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How To Perfectly Respond To Negative People


P Symphony waters diving deep once again
can I get a hello how to deal with toxic
people people that wish you bad they
wish you harm people that make you feel
nervous for no reason why do we feel
that way I received a question because
with these protests in Ferguson a lot of
people have been wanting to know my
opinion on the whole subject as a
criminologist as well as a psychologist
how do we deal with people who are
violent towards us I always tell people
in life there are only two emotions love
or fear we can end up copying what these
people are doing if someone is horrible
to you you can copy them but now guess
what you have become them so it doesn’t
make sense because now we end up
becoming like the very people we are
opposed to in dealing with toxic people
I’m going to share with you what’s
helped me along my journey because a lot
of times people do what I call the
emotional drive-by they pull up to you
they offload all of their problems
sometimes people may even attack you for
no reason because they’ve been
programmed that way I always say
knowledge is power no no no wisdom is
power that is the knowledge applied and
therefore for me I’m always studying and
looking for a peaceful solution to any
violence I incur but also it’s about
finding ways to stop absorbing other
people’s energies we have to realize
we’re not living in a perfect world
we’re living in a perfect earth
oh we’re not living in a perfect world
we’re living in a perfect earth we have
been given so much beauty on planet
Earth
but a lot of us have created so much
hell this is in essence heaven right
here right now and that’s what I’ve seen
whenever someone is rude to me I always
say am I going to take the highest stand
because once you start living in your
highest nature now you are always living
in the most harmony when you are living
in your lower nature and someone offends
you guess what you want to react because
why you’re living in the reptilian part
of your brain so I’ve seen the only way
around this is to rise in consciousness
where you start using the neocortex of
your brain the most advanced part to say
am I going to be the bigger person here
am I gonna look you’ve been reading so
many books but when it comes to the
crunch we just act out we lash out at
people I always say that how people
treat you is not a reflection of who you
are it is a reflection of what they are
experiencing and how they deal with the
world around us every day I’m staying
grounded and that’s the biggest thing we
have to remind ourselves we’ve got to
ground ourselves oh yeah we got to
ground ourselves whether it’s in nature
whether it’s going for a jog exercising
releasing all of this build-up energy
otherwise anybody can just push your
buttons and guess what you’re going to
become very angry I always tell myself
I’ve got the best friends in the world
no no wait wait I’ve got the best friend
in the world that is myself your
greatest friend and enemy lies within
yourself
therefore the
you become more intimate with yourself
guess what happens there are no enemies
no I don’t see no enemies outside of
myself when you are an enemy to yourself
when you don’t like who you are now
everyone becomes an enemy because they
mirror back to you something you are not
ready to look at I always say that being
a criminologist whenever we have
injustice happen in the world for
instance a police officer attack someone
what happens a lot of us we are going
crazy but this is exactly how the
Hegelian dialectic works its problem
reaction problem reaction solution so
when something happens we react and now
we have a prayer we have a solution but
then we have to see that there is a
bigger agenda being carried out
you’ve got to read between the lines and
see that there is so much going on
behind the scenes I always say that when
we talk of lore officials and what not
many of them are only doing their job
you see the perpetrator and the victim
are both in the same court they
shouldn’t be at war with each other they
should be working together because
you’re not seeing the bigger picture
it’s not about both of you it’s about
your rights as a sovereign being we’re
all here to be free we don’t even need
police officers once you can govern your
own mind government means governmental
govern you don’t can I get a hello there
we don’t need this what I’ve seen is
that always once you are creating more
harmony it’s almost as if everything
trying to come your way that is trying
to harm you just vanishes I’ve been
doing this for a long time
and once again I say I only attract
amazing energy Thank You universe that’s
how it is because whatever you put out
into the universe is what comes back to
you I’m loving life I’m having the time
of my life and because of that I don’t
have any toxic people in my life first
of all I don’t have toxic friends
because if they are toxic they’re not
your friends in the first place because
friends act as a support network to you
become more conscious of who you are
surrounding yourself with also become
more conscious of how society is
perceiving you and lastly become more
conscious of how you perceive yourself I
always say there are no accidents in the
universe but wisdom only wisdom can free
us all not fighting wisdom because once
you have the wisdom you become so
powerful educate yourself liberate
yourself and realize connect with those
who remind you who you are we’re here in
nature cannot know infinite waters
diving deep once again stay warm stay healthy peace

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