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HOW TO SAVE YOUR HEART *life changing*


deep divers can you imagine if someone
got hold of your phone all of those DMS
secret messages thank goodness you’ve
peace and finit waters diving deep once
again beautiful deep divers we are out
here in nature baby such a gorgeous day
what am i doing making a video I should
be at the beach already chilling with a
cat down the road deep divers were just
whoa breathing in that good ass piranha
baby sending you tons of plant energy
take that take that take that
do you have trust issues is there
somebody you can trust right now
have you been heartbroken recently or in
the past and you’re like Ralph my heart
can’t take this anymore
well alas deep divers how to save your
heart I’ve got a great question when I
was doing the Instagram live deep divers
and a wonderful young lady was like
Ralph I love your videos how can I trust
someone who is untrustworthy well I’ll
do this video you will know how to save
your heart and Trust life and we even
had breakfast yeah can I get a hello
deep divers this is sexology water fire
hot code yin yang daddy’s home I’m back
that’s right how to save your heart
let’s dive straight into it when we talk
of relationships like I have said before
there are two kinds you have the Coca
Cola relationship which is the toxic
relationship and then you have the water
relationship
to save your heart don’t put the key to
your happiness in someone else’s pocket
we do this time and time again in
relationships hoping praying waiting for
someone to be our personal Savior Jesus
Christ
instead you meet a frog oh no Ralph but
it happens like that right why does it
happen like that because many times in
relationships we expect way too much and
then we get heartbroken
we demand way too much and then we get
heartbroken we assume way too much and
then we get heartbroken to save your
heart expect less and be pleasantly
surprised don’t demand accept don’t
demand accept their own mother couldn’t
change them what makes you think you’re
gonna change them you have to wash
yourself what am I doing here and do I
know my true worth because if someone is
not fulfilling your needs it’s time to
leave if you’re unhappy but realize you
are making a choice to stay in that
relationship therefore you have to know
what it entails deep divers how to save
your heart life-changing stuff
partnership not ownership partnership
not ownership the water relationship is
partnership the coca-cola relationship
is ownership I own them Ralph I own her
I own him why why or why beat divers do
we feel that we own other people oh I
get it you bought a new car
yeah you own that technically you don’t
actually the government does nevermind
and we have the nerve to think that we
own someone because we’re in a
relationship with them no not at all you
own no one say this every single day
deep divers I am experiencing you
I do not own you hmm what slow motion
this side mmm
said again Ralph I experience you I do
not own you I experience you
I do not own you that is how to save
your heart if you have trust issues
realize you do not own anybody
people are not possessions believe it or
not no they on right so realize this you
have to take a look at yourself in the
mirror and say do I deserve more and if
you feel you do go for more don’t settle
realize this deep dive is to save your
heart always speak your heart and mind
don’t suppress your emotions the energy
in motion if you are in a relationship
with someone and you’re not happy your
needs aren’t being fulfilled tell them
there and then don’t tell your best
friend about the situation no tell that
person you are in a relationship with
because communication is the secret the
Alexia of life right communication is
the secret to a great relationship get
talking express yourself get emotional
take some tissues start crying let them
know how you feel deep divers that’s how
to save your heart get it off your chest
don’t sugarcoat it for nobody nobody not
even the cat down the road deep divers
how to save your heart now seven day
vegan challenge
don’t settle I had to save my heart deep
divers when I was 20 I was in a
relationship with someone beautiful lady
from Ethiopia actually went to Ethiopia
tasted some in
gerrae whoo that was nice right and
injera is plant-based seven day vegan
challenge TIFF right
TIFF grain check it out deep divers had
to throw that in there right and she was
actually a meat-eater and I was
transitioning to becoming a vegan and it
was very hard very very hard because I
really had feelings for her but I
realized I had to save my heart because
I was all about hey I love animals and
she didn’t want to hear it right so to
save my heart had to leave I had to say
actually how can I break it to you I’m
going to the animal sanctuary today and
then she she understood right the save
your heart always realized that if
someone isn’t aligned to your true
values especially when it comes to food
cuz food and love go together then it’s
time for you to look elsewhere because
there are plenty more fish in the sea
deep divers how to save your heart
and trust life realize this what’s
helped me along my journey deep divers
is to be prepared what I’m getting into
a lot of you ladies write to me Ralph
I’m with this guy and I don’t trust him
fellas you write to me the same thing
Ralph I’m with her and she’s like this
and she’s like that right and even
same-sex couples write to me Ralph he’s
like this and she’s like this I get it
right nobody is perfect neither are you
but be prepared what you are getting
yourself into you see many times we know
what we are getting ourselves into and
we have to be mindful that everyone we
meet comes with baggage including you
however if you have been hurt from a
previous relationship don’t carry past
energy into this relationship give
people time to grow sometimes you’ve got
to give people the benefit of the doubt
to save your heart if you say to this
person I don’t trust you now this person
is like this person is gonna be like
okay since you don’t trust me I’m gonna
do whatever I want
at first we were friends then we became
lovers
become friends put the value on the
friendship first ladies that’s how today
that’s how to get him to open up talk to
him like a friend say oh oh I get it all
your needs being met in this
relationship or aren’t they if not how
can we work things out right and then he
will open up learn how to be vulnerable
don’t be so aggressive so attacking him
all the time no just allow him to open
up and allow her to open up right
because now the beans will be spilled
deep divers how to save your heart be
honest be honest you see you are ready
for the relationship but is he
you are ready for the relationship but
is she you see a lot of us we are
involved in different things we are in
different places and spaces in our life
and it’s nothing personal
many times to save your heart you’ve got
to be mature you got to say I’m ready
but are they ready they’re not ready yet
they are so not ready yet and that’s
okay because not everyone will be ready
when you are deep divers how to save
your heart let me share with you what’s
helped me along my journey you can’t
change people only people can change
themselves to save your heart learn how
to accept people as they are take them
as they are realize we are all working
progress and believe it or not deep
divers you will save yourself so much
grief learn to accept people instead of
instead of trying to change them deep
dive is how to save your heart because
it’s so precious force no flow yes
allow the flow don’t force hmm slow
motion this side
say it again Ralph allow the flow don’t
force
that’s how to save your heart stop
trying to force things that aren’t
supposed to be allow the flow some
people are just meant to be together
and some people aren’t and if you aren’t
meant to be with if you aren’t meant to
be with someone that’s cool you go that
way and I’ll go that way but if you are
meant to be with someone that’s
fantastic because now you have just
saved your heart and then just said also
get to be a live baby can I get a hello
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waters if you’ve got a question have a
beautiful day deep divers infinite
waters diving deep once again stay well
stay healthy peace you allow the flow
never force you got it
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