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How to Stay Positive When Everything Goes Wrong


Pisan Finnick waters diving deep once
again beautiful deep divers we are out
here in nature baby another day in this
beautiful place birds up there whoa
one just went up there but are you
finding it hard to smile right now yes
Ralph was it all good just the week ago
yes Ralph how to stay positive when
everything goes wrong let’s just whoa
breathing in that good oz prana baby it
was all good just a week ago I saw you I
saw the selfie what happened a lot can
happen in a week that’s what happened
Ralph I get it
I got a great question that came in if
you’ve got a question don’t email me I
get thousands there add me on Instagram
at infinite waters and I might answer it
so someone else Ralph how can I stay
positive when everything is going wrong
I’ve been watching your videos like
crazy lately thanks from the cat down
the road and I however I’ve lost my job
recently my apartment other things and
it seems like my whole world is
crumbling and visualization is not
helping visualization is not helping at
all like how can I remain positive when
things are falling apart
deep divers have you ever have you ever
been like so elated so happy so joyous
and then something really bad happens
and it’s stolen your happiness and Wayne
even had breakfast yeah can I get a
hello we say that it was all good just a
week ago now let me share with you what
L mean long my journey we got a whole
lot to talk about you see things are
gonna go wrong
things are going wrong right now for
someone in the world and they’re a good
person but the universe doesn’t care
doesn’t care if you’re good person or
not right
things happen I’ve realized this that
first and foremost you have to realize
nothing happens to you it happens for
you
yikes slow motion this side nothing
happens to you it happens for you now I
know this firsthand sometimes you just
see me smiling like gosh Ralph you’re
always looking so happy you’re always so
free and harmonious no I’ve had my fair
share of challenges and I still I still
get challenges like sometimes I’m waking
up I’m like universe are you serious are
you trying to take away my smile then I
realize wait a minute I’ve got to start
taking responsibility which means
responding to your ability for my life
you see life is not something happening
to you it is responding to you your
words thoughts and actions so when I was
going through a hard time
when I was like 19 looking for a job
relationship problems it felt like my
whole life was crumbling before my eyes
okay I was like blaming the world for my
problems so what it made me realize down
the line was that it showed me what I’m
afraid of
but also what I’m capable of you see we
need challenges we need setbacks we need
roadblocks to show us who we truly are
yikes slow motion this side it is in the
contrast of life that we discover who we
truly are
only through contrasts can you know
yourself that’s why we are having so
many challenges sometimes in life but
it’s happening to everybody you see I’ve
learned this along my journey the
universe has no favors right the
universe has no favorites the universe
has no favorites
not even the cat down the road is the
universe’s favorite okay yes we are the
universe we are Stardust I’ve learnt
this whenever I get the challenge
sometimes a car breaks down sometimes a
massive delay I realize the universe is
sending me this challenge it is designed
to propel me to the next level of
consciousness awareness it’s designed to
help my evolution
slow motion aside when everything is
going wrong to keep yourself together
when things are falling apart realize it
is happening for a reason don’t tell me
what happens when someone tells you that
it’s very frustrating right
don’t tell me everything happens for a
reason well you see it does and I
realize when you want in resistance to
what is happening you actually find in a
calm which helps you create equilibrium
homeostasis which leads the positivity
that can help you become an alchemist
which is making the best out of the
worst and not allowing external events
to govern your internal condition now
the universe is not picky in dishing out
lessons hard lessons to its children
okay the universe does not have
favorites we all get the same amount of
lessons hard lessons however we all
slow motion aside the response your
response is your greatest power your
response is your greatest power your
response is your greatest power to the
situation that seems so unbearable no
apartment right now no job no money
what’s happening
I don’t know Ralph I can’t even smile
haven’t smiled for four weeks your
response is your greatest power this is
a chance to prove to yourself what you
are truly made of
this is a chance to not be defeated by
what is happening out there Ralph I want
to cry don’t cry at all no were you told
that that’s a complete fabrication of
the truth in fact learning to express
your disappointment disgust at the
situation will actually help you heal is
not about being positive it’s about
being real
