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How to Stop Attracting the Wrong “One”


gisun finit waters diving deep once
again beautiful deep divers we are out
here in the heart of nature baby we got
the birds up there but do you have a
concern right now because you are always
choosing the wrong people
you’re always choosing the wrong
partners Ralph why do I keep attracting
the wrong type of guys the wrong type of
girls women men and even cats why rel
how to stop attracting the wrong one how
to stop falling in love with someone who
you know is bad for you deep dive is
let’s just whoa getting high breathing
in that good a hoss prana baby now we’ve
got a whole lot to talk about a lot of
people write to me saying that they keep
attracting the wrong partner and they’re
like Ralph why do I keep doing this
someone wrote to me saying that they are
addicted is someone who is bad for them
okay they know that this person is bad
to them but why am I so in love with him
Ralph like why Ralph why this is
sexology deep divers water fire hot cold
Ralph tell me how can somebody tell me
so wrong for me make me feel so right
you ain’t even had breakfast yet
can I get a Hello how can someone so
wrong make you feel so right deep divers
has that ever happened to you
you’re like I really want to continue
being in a relationship with someone
who’s so toxic for me because it feels
so right well let me share with you
what’s helped me along my journey
don’t worry deep divers I’ve been there
I’ve been in many coca-cola
relationships okay but what helped me to
move to the water relationship was to
realize this you see if you are always
attracting someone who you say is lower
frequency who’s bad for you but you
still love them so much many times it’s
because we are afraid to be alone are
you afraid to be alone right now
be honest you see that’s why we settle
for a mediocre relationship that’s why
many times the relationship is one-sided
you’re putting in all the effort or
maybe they are who knows right but it’s
always one person doing all the work in
other words your love is not being
reciprocated and there has to be a
change you see to stop attracting the
wrong one you have to find the love
within yourself first what slow motion
this side because the greatest
relationship you can have is with
yourself I meet people all the time deep
divers who are like Rafa I don’t want to
be alone so I’m with him I’m with her
but I know they’re bad for my mental
health but I could never imagine being
alone Ralph like I don’t want to even
think about it well you’re gonna have to
be alone you’re gonna you’re gonna have
to know yourself okay you’re gonna have
to love yourself you’re gonna have to
accept yourself you can
have to stop living without being
validated by someone else because you
are worthy you see many times if you are
attracting the wrong one if you are
falling in love with somebody who
doesn’t even care about you it’s because
there’s a lesson to learn you see we
never meet people by accident
there’s always a lesson to learn every
one every person you are with that’s for
reason you got to learn something
sometimes it’s a lesson sometimes it’s a
blessing but you often find that there’s
something inside of you that is
attracting them
you see we attract what we put out your
vibe attracts your tribe and that’s why
many times people end up in coca-cola
relationships because you still need to
learn certain lessons with that person
you see every single person you meet is
there to teach you something about
yourself what slow motion this side they
are mirroring back something inside of
yourself they are holding a mirror and
now you have to look yourself and say
actually why did I attract this kind of
relationship why do I keep attracting
the wrong kind of ones Ralph
they are mirroring back something you
have to take a look at within yourself
many times it’s unresolved issues many
times we are craving love because we
don’t have the love within ourselves
first and foremost so always pay
attention to say actually
what are they mirroring back within me
because it’s so easy just to blame them
and say Ralph I keep attracting the
wrong ones this is them what about us
okay you see you will never attract the
wrong ones if you realize that you go to
vibrate differently once you change your
energetic vibration everything else and
everyone else will align to that same
frequency mm-hmm
slow motion this life many times we end
up with the wrong people in
relationships because we are actually
vibrating on the same frequency as them
universal law states that two opposing
frequencies cannot occupy the same time
and space so there’s a similarity you
have a lot more in common than you think
and the only way to stop attracting the
wrong ones is to stop changing your vibe
because your vibe will attract your
tribe and instead of looking for a
soulmate start looking for your soul
mate inside of yourself okay and also
you can eat differently to vibrate
differently okay seven day vegan
challenge start having rules say
actually I’m only gonna date this person
if they’re really into the plant-based
lifestyle like I am right don’t settle
because you’re better than that and the
more you start to honor the way you live
and say actually I’m only gonna invite
people into my space who honor animals
like I do you’re gonna find that you’re
gonna be finding the right ones deep
divers you see what I’ve seen along my
journey is that everybody comes into our
life for a season
why you keep attracting the wrong ones
how to stop attracting the wrong ones is
to realize this that not everybody who
you’re with is meant to be there forever
some people are just passing through by
right if you have an unhealthy
attachment to somebody who doesn’t even
really care about you so much it’s
because we have an attachment issue and
we have to learn how to let go and many
times we always want somebody we always
want somebody we always want somebody
ladies to fix right Ralph I I knew he
was bad for me but I wanted to try and
change him doesn’t that happen ladies I
really wanted to try and change him
Ralph
I wanted to try and turn his life around
look ladies even if he even his own
mother couldn’t do that what makes you
think you’re gonna do it okay so you
have to realize that it all happens in
cycles not everybody is gonna be in your
life forever and you have to learn how
to let go of people who want
reciprocating the love you are giving to
them because there is somebody waiting
in line to receive your magnificent love
like give them a chance all right right
but you always want what you can’t have
you see sometimes we love people who
don’t care about us because we just want
to see our self-worth in their eyes
mm-hmm what slow motion this side well
it’s time to take back your power and
start seeing yourself worth in your eyes
it’s it’s time it’s time to start
knowing your true self worth and once
you know your true self worth you will
only be with somebody who’s gonna help
you evolve to the next level and believe
it or not even those wrong people are
actually helping you evolve you have to
wake up your art you have to you have to
wake up open your eyes and start
taking heed to the message to say
actually okay thank you for the lesson
but now it’s time to move on right so
realize even if you are in a bad
relationship even if you are with the
wrong person there’s actually a
beautiful lesson to learn because that
will eventually lead you to the cat down
the road the right person and then deep
dive as well you just say get to be a
live baby can I get a hello beautiful
deep divers we are out here in the heart
and nature just whoa breathing in that
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stay well stay healthy you the moment
you realize not wanting anything brings you everything

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