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How to Overcome Insecurities in Relationships


peace infinite waters diving deep once
again this is sexology water fire hot
cold yin-yang we’re in nature
it’s beautiful I love you I love you
no you don’t I don’t believe you how to
overcome insecurity in relationships
along my journey I’ve realized the
greatest relationship we can have is
with ourselves many people who are
insecure in relationships is because
they don’t have a deep intimacy within
themselves masculine feminine yin-yang
we exist within each other men have to
connect to their feminine essence women
have to connect to their masculine
essence and become complete that is how
to deal with insecurities many people in
relationships who are insecure maybe
about their body they don’t like the way
they look so they always need a
validation from their partner how do I
look oh you look beautiful love I love
you I don’t believe you I’m ugly I look
terrible
well guess what what you send out to the
universe is what comes back to you a
hundredfold if you say I am ugly then
that’s what creates your reality we
shape our body through the thoughts we
beauty is in the eye of the beholder
once you love yourself 100% you become
more secure in your relationship with
your partner once you accept yourself a
hundred percent you become more secure
when you can let go off it all then
everything falls into place
most of our insecurities emanates
because we don’t trust ourselves Trust
is essential to overcome insecurities in
relationships allow your partner to look
any one they want because when you feel
insecure that your partner is looking to
other people oh my gosh is it against
the law to look another woman to look
another man because once you have a deep
bond with your partner nothing can break
it however the more you attempt to
control someone else the more you lose
trust in yourself and eventually that’s
what breaks down many relationships the
lack of trust Trust is the key
ingredient to overcome insecurities in
relationships also communication talk to
one another because many people the
reason why they are insecure has nothing
to do with the person they are in a
relationship with it could be a family
issue it could be a childhood trauma
which is causing this insecurity
in essence we have to form a
relationship with ourselves we have to
know thyself to say why am I feeling
insecure it doesn’t matter how much I
spend on this dress this product is
chanel I still don’t feel beautiful it
doesn’t matter how much I spend on this
mercedes-benz and this watch and this
suit and tie I still don’t feel
presentable in my partner’s eyes or in a
relationship or when I’m dating someone
because it is not the external things we
put on ourselves and adorn ourselves
with that builds relationships it is our
inner relationship with ourselves that
is what forms the greatest of all
relationships we have to go within and
reconnect with who we are a hundred
percent many of us we are tapped into
this material world therefore we’re
always going to be insecure because many
of us we are saying I have to buy this
product whether it’s makeup I have to
buy this Ralph Lauren sweater if you’re
a man so I appear more handsome no once
you embrace yourself 100% that inner
radiance shines through and you can let
go because in essence people become more
attractive when they lose their
inhibitions when they let go then they
are full of confidence a lot of the
masks we wear make us feel in essence
even more insecure because it prevents
us from being our true self a great way
to overcome insecurities in
relationships is for you to let go of
negative self-talk and replace that with
uplifting affirmations instead of saying
I don’t deserve this person I’m with say
I am deserving of this person I’m with I
am worthy you are worthy that helps you
deal with insecurity we have to build up
trust once again also when we talk of
relationships many people and I always
say this in sexology it’s not just about
the relationship between two of you male
and female we have to extend our
relationship throughout the cosmos
of universal existence that is our true
relationship every single person we come
into contact with is a relationship so
when two people obsess over their small
relationship in essence this leads to
insecurity once we do other things
outside of our relationship when we have
other passions we begin to free
ourselves from enslaving each other
because in essence we see we can let
each other breathe and in turn that
creates more happiness it creates more
abundance within the relationship
because we are not draining each other
of energy they say lovers are the worst
thieves because they steal hearts it’s
okay to steal hearts but we have to
remember that we have to always have
something else that brings passion into
the relationship something we do that
can create passion within ourselves so
we’re not always depending on someone
else to make us feel a certain way many
of us in relationships are dependent on
our partner to the extent that it
jeopardizes the relationship because it
puts all of this pressure on one person
that isn’t fair relationships are based
around sharing and that’s what we have
to do to overcome insecurities in
relationships start sharing everyone
we’re in a relationship with is a
teacher they are showing us more about
ourselves therefore when we talk about
insecurity the great paradox is we may
feel insecure with different people
however this person were in a
relationship is mirroring back hidden
aspects we don’t want to see about
ourselves therefore when we talk about
insecurity in relationships it’s not
about running away
it’s about rising to the challenge to
say how can I begin to trust this person
more what is it about me that I don’t
trust because when we don’t trust
someone else we don’t trust ourselves
feeling insecure is about raising your
self-esteem to raise and boost your
confidence we have to let go of who we
think we are many of us we’re playing
this character we’re playing this role
maybe from childhood we’ve had this
image of what a perfect relationship
should be we have this image of how we
should be in a relationship of how our
partner should be all of this if this is
not what is taking place in our current
relationship this is creating a
tremendous amount of insecurity we have
to remember that there is no perfect
mate nobody is perfect we have to take
onboard the good the bad and ugly of
everyone within a relationship with when
we do that we become more comfortable in
our own skin because we see that
everything is perfect just the way it
is most of our insecurities emanates
from fear from jealousy from not feeling
worthy nobody can love you more than you
love yourself nobody can give you what
you want ask yourself what do I want we
have to forget everything we think we
are and we have to step into the voyage
of discovery self-discovery that is how
to overcome insecurity many of us were
afraid of being alone in a relationship
that is what causes our insecurities we
have to learn that being alone is
separate from being isolated you can
actually be more peace being alone than
in a relationship with someone else who
is gonna drain your energy and make you
feel insecure nobody can make you feel
insecure without an invitation in
essence we give permission to someone
else to make us feel insecure it’s all
coming from us insecurities in
relationships is all a perception it’s
all a belief it’s how we are seeing
things it may not be what is there for
once we can question ourselves question
your belief system because it’s all bs
belief systems get loving most of our
insecurities in relationships come from
not being grateful in relationships
taking your partner for granted it’s
never good enough so therefore we feel
insecure we feel that no matter how hard
our partner tries it’s just not working
we are being too hard on ourselves and
that’s why a lot of people who are
insecure they’re not having fun
their face is tight you got to loosen up
that is how to overcome insecurities in
relationships be thankful if you are in
a relationship that you can exchange
this year and this yang essence this
masculine and this feminine principle
this sacred union between two of you is
a great gift we have to be aware of this
and thank mother nature to overcome
insecurity you have to get loving
yourself right now
love yourself a hundred percent see that
before you can love anyone else you have
to love yourself it doesn’t matter your
body weight how you look how you look is
coming from how you feel how you feel is
coming from how you think so how we
think about ourselves is how we see
ourselves is how we deal with
insecurities in relationships so to deal
with insecurities in relationships trust
yourself communicate whoever you are in
a relationship with but more so take
time to walk through nature to breathe
to not be afraid of who you are too bad
if society can’t accept it we are out
here this is the love session if you
have any other questions you want me to
go in to email me infinite waters at
gmail.com stay loving stay warm stay
happy stay free in your relationship and
the wind is blowing the love is flowing
and the love is growing that’s the
little rhyme for you infinite waters
diving deep once again stay well stay healthy stay in love

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