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How to Spot A Fake Friend


peace infinite waters diving deep once
again can I get a hello there so I’m
reading through the comments and someone
wrote too many fake friendships nowadays
I’m going to give you my own insight on
this subject when we talk of people not
being who they say they are we meet
people they turn on us they change we’re
like wait a minute what are you doing I
say it’s all about looking at how to
attract positive versions of yourself
and negative versions of yourself you
see a lot of us we see someone and
they’re smiling they’re happy they’re
singing they’re full of joy and we say
oh I like that person but you haven’t
seen their other side now depending on
which side they show you that is going
to form an image of them in your mind
that is why a lot of us we don’t show
our negative side to people because
otherwise we’re not going to have any
friends I say it’s all about knowing who
you are to attract the right people to
assist you in becoming your greatest
version when we talk of how to spot a
fake friend or how to find the right
friend I say for instance right now in
this social media world you can have
thousands of friends but ask yourself on
a rainy day when you’re home alone will
they be around will they be around when
the times are hard probably not
unless you pay them but we have to ask
ourselves what kind of energy are we
putting out there that’s the biggest
question because during my life there
was a time where I was attracting people
I thought were fake fake friends only
because my lifestyle was very fake
meaning that I had no true connection
with who I was I was lost in the
wilderness like that and therefore every
interaction I was having was only a
reflection of how I felt about myself
nowadays I don’t have any fake friends I
only have people that uplift my spirit
because you see we have to start seeing
that it’s all about depth that is how to
build long-lasting relationships the
problem with a lot of social media is
that we stay on the surface someone adds
you as a friend
and we think oh there are friends but
who the hell are you
the more we can unravel strip away the
mask of that person persona now we can
get to the core that is the only way
your friendship can thrive get personal
ask them the first time they did
something crazy go deep go very deep
scare people shock them with your
questions now you are breaking the
barriers the boundaries the borders
in essence you are becoming more
intimate and once again it’s all us I
say once you change your energetic
vibration everything aligns to that same
frequency there are no good people there
are no bad people there is only
resonance and that’s what I’ve learned
that’s why I don’t take it personal when
someone is not resonating with you it
doesn’t mean they are fake it just means
there is a signal interference
it’s like Wi-Fi connection the bar is
very low when someone is resonating with
you the bar is very high and that’s why
we feel amazing a lot of the times we
have to ask ourselves how do we feel
towards ourself that is the biggest
amazing people in my life they’re not
perfect but more so whenever we place
whenever we give someone else the job to
make us feel a hundred percent we’re in
big trouble
that’s why I always talk of loving
yourself a hundred percent because we
have to become our best friend that’s
what I’ve seen and once you do that
people will naturally be attracted to
you who are on the same frequency when
you feel everyone you meet is fake that
is the signal you are sending out into
the universe and guess what your wish is
my command you start looking at
everyone’s flaws I say
the people I mean we can both share we
can both learn we can both grow because
I send that signal out there that is
what I receive more so because that is
what I expect the mere fact that you are
observing something is now creating
that’s a secret
so I say align with yourself don’t worry
what other people are doing because in
the universe there is contrast hot cold
yin-yang it is through contrast that we
discover our true authentic selves that
is why I am grateful for every single
person I have met even if I don’t agree
with them but you can learn something
from them not to hang around with them
again but just surround yourself with
your own love and now the right people
will find their way to you there you
have it enjoy the rest of your day have
fun go for a walk and do something silly
infinite waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy peace

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