peace and Penny waters diving D once
again we are here we got a great
question that came in someone wrote in
saying how to raise conscious choking
how do we do it in this day and age
where so many things are happening and I
always got a lot of these kinds of
questions from people asking how do we
give the best start to our children you
may not have children because I know we
have a very young audience and also very
old audience but let’s dive into it five
truths every parent should know about
their child can I get a hello there if
you’ve got a question Instagram
infinite waters yeah or else my uncle so
in many ancient cultures in South
America many African cultures when a
child was born people actually cried can
you imagine that oh my gosh hey we
should be celebrating why were they
crying because the child was leaving one
realm the realm of truth unity and now
they were entering the world of duality
and life isn’t easy a lot of us we
realized that we were children once yeah
but we had a lot of problems a lot of
issues still till today many of us we
have unresolved childhood issues I used
to work in a school with autistic
children children with OCD first-hand
experience of what so many of these
children are going through right now now
before I get into it I’m spoken about
Indigo’s crystals the rainbow children
who are now on the planet many children
are far more advanced than you can ever
met
so the first truth is to realize that
your children they may come through you
but they are not yours
the great poet Khalil Gibran in the
Prophet accept them your children come
through you but are not yours they are
with you yet they don’t belong to you so
many of us we say my child my son my
daughter the greatest way if you can
change your perspective just for one
second if you want to give your children
the best start in life see yourself as a
guardian rather than an owner let me say
that again see yourself as a guardian
rather than an owner because when you
say I own my child they came through me
hahahaha what happens we enter the mode
of control but you see these days the
children they’re getting that superfast
download you think they’re so perfect
but goodness knows what they’re doing in
school some of them are drinking smoking
I hope not I hope not – don’t worry
about it but it’s a whole new world out
there people are growing up so fast
these days why because more information
is hitting the planet faster than ever
before when you at
as a support network to your children
now they can blossom when you give them
the tools for them to come into their
own authenticity without you trying to
change who they are
now they blossom many times you ask
yourself who is raising my children is
it me is it the TV is it the person next
door who how many of us when we were
small
can you remember those days oh yeah who
yes the babysit us was it our parents or
was it the television many of us we were
there eating popcorn and fried rice
glued to the screens so we have to
realize in a stand over stand and
understand that there are many entities
who are raising your children that you
are not even aware of because it’s all
it’s a whole battle for the hearts and
minds of children because the children
are the future so whenever you place
your child in front of a cartoon is
wonderful but you have to ask yourself
what is the imagery being shown bruce
lipton you came on the show the great
biologist talks about how in the first
seven years of a child’s life they are
the most susceptible to programming
they’re like a tape recorder absorbing
all the frequencies from their
environment that is in essence shaping
who they are so many times you have
these subliminal messages put into the
cartoons because the people that make
these cartoons they know that a picture
is worth a thousand words so as a parent
what you want to do is give your child
the most uplifting imagery what am I
talking about here positive frames just
like in a film if you go back to your
childhood
you probably remember going on a great
trip right so your parents embedded a
positive program into your subconscious
into your subconscious in the form of
positive imagery but what about if they
gave you a good ass-whooping once again
now you have a negative imagery embedded
into your subconscious but it happened
all those years ago
it doesn’t matter because once again the
first seven years of a child’s life
actually program the subconscious so to
give your child clean subconscious mind
so they don’t have to keep reprogramming
it like us create positive imagery but
more so realize your children don’t
belong to you you have to support them
not change them in becoming their
greatest version I talk to parents all
the time every single day what did they
tell me they say I want my child to do
that I want my child to do that I say
have you asked them no doesn’t matter
that’s how we were always right so I
always say when you ask a child what do
you want to be when you grow up the
moment you say that is the moment you
are now taking your child out of the
okay they say I want to be this so now
it creates even more pressure on them
and guess what
they haven’t even taken any exams here
that is why there are so many neurotic
children on the planet right now to
raise conscious which means aware
children we have to move on to the
second truth which is it is actually the
children who teach us you see a lot of
