Pisan senate waters diving deep once
again beautiful deep divers we are out
here in the heart of nature baby how to
recognize if someone’s worth going after
let’s just whoa breathing in that good
ass piranha baby
this is sexology water fire hot cold yin
yang we’re back daddy’s home now I get
thousands of messages every single day I
got one from someone asking Ralph how do
you recognize if someone is worth the
effort when it comes to relationships
like Ralph should I bother pursuing them
and that’s a great question so we are
about to dive into it have you ever met
someone and been like yeah I’m vibing
with them actually they’re not what my
time I mean even at breakfast you can I
get a Hello did you do them like that
really really so let me share with you
what’s helped me along my journey know
if someone is worth going after and this
can apply to friendships dating
relationships right let me go through
about 10 steps or more who knows number
one look at it like this if both of you
are woke as then they are worth going
after now what do I mean by that I mean
if both of you have a similar
consciousness level if both of you are
evolving in consciousness awareness if
both of you
[Music]
on the same page you’re aware of what’s
going on in the world you’re aligning
your chakras right you’re diving deep
together this is so rare like I remind
myself when I was like a teenager in
relationships we won’t even go to the
head we won
locus oh right so therefore the
relationships didn’t really have a lot
of depth to them they were kind of
shallow it is so rare to meet someone
who you vibe with on a spiritual level
mental level and an emotional level if
you find them hold on to them dearly
that is someone worth going after you
see physical connections are so common
but spiritual connections are very rare
and they are heart-based connections
mental connections that’s the person you
want to go after cuz I get it a lot of
people right now are playing they are
playing pretty like hard-to-get like I’m
so in my ego right now why should I even
bother going after this person Ralph you
said everything will come to you at the
right time right yeah but also you’ve
got to move your butt because it’s
caused an effect what we do now echoes
on into eternity you have to get up if
you like someone tell them make it known
don’t just expect everybody to come to
your doorstep it’s not gonna happen like
that
so I’ve realized that if both of you are
wokers oh then that is someone what
going off because it’s so rare you don’t
get to meet people like that every
the pyramid the high you go up the
pyramid the smaller the ratio slow
motion this side meaning as you evolve
in consciousness there are fewer people
there so if you find someone there they
are worth going after because there
aren’t that many people like that in
this world he’s getting there but it
will still take time right how to
recognize if someone is worth going
after what’s the second step that helped
me along my journey unity if both of you
have a great unity together now unity is
not where like someone has to do exactly
what you’re doing and believe what you
believe no no no no unity means
respecting each other’s differences and
still being able to get along like you
might like this you might like this they
might like that right but you still kick
it okay different tastes and everything
you like orange they like red that’s
cool if both of you still love each
other through that that is someone worth
going after
you see many times people jump into
relationships and then all of a sudden
they get freaked out like oh my gosh
that I didn’t know that person was like
that right yes we are all so
multi-dimensional there are so many
different sides to us so if you can
still love someone in spite of all of
their differences then that is someone
worth going after because it’s so it is
so so rare these days right now what is
the third step how to recognize if
someone is worth going after
now what’s helped me along my journey is
plain and simple they help you put your
ego to sleep why is this so important
you see because we are people right I’m
a person
no I’m not a person means persona
emanating from the Latin person persona
is the mask I’m showing every single day
right
so if you can be around someone who
helps you lose your massive ego cuz
we’ve all got one sometimes that’s
someone worth going after if they can
pull you into your heart space if they
can say look just chill chill chill they
are worth going after
because many times we meet people happen
to me along my early journey and they
actually pull you more into your ego cuz
you’re like I’ve got to prove myself to
them if you are around someone and you
can be your authentic self 100% you can
relax you feel comfortable you don’t
have to pretend you’re cool they are
worth going after those kinds of people
are so rare what is the fourth way to
tell if someone is worth going after
okay
they want you for you yes you not the
money no not the fame no not the big
house no not the cat down the road no or
maybe yes okay they want you for you
know how much money you’re making no
they loved you before you were famous
you’re not famous don’t worry about it
they loved you
before you had a big house you don’t
have a big house don’t worry about it
look they loved you before you got the
job you didn’t get the job don’t worry
about it right but they loved you for
you right all the amazing things that
happen to you right now you’re shining
you’re glowing they loved you before
that that is someone worth going after
you see many times people we meet people
who love to shop at the after party
they’re like hey I’m here for the after
