peace and finit waters diving deep once
again and you hear those birds we are
out here in nature whoa breathing in
that good ass pride a baby someone asked
me how to stop being such a toxic person
is that you out there are you hard to be
around and we ain’t even had breakfast
yet can I get a hello yeah I’m gonna
share with you what helped me along my
look it starts with this be somebody you
want to be around this is the challenge
to you would you want to hang around
with you because if not then you need to
work on yourself to say why not
you see we often find people toxic when
they can’t stand their own company
themselves slow motion this side nobody
is perfect we all have our off days but
what’s helped me is to realize I enjoy
my company right now and that’s why when
people are around me they enjoy my
company too especially the cat down the
road we’re not here to please everybody
that’s not your job and certain times if
you feel you are a toxic person
don’t put that label on yourself it
could be that you don’t want to fit into
society that’s perfectly fine okay you
aren’t here to please everybody but just
ask yourself are you going in with
negativity are you bringing negativity
to people all the time
are you a leech sucking everyone’s blood
or are you more like a dolphin people
see you they get inspired and you
inspire yourself by your own energy okay
I learn how to be a dolphin bit like
that okay
seven day vegan challenge by the way I’m
surprised how huge it is growing what
helped me make people love me
and by the way you can’t make anybody
love you you’ve got to love yourself
first is by standing up for what you
believe in what’s your diet like what
foods are you eating are you proud of
that share it with the world because now
you will start meeting your reflections
certain times we become toxic and if you
want to stop being such a toxic person
if someone eats differently from you you
don’t have to shame them like I don’t
shame people because they’re not vegans
I just say hey look this is what works
for me it might work for you try it out
see if you like it if you don’t angle
anything to do with me okay and remember
this that how you speak to someone is
everything I know this firsthand along
my early journey I used to say things to
people and then I had to check myself to
say wait a minute maybe I shouldn’t have
said that
because I was kind of harsh in what I
was saying and certain times we need a
reality check we need to say whenever I
speak is it kind is it necessary and is
it true slow motion this side I get it
when you’re hot and heated a lot of the
times we just spew stuff at people which
isn’t even true it’s definitely not kind
and is definitely not necessary okay so
to stop being such a toxic person find
more mental clarity before you speak and
that’s really going to help you along
your journey we rise by lifting people
up I’ve been helping millions of people
for years millions of people the years
helping them become their greatest
version
the reason why I am successful extremely
successful is because I help people rise
to the next level of their true
potential I could talk down on people
but then I would become a very toxic
person and then nobody would want to be
around me
okay so just remind yourself we rise we
rise by lifting others up I learned a
long time ago if you really want to help
someone really want to help someone you
can’t hurt them we think if I I’m really
angry with this person get really mad at
them they’ll listen to me no they won’t
they’ll just think you’re a complete
yeah okay people open up to you when
they feel they can trust you because
they can feel you are coming from a
genuinely authentic place in wanting to
help them a lot of the times we become
toxic because we think that if we
actually hurt people we can actually get
their attention no the more you do that
the more you push people away people
open up to you
when like the great psychologist Carl
Rogers said you begin to see them with
unconditional positive regard or as I
say unconditional positive acceptance
that’s how people open up to you now
everybody’s gonna love you including the
cat down the road but it starts with
loving yourself first now what I learned
along my journey is that everybody has
been a toxic person at one point in
their life right when I was I said what
is eating at me I was unhappy with my
life then I realized it was like what we
call kick the cat syndrome you’ve had a
bad day at work so now you take it out
on someone you got to check yourself you
got to ask yourself what is happening
with me right now what is making me you
just need a hug right could we just give
you a hug right now
send one in the mail for you how about
that you just need a hug right now
that’s why being in a loving
relationship is so significantly
important okay
get a hug from anybody maybe a bear will
give you a hug a bear hug okay that’s
how to stop being such a toxic person
and make everyone love you be kind to
every single person you meet this is
