peace and Finnick waters diving deep
once again beautiful deep divers we are
out here in the heart of nature baby
beautiful day
those birds say hi but have you got a
bit of a problem with people telling you
their problems all the time like you’re
just minding your business and then
people offload onto you they’re like
well this happened to me and that
happened to me and you don’t know how to
deal with it right now deep divers it’s
all getting a bit too much stop right
back okay does that happen to you deep
divers the people tell you their
problems and now it’s actually affecting
your energy because you don’t know how
to deal with it you’re not a Pisces well
how to protect yourself your energy from
other people’s problems deep divers less
just whoa breathing in that good ass
piranha baby do people tell you their
problems and you don’t know how to deal
with it because it’s overwhelming they
tell you really serious stuff and you’re
like I just want to enjoy my day thank
you very much like you’re feeling really
overwhelmed right now is that you deep
divers do you want to learn how to
protect yourself your precious energy
from other people’s problems well after
this video I’m gonna be there with you
listening to everybody’s problems and
you’re not gonna feel drained afterwards
you can actually feel quite alright
really all right
and we and even had breakfast yet can I
get a hello because I’m gonna share with
you what’s helped me along my journey
protect myself from other people’s
problems if you haven’t noticed already
Ralph’s smart helps other people become
their greatest version yes this is what
I do even from a young child my mom was
like Ralph just wants to help people I’m
a Pisces the water sign therefore I’m
very empathetic I can put myself into
your shoes so deep divers you could
imagine like growing up it’s almost as
if does this happen to you too deep
divers people knew I was an intuitive
empath they would just tell me stuff
their problems like adults would just
tell me as a child all of their problems
I’m like okay but when I was really
young sometimes it was hard for me to
protect my energy from other people’s
problems now this may be happening to
you right now do you have a friend who’s
just telling you about all of their woes
in life all of their problems and you
really want to help them is just that
you’re feeling a little bit overwhelmed
right now because you can’t handle all
of their problems right now well deep
divers to protect yourself from other
people’s problems you gotta take a
good-ass dose of that whoa
good ass piranha baby shout out to
everybody who’s been getting the good
ass prana Shutts Ralph’s Montcalm slash
clothes now
deep divers realize you can only do your
don’t be too hard on yourself all you
can do is the best that you can do and
that’s what I realize along my journey
along my early journey when people would
tell me stuff sometimes I would feel
guilty because I’m like oh maybe I could
really save these people I could help
them then I realize I could only do the
best I could do it that specific point
in time don’t beat yourself up because
you’re not like solving all of their
problems you didn’t come here to solve
their problems
you came here to become your greatest
version yes it’s great to help people
help them the best you can but don’t
feel guilty if your help is not actually
helping them right so be gentle with
yourself you’re doing the best you can
always help people to the best of your
ability if they’ve got financial
problems relationship problems health
problems help them the best you can and
then say okay I’ve done the best I’m
sorry you don’t even have to say sorry
you’re just like I’ve done the best
that’s it okay and then and then deep
divers go give yourself a hard time
about it otherwise you’re gonna have not
only their problems but now your
problems
slow motion aside everything his energy
deep divers and therefore many of us
start absorbing other people’s energy
many of us many of us saw impacts many
of us we suck up other people’s energy
and sometimes these energies may not
actually be helping us so we have to
learn how to protect ourselves we have
to learn how to protect our energy from
other people’s problems
check this out deep divers I realized
this that I am NOT responsible for other
people’s problems
do you know deep divers sometimes people
write me essays about their problems I
love to help but if you can learn how to
be objective and just look at the
problem without actually immersing
yourself in the problem that’s how to
protect yourself from other people’s
problems learn to realize you aren’t
responsible for what other people are
going through that will save you a lot
of time a lot of
a lot of time right because a lot of us
people tell us their problems and then
we start thinking about their problems
and then their problems become our
problems so start realizing you weren’t
responsible for what other people are
going through nor can you control what