party but where were you when I was
just starting when I needed help the
most you didn’t want to know me did you
but there was someone who did want to
know me and that’s the person worth
going after because they they love you
they love you for you not the name not
the status but you those people are red
because they can see beyond everything
right right what’s the fifth way to tell
to recognize if someone is worth
pursuing going after seven day vegan
challenge look if you get really excited
when you go and eat out with that person
that is someone worth going after ever
been on a table and it’s so boring and
it even makes the food seem really bland
okay you’re eating a beautiful avocado
salad and all of a sudden this taste
it’s tasting like something totally
different right however if you are
around someone who like you just love
eating with them it’s like the best time
ever that is someone worth going after
because food and love go together
happened to me along my journey like I
know if I’m on the table with someone
and we’re just talking with eating with
chilling and we can be there for like
hours and we haven’t even eaten the food
yet because we’re just so into each
other that’s someone worth going after
right but also if you are eating and you
can both observe right you can observe
each other silence and the beauty that
arises from it that is someone worth
going after you see sometimes it’s not
what you’re saying to each other it’s
what you feel in that very intimate
slow motion this side so a lot of the
times we are eating with someone and we
just want to run finish our food quick
and then bounce but if you are eating
with someone and you feel very relaxed
you feel harmonious
that’s probably someone worth going
after if they if they share if they
share the same food taste is used
they’re eating plant-based foods like
you got the mangoes by the cilantro but
whatever it is you’re eating if they
like that too that’s someone worth going
after because both of you are gonna have
a lot of fun in the kitchen right right
right right
what is the sick what is the sick what
is the sick way to recognize someone is
worth going after they take you to
places nobody else can and I mean nobody
basically they give you more depth
happened to me along my early journey I
was with a beautiful being and what
happened was they were like touching me
without touching me you see we are
living in a very materialistic world and
that’s cool but you want to realize
someone is worth going after if they
move you up to the highest states of
consciousness not just the physical like
the body is beautiful but we aren’t just
our body we are more than that right so
if they take you to places nobody else
can that is someone worth going after if
they show you the greater you beneath
the surface of who you thought you were
that is someone worth going after those
people are so rare more depth if you can
just sit outside under the stars and
just have these long last conversations
and then wake up and it’s like 6 o’clock
and you’re like oh my gosh I can’t
believe we were just talking for so long
because we just we we both got lost in
the moment and now it’s like so
beautiful right now right right right
what is the seventh way to recognize if
someone is worth going after they make
you a better person like just spending
like a minute with them every single day
brightens up your day it puts a smile on
your face like you see your emotions
the energy in motion that is your inner
guidance system
your emotions are indicators – is this a
good sign or a bad sign to your
intuition right so start to observe how
you feel around this person and if you
have become a better person
okay that’s someone worth going after
worth taking it to the next step you see
many times we’re only around people
ladies fellows who want us for our body
they want a good action on a Friday
night but after that they won’t call you
they won’t be there for you you don’t
want that you want someone who’s gonna
be there for you when you’re like in a
bank queue or something right in a
really boring place you want someone
who’s gonna be there for you not only in
your eyes but also in your lows they
make you a better person and because of
that you are starting you’re starting to
realize that they would do the same for
you as you would do for them slow motion
this side right there is a lot of
reciprocity and because of that you feel
better you’re a better person now in so
many different areas because they give
to you you give to them it’s not just a
taking situation
it’s a giving and taking it’s a giving
and receiving situation loft exchange
baby right what is the eighth way to
recognize if someone is worth going off
the pursuing taking it to the next loved
step with them emotional range now what
do I be – what do I mean by emotional
range like can you be yourself with them
100% do they accept you 100% if they do
they are worth going after if they don’t
if they always want to mold you to be
what they want you to be ain’t worth it
let him go let him go
right so what’s helped me along my
journey plain and simple is emotional
range if I can cry in front of someone
love and then get really serious in the
space of thirty Seconds and they’re
still cool with that that is someone
worth going after if you can be silly
at the same time serious at the same
time humorous with them and they still
accept you that is someone worth going
after okay
what is the ninth way to recognize if
someone’s worth going after should you
chase them you don’t like chasing do you
you want everybody to come up to you
well they’re not doing that anymore so
you’ve got to make that little bit of
extra effort take this into