slow-motion this side
yikes so get angry get furious about the
situation the cards that life has dealt
you is so unfair Ralph
tell me about it start screaming
bit louder than that that’s better
ah it’s on step on your toe have no idea
right so you’re getting mad right now
look at you right you’re pulling out
your hair right now that’s a good thing
to really express your emotions to be
emotional is okay because the worst
thing you could ever do is act like
everything is fine fine stands for
fearful insecure neurotic and emotional
you’re not fine so when someone asks you
how are you tell them what you are going
through tell them hey I’ve lost my
apartment I can’t find a job
my world is terrible right now you got
it off your chest now look at you you’re
starting to smile already because so
many people they don’t smile they’re not
positive because they lie they pretend
their life is better than actually is
they go on Instagram and they start
taking selfies like oh look at me look
at me right so now you got to start
keeping up that persona the mosque but
when you can actually learn the power
and vulnerability to say actually I’m
going through a really hard time right
now that will actually aid your healing
far greater than pretending now you said
visualization is not helping like I
tried to act as if my apartment was
already here act as if it’s already here
right it’s not gonna help because
positive thinking is not as powerful as
positive thinking is not as powerful as
positive action positive thinking is not
as powerful as positive action when I
was going through a crisis when my life
wasn’t really going anywhere I’m like
yeah let me just close my eyes and think
positively and maybe the situation will
go away I opened my eyes and I was in
the same predicament it didn’t change
anything it can help only if you act
upon it now it’s time to move forward
now it’s time to choose the best way to
respond to the situation which literally
has the power to change the situation
itself I know what it’s like I’ve been
there I’ve been in a tight situation
I’ve been in a mine state where I
thought things aren’t gonna get better I
know what it’s like but if you can
realize that you have to take the next
best move like you’re playing chess
against Kasparov right now play here he
just beat you don’t worry about it right
positive action what am I gonna do about
it cuz I can get mad I can get furious I
can get angry but it’s bad for my health
plus it’s not gonna change the fact of
what’s already happened but positive
action will seven day vegan challenge
shout out to everybody who is going
vegan just for today
forget about the seven day vegan
challenge Ralph I’m just eating a
plant-based diet
just for today congratulations but next
time share some of the mango with us
deep divers look taking care of yourself
through the food you are eating is so
essential when everything is going wrong
and you want to stay positive you want
to not let this situation beat you up
okay so I’ve realized that when I’m
going through the shits I’m like pass me
a green juice but it wasn’t always like
this because many times if we are
feeling a certain way emotionally we eat
foods to kind of give us evidence that
we are going through what we are going
through so let’s just say I’m feeling
really sad right now
you can’t drink a beautiful papaya
smoothie because you’ll start to feel
amazing and now you don’t have any
evidence to back up that statement right
so that’s why you can see how it’s a
very self a filling prophecy so as an
alchemist to stay positive when things
go wrong if you’re having a bad day did
you just have a nightmare it happens
right doctor Whole Foods or whole
paycheck say the cat down the road sent
you and drink a beautiful peach smoothie
banana maca powder fig smoothie start
juicing up start cleansing your body
start detoxing leafy greens and you’re
gonna start changing your vibrational
state which will actually which will
actually change everything happening in
your life and now you no longer have an
excuse for where you find yourself
because you’re starting to feel better
therefore you will start to attract
better circumstances in your life if
you’re going through a really hard time
be kind to yourself don’t start eating
junk food just to say actually yeah this
is making me feel even worse so
definitely it must be true right the
choice is yours an avocado
or hot dog it’s your choice now have you
ever noticed this phenomena deep divers
like when something bad happens it’s
like a domino effect lots of bad things
start happening when it starts raining
cats lots of cats start falling from the
sky right you see when one bad thing
happens in your life it’s a lot more
likely that another bad thing will
happen soon after this is what we call
the inevitable domino effect and the
inevitable domino effect states that
once you change one thing all the other
things change in the same way so if I’m
very angry chances are I’m not gonna be
driving properly chances are I’m not
gonna be eating properly chances are my
friends are gonna disappear immediately
