How to Recognize You’ve Found Someone Special

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pease and Finnick waters diving Zeke
once again beautiful deep divers we are
out here I hope your day is going good
marvelous stay here but what’s happening
with you right now are you still not
sure you found someone beautiful but
you’re still having lots of question
marks dotted all over the place having
the one maybe they’re not the one Oh
how to recognize you found someone truly
truly truly truly truly truly special
let’s just move breathing in that good
ass prom baby
this is sexology water fire hot cold
yin-yang daddy’s home
we’re back now I got a great question I
came in if you’ve got a question don’t
email me I get thousands there add me on
instagram at infinite waters someone
else yes talk to me Ralph I’ve met
someone finally who I feel like
naturally have a decent conversation
with that has a lot of depth they’re
actually a really great person but I’m
still not sure like they make me feel
loved and appreciate it but I’m still
not sure if they are the one my soul
mate Ralph my twin flame my one and only
whoa I see your passion I love your
passion deep divers have you ever met
someone who’s so amazing they’re better
than your ex but you’re still not sure
and we even had breakfast yet can I get
a Hello so let me share with you also
helped me along my journey recognize
I’ve found someone special now
many times we do need someone who is
amazing we know they’re amazing but we
still have a lot of questions because
sometimes we’ve just come out of a very
toxic relationship the new one we’re in
we’re like I can’t believe it I can’t
believe someone like this actually
exists
okay so how I definitely know if someone
is truly special is that you can just
wake up and they still love you
like not even brush your teeth you could
be on the toilet and they’ll be there
holding your hand like you can do this
typical right they really can you see
when the whole world is going against
you they will be the one who is standing
slow-motion aside they are someone who
has been with you through not just the
trophy times how many trophies did you
win by the way no they’ve been with you
when you were nobody when you were down
and out okay that’s how you know you’ve
found someone truly special because they
don’t care about how much money you have
they care about you okay and I’ve found
someone like that I hope you find
someone like that too okay they don’t
care about the money the fame no they
love your essence that is red you see
physical connections are so common hot
connections are extremely rare slow
motion it’s like if someone truly trusts
you with their life that’s how you know
you found someone special
sometimes people meet me in they’re like
Ralph just hold this I’m like what is it
they’re like my life they hand me that
dog I’m right I’ll hold it for you right
they trust me with
duh that’s cool you see these divers to
really recognize you’ve found someone
special what it boils down to our top of
the water relationship this is the
harmonious relationship and then we have
the coca-cola relationship which is the
toxic relationship so many times when we
are in that early stage of the water
relationship we know we’ve found someone
special if you found someone who really
cares when you’re happy like sometimes
you’re really happy yeah I’m really
happy and the person you’re with doesn’t
even care you haven’t found someone
special you know you found someone
special when you are jumping hands in
the air they’re also doing the same
thing or you’re crying they’re also
crying with you they feel your pain they
share your happiness okay I’ve realized
this that if you have someone in your
life right now who is sending you
recipes seven day vegan challenge quinoa
salad
avocados kale be true
watercress spinach brown rice as well
pistachios and some almonds that’s how
you know you found someone special like
who does that who really wants to see
your health improve he does Ralph
okay she does Ralph well that’s how you
know you found someone special because I
know this for a fact like I’ve been in
relationships with people I’ve been in
relationships with people and they
haven’t been helping me improve my
health
they’ve been encouraging me to eat junk
food okay but someone truly special is
gonna be really helping you especially
when it comes to getting your body in
shape getting your mind right and
feeling better about yourself you see I
know this light to really know I found
someone special because there are people
and then there are special people if you
have changed to become a better person
since you’ve met them celebrate baby
celebrate good times yeah turn on that
song right now because many times we’re
with someone and we can almost trick
ourselves into thinking that oh this
person is so special so special for me
right but you really know if they are if
you’ve changed if you’ve evolved if you
have evolved mentally emotionally and
even physically into super a super human
right that’s how you know you found
someone special even the ones even the
relationships that didn’t work are still
a blessing because they have shown us we
no longer need in our life slow motion
this side you see I know every single
day I never ever meet someone by
accident they are either coming into
your life they’re coming into your life
to teach you a lesson or they can be a
blessing no more lessons please universe
I’ve had too many just give me the
abundance blessings in the forms of
beautiful people and it’s happening for
me cuz alright no I definitely met
someone special like if I can like draw
a graph and see and see actually my life
has been improving I’ve met a kid I’ve
never cut down the road since I’ve been
with them inspiring millions since I’ve
been with her right I get to travel the
whole world since I’ve been with them
that’s a good sign right but if you are
still in the same mess you are in last
year you better run the exits the exits
that way over there be careful of the
bin how to recognize you found someone
special baby baby we just having fun out
here how I know
plain and simple is that you can really
let yourself go without being judged
like if you are around someone who is
not judging you not judging you every
single move not putting you down but
lifting you up that’s how you know you
found someone special because many times
like I counsel a lot of people and even
the ones who seem more loving
their Instagram selfies like the issues
right with Oba issues right but if
you’ve got someone who’s always lifting
you up if you’ve got someone who is
proud to have you proud to be seen with
you in public that’s how you know you’ve
found someone special because the worst
thing is for someone to hide you away in
the closet
that’s not nice is it no it’s not Ralph
exactly
you see I realized this that if you can
be comfortable around someone if you can
share your deepest secrets when you were