other people are going through but you
can control how you respond when people
tell you their problems and many times
what happens because people write to me
saying that route these people are
overwhelming me with their problems you
can learn how to respond like I said the
best way to respond is to take a
good-ass dose of that whoop
good ass prana baby collect yourself
be calm in your approach to everything
if somebody is getting worked up don’t
get worked up with them because now you
actually give them more problems and
yourself more problems like any time
people and a lot of people tell me stuff
even you write thousands of messages
every single day what I love to do is
really meditate find my comm center well
breathe in that good ass prana baby
and then give them the best advice I can
give them there and then and if I call
if you can’t give them advice like
recently a friend was telling me that
they knew somebody who was down and now
and was just telling them about how bad
life was and they felt kind of
overwhelmed by it I said show them one
of my videos show them a Ralph smart
video on YouTube infinite waters okay
and now they got what to do they got to
see me saying can I get a hello there
and my videos are actually gonna help
them if you can’t help people to protect
yourself from other people’s problems
direct them to
somebody that can actually help them
Ralph’s ma the cat down the road a
therapist the psychologist a counselor
somebody who does this for a living I
inspire millions of people for a living
I’ve been doing this for a little while
I know what I’m talking about
I’ve got a lot of experience in helping
people become their greatest version
however if you are somebody who doesn’t
do this day in day out of course you’re
gonna feel overwhelmed because this is
not what you’re doing 24/7 so direct
them to somebody who can actually help
them you see deep divers to protect
yourself from other people’s problems
have you seen the three monkeys see no
evil see no evil hear no evil speak no
evil right it’s all about realizing this
deep divers you have to limit what you
are seeing that’s not serving you you
have to limit what you are hearing
that’s not serving you don’t feel you
came here to be everybody’s personal
Savior what
say it again Ralph don’t feel that you
came here to be everybody’s personal
Savior you didn’t come here to do that
you want on planet earth to start fixing
people you are here to start becoming
your greatest version right so once I
realize I didn’t have to save people I
didn’t come here to save people I came
here to share and inspire you have to
become a lighthouse that’s how to
protect yourself from other people’s
problems be an example so they actually
see you and get inspired that’s how
people actually change because once
again people can only change their
problems their situation their life if
they want to change
many of us we have been led to believe
that we can actually solve people’s
problems
no people only change when they want to
change what we can do is be a lighthouse
so when they are lost at sea they can
see our light shining slow-motion this
side
[Music]
beautiful deep divers how to protect
yourself from other people’s problems
seven day vegan challenge Roma remind
them remind them of the benefits of the
plant-based diet that’s what I’m doing a
lot of the times I say the only problem
you have is that you aren’t waking up
with a bunch of grapes in your mouth
every single day the problem you have is
your diet that’s what I always tell
people the problem you have is that you
stop you have to start eating foods that
are actually going to nourish your body
mind and soul so when people tell me
their problems many times I just send
them a recipe back and that’s what you
got to do deep divers right if people
are bringing you their problems always
ask them what are you eating right now
and then recommend them some healthy
food to eat plant-based foods remind
them of the benefits of fruit and
vegetable and remind them that processed
meats will make them have more problem
processed foods will make them have more
problem right so always recommend the
plant-based diet to them how to protect
yourself from other people’s problems
deep divers learn how to say no never
say yes to somebody if it’s a no to
yourself how many times deep divers
are you afraid to say no I’m sorry I
don’t want to listen to what you have to
say because I have to protect my energy
that sounds like really really rude it’s
almost as if you’re like talking to
someone and you’re just on the phone all
the time yeah I’m on the phone all the
time that’s really rude okay
I’ve learned this deep divers that to
protect yourself from other people’s
energy sometimes you have to be not rude
but real you’re gonna have to learn how
to say no no you’re gonna learn how to
set up healthy energetic boundaries and
I learnt the power of know many many
years ago when people would tell me
their problems when I heard enough I
