to any single
country i won in the world eat any
restaurant I want no because once again
I would have been dragged down like
crabs in a bucket to go to the next
level you got to realize you become like
the people you surround yourself with
most often your vibe attracts your tribe
successful people surround themselves
with other successful people that is why
they are successful you got to start
surrounding yourself with people who are
on the same level as you or people who
that’s how it
works now foolish pride has everything
to do with deciding whether or not to
burn a bridge foolish pride is like okay
someone stepped on your toe ouch
yeah they didn’t call you back oh no and
yeah they didn’t respond to your email
oh no they’re a bad person someone isn’t
a vegan like me
oh my gosh they’re terrible well
actually no you see foolish pride traps
us into the ego which is based on
separation the greatest illusion ever
created and foolish pride is what often
drives us to burn bridges certain times
we say things oh I wish I could take it
back too late you said it we do things I
wish I could take it back too late you
done it and they have consequences but
you gotta start to realize where is this
action coming from in many times and
scenarios is coming from what I call
foolish pride because you feel separate
from that which you are interacting with
so to stop burning bridges with people
doesn’t mean you have to worship them
doesn’t mean you have to people please
them but it’s about creating a more
successful environment for yourself to
realize that you got to check yourself
you got to start looking within to say
okay do I have a lot of ego right now I
I’ve had a lot of ego and I still do and
it’s okay once again you are allowed to
have a big ego and there’s nothing wrong
with that you are allowed sometimes to
say to even have a lot of foolish pride
but there are consequences
there are consequences because sometimes
sometimes you might push away people
that could help you get to the next
level you don’t want to burn bridges
with people that make you food beautiful
avocados and ravioli and brown rice
dishes you don’t want to burn bridges
with someone in a restaurant that’s just
about to make you food I don’t like you
okay here’s your food
whoa you don’t want to burn bridges with
a post office where did my mail go and
you don’t want to burn bridges with your
neighbors now you don’t have to light
them all but you want to free yourself
once again by learning how to play your
part which is you’ve got to learn to
work on yourself you don’t have to
always be a sheep to everybody no no you
don’t have to do that you can still be
yourself but you got to realize when you
burn a bridge you shouldn’t have to
think about that other person but you
see a lot of us do because we’re not
sure but more so that person now is not
serving us even though we have
supposedly but in the bridge so you
gotta learn how to work on yourself I
give you an example I’m in Venice one
day and this was years ago a guy was
shouting at me Venice California he was
shouting at me I was skating and he said
you didn’t ever better cuz I was I don’t
know
what was he doing he was like
embarrassing me in front of lots of
people watching and I was wearing my
favorite shirt as well and I just eaten
some acai as well for the seven day
vegan challenge I’m like don’t do this
to me not in my best clothes like maybe
in something else no he was just
shouting at me sing
out of the skate pop did and I was calm
I was calm breathing in the good ass
prana baby but I was also quite furious
but me I just said okay I’m just gonna
burn the bridge right here I’m not I
don’t need to talk to this guy anymore I
just went my own way he went his own way
and and that was that now a few weeks
ago this same guy came up to me this was
years after I said what he said yeah I
remember when I shouted at you for no
reason I’m sorry about that going I was
going through a troubling time in my
life he was a drug addict and that’s
what he told me
and he had a lot to deal with and he
just took it out on me so he had
mastered the art of reversing karma
realized okay we can come to a amicable
friendship right now right this bridge
this bridge we can resurrect that’s how
to reverse karma certain times we say
things to somebody but you always get a
second chance
that’s how to stop burning bridges just
like that guy if you do something you
can reverse the karma by letting go of
your foolish pride and saying hey yeah I
screwed up let’s go and have a drink of
pineapple juice you don’t want to do
that mango juice that’s better
let’s go for it right you got to realize
how short your life is and is it worth
holding on to a grudge I don’t have any
grudges for me life is fantastic
we inspiring millions we’re creating
abundance daily I’m only working and
focusing on people who are on the same
mission as me to help other people
become their greatest version I
doing that for a long time and that’s
why the results speak for themselves the
numbers don’t lie
have a beautiful day we’re here infinite
waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy peace
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