five years old what happened to you if
you can tell them that and they can tell
you the same thing you found someone
special you can be vulnerable with that
person you found someone special you see
many times we have to really assess our
comfort level like I know I’ve found
someone special if I’m really
comfortable I couldn’t lie I can relax I
can get into my groove I’m not looking
really shaky baby like I found someone
special many times I’ve seen this like
the coca-cola relationship is always
about ownership and I know I found
someone special if they really are
promoting my freedom if they’re like
Ralph I want you to be free
I want you to be happy I still love you
though you see because many times you
love based on conditions they’re like I
love you only if you are a piece of my
property you see true log is not about
possession osho said Osho said if you
love a flower if you love a flower you
don’t take the flower who leave it there
and let the sunlight catch it let the
water catch it and that’s how it grows
and blossoms slow motion aside mmm
because the moment you pick the flower
the moment you pick the flower its
beauty diminishes it is sustained by
being connected to the earth so I always
say okay if someone allowed me to be
free am i allowing them to be free is
there harmony in this relationship
that’s how you know you found someone
special if you’ve got a curfew
ain’t nothing special about that right
if someone says you can look at that
person but you can’t look at the cat
down the road
run you see I realized that sometimes we
need someone amazing
and then we part ways all of a sudden
okay we part ways and it’s kind of
awkward but you get a really feeling
because you’re like I know what we have
you’re not gonna find it with anyone
else so sorry about that but what we
have is like this it’s incredible
ever met someone deep divers in your
life what we have you won’t find
anywhere else right it’s a hot
connection that’s how you know you’ve
found someone special because even if
you part ways even if you are separated
by borders and countries the connection
the feeling is still at the same
intensity you still miss them and what I
found along my journey to really know if
I found someone special there’s not like
this grappling like attachment I don’t
need to be attached to the person 24/7
because I already know that we exist
within each other
yikes slow motion this side how to know
you found someone special beautiful deep
divers what’s helped me along my gen
plain and simple is that if they can
touch you I didn’t do that by the way if
they didn’t touch you without touching
you that’s how you know you’ve found
someone special okay because the true
water relationship in my mind and what
I’ve experienced is not really about
physical connection it’s more about
heart connection it’s more about mental
connection it’s not just about hey I
have to touch this person all the time
that’s beautiful too because you really
beautiful but if someone can touch you
tell you like a mile away they’ve
touched your heart
you resonate with them that’s how you
know you found someone special so many
times in our society we focus solely on
the physical appearance and I know this
that I know I’ve found someone special
because I guarantee you even if I didn’t
look like this they would still love me
you still love me don’t you yes thank
you I told you right that’s how you know
baby because these looks will change but
the essence always remains the same and
if someone really appreciates you for
your essence not for your booty not for
your muscles then you found someone
special if someone is working on the
same mission as you you found someone
special that’s so rare I’m always
inspiring a lot of people and my other
relationships a lot of people couldn’t
stand it they’re like Ralph why you’ve
always inspiring people make time for me
and that’s important to like but if both
of you can work on the same mission
together you’ve found someone special if
both of you can put in the same effort
you found someone special if both you
can make a commitment to each other you
found someone special and both of you
can really respect each other because I
was chilling in the hills in California
Topanga were where I live as well
sometimes and I’m talking to my neighbor
like what is the one thing people really
want in a relationship what it what what
do women really want what men want
she’s north and she’s like women want
one thing Ralph I’m like what is it
she’s like respect like makes sense men
want the same thing respect you respect
me and I’ll respect you right you
scratch my back and I won’t scratch
yours – Harry just kidding so I realized
this that if someone really respects you
and you respect them you found someone
special the worst thing that happens
and someone completely embarrassed they
embarrass you in public right they
showed you out in public they try and
make a fool of you in public and then
they claim they love you
right okay someone who truly loves you
and cares for you
will always protect you they’ll always
protect you in public they’ll make you
look smarter than you actually are
ting thank me later how to recognize you
found someone special they want the best
for you that’s right they want the best
view they want to see you win but also
I’ve realized that you know you found
someone special when you can be
vulnerable with someone when you can
open up to someone and they can also
open up to you when you can have
meaningful conversations with someone
okay when both of you don’t have the
force a connection you don’t have to ask
each other to phone each other or to
hang out it comes naturally hmm
slow motion they say how to know you
found someone special you see as I see
it in relationships as we change the
types of people we meet also changes and
that’s why like we usually get what we
are when it comes to dating and
relationships but you know you found
someone special is that you know you
found someone special when you can
actually see a clear mirror in them you
like you’re like oh my gosh am I looking
at myself when I’m with you because as
you’ve been working on yourself you are
now meeting someone else who’s working
on themselves who’s making moves
healthier happier getting that financial
game up getting their spiritual game up
and it’s the same thing it’s the same
thing you’re doing right so there you
have a beautiful deep diverse how to
recognize you found someone special
realize this special people are rare
that’s why they’re special people
because there are people then there are
special people who touch your house and
then we just say they also
get to be a live baby can I get a hello
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beautiful deep divers were just whoa
breathing in that good-ass piranha baby
have a beautiful David Davis infinite
waters diving deep once again stay well
stay healthy peace you they’re special they are very very special