would just say no stop right there
that’s enough thank you very much and
then be on my way don’t think you have
to be somebody’s personal Savior once
again if this isn’t what you do day in
day out don’t do it because you are
putting your health in jeopardy
set healthy energetic boundaries when
you are dealing with people who have a
lot of problems limit the time you spend
with them every single day always say
actually how long am i spending with
this person okay is it helping me is it
are they giving me something or are they
just draining my energy you see I know
what it’s like because many water signs
write to me
cancers Pisces
with their problems and they’re like rel
Scorpios everybody keeps telling me
about their problems and it’s very
draining it’s what I call the emotional
drive-by I coined this term many years
ago and the emotional drive-by is when
people wake up and the first thing they
do is message you or you call them and
the first thing they do is tell you
about their problems
its energy dumping and you are now
becoming a sponge person in other words
you are absorbing nefarious energy and
in other words you are taking on board
their problems emotional drive-bys
happen when people pull up out of the
blue and start telling you about their
problems and then speed off they shoot
up right so put so deep diamonds to
protect yourself from emotional
drive-bys because a lot of people do
know your value and say actually no
you’re not going to actually give me an
emotional drive-by today especially not
in a soup no don’t feel guilty don’t
feel guilty for respecting your energy
don’t feel guilty for protecting your
energy slow motion this side to protect
yourself from other people’s energy
learn how to take time for yourself
learn how to practice self-care the
reason why I love to help you beautiful
deep divers is because I’m always
pampering myself I’m always whoa
breathing in that good ass prana baby
straight in the heart of nature I spend
a lot of time outdoors a lot of time in
the heart of nature
I’m always reach out
myself however many of you are
overwhelmed you’re studying maybe right
now you’re working a busy job and what
you’re doing you’re not actually in a
healing profession and therefore not
only are you stressed out at work when
people tell you their problems you’re so
stressed out don’t feel guilty about
them you didn’t come here to solve
people’s problems
you’ve got problems of your own that you
have to deal with you can’t pour from an
empty cup mmm
slow motion this slide I encourage
people to write to me because as a
Piscean as a Pisces this is what I do
okay I’m in the healing arts a
psychologist a counselor an infinite
being I love to help you beautiful deep
divers keep writing to me okay I got so
many messages everything I get so many
messages every single day even the cat
down the road has started to read them
too but this is what I do I’ve been
doing this for a long time so I know how
to protect my energy I know how to
practice self-care I have a full cup
that’s why I can help you with your
problems but if you have somebody right
now who’s giving you emotional Drive
eyes they’re telling you about their
emotional condition and it’s really
depressing and you’re like I don’t need
this right now as soon as I’m waking up
learn how to be honest if somebody is
messaging you as soon as you wake up and
it’s like an essay realize you can’t
save other people only people can save
themselves
slow motion this side let me repeat that
only people can save themselves that’s
the big secret only people can save
themselves like a lot of people write to
me beep diamonds and they start telling
me about their problems Ralph especially
you ladies and fellas – and aliens Oh
Ralph my boyfriend my husband my
girlfriend my this that I’m like going
to watch your relationship video I’ve
made over Alf this no you see you don’t
want the help you don’t want to do the
work you don’t want to watch your video
you want to keep telling me about your
problems therefore you’re not serious
about making the change and it’s the
same thing when people tell you about
their problems direct them to somebody
who can help like Ralph’s smart and then
if they say oh but no you’re like you
have to tell them that if you want help
you have to go to somebody that can
actually help you somebody who’s been
helping millions become their greatest
version for a long time now it’s up to
them to start taking responsibility for
their life you are not responsible you
are not responsible for other people’s
problems so only help people the best
you can and that’s the best way to
protect yourself from other people’s
problems and then deep divers will help
you just say so get to be a live baby
can I get a hello beautiful deep divers
you are amazing we are out here in the
heart of nature baby just whoo getting
high breathing in that good-ass prana
baby
shout out to everybody who’s been
getting the feels so good to be alive
shirts and the good ass prana shirts
