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How to Spoil Your Life (Without Even Noticing That You Are)


Pisan Finnick waters diving deep once
again we are out here in nature baby
beautiful deep divers we are in a lush
tropical rainforest we got birds
everywhere but are you spoiling your
life without even noticing that you are
are you ruining your life without even
noticing so I’m gonna give you a guide
on how to spoil your life without even
noticing that you are cuz I’m so kind
let’s just whoa breathing getting that
good ass Prada baby so I get a lot of
messages every single day and a lot of
people write to me saying they are in
pretty tight situations they are in a
tight spot right now and they realize
they are ruining their life so I’m gonna
help you ruin your life even more and we
so beautiful deep divers let me share
with you what’s helped me along my
journey because I’ve been there done
that got the t-shirt but I’m still
getting lessons I’m no saint but I
realized what I was doing when I was
spoiling my life so I’m gonna tell you
how to spoil your life so you don’t have
to continue doing it okay without even
noticing that you are it starts with
this tolerating a mediocre life this is
how to spoil your life without even
noticing that you are I’ve worked in all
kinds of jobs which is just over broke
and when I was in certain jobs I was
just there doing the work working long
hours but I didn’t really realize my
true Worth and I was actually spoiling
my life without even noticing it like
when I look back I’m like what on earth
was I doing more so what on earth was I
wearing okay
but back then I was just happy to have a
job and that’s cool work smart no hard
okay that’s cool
but how many times deep divers do you
sell yourself short how many times are
you tolerating a mediocre experience
forget a mediocre life no a mediocre
experience you’re like I know I
shouldn’t be there I shouldn’t be in
that environment but I’m gonna put up
with it because this is all I feel I am
worthy for so to not spoil your life
stop putting your price up how about
that start realizing your true worth
like the hour of work the hour of your
time you’re never ever ever gonna get it
back okay so you are priceless don’t
sell yourself short don’t put up with a
mediocre life because in the end
you’re only gonna spoil your life yes
how to spoil your life without even
noticing that you are now along my early
journey deep divers I used to choose
people who didn’t choose me
I used to choose people who didn’t
choose me okay and it probably started
from school you have the popular group
and then they’re not so popular group
and then the Nerds okay I was in the
middle but sometimes I would hang around
people who I could sense what really
feeling my vibe because I was going
through a third eye experience and I
didn’t really feel their vibe too okay
but I’ve realized choose people who
choose you slow motion this side
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are you around someone who doesn’t even
care about you are you in a relationship
just to be there are you in a
relationship because you don’t want to
be single I don’t want to be a loner
Ralph the cat down the road will join
you look it’s better to be alone and
happy than in a relationship and
miserable once again just putting up
with it
okay so I’ve realized that’s how so many
of us spoil our lives we know we
shouldn’t be hanging around we know we
shouldn’t be hanging around those kinds
of people it does no good for us but I’m
stuck Ralph I’ve got no choice no you do
have a choice if you feel you don’t then
you will spoil your life without even
noticing that you are so be around
people that lift you up not with people
who ignore you yeah exactly how to spoil
your life without even noticing that you
are baby baby we are out here in nature
look how beautiful this place is seven
expensive clothes with keep meals okay
I’m happy to see a lot of people who are
doing the seven day vegan challenge
eating a plant-based diet going to Whole
Foods going to their local farmers
market and really filling that basket up
what have you got in there
pears bananas sweet potatoes okay
arugula okay mangoes okay
almonds oh my gosh she got but the
vitamin E going that’s good but there
was a time when I was spoiling my life
without even noticing because I had
expensive clothes and a cheap meal you
see so many times we don’t realize that
what happens when you spend so much on
your attire on your clothes just to look
good to the world on the surface yeah
I’m rocking this new Versace
okay ladies got the Chanel okay that’s
cool got the Marc Jacobs bag got the
Louis V going okay that’s cool but
surely you got to be spending that on
food too you see I realize that your
inner wealth which is your inner health
will produce your outer health and your
outer wealth you see many times what
happens we look so fantastic on the
outside but when it comes to food we get
all stingy we’re like oh my gosh Ralph I
can’t buy that cold-pressed juice even
though it’s good for me
and it retains all the nutrients is too
expensive but I can spend a thousand
dollars on a handbag ladies Oh
so I’ve realized that hey when it comes
to food you don’t want to be stingy it’s
a very heart attack loss 1 million
dollars I’m sure you can afford
cold-pressed pineapple juice full of
vitamin C it’s worth it and that’s
what’s helped me to not spoil my life ok
I noticed that how to spoil your life
without even noticing that you are deep
divers check this out have you ever been
around someone and you’re like I should
really say this but it’s not the right