consideration to know if someone’s worth
going after you can share the most
intimate secrets with someone right now
can you do that think of someone right
now that you can do that with go after
them right now put your running boots on
your running shoes on run barefoot okay
go for it
look you see I’ve realized this when you
share secrets oh it slipped out by
mistake what oh one of your secrets
slipped out by mistake and it was still
cool that’s an even greater reason why
you got to go after them right so when
you share a secret with someone you are
allowing yourself to be vulnerable
vulnerability is where the greatest
relationships are formed when you don’t
always have this protective layer you
can share the good the bad the ugly but
also it shows that you trust this person
[Music]
slow motion inside if you can share your
shadow side your light side it shows
that you trust this person you feel
comfortable with them and that’s so rare
these days but also if they are proud to
have you
that is someone worth going after it’s
not a relationship if someone is keeping
you a secret
ladies fellas that’s not a relationship
if someone is gonna lift you up and say
I love you that’s someone worth going
after because they don’t want to keep
you a secret they are so proud of you
they want to be seen in public with you
they see you highly okay what is the
10th amazing way to recognize if
someone’s worth going off them because
they don’t keep you a secret if spoken
off you to their mom oh yes
their mom knows about you not just their
mom the whole family fellas when a woman
tells her mom about you go after her she
wants you look it shows
someone’s proud ladies when a fella
tells his mom his family about you go
off to him it shows that he wants you
you see when people really are into you
they won the whole world to know they
tell their mom the cat down the road
there grandpa their grandma they tell
everyone
and that’s someone worth going after
because it shows they are ready to be
committed to you in heart body and mind
when you realize that you oh my gosh
when you realize that you will not only
go after them oh my gosh you will run
after them and then both of you will say
together feels so good to be alive baby
can I get a hello deep divers of planet
Earth we are out here in the heart of
nature baby just whoa breathing in that
good ass piranha baby getting high what
I’ve realized is that you can’t always
expect people to come up to you
sometimes you have to go off to someone
you have to listen to your intuition
because who knows they could be your
lifelong partner so don’t just wait take
action today have a beautiful day deep
divers it is a glorious day out here
infinite waters diving deep once again
stay well stay healthy
[Music]
you Gus you’re riding off to them right
now that’s what we like to see [Music]
again beautiful deep divers we are out
here in the heart of nature baby how to
recognize if someone’s worth going after
let’s just whoa breathing in that good
ass piranha baby
this is sexology water fire hot cold yin
yang we’re back daddy’s home now I get
thousands of messages every single day I
got one from someone asking Ralph how do
you recognize if someone is worth the
effort when it comes to relationships
like Ralph should I bother pursuing them
and that’s a great question so we are
about to dive into it have you ever met
someone and been like yeah I’m vibing
with them actually they’re not what my
time I mean even at breakfast you can I
get a Hello did you do them like that
really really so let me share with you
what’s helped me along my journey know
if someone is worth going after and this
can apply to friendships dating
relationships right let me go through
about 10 steps or more who knows number
one look at it like this if both of you
are woke as then they are worth going
after now what do I mean by that I mean
if both of you have a similar
consciousness level if both of you are
evolving in consciousness awareness if
both of you
[Music]
on the same page you’re aware of what’s
going on in the world you’re aligning
your chakras right you’re diving deep
together this is so rare like I remind
myself when I was like a teenager in
relationships we won’t even go to the
head we won
locus oh right so therefore the
relationships didn’t really have a lot
of depth to them they were kind of
shallow it is so rare to meet someone
who you vibe with on a spiritual level
mental level and an emotional level if
you find them hold on to them dearly
that is someone worth going after you
see physical connections are so common
but spiritual connections are very rare
and they are heart-based connections
mental connections that’s the person you
want to go after cuz I get it a lot of
people right now are playing they are
playing pretty like hard-to-get like I’m
so in my ego right now why should I even
bother going after this person Ralph you
said everything will come to you at the
right time right yeah but also you’ve
got to move your butt because it’s
caused an effect what we do now echoes
on into eternity you have to get up if
you like someone tell them make it known
don’t just expect everybody to come to
your doorstep it’s not gonna happen like
that
so I’ve realized that if both of you are
wokers oh then that is someone what
going off because it’s so rare you don’t
get to meet people like that every
the pyramid the high you go up the
pyramid the smaller the ratio slow
motion this side meaning as you evolve
in consciousness there are fewer people
there so if you find someone there they
are worth going after because there
aren’t that many people like that in
this world he’s getting there but it
will still take time right how to