Ralph smart dot-com / clothes peace and
love to everybody on the website
Ralph smart calm / clothes get more
inspiration add me on instagram at
infinite waters deep divers you are
truly amazing
a beautiful day protect yourself today
infinite waters diving deep once again
stay well stay healthy you sometimes you
got to do this you got to protect yourself okay
once again beautiful deep divers we are
out here in the heart of nature baby
beautiful day
those birds say hi but have you got a
bit of a problem with people telling you
their problems all the time like you’re
just minding your business and then
people offload onto you they’re like
well this happened to me and that
happened to me and you don’t know how to
deal with it right now deep divers it’s
all getting a bit too much stop right
back okay does that happen to you deep
divers the people tell you their
problems and now it’s actually affecting
your energy because you don’t know how
to deal with it you’re not a Pisces well
how to protect yourself your energy from
other people’s problems deep divers less
just whoa breathing in that good ass
piranha baby do people tell you their
problems and you don’t know how to deal
with it because it’s overwhelming they
tell you really serious stuff and you’re
like I just want to enjoy my day thank
you very much like you’re feeling really
overwhelmed right now is that you deep
divers do you want to learn how to
protect yourself your precious energy
from other people’s problems well after
this video I’m gonna be there with you
listening to everybody’s problems and
you’re not gonna feel drained afterwards
you can actually feel quite alright
really all right
and we and even had breakfast yet can I
get a hello because I’m gonna share with
you what’s helped me along my journey
protect myself from other people’s
problems if you haven’t noticed already
Ralph’s smart helps other people become
their greatest version yes this is what
I do even from a young child my mom was
like Ralph just wants to help people I’m
a Pisces the water sign therefore I’m
very empathetic I can put myself into
your shoes so deep divers you could
imagine like growing up it’s almost as
if does this happen to you too deep
divers people knew I was an intuitive
empath they would just tell me stuff
their problems like adults would just
tell me as a child all of their problems
I’m like okay but when I was really
young sometimes it was hard for me to
protect my energy from other people’s
problems now this may be happening to
you right now do you have a friend who’s
just telling you about all of their woes
in life all of their problems and you
really want to help them is just that
you’re feeling a little bit overwhelmed
right now because you can’t handle all
of their problems right now well deep
divers to protect yourself from other
people’s problems you gotta take a
good-ass dose of that whoa
good ass piranha baby shout out to
everybody who’s been getting the good
ass prana Shutts Ralph’s Montcalm slash
clothes now
deep divers realize you can only do your
don’t be too hard on yourself all you
can do is the best that you can do and
that’s what I realize along my journey
along my early journey when people would
tell me stuff sometimes I would feel
guilty because I’m like oh maybe I could
really save these people I could help
them then I realize I could only do the
best I could do it that specific point
in time don’t beat yourself up because
you’re not like solving all of their
problems you didn’t come here to solve
their problems
you came here to become your greatest
version yes it’s great to help people
help them the best you can but don’t
feel guilty if your help is not actually
helping them right so be gentle with
yourself you’re doing the best you can
always help people to the best of your
ability if they’ve got financial
problems relationship problems health
problems help them the best you can and
then say okay I’ve done the best I’m
sorry you don’t even have to say sorry
you’re just like I’ve done the best
that’s it okay and then and then deep
divers go give yourself a hard time
about it otherwise you’re gonna have not
only their problems but now your
problems
slow motion aside everything his energy
deep divers and therefore many of us
start absorbing other people’s energy
many of us many of us saw impacts many
of us we suck up other people’s energy
and sometimes these energies may not
actually be helping us so we have to
learn how to protect ourselves we have
to learn how to protect our energy from
other people’s problems
check this out deep divers I realized
this that I am NOT responsible for other
people’s problems
do you know deep divers sometimes people
write me essays about their problems I
love to help but if you can learn how to
be objective and just look at the
problem without actually immersing
yourself in the problem that’s how to
protect yourself from other people’s
problems learn to realize you aren’t
responsible for what other people are