time and then you end up not saying it
and then it goes to a week two weeks
three weeks and now it’s a secret but
deep inside of you you’ve been trying to
get it out it’s just that you’ve kept it
a secret for so long it feels awkward
now so you keep it a secret and now
nobody ever knows about it that’s how
you end up spoiling your life that’s how
you end up spoiling your life ruining
your life you see what’s helped me along
my journey is to speak your truth even
if your voice shakes
slow motion this side even if you’re
looking a bit shaky baby say how you
really feel about a situation don’t
sugarcoat it ain’t nobody got time for
that
okay so I’ve realized that whenever I
express myself I feel better but there
was a time when I didn’t a lot of people
would ask me over after you want to go
out and I didn’t really want to go out
and I would be like yeah yes I could
never ever ever say no to anybody I’m a
Pisces I get on with pretty much
everybody else in the zodiac even the
cat down the road but I’ve learned that
it’s not just about saying no and it’s
not just about saying yes it’s about
setting how you really feel about the
situation sometimes you’re saying no
when it could really mean a yes and a
yes when it could really mean a no be
truthful to yourself and then whatever
answer you give it doesn’t even matter
because you kept it real and that’s what
we’re here to do on the planet how to
spoil your life without even noticing
that you are baby baby beautiful deep
divers was helped me along my journey is
to stop
allowing the make tricks to control me
we spoil our lives and I spoiled my life
is you really want to spoil your life be
under the control of the matrix which is
this country this control grid this
society which wants to turn you into
play-doh like this we don’t need that we
don’t need that we don’t need that okay
so I’ve realized that I was spoiling my
life for so long because I believed
everything the society told me I believe
what it told me when it came to what I
could achieve and that was just working
a regular nine-to-five that’s what he
told me I didn’t know that I could
create abundance whoa breathing in that
good ass Prada baby every single day
well guess what that’s what I’m doing
right now all because I’ve realized most
of my life has been a complete lie so
once you go on the journey within you
come into nature and you start to really
see the truth for yourself you don’t
spoil your life and you do notice it and
then you become your greatest version
now
many of us we feel stuck we feel like
slaves and that’s how we spoil our lives
if we don’t change it it’s okay to be
aware about something but what are you
gonna do about it and that’s how I
really freed myself I’m like hey I’m in
the matrix it’s time to get free and now
I’m free kind of how to spoil your life
without even noticing that you are
comparing yourself to other people
comparing your experiences to theirs
like if you have someone who’s on
Instagram posting pictures that they
went to Manila Falls and they’re taking
selfies touching a rock like that who
does that I love Hawaii out here I love
it
now I know what it’s like sometimes you
see people’s profiles on social media
and it’s kind of depressing cuz you’re
like oh my gosh what about me what about
me Rob I’m stuck in the cold build a
snowman
oh here’s a carrot take it I’ve been
there I’ve been in minus ten conditions
okay I know what it’s like however you
can still find peace I’ve learned is
that an original is always worth more
than a copy you don’t want to disrespect
yourself
by comparing your life to theirs because
you want them you don’t have their
experience you didn’t fall on your ass
like they did when they were two years
old okay you’re different
nobody is you and that is your power if
you realize your true uniqueness you
would see that what you have to offer
the world nobody else slow motion this
nobody else can do it like you
absolutely not there is not another
clone of me
open up look your uniqueness is your
power it’s time to stop comparing
yourself it’s time to stop comparing
yourself to other people and it’s time
to start cooperating collaborating okay
and that’s really what’s freed me along
my journey don’t get it wrong for a long
time I was spoiling my life ruining my
life because I was always in competition
with other people not realizing that but
that’s like that’s like the greatest
illusion ever because everyone is in a
different race it’s that simple
how to spoil your life without even
noticing that you are baby baby being
numb okay now what I’ve realized because
I get to travel all around the world I’m
always in a new place every single month
I’ve realized that human beings are
beautiful bad and ugly oh they are the
good the bad and the downright ugly we
have it all here on planet Earth how
fantastic but I meet a lot of people who
are shut down from their emotions
because they don’t want to feel anything
because they don’t want to have that
responsibility to feel their emotions
and other people so that’s why the
empaths who are around is few and far
between a lot of people have become so
numb on the planet
emotionless like stone statues exactly
how do I look right now numb
desensitized disconnected and I was like
that too I’m no same for a long time I
also was disconnected numbers I thought
if I didn’t feel anything my emotions
other people’s emotions I can get
through life fine and what is fine stand
for fearful Oh No
insecure Oh No neurotic Oh No and
emotional yeah I was fine all right
faithful insecure neurotic and emotional
so I was spoiling my life when people
would be like Ralph how are you I’m like