recognize if someone is worth going
after what’s the second step that helped
me along my journey unity if both of you
have a great unity together now unity is
not where like someone has to do exactly
what you’re doing and believe what you
believe no no no no unity means
respecting each other’s differences and
still being able to get along like you
might like this you might like this they
might like that right but you still kick
it okay different tastes and everything
you like orange they like red that’s
cool if both of you still love each
other through that that is someone worth
going after
you see many times people jump into
relationships and then all of a sudden
they get freaked out like oh my gosh
that I didn’t know that person was like
that right yes we are all so
multi-dimensional there are so many
different sides to us so if you can
still love someone in spite of all of
their differences then that is someone
worth going after because it’s so it is
so so rare these days right now what is
the third step how to recognize if
someone is worth going after
now what’s helped me along my journey is
plain and simple they help you put your
ego to sleep why is this so important
you see because we are people right I’m
a person
no I’m not a person means persona
emanating from the Latin person persona
is the mask I’m showing every single day
right
so if you can be around someone who
helps you lose your massive ego cuz
we’ve all got one sometimes that’s
someone worth going after if they can
pull you into your heart space if they
can say look just chill chill chill they
are worth going after
because many times we meet people happen
to me along my early journey and they
actually pull you more into your ego cuz
you’re like I’ve got to prove myself to
them if you are around someone and you
can be your authentic self 100% you can
relax you feel comfortable you don’t
have to pretend you’re cool they are
worth going after those kinds of people
are so rare what is the fourth way to
tell if someone is worth going after
okay
they want you for you yes you not the
money no not the fame no not the big
house no not the cat down the road no or
maybe yes okay they want you for you
know how much money you’re making no
they loved you before you were famous
you’re not famous don’t worry about it
they loved you
before you had a big house you don’t
have a big house don’t worry about it
look they loved you before you got the
job you didn’t get the job don’t worry
about it right but they loved you for
you right all the amazing things that
happen to you right now you’re shining
you’re glowing they loved you before
that that is someone worth going after
you see many times people we meet people
who love to shop at the after party
they’re like hey I’m here for the after
party but where were you when I was
just starting when I needed help the
most you didn’t want to know me did you
but there was someone who did want to
know me and that’s the person worth
going after because they they love you
they love you for you not the name not
the status but you those people are red
because they can see beyond everything
right right what’s the fifth way to tell
to recognize if someone is worth
pursuing going after seven day vegan
challenge look if you get really excited
when you go and eat out with that person
that is someone worth going after ever
been on a table and it’s so boring and
it even makes the food seem really bland
okay you’re eating a beautiful avocado
salad and all of a sudden this taste
it’s tasting like something totally
different right however if you are
around someone who like you just love
eating with them it’s like the best time
ever that is someone worth going after
because food and love go together
happened to me along my journey like I
know if I’m on the table with someone
and we’re just talking with eating with
chilling and we can be there for like
hours and we haven’t even eaten the food
yet because we’re just so into each
other that’s someone worth going after
right but also if you are eating and you
can both observe right you can observe
each other silence and the beauty that
arises from it that is someone worth
going after you see sometimes it’s not
what you’re saying to each other it’s
what you feel in that very intimate
slow motion this side so a lot of the
times we are eating with someone and we
just want to run finish our food quick
and then bounce but if you are eating
with someone and you feel very relaxed
you feel harmonious
that’s probably someone worth going
after if they if they share if they
share the same food taste is used
they’re eating plant-based foods like
you got the mangoes by the cilantro but
whatever it is you’re eating if they
like that too that’s someone worth going
after because both of you are gonna have
a lot of fun in the kitchen right right
right right
what is the sick what is the sick what
is the sick way to recognize someone is
worth going after they take you to
places nobody else can and I mean nobody
basically they give you more depth
happened to me along my early journey I
was with a beautiful being and what
happened was they were like touching me
without touching me you see we are
living in a very materialistic world and
that’s cool but you want to realize
someone is worth going after if they
move you up to the highest states of
consciousness not just the physical like
the body is beautiful but we aren’t just
our body we are more than that right so
if they take you to places nobody else
can that is someone worth going after if
they show you the greater you beneath
the surface of who you thought you were
that is someone worth going after those
people are so rare more depth if you can