what I’ve learned along my journey
because you truly don’t know what
they’re going through I know because I’m
counseling people every single day I get
over a thousand emails every single day
I’m inspiring millions of people every
single day so people are writing to me
saying Ralph my life is good oh my god
I’m like okay the struggle is real but
here we don’t struggle here we are
becoming our greatest version but if you
don’t take in consideration other
people’s feelings
other people’s emotions you’re not gonna
have any friends okay because everybody
is going through something so you got to
learn how to be compassionate which
starts with self compassion find one
quality about yourself right now write
it down because every toxic person okay
has something a quality an attribute
which is amazing nobody is all bad
nobody is all toxic find that quality it
could be let’s think of it actually it
could be that certain times you can be
giving you have that in you so you want
to be writing that down every single day
and then focusing on that good attribute
about yourself until now it starts
becoming realized and that’s how to stop
being such a toxic person focus on what
is working with you as opposed to what
isn’t because if you keep saying I’m a
toxic person Ralph and no
what he wants to be around me well why
did everyone go
nobody knows okay and what else has
helped me along my Jenny I look at it
like this that every day we are learning
we are growing more we are evolving more
and reciprocity is one of the greatest
ways to stop being such a toxic person
pay people compliments thank people
gratitude is everything as a
psychologist I will tell you as someone
who’s done thousands of consultations I
will tell you as someone who inspires
millions I will tell you the happiest
people on the planet are the most
grateful you like how did my thumb right
there are most grateful right you are
feeling depressed all the time feeling
very toxic all the time it’s because you
have a lack of gratitude in your life I
had it for a long time I was miserable
what change I started to pay people
compliments I started to say okay
someone does a good deed for me I’ve got
to return the favor so once again be
someone you want to be around and
realize that anytime you can change your
life for the better breathing in that
good ass prana baby learn to de-stress
learn to relax and then just say feel so
yeah see how the birds are singing for
you infinite waters diving deep once
again I’m a beautiful day stay well stay healthy
again and you hear those birds we are
out here in nature whoa breathing in
that good ass pride a baby someone asked
me how to stop being such a toxic person
is that you out there are you hard to be
around and we ain’t even had breakfast
yet can I get a hello yeah I’m gonna
share with you what helped me along my
look it starts with this be somebody you
want to be around this is the challenge
to you would you want to hang around
with you because if not then you need to
work on yourself to say why not
you see we often find people toxic when
they can’t stand their own company
themselves slow motion this side nobody
is perfect we all have our off days but
what’s helped me is to realize I enjoy
my company right now and that’s why when
people are around me they enjoy my
company too especially the cat down the
road we’re not here to please everybody
that’s not your job and certain times if
you feel you are a toxic person
don’t put that label on yourself it
could be that you don’t want to fit into
society that’s perfectly fine okay you
aren’t here to please everybody but just
ask yourself are you going in with
negativity are you bringing negativity
to people all the time
are you a leech sucking everyone’s blood
or are you more like a dolphin people
see you they get inspired and you
inspire yourself by your own energy okay
I learn how to be a dolphin bit like
that okay
seven day vegan challenge by the way I’m
surprised how huge it is growing what
helped me make people love me
and by the way you can’t make anybody
love you you’ve got to love yourself
first is by standing up for what you
believe in what’s your diet like what
foods are you eating are you proud of
that share it with the world because now
you will start meeting your reflections
certain times we become toxic and if you
want to stop being such a toxic person
if someone eats differently from you you
don’t have to shame them like I don’t
shame people because they’re not vegans
I just say hey look this is what works
for me it might work for you try it out
see if you like it if you don’t angle
anything to do with me okay and remember
this that how you speak to someone is
everything I know this firsthand along
my early journey I used to say things to
people and then I had to check myself to
say wait a minute maybe I shouldn’t have
said that
because I was kind of harsh in what I
was saying and certain times we need a
reality check we need to say whenever I
speak is it kind is it necessary and is
it true slow motion this side I get it