I’m fine I’m fine right you kind of meet
people in the matrix like this or like
I’m fine but just look at their face
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someone’s energy will tell you a lot
more about them than even their own
words slow motion this side
so becoming my greatest version living
the life of infinite abundance I’ve
learned that you have to feel the only
way I can connect with millions of
people and talk to you beautiful deep
divers is because I feel what you’re
going through I feel you you feel me
right that’s what it’s all about feeling
emotions share them be vulnerable
vulnerability is your greatest strength
don’t be a robot that’s already coming
in 2050 how despoil your life
without even noticing that you are you
see what’s helped me is to realize this
I was spoiling my life ruining my life
when I was allowing the past to trap me
I was allowing my past to govern my
present experience and that’s why a lot
of us we can’t enjoy the present because
we still got the pass lingering over us
look over your shoulder that’s the past
that’s the past right behind you so what
do you do you look back at the past and
say I see you thanks for the lesson
thanks for the lesson but I’m goodbye
that’s all you got to do you say bye you
don’t do this pause yes No
your past is behind you for a reason
there is only right now do you know how
many hours I wasted spoiling my life
thinking about things which never
actually happened replaying the past
thinking if I could have done this
differently would have changed and then
realising actually it’s a bit too late
for that
so I’ve realized that the past is
valuable don’t get it twisted it’s just
that the past no longer needs to control
your life you’re better than that for
the first time it’s time to say pass I
love you thanks for the lessons but I’m
spending some time with the gift right
now oh yes I’m gonna get married to the
present moment and that’s helped me to
not spoil my life and be happier
healthier in love and in balance how to
spoil your life without even noticing
that you are now if you are living
someone else’s life like I did for so
many years you are spoiling your life
without even noticing we do this by a
listening to what our parents say and
we’re in the mosque which is not us
pretending on social media and C doing
that it’s not me okay living someone
else’s life is simply a recipe for
disaster and if you don’t stop it right
there
it is gonna spoil your life without you
even noticing because you are gonna
really feel you are this person this
persona which means mosque persona is
the Greek mosque okay / through Sona
sound they used to wear these masks in
the theater and talk through them well
guess what you’re not acting are you no
you’re not it’s all about being your
true authenticity right right
so take the mask off and stop living
someone else’s life there are already
too many clones on the planet I realized
that there is no greater joy for me than
to be myself you see I would rather
people hate me actually I don’t want
anyone to hate me dislike me that’s
better
for Who I am then than to love me
Who I am now I used to do theater
studies I love acting but it’s about
being real okay it’s all about getting
people to know the real you I’ve only
been able to connect with you beautiful
deep divers because I’m not ashamed of
being who I truly am but for a long time
I was playing these roles one way to my
parents one way to my wife my girlfriend
ladies your husband your boyfriend the
cat down the road that dumped out in the
road I’m not married yet look be
yourself for goodness sakes and that’s
what’s helped me to not spoil my life
and become my greatest version okay how
to spoil your life without even noticing
that you are ignoring it’s cool to
ignore other people but the moment you
start ignoring yourself you’re screwed
okay once you turn that intuition switch
off you are screwed you better call her
Alf you better call the cat down the
road more like it
so I’ve realized I was spoiling my life
for a long time because I was turning
that intuition switch off I’m like who
cares about intuition it’s all about
logic okay just do what seems right
logically
and I was spoiling my life because the
logic was hey Ralph stay in that job
over 300 people applied for it I was
working in a school with people with
ADHD autism it was cool but the logical
mind was saying Ralph to stay there
300 people applied you got the job
because of your smile you did this in
the interview just like your thumbnails
are Alf yeah exactly and then I stayed
there was cool but I realized I was
slowly spoiling my life because I was
neglecting my hospice I was no longer
listening to myself and that is how so
many of us spoil our lives without even
noticing that we are so I’m asking you
today to turn that intuition switch on
your inner voice knows best you see what
your heart already knows the mind can
only dream of slow motion this side the
heart is 5,000 times more
electromagnetically stronger than the
brain okay our heart is a mini brain it
is the greatest brain actually okay so
trust your heart and that’s actually
helped me to not spoil my life and
actually become my greatest version and
once you realize that beautiful deep
diverse what’d you just say they also
beautiful deep divers we are out here in
nature baby just whoa breathing in that
good ass prana have a beautiful day two
divers infinite waters diving deep once
again stay well stay healthy peace you
now if you’re spoiling your life after
this video I can’t do anything for you
so sorry [Music]

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