because I’m not giving them good energy
right however even if things are going
wrong if I can manage somewhere deep in
in my heart to manage to smile okay
because that’s actually now changing my
blood chemistry the biology of belief
okay all of a sudden even though
everything around me is crumbling
I’ve now become a wizard a sorcerer to
realize I am creating my reality
yikes slow motion this side so because
everything happens in sync
once you change one thing something you
actually change the whole
once you change one thing you actually
change the whole so if you’ve lost your
job your apartment and there is no hope
for you the cat down the road is right
go outside go into nature that’s why I
do all my videos mostly in nature
because even though sometimes things
aren’t going my way if I come to nature
all of a sudden day off because it makes
me put things in perspective I realize
my problems aren’t as big as they seem
if I can change my perception I can now
change my reality slow motion this side
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you idiot do you say that to yourself
because you slow down like don’t call
yourself that again like I used to call
myself that sometimes when things were
going wrong because I thought it was me
my fault yes take responsibility but
blaming yourself for what has happened
is not helping you it is hurting you let
me repeat that blaming yourself for the
position you find yourself in is not
helping you it is hurting you be gentle
with yourself you’re doing the best you
can you want to be yes
taking responsibility but loving
yourself in the process in the mists of
your mistakes because the more self
loved you give to yourself in this
period of time the more you will heal
you can keep calling yourself an idiot
but once again you now create more
evidence for that claim that statement
which is erroneous it’s false
thus you now create a self-fulfilling
prophecy and a negative domino effect so
stop being gentle with yourself
this is the time to love yourself the
most even if you screwed up hug yourself
I did good right
you see I’ve learnt means that we have
to learn how to detach from what is
happening to us we are not our problems
we are not our problems we are not our
problems we are not what is happening to
us we are not what is happening to us if
you can learn how to detach yourself
from circumstances the read has to be
paid or else that’s not you though my
car isn’t starting that’s not you though
what you do control seven day vegan
challenge is what you put into your
mouth also your
response your internal condition okay
you do have power you are not a victim
you are co-creator of your reality I got
99 problems Ralph
well don’t be the hundredth one what
slow motion this side don’t add fuel to
the fire do not add fuel to the fire by
being another problem to the situation
because that situation does not define
you this too shall pass that’s how you
stay positive when things are going
wrong this too shall pass that’s how
that’s how you keep yourself together
when things are falling apart life isn’t
perfect just like the great Egyptian
proverb says a beautiful thing is never
perfect life does not have to be perfect
it’s about finding the balance and
embracing the imperfection to realize
actually everything is kind of perfect
but your idea of perfection has to
change perfection is not that everything
has to be going your way
perfection is dancing in the chaos
yikes
slow motion this slide that is what
perfection is that’s what being an
alchemist is all about so I’ve realized
this deep divers to stay positive when
things go wrong you have to always look
forward instead of looking back there’s
not much to see behind there you got to
look forward where am I going right now
what’s the next best move and don’t feel
you’re all in this alone I’m all alone
around no you aren’t all alone there are
people that actually care the cat down
the road is one okay call a friend no
this is not Who Wants to Be a
Millionaire you can speak to them for
more than 30 seconds speak to someone
who actually cares and express how you
feel don’t overwhelm them but Express
realize you are worthy to be heard and
the more you talk to a good friend they
could have some enlightening wisdom for
you they could have gone through what
you are going through right now offer
you a valuable piece of advice that
could actually help your entire
situation don’t feel you have to suffer
alone don’t feel you have to go and
experience this pain all alone we care
right and that’s how to stay positive
when things go wrong realize your
attitude to the situation literally has
the power to change the entire situation
itself and once you realize that deep
dive is well you just say Phil so get to
be a live baby can I get a hello
hey beautiful deep divers we are out
here in the heart of nature just
breathing in that good asrani baby have
a beautiful day deep divers infinite
waters diving deep once again stay well
stay healthy peace you i went from
negative to positive just like that just like that

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