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How to Recognize Someone’s Worth Your Love and Attention


if only people loved like they did in
fairytales life would be a whole lot
peace and finit waters diving deep once
again beautiful deep divers we are out
here in the heart of nature baby
absolutely gorgeous day
I’m sending you tons of great energy
deep divers take that take that take
that
now it’s time to talk about whether or
not someone truly deserves you or not
whether or not someone is worthy of your
massages your beautiful care your time
your attention your love how to
recognize deep divers someone’s worthy
of your love and attention deep divers
let’s just wolf breathing in that good
ass piranha baby
this is sexology even that bird up there
knows that water fire hot cold yin-yang
daddy’s home and bad
now deep divers is that you scratching
your head do they truly deserve me or
not are they worthy of my love and
attention Ralph I’m still not sure is
that you are you having second doubts
about being with someone because you’re
not sure if they truly are worthy for
you if they deserve you well after this
video you will know how to recognize
someone’s worthy of your love and
attention and when even had breakfast
yeah can I get a Hello so wonderful deep
dive is let me share with you what’s
helped me along my journey to know to
tell to recognize someone’s worthy of
your love and attention there is
reciprocity in other words give and take
it’s never one-sided it’s never just you
doing all the work they are also putting
in weight if someone is making the same
effort as you in that relationship they
are worthy of your love and attention
however if it’s just you putting in all
the effort buying all the groceries all
the time and the other person is not
pulling their weight we got to put a
you see deep divers so many times I see
people getting used and abused being
used like a doormat and people are
stepping over you all over you not even
taking off their shoes when they’re
doing it how polite right and it’s time
for us to know our true worth especially
when it comes to a relationship I’ve
realized this to recognize someone’s
worthy of your love and your attention
there has to be reciprocity there has to
be equal effort it doesn’t mean that
both of you have to do the same things
equally no but you have to feel like
there is some kind of reciprocity you
have to feel like everything you are
putting in you are getting back out
otherwise you’re wasting your time
otherwise you will end up being like
that doormat and I’ve seen along my
journey reciprocity is how to know what
I call natural reciprocity that’s how to
recognize if someone’s worth your love
and attention reciprocity is just like
the art of listening someone is talking
that could be you but you have someone
that’s gonna listen to you that’s
natural reciprocity
and they do the same they talk and then
you listen okay this is natural
reciprocity but if you are the one who
is always talking and the other person
can’t be bothered to listen
there is no reciprocity right so it’s
always about the effort level are we
both putting in the effort to make this
work
how to recognize someone’s worthy of
your beautiful love and attention oh
baby
is this you every time you are around
that special someone you’re learning
something new it’s like you are going to
university all over again they are
opening your mind they are expanding
your mind that’s what I saw all on my
journey if you are around someone and
you can learn something you come away
wiser every time you’re with them that’s
how to recognize someone’s worthy of
your love and attention however if you
are around someone and all of a sudden
you feel yourself losing your mental
faculties in other words they’re driving
you insane that’s not healthy that’s
what we call the coca-cola relationship
the water relationship is healing the
water relationship is full of
transparency if you are around someone
right now where the loyalty is real the
honesty is real that’s how to recognize
someone’s worthy of your love and
attention if you are around someone and
you realize that both of you the only
thing that’s holding you together is
fear
that’s not healthy how to recognize
someone’s worthy of your love and
attention there are so many people on
planet Earth but few are truly worthy of
our love and attention if you have
someone right now deep divers who is
helping you
come closer to the truth of who you are
by accepting you that’s how to recognize
someone’s worthy of your love and
attention if however you are around
someone and they move you more into your
ego they are not worthy of your love and
attention if they are bringing you more
into your false self they are not worthy
of your love and attention because the
one who is worthy of your love and
attention helps you accept yourself they
help you believe in yourself when the
whole world turns against you they are
in your corner saying come on right bit
louder than that a bit louder than that
more like come on right they are rooting
for you every single step of the way
they are your day one that’s how to
recognize someone’s worthy of your love
and attention if you can close your eyes
and when you think of that person you’re
like that one
that wonderful being would be there for
me when the whole world deserts me when
the whole world abandons me when the
whole world leaves me that’s how to
recognize someone’s worthy of your love
deep divers have you ever met someone
who truly loves you not just the person
the persona the mosque no they love your
essence they love your energy ladies
more than your backside they love your