just sit outside under the stars and
just have these long last conversations
and then wake up and it’s like 6 o’clock
and you’re like oh my gosh I can’t
believe we were just talking for so long
because we just we we both got lost in
the moment and now it’s like so
beautiful right now right right right
what is the seventh way to recognize if
someone is worth going after they make
you a better person like just spending
like a minute with them every single day
brightens up your day it puts a smile on
your face like you see your emotions
the energy in motion that is your inner
guidance system
your emotions are indicators – is this a
good sign or a bad sign to your
intuition right so start to observe how
you feel around this person and if you
have become a better person
okay that’s someone worth going after
worth taking it to the next step you see
many times we’re only around people
ladies fellows who want us for our body
they want a good action on a Friday
night but after that they won’t call you
they won’t be there for you you don’t
want that you want someone who’s gonna
be there for you when you’re like in a
bank queue or something right in a
really boring place you want someone
who’s gonna be there for you not only in
your eyes but also in your lows they
make you a better person and because of
that you are starting you’re starting to
realize that they would do the same for
you as you would do for them slow motion
this side right there is a lot of
reciprocity and because of that you feel
better you’re a better person now in so
many different areas because they give
to you you give to them it’s not just a
taking situation
it’s a giving and taking it’s a giving
and receiving situation loft exchange
baby right what is the eighth way to
recognize if someone is worth going off
the pursuing taking it to the next loved
step with them emotional range now what
do I be – what do I mean by emotional
range like can you be yourself with them
100% do they accept you 100% if they do
they are worth going after if they don’t
if they always want to mold you to be
what they want you to be ain’t worth it
let him go let him go
right so what’s helped me along my
journey plain and simple is emotional
range if I can cry in front of someone
love and then get really serious in the
space of thirty Seconds and they’re
still cool with that that is someone
worth going after if you can be silly
at the same time serious at the same
time humorous with them and they still
accept you that is someone worth going
after okay
what is the ninth way to recognize if
someone’s worth going after should you
chase them you don’t like chasing do you
you want everybody to come up to you
well they’re not doing that anymore so
you’ve got to make that little bit of
extra effort take this into
consideration to know if someone’s worth
going after you can share the most
intimate secrets with someone right now
can you do that think of someone right
now that you can do that with go after
them right now put your running boots on
your running shoes on run barefoot okay
go for it
look you see I’ve realized this when you
share secrets oh it slipped out by
mistake what oh one of your secrets
slipped out by mistake and it was still
cool that’s an even greater reason why
you got to go after them right so when
you share a secret with someone you are
allowing yourself to be vulnerable
vulnerability is where the greatest
relationships are formed when you don’t
always have this protective layer you
can share the good the bad the ugly but
also it shows that you trust this person
[Music]
slow motion inside if you can share your
shadow side your light side it shows
that you trust this person you feel
comfortable with them and that’s so rare
these days but also if they are proud to
have you
that is someone worth going after it’s
not a relationship if someone is keeping
you a secret
ladies fellas that’s not a relationship
if someone is gonna lift you up and say
I love you that’s someone worth going
after because they don’t want to keep
you a secret they are so proud of you
they want to be seen in public with you
they see you highly okay what is the
10th amazing way to recognize if
someone’s worth going off them because
they don’t keep you a secret if spoken
off you to their mom oh yes
their mom knows about you not just their
mom the whole family fellas when a woman
tells her mom about you go after her she
wants you look it shows
someone’s proud ladies when a fella
tells his mom his family about you go
off to him it shows that he wants you
you see when people really are into you
they won the whole world to know they
tell their mom the cat down the road
there grandpa their grandma they tell
everyone
and that’s someone worth going after
because it shows they are ready to be
committed to you in heart body and mind
when you realize that you oh my gosh
when you realize that you will not only
go after them oh my gosh you will run
after them and then both of you will say
together feels so good to be alive baby
can I get a hello deep divers of planet
Earth we are out here in the heart of
nature baby just whoa breathing in that
good ass piranha baby getting high what
I’ve realized is that you can’t always
expect people to come up to you
sometimes you have to go off to someone
you have to listen to your intuition
because who knows they could be your
lifelong partner so don’t just wait take
action today have a beautiful day deep
divers it is a glorious day out here
infinite waters diving deep once again
stay well stay healthy
[Music]
you Gus you’re riding off to them right
now that’s what we like to see [Music]
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