they knew that the children being born
who come out of you are there to teach
you some lessons they are in essence an
extension of your higher mind because we
often feel we have to teach our children
well you see let’s talk about the word
education emanating from the Latin it’s
ukari which means to bring out so in
educating your child to give them the
life you never had to give them the best
start you have to start educating them
it’s not about force-feeding books down
their throat
no it’s about bringing out their talent
bringing out their passion and making
sure you are learning and listening to
what they have to teach you to that core
needs see many times parents we don’t
listen to what our children one when I
was working in a school with children I
was listening
because when you have a whole list of
demands for your child you have to
realize they are only going to be a
child so long until they grow up
sometimes you’ve got so many adults now
still holding a grudge against their
parents over something which happened
over 20 years ago what’s going on
because children remember everything so
listen to their core needs and then do
the best you can to support their core
needs it’s all about spoiling children
you’ve got to be fun you’ve got to make
sure they don’t get distracted out here
as a guardian but at the same time you
must always listen to the new
information they have to share with you
because they are far more advanced than
you can ever imagine the third truth you
must know about is to create a positive
environment children are like sponges
they have no filter you see many of us
the reason why we have to start
reprogramming our subconscious mind is
because yeah we’ve been pretty much
screwed over there is so much junk in
our minds because we now have a filter
many children they don’t have a filter
so they’re always asking questions right
mom what is that dad what is that right
they’re full of questions they are
asking because they have no filter that
is what we would all be doing if we
didn’t have our filter in place so we
have to create a positive loving warm
environment for the child to grow
if we listen to their questions okay
sometimes it can become a bit
overwhelming they ask a question and we
don’t really have the answer they ask a
question now go into it say why are they
asking this question always ask why what
is the deeper meaning because you are
seeing your child in a whole new way
yeah now you now have more appreciation
towards them not just shut up you know
how many parents I saw just dumped their
children off to school but once again
they’re being programmed into the matrix
you’re trying to get out of in essence
we’ll only we’ll only sending them to
the slaughterhouse but if you want to
give your children the best once again
you have to start working on yourself
asking yourself am i creating a positive
environment within myself am i loving
myself 100% am i in a positive
relationship because if a child sees you
arguing all the time what’s going to
happen they’re going to now use that as
a justification to argue with their
peers in school they are now going to
use that as a justification to not love
themselves 100% they come into school
they say mommy and daddy is arguing now
a positive a positive environment
doesn’t always mean that mommy and daddy
have to be there because once again even
along my own journey my dad left when I
was four but thank goodness I had a
mentor and growing up you got to find
these mentors a spiritual mentor my
mentor
Imran Mikkel Ivanoff the man who helped
me become my greatest version so even if
you don’t have loving parents if you’re
a parent and the other parent isn’t
there find a mentor for your child to
give them the best star realize that
whatever they do they can never fail you
see what do we do as parents I saw it
all the time in school parents would be
shouting at their children because they
didn’t get certain grades so long as we
are comparing our children with other
children
we now embed within them the program of
insecurity the program of doubt and the
program of lack so they are they
actually grow up becoming very resentful
it’s not only their peers but also
towards you
the greatest way to doubt yourself is to
compare yourself to others let me say
that again the greatest way to doubt
yourself is to compare yourself to
others so just remind yourself the next
time when you say well someone so got
this grade in their exam wasn’t that the
most annoying thing our parents used to
tell us right because now we felt
unworthy we felt useless to give your
children most the most confidence in
life okay let me just talk about carl
rogers for a second one of the greatest
psychologists to have walked the planet
he talks of seeing all if seeing all of
his clients with unconditional positive
regard that’s a secret right there
that’s the secret see a child with
unconditional positive regard see a
child be compassionate towards your
child and realize that they are unique
they’re not like the child next door no
they’re not like the child over there no
they are unique so embrace their
uniqueness the fourth truth is to create
time create more into
see with your children many times we
don’t even have time for ourselves
that’s what a lot of people are dealing
with time is money so you may be having
a lot of you may have no time right now
okay that means who is going to be