going through that will save you a lot
of time a lot of
a lot of time right because a lot of us
people tell us their problems and then
we start thinking about their problems
and then their problems become our
problems so start realizing you weren’t
responsible for what other people are
going through nor can you control what
other people are going through but you
can control how you respond when people
tell you their problems and many times
what happens because people write to me
saying that route these people are
overwhelming me with their problems you
can learn how to respond like I said the
best way to respond is to take a
good-ass dose of that whoop
good ass prana baby collect yourself
be calm in your approach to everything
if somebody is getting worked up don’t
get worked up with them because now you
actually give them more problems and
yourself more problems like any time
people and a lot of people tell me stuff
even you write thousands of messages
every single day what I love to do is
really meditate find my comm center well
breathe in that good ass prana baby
and then give them the best advice I can
give them there and then and if I call
if you can’t give them advice like
recently a friend was telling me that
they knew somebody who was down and now
and was just telling them about how bad
life was and they felt kind of
overwhelmed by it I said show them one
of my videos show them a Ralph smart
video on YouTube infinite waters okay
and now they got what to do they got to
see me saying can I get a hello there
and my videos are actually gonna help
them if you can’t help people to protect
yourself from other people’s problems
direct them to
somebody that can actually help them
Ralph’s ma the cat down the road a
therapist the psychologist a counselor
somebody who does this for a living I
inspire millions of people for a living
I’ve been doing this for a little while
I know what I’m talking about
I’ve got a lot of experience in helping
people become their greatest version
however if you are somebody who doesn’t
do this day in day out of course you’re
gonna feel overwhelmed because this is
not what you’re doing 24/7 so direct
them to somebody who can actually help
them you see deep divers to protect
yourself from other people’s problems
have you seen the three monkeys see no
evil see no evil hear no evil speak no
evil right it’s all about realizing this
deep divers you have to limit what you
are seeing that’s not serving you you
have to limit what you are hearing
that’s not serving you don’t feel you
came here to be everybody’s personal
Savior what
say it again Ralph don’t feel that you
came here to be everybody’s personal
Savior you didn’t come here to do that
you want on planet earth to start fixing
people you are here to start becoming
your greatest version right so once I
realize I didn’t have to save people I
didn’t come here to save people I came
here to share and inspire you have to
become a lighthouse that’s how to
protect yourself from other people’s
problems be an example so they actually
see you and get inspired that’s how
people actually change because once
again people can only change their
problems their situation their life if
they want to change
many of us we have been led to believe
that we can actually solve people’s
problems
no people only change when they want to
change what we can do is be a lighthouse
so when they are lost at sea they can
see our light shining slow-motion this
side
[Music]
beautiful deep divers how to protect
yourself from other people’s problems
seven day vegan challenge Roma remind
them remind them of the benefits of the
plant-based diet that’s what I’m doing a
lot of the times I say the only problem
you have is that you aren’t waking up
with a bunch of grapes in your mouth
every single day the problem you have is
your diet that’s what I always tell
people the problem you have is that you
stop you have to start eating foods that
are actually going to nourish your body
mind and soul so when people tell me
their problems many times I just send
them a recipe back and that’s what you
got to do deep divers right if people
are bringing you their problems always
ask them what are you eating right now
and then recommend them some healthy
food to eat plant-based foods remind
them of the benefits of fruit and
vegetable and remind them that processed
meats will make them have more problem
processed foods will make them have more
problem right so always recommend the
plant-based diet to them how to protect
yourself from other people’s problems
deep divers learn how to say no never
say yes to somebody if it’s a no to
yourself how many times deep divers
are you afraid to say no I’m sorry I
don’t want to listen to what you have to
say because I have to protect my energy
that sounds like really really rude it’s
almost as if you’re like talking to
someone and you’re just on the phone all
the time yeah I’m on the phone all the
time that’s really rude okay
I’ve learned this deep divers that to