energy fellas more than your muscles
right they love your primordial essence
that’s how to recognize someone’s worthy
of your love and attention they love you
more than the person hmm what slow
motion this side
say it again Ralph they love you more
than the person the person we have this
artificial social construct right this
artificial social construct I am this
person I have this house in this car
this is all ego if you have someone who
can see you beyond that they can see the
energy right inside of you they look
into your eyes the eyes are the windows
of the soul and they can see your energy
that’s how to recognize someone’s worthy
of your love and attention however if
you are around someone right now who is
only around you because of what you can
do for them they are only around you
because they want to come up
they are only around you so they can
drive in your Ferrari or you got a
Ferrari and you didn’t tell the cat down
the road about that oh we’re gonna talk
about that right they are only around
you because you live in a big house
but otherwise they wouldn’t be around
they aren’t worthy of your love and
attention the ones who are worthy of
your love and attention love you more
than this persona than this mosque right
they love you more than your mosque in
society because they have seen the true
you they know who you are they love it
oh yes they do
how to recognize someone’s worthy of
your love and attention seven day vegan
challenge they help you eat better I
used to go out with young lady many many
years ago
okay just off the university and it was
cool but I realized when I was shifting
to become a vegan it was hard because
she didn’t want to hear none of it and
I’m like this will help you this has
protein this has iron real nerdy with
nutrition kind of thing and she didn’t
want to hear anything she didn’t want to
hear any of it and I’m like by me being
in this relationship she’s not helping
me eat better she’s not helping my
health because I need someone there
who’s gonna also encourage me to eat
better so to recognize someone’s worthy
of your love and attention it’s all
about seeing okay does this person help
me eat better are they sending me
beautiful plant-based recipes that can
help me lower my cholesterol are they
sending me beautiful recipes to get my
body in shape and help me lose weight
are they sending me beautiful recipes to
really make me have that vegan glow you
get that for mangoes by the way full of
vitamin A right if they are that’s how
to recognize someone’s worthy of your
love and attention because they know
that if you live longer
they can hug you longer mmm slow motion
this side mmm
how to recognize someone’s worthy of
your love and attention they help you
love yourself that little bit more and
how can people help us love ourselves
how can other people help us love
ourselves when they accept us for who we
are if you have someone who’s not always
trying to change you
because they’ve come to accept you and
now they are helping you love yourself
they are worthy of your love and
attention this is rare because many
times people always want to change other
people they can never accept them the
way they are and that’s how we know
they’re not worthy for our true love and
attention the ones we have to give our
love to and we have to love everything
by the way but you’re forever someone
right is someone who is gonna help you
love yourself who sees the beauty in you
when you see the floors mmm what slow
motion this side let me repeat that
your favor someone is someone who sees
the beauty in you when you see the flaws
okay that’s how to recognize someone is
worthy of your love and attention deep
divers if you can dive deep with that
wonderful being they are worthy of your
love and attention if you never feel
like you’re wasting your time they are
worthy of your love and attention if you
feel like you’re being heard they are
worthy of your love and attention if you
feel like you are being listened to they
are worthy of your love and attention
if every single interaction you have
with them is meaningful you come away
with a warm feeling well they are worthy
oh they are worthy oh they are worthy of
your love and attention if you never
have to force anything everything
between both of you isn’t a natural flow
they are worthy of your love and
attention if someone is always trying to
mold you shape you like play-doh trying
to force everything they aren’t worthy
of your love and attention because they
are trying to control you which is
coming from their ego if someone is
giving you the space whoa – whoa
breathing that good-ass prana baby they
are worthy of your love and attention if
someone is watering you every single day
giving you that sunlight helping you
nourish your soul your body your mind
they are worthy oh my of your love and
attention if you have a mental
connection with them and a heart
connection with them not just a physical
connection with them they are worthy of
your love and attention so there you
have it deep dive as it looks like well
you just found the fairytale kind of
love
and that’s why we’re saying fill so get
to be a live baby can I get a hello
[Music]
beautiful deep divers there you have it
that’s how to recognize someone’s worthy
of your love and attention let’s just
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on this beautiful day have a beautiful
day deep divers infinite waters diving
deep once again stay well stay healthy
peace you love is all you need
it truly is and the cat down the road as
well
[Laughter] [Music]

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