raising your children the teachers in
school me other people the TV so guess
what they become more distant your
relationship becomes more distant
because now you’ve got a gap so to close
the gap I grew up my mom we have to eat
on the table every day got a love family
right but it’s wonderful when you can do
that when you can make time for your
children when you can create a positive
space when you can be a role model you
see you have to lead by example that’s
the greatest way to raise children
giving them an alternative not just the
junk food in the canteen of school mind
you some schools are they are improving
but giving them that natural organic
food the watercress the blueberries the
coconuts they’re going to be flying
they’re going to be so in tune with
themselves that you’re just going to see
them grow naturally blossom but once
again you have to ask yourself do you
have time for yourself are you in the
process of becoming your greatest
version when you don’t have time for
yourself
you better find time and the fifth truth
is to give them the life you wish you
had so I always used to say to my mom
okay sometimes I don’t like you when you
do this to me when I was growing up of
course now I just closed my mouth and
what does she say well do that for your
children and I was used to love that
because that’s what I would do
every generation is being updated if you
had a terrible childhood for goodness
sake don’t just create so many children
and put them through the same
experiences you went through take time
to reflect take time to open
your mind take time to find your own
post you wrote to me you said how you
felt your child was stealing away your
life because you see a child is not just
like you’re going to the car showroom
and buying a car buying a child no you
are now comically tied to your child
what does that mean it now means you’re
not responsible for their actions but as
a guardian you are responsible for the
backlash the twenty years down the road
when they come to you and say you
screwed me over so you better give them
the best start just for your own peace
of mind and this but when you give them
the life you never had what are you
doing
just like I spoken about in overcoming
childhood traumatic experiences you’re
now going back in time to heal your own
harmonious relationships create amazing
children all children are amazing if
they are given the right environment if
they are given a mirror to see their
so there you have it to raise conscious
you have to ask yourself the one
important question am i conscious and am
i allowing my child to reveal themselves
to me have a wonderful day we are out
here infinite waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy
again we are here we got a great
question that came in someone wrote in
saying how to raise conscious choking
how do we do it in this day and age
where so many things are happening and I
always got a lot of these kinds of
questions from people asking how do we
give the best start to our children you
may not have children because I know we
have a very young audience and also very
old audience but let’s dive into it five
truths every parent should know about
their child can I get a hello there if
you’ve got a question Instagram
infinite waters yeah or else my uncle so
in many ancient cultures in South
America many African cultures when a
child was born people actually cried can
you imagine that oh my gosh hey we
should be celebrating why were they
crying because the child was leaving one
realm the realm of truth unity and now
they were entering the world of duality
and life isn’t easy a lot of us we
realized that we were children once yeah
but we had a lot of problems a lot of
issues still till today many of us we
have unresolved childhood issues I used
to work in a school with autistic
children children with OCD first-hand
experience of what so many of these
children are going through right now now
before I get into it I’m spoken about
Indigo’s crystals the rainbow children
who are now on the planet many children
are far more advanced than you can ever
met
so the first truth is to realize that
your children they may come through you
but they are not yours
the great poet Khalil Gibran in the
Prophet accept them your children come
through you but are not yours they are
with you yet they don’t belong to you so
many of us we say my child my son my
daughter the greatest way if you can
change your perspective just for one
second if you want to give your children
the best start in life see yourself as a
guardian rather than an owner let me say
that again see yourself as a guardian
rather than an owner because when you
say I own my child they came through me
hahahaha what happens we enter the mode
of control but you see these days the
children they’re getting that superfast
download you think they’re so perfect
but goodness knows what they’re doing in
school some of them are drinking smoking
I hope not I hope not – don’t worry
about it but it’s a whole new world out
there people are growing up so fast
these days why because more information
is hitting the planet faster than ever
before when you at
as a support network to your children
now they can blossom when you give them
the tools for them to come into their
own authenticity without you trying to
change who they are
now they blossom many times you ask
yourself who is raising my children is
it me is it the TV is it the person next