protect yourself from other people’s
energy sometimes you have to be not rude
but real you’re gonna have to learn how
to say no no you’re gonna learn how to
set up healthy energetic boundaries and
I learnt the power of know many many
years ago when people would tell me
their problems when I heard enough I
would just say no stop right there
that’s enough thank you very much and
then be on my way don’t think you have
to be somebody’s personal Savior once
again if this isn’t what you do day in
day out don’t do it because you are
putting your health in jeopardy
set healthy energetic boundaries when
you are dealing with people who have a
lot of problems limit the time you spend
with them every single day always say
actually how long am i spending with
this person okay is it helping me is it
are they giving me something or are they
just draining my energy you see I know
what it’s like because many water signs
write to me
cancers Pisces
with their problems and they’re like rel
Scorpios everybody keeps telling me
about their problems and it’s very
draining it’s what I call the emotional
drive-by I coined this term many years
ago and the emotional drive-by is when
people wake up and the first thing they
do is message you or you call them and
the first thing they do is tell you
about their problems
its energy dumping and you are now
becoming a sponge person in other words
you are absorbing nefarious energy and
in other words you are taking on board
their problems emotional drive-bys
happen when people pull up out of the
blue and start telling you about their
problems and then speed off they shoot
up right so put so deep diamonds to
protect yourself from emotional
drive-bys because a lot of people do
know your value and say actually no
you’re not going to actually give me an
emotional drive-by today especially not
in a soup no don’t feel guilty don’t
feel guilty for respecting your energy
don’t feel guilty for protecting your
energy slow motion this side to protect
yourself from other people’s energy
learn how to take time for yourself
learn how to practice self-care the
reason why I love to help you beautiful
deep divers is because I’m always
pampering myself I’m always whoa
breathing in that good ass prana baby
straight in the heart of nature I spend
a lot of time outdoors a lot of time in
the heart of nature
I’m always reach out
myself however many of you are
overwhelmed you’re studying maybe right
now you’re working a busy job and what
you’re doing you’re not actually in a
healing profession and therefore not
only are you stressed out at work when
people tell you their problems you’re so
stressed out don’t feel guilty about
them you didn’t come here to solve
people’s problems
you’ve got problems of your own that you
have to deal with you can’t pour from an
empty cup mmm
slow motion this slide I encourage
people to write to me because as a
Piscean as a Pisces this is what I do
okay I’m in the healing arts a
psychologist a counselor an infinite
being I love to help you beautiful deep
divers keep writing to me okay I got so
many messages everything I get so many
messages every single day even the cat
down the road has started to read them
too but this is what I do I’ve been
doing this for a long time so I know how
to protect my energy I know how to
practice self-care I have a full cup
that’s why I can help you with your
problems but if you have somebody right
now who’s giving you emotional Drive
eyes they’re telling you about their
emotional condition and it’s really
depressing and you’re like I don’t need
this right now as soon as I’m waking up
learn how to be honest if somebody is
messaging you as soon as you wake up and
it’s like an essay realize you can’t
save other people only people can save
themselves
slow motion this side let me repeat that
only people can save themselves that’s
the big secret only people can save
themselves like a lot of people write to
me beep diamonds and they start telling
me about their problems Ralph especially
you ladies and fellas – and aliens Oh
Ralph my boyfriend my husband my
girlfriend my this that I’m like going
to watch your relationship video I’ve
made over Alf this no you see you don’t
want the help you don’t want to do the
work you don’t want to watch your video
you want to keep telling me about your
problems therefore you’re not serious
about making the change and it’s the
same thing when people tell you about
their problems direct them to somebody
who can help like Ralph’s smart and then
if they say oh but no you’re like you
have to tell them that if you want help
you have to go to somebody that can
actually help you somebody who’s been
helping millions become their greatest
version for a long time now it’s up to
them to start taking responsibility for
their life you are not responsible you
are not responsible for other people’s
problems so only help people the best
you can and that’s the best way to
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