when you’re hot and heated a lot of the
times we just spew stuff at people which
isn’t even true it’s definitely not kind
and is definitely not necessary okay so
to stop being such a toxic person find
more mental clarity before you speak and
that’s really going to help you along
your journey we rise by lifting people
up I’ve been helping millions of people
for years millions of people the years
helping them become their greatest
version
the reason why I am successful extremely
successful is because I help people rise
to the next level of their true
potential I could talk down on people
but then I would become a very toxic
person and then nobody would want to be
around me
okay so just remind yourself we rise we
rise by lifting others up I learned a
long time ago if you really want to help
someone really want to help someone you
can’t hurt them we think if I I’m really
angry with this person get really mad at
them they’ll listen to me no they won’t
they’ll just think you’re a complete
yeah okay people open up to you when
they feel they can trust you because
they can feel you are coming from a
genuinely authentic place in wanting to
help them a lot of the times we become
toxic because we think that if we
actually hurt people we can actually get
their attention no the more you do that
the more you push people away people
open up to you
when like the great psychologist Carl
Rogers said you begin to see them with
unconditional positive regard or as I
say unconditional positive acceptance
that’s how people open up to you now
everybody’s gonna love you including the
cat down the road but it starts with
loving yourself first now what I learned
along my journey is that everybody has
been a toxic person at one point in
their life right when I was I said what
is eating at me I was unhappy with my
life then I realized it was like what we
call kick the cat syndrome you’ve had a
bad day at work so now you take it out
on someone you got to check yourself you
got to ask yourself what is happening
with me right now what is making me you
just need a hug right could we just give
you a hug right now
send one in the mail for you how about
that you just need a hug right now
that’s why being in a loving
relationship is so significantly
important okay
get a hug from anybody maybe a bear will
give you a hug a bear hug okay that’s
how to stop being such a toxic person
and make everyone love you be kind to
every single person you meet this is
what I’ve learned along my journey
because you truly don’t know what
they’re going through I know because I’m
counseling people every single day I get
over a thousand emails every single day
I’m inspiring millions of people every
single day so people are writing to me
saying Ralph my life is good oh my god
I’m like okay the struggle is real but
here we don’t struggle here we are
becoming our greatest version but if you
don’t take in consideration other
people’s feelings
other people’s emotions you’re not gonna
have any friends okay because everybody
is going through something so you got to
learn how to be compassionate which
starts with self compassion find one
quality about yourself right now write
it down because every toxic person okay
has something a quality an attribute
which is amazing nobody is all bad
nobody is all toxic find that quality it
could be let’s think of it actually it
could be that certain times you can be
giving you have that in you so you want
to be writing that down every single day
and then focusing on that good attribute
about yourself until now it starts
becoming realized and that’s how to stop
being such a toxic person focus on what
is working with you as opposed to what
isn’t because if you keep saying I’m a
toxic person Ralph and no
what he wants to be around me well why
did everyone go
nobody knows okay and what else has
helped me along my Jenny I look at it
like this that every day we are learning
we are growing more we are evolving more
and reciprocity is one of the greatest
ways to stop being such a toxic person
pay people compliments thank people
gratitude is everything as a
psychologist I will tell you as someone
who’s done thousands of consultations I
will tell you as someone who inspires
millions I will tell you the happiest
people on the planet are the most
grateful you like how did my thumb right
there are most grateful right you are
feeling depressed all the time feeling
very toxic all the time it’s because you
have a lack of gratitude in your life I
had it for a long time I was miserable
what change I started to pay people
compliments I started to say okay
someone does a good deed for me I’ve got
to return the favor so once again be
someone you want to be around and
realize that anytime you can change your
life for the better breathing in that
good ass prana baby learn to de-stress
learn to relax and then just say feel so
yeah see how the birds are singing for
you infinite waters diving deep once
again I’m a beautiful day stay well stay healthy
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