door who how many of us when we were
small
can you remember those days oh yeah who
yes the babysit us was it our parents or
was it the television many of us we were
there eating popcorn and fried rice
glued to the screens so we have to
realize in a stand over stand and
understand that there are many entities
who are raising your children that you
are not even aware of because it’s all
it’s a whole battle for the hearts and
minds of children because the children
are the future so whenever you place
your child in front of a cartoon is
wonderful but you have to ask yourself
what is the imagery being shown bruce
lipton you came on the show the great
biologist talks about how in the first
seven years of a child’s life they are
the most susceptible to programming
they’re like a tape recorder absorbing
all the frequencies from their
environment that is in essence shaping
who they are so many times you have
these subliminal messages put into the
cartoons because the people that make
these cartoons they know that a picture
is worth a thousand words so as a parent
what you want to do is give your child
the most uplifting imagery what am I
talking about here positive frames just
like in a film if you go back to your
childhood
you probably remember going on a great
trip right so your parents embedded a
positive program into your subconscious
into your subconscious in the form of
positive imagery but what about if they
gave you a good ass-whooping once again
now you have a negative imagery embedded
into your subconscious but it happened
all those years ago
it doesn’t matter because once again the
first seven years of a child’s life
actually program the subconscious so to
give your child clean subconscious mind
so they don’t have to keep reprogramming
it like us create positive imagery but
more so realize your children don’t
belong to you you have to support them
not change them in becoming their
greatest version I talk to parents all
the time every single day what did they
tell me they say I want my child to do
that I want my child to do that I say
have you asked them no doesn’t matter
that’s how we were always right so I
always say when you ask a child what do
you want to be when you grow up the
moment you say that is the moment you
are now taking your child out of the
okay they say I want to be this so now
it creates even more pressure on them
and guess what
they haven’t even taken any exams here
that is why there are so many neurotic
children on the planet right now to
raise conscious which means aware
children we have to move on to the
second truth which is it is actually the
children who teach us you see a lot of
they knew that the children being born
who come out of you are there to teach
you some lessons they are in essence an
extension of your higher mind because we
often feel we have to teach our children
well you see let’s talk about the word
education emanating from the Latin it’s
ukari which means to bring out so in
educating your child to give them the
life you never had to give them the best
start you have to start educating them
it’s not about force-feeding books down
their throat
no it’s about bringing out their talent
bringing out their passion and making
sure you are learning and listening to
what they have to teach you to that core
needs see many times parents we don’t
listen to what our children one when I
was working in a school with children I
was listening
because when you have a whole list of
demands for your child you have to
realize they are only going to be a
child so long until they grow up
sometimes you’ve got so many adults now
still holding a grudge against their
parents over something which happened
over 20 years ago what’s going on
because children remember everything so
listen to their core needs and then do
the best you can to support their core
needs it’s all about spoiling children
you’ve got to be fun you’ve got to make
sure they don’t get distracted out here
as a guardian but at the same time you
must always listen to the new
information they have to share with you
because they are far more advanced than
you can ever imagine the third truth you
must know about is to create a positive
environment children are like sponges
they have no filter you see many of us
the reason why we have to start
reprogramming our subconscious mind is
because yeah we’ve been pretty much
screwed over there is so much junk in
our minds because we now have a filter
many children they don’t have a filter
so they’re always asking questions right
mom what is that dad what is that right
they’re full of questions they are
asking because they have no filter that
is what we would all be doing if we
didn’t have our filter in place so we
have to create a positive loving warm
environment for the child to grow
if we listen to their questions okay
sometimes it can become a bit
overwhelming they ask a question and we
don’t really have the answer they ask a
question now go into it say why are they
asking this question always ask why what
is the deeper meaning because you are
seeing your child in a whole new way
yeah now you now have more appreciation
towards them not just shut up you know
how many parents I saw just dumped their
children off to school but once again
they’re being programmed into the matrix
you’re trying to get out of in essence
we’ll only we’ll only sending them to
the slaughterhouse but if you want to
give your children the best once again
you have to start working on yourself
asking yourself am i creating a positive
environment within myself am i loving
myself 100% am i in a positive
relationship because if a child sees you
arguing all the time what’s going to
happen they’re going to now use that as
a justification to argue with their
peers in school they are now going to
use that as a justification to not love
themselves 100% they come into school
they say mommy and daddy is arguing now
a positive a positive environment
doesn’t always mean that mommy and daddy
have to be there because once again even
along my own journey my dad left when I
was four but thank goodness I had a
mentor and growing up you got to find
these mentors a spiritual mentor my
mentor
Imran Mikkel Ivanoff the man who helped
me become my greatest version so even if
you don’t have loving parents if you’re
a parent and the other parent isn’t
there find a mentor for your child to
give them the best star realize that
whatever they do they can never fail you
see what do we do as parents I saw it
all the time in school parents would be
shouting at their children because they
didn’t get certain grades so long as we
are comparing our children with other
children
we now embed within them the program of
insecurity the program of doubt and the
program of lack so they are they
actually grow up becoming very resentful
it’s not only their peers but also
towards you
the greatest way to doubt yourself is to
compare yourself to others let me say
that again the greatest way to doubt
yourself is to compare yourself to
others so just remind yourself the next
time when you say well someone so got
this grade in their exam wasn’t that the
most annoying thing our parents used to
tell us right because now we felt
unworthy we felt useless to give your
children most the most confidence in
life okay let me just talk about carl
rogers for a second one of the greatest
psychologists to have walked the planet
he talks of seeing all if seeing all of
his clients with unconditional positive
regard that’s a secret right there
that’s the secret see a child with
unconditional positive regard see a
child be compassionate towards your
child and realize that they are unique
they’re not like the child next door no
they’re not like the child over there no
they are unique so embrace their
uniqueness the fourth truth is to create
time create more into
see with your children many times we
don’t even have time for ourselves
that’s what a lot of people are dealing
with time is money so you may be having
a lot of you may have no time right now
okay that means who is going to be
raising your children the teachers in
school me other people the TV so guess
what they become more distant your
relationship becomes more distant
because now you’ve got a gap so to close
the gap I grew up my mom we have to eat
on the table every day got a love family
right but it’s wonderful when you can do
that when you can make time for your
children when you can create a positive
space when you can be a role model you
see you have to lead by example that’s
the greatest way to raise children
giving them an alternative not just the
junk food in the canteen of school mind
you some schools are they are improving
but giving them that natural organic
food the watercress the blueberries the
coconuts they’re going to be flying
they’re going to be so in tune with
themselves that you’re just going to see
them grow naturally blossom but once
again you have to ask yourself do you
have time for yourself are you in the
process of becoming your greatest
version when you don’t have time for
yourself
you better find time and the fifth truth
is to give them the life you wish you
had so I always used to say to my mom
okay sometimes I don’t like you when you
do this to me when I was growing up of
course now I just closed my mouth and
what does she say well do that for your
children and I was used to love that
because that’s what I would do
every generation is being updated if you
had a terrible childhood for goodness
sake don’t just create so many children
and put them through the same
experiences you went through take time
to reflect take time to open
your mind take time to find your own
post you wrote to me you said how you
felt your child was stealing away your
life because you see a child is not just
like you’re going to the car showroom
and buying a car buying a child no you
are now comically tied to your child
what does that mean it now means you’re
not responsible for their actions but as
a guardian you are responsible for the
backlash the twenty years down the road
when they come to you and say you
screwed me over so you better give them
the best start just for your own peace
of mind and this but when you give them
the life you never had what are you
doing
just like I spoken about in overcoming
childhood traumatic experiences you’re
now going back in time to heal your own
harmonious relationships create amazing
children all children are amazing if
they are given the right environment if
they are given a mirror to see their
so there you have it to raise conscious
you have to ask yourself the one
important question am i conscious and am
i allowing my child to reveal themselves
to me have a wonderful day we are out
here infinite waters diving deep once again stay well